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April 2004
I am pregnant with twins and am trying to figure out what I need
before the chaos begins. One thing that I found so helpful with
my first son was the Baby Bjorn. I used it all the time with
him. I am wondering if Bjorn makes a similar carrier for twins,
or if there is any other kind of carrier that moms of twins have
found useful.
lola
I'm a sling mama myself, so my preference for twins would be two
slings (worn crossed). But several twin moms I know love the
Maximom, which is a structured carrier more like a Bjorn. It
can be used with one baby or two.
Holly
I bought a twin carrier from Lullaby Lane in San Bruno but
found it very difficult to use. It was designed so you could
have both babies in front or one in the front and one in the
back but it was such a hassle. After trying it all different
ways I resorted to one baby in a narrow stroller and one in the
carrier (switching off babies of course.) I would say go to
Lullaby Lane and see if you could try it on before buying.
Glad My Twins Are Walking
April 2004
Is it practical to use a baby sling while chasing a 2 year old? We
never used a sling with our daughter but thought it might be
helpful to have free hands with #2? Or does it just get in the way
of picking up the toddler? Previous postings listed recos for last
year - what is good now for a small framed person who is not
terribly coordinated? Do you need a class to use one? Any store
recommendations? Thank you.
Sling Novice
Hi, Congratulations! Yes, I think a sling definitely can be a
good thing with Baby # 2. My daughters are exactly 2 years
apart, and I used both a sling and Baby Bjorn with both kids. I
actually still keep a sling in the car, and if the little one
(now 27 months and 22 lbs.) falls asleep while I still have an
errand or two to run, I can just pop her into the sling and hit
the post office or video store. I think the Bjorn is a little
more secure-feeling when doing a lot of walking or running around
with the 2 year old, but the sling is quicker and easier to pop
the baby in and out of for shorter periods.
Heidi
It is absolutely practical to use a sling for baby #2 so that
you can play with/chase after/care for a 2-year-old. In fact, I
can't figure out how anyone with a newborn and an older child
ever does without one!
Having the baby in the sling does not prevent you from picking
up the toddler, either, depending on how you wear the sling.
One of the major advantages of a sling as compared with
frontpack carriers (like the Bjorn) is that you can use them in
many different positions, and that they are comfortable with
much larger children, too -- you'd also have the option of
carrying your toddler on your hip in the sling while holding the
baby!
Ring slings (like the Maya Wrap) don't take a lot of effort to
learn to use and are very adjustable so they work well for
people of any size. Pouches (like the New Native) aren't as
adjustable, so you have to make sure you get one that's the
right size for you, but can be easier to use. There are many
brands and styles available in each category (I don't
necessarily think the Maya Wrap or the New Native are the best
ones, just the brands you are most likely to have heard of and
to see in local stores), and it's worth doing a little research
to figure out what might work best for you. Once you've
decided, it's possible that a little hands-on help will be
useful, especially if it turns out you're not comfortable with
it, but a class may not be necessary.
Good sources of all related information:
www.thebabywearer.com (an independent site that is a wealth of
information and reviews of all sorts of different slings and
carriers; the folks in the discussion forums are really helpful
too)
www.peppermint.com
www.kangarookorner.com
www.mammasmilk.com
(all vendor websites with a nice selection of comparison
articles, photos, etc. of various carriers)
Holly
Hiya
using a sling for baby No.2 is a great choice. I don't think it
will get in your way at all, in fact I have experienced an
ability to care for both children BECAUSE of using a sling. Your
wee one will be safe and close to Mom's body while you get to
attend with both hands to your other child.
I suggest a maya wrap (they have a website I think). Mine cost
about $45 3 years ago and I STILL use it for my nearly 4 yo,
usually when we travel through airports late at night. They
adjust easily so are good for all body shapes and sizes. Great
for infants, toddlers and beyond! They come with a video but if
you attend a playgroup with AP parents and get an experienced
''slinger'' to help show you the many positions, you will figure it
out in no time.
Good Luck!
cassandra
A sling is a lifesaver with baby #2! My first son was 28
months when little boy #2 was born. He's now 6 weeks, and he
spends most of the day in a sling. I'm convinced it has helped
make the transition much easier for my older child--I seldom
have to tell him that I can't play with him because I'm holding
the baby. I also nurse a lot with the baby in the sling, so I
can continue playing with him. It also has enabled us to keep
up most of the activities we had been doing, without lugging
around a baby seat, diaper bag, and chasing a two-year-old. It
allows me to have both hands available for the older when we're
walking. Also, I'm not a stroller lover, so I can just push a
single stroller for my older and put the baby in the sling,
rather than taking out a big, cumbersome double stroller.
It is, however, harder to pick up your older child. I can
still carry my son on my right hip, but not for very far. But
at nearly 40 lbs, I don't carry him very far anyway.
I don't know what particular sling to recommend, as I am 5'9''.
I have both a Nojo sling, and a Maya wrap. I find the Maya
harder to use in the cradle position (love it for the older
baby/toddler, though), so I mostly use the Nojo right now. I
got this one at Passion after Fashion in Alameda...they have
several used slings.
I have never taken a class, just learned by trial and error and
reading ''The Baby Book'' by Sears.
Heather
I never figured out the sling for baby #1, but baby #2 lived in
it. Yes, you can have #2 in the sling and carry #1 at the same
time. You can also nurse #2, and #2 can nap while chasing #1
around Fairyland or wherever. You can also wear a backpack
while you have #2 in the sling. Its the way to go for #2.
Slings come in different sizes.
Sarah
April 2004
Any suggestions for child carriers after a baby has outgrown
the Baby Bjorn? I read the past recommendations on the website
but am still unsure which one would work the best. I am
planning a trek through Europe but won't always be on foot. I
am wondering if I would get more use out of a metal-frame
backpack or something soft like a baby trekker or a hiphugger?
I have tried on the Kelty Kids pack but find it a little bulky
for me. I am hoping to find something a little more
lightweight. Also, does anyone know how many pounds a hiphugger
or a baby trekker can hold. My baby is 11 months and aprox. 22
pounds. Thanks for your suggestions.
cassie
Get an Ergo! Previously available only online, now available at
Rochridge Kids. Much easier on your back than the Bjorn and less
cumbersome than a frame back. The only drawback is there is not
much storage space, but its great if you have one parent to
carry the baby and one to carry the stuff. (I just went to their
website, http://www.ergobabycarrier.com/ and they now have a
daypack attatchment available. I must not have been the only one
looking for more storage space!)
We use ours nearly every day, from walks around the neighborhood
to carrying the baby AND the laundry. We will also be taking
ours to Europe this summer.
I also considered taking our Deuter Kangaroo pack because the
child carrier part zips up and it becomes more like a regular
back pack. Our little guy will be 18 months and does a lot of
walking on his own so this seemed ideal. However, the backpack
is more like a frame pack and a little cumbersome on its own. It
would probably be great if you were going to be on the trails a
lot with a toddler, but it seems a bit much for city trekking.
Ergo Momma
We used the Hip Hugger after our daughter outgrew her Baby Bjorn
at about 8 months. While it was useful for a few months, until
she decided that she really preferred walking to being carried,
I found it much less practical than the Bjorn. It was harder on
my back (even with the waist belt, I found that I carried most
of her weight with my shoulder), and it felt a lot less secure
(its configuration makes it imperative that you keep one hand
on -- or at least close to -- your child at all times). We
ended up using it mainly for trips to the store and other short
errands. I don't think I would have been comfortable using it
for any long hauls. A backpack might be a better option in your
situation, despite the bulkiness.
Janice
Hi there!
My son is also 11 months and 22 pounds and I JUST went through
this same issue and would be happy to share what I found out
and did about it.
The bjorn became useless (as you know!) about 5 pounds ago. I
explored both options, a hip carrier and a backpack and ended
up buying one of each (both used to save some money!)
For a backpack we purchased the Snugli Cross Country (see
following link)
http://snugli.com/pr/fc/prfc_crosscty.phtml
I found it at Rockridge Kids for approx. $80 and online from
Wal-Mart for approx. $65 but ended up purchasing an almost new
one on ebay for only $45, including shipping. (side note:
I've found ebay to be a WONDERFUL resource for baby gear,
especially if you're patient enough to wait for the right
deal). I am 5'4'' and my husband is 6'1''. Although the
specifications state that it will fit adults as small as 5', I
do not find the backpack to be the *perfect* fit for me. I can
use it but the lower lumbar support does not hit me in the
right place on my lower back so I think I would find it
uncomfortable for a longer walk. It hits a little low, but
maybe once I get to know the backpack better I can make an
appropriate adjustment. When we're on a ''backpack'' activity, I
just let my husband carry the baby. The great thing about the
backpack is the kickstand. It makes a great highchair in a
jiffy which may be something to think about for a trek through
Europe. It also has a big storage area underneath to keep some
spare diapers, etc. But I wouldn't load it up too much because
it will just add extra weight to the pack.
I also purchased a hip hammock (used through the newsletter for
half the price of a new one) which I keep in the car for quick
trips into the grocery store, etc. I used it at a 2 hour trip
to the zoo once and wasn't even a little tired afterward. No
sore neck, no aching back. The *key* to getting it comfortable
is the waist adjustment. Make sure it's tight enough around
your waist. Once I figured that out, we were set! The benefit
of the hip hammock is that it rolls right up and you can easily
throw it in the diaper bag. They say it can carry kids up to
age 4. After using it now, I think that as long as a child can
still be carried on your hip, it will work. See their website
for further info. www.hiphammock.com
Both carriers (and other brands) are sold at Rockridge Kids.
If I could have afforded to purchase both of them new, I would
have given them my business because I love to support small,
local businesses as much as I can. I cannot say enough good
things about the staff in that store. I would suggest going
there and talking with the staff about the carriers and trying
them both on with your baby. (and not just for carriers, but
for everything!)
We've been using the backpack and the hip hammock for about a
month now and completely happy and satisfied with both
systems. We don't find the backpack too bulky or awkward in
public spaces and the hip hammock is surprisingly useful and
comfortable. I would be hard-pressed to pick one over the
other but considering a trek through Europe and if I could only
pick one or the other I would probably pick the backpack, if
for nothing else because it would probably be more comfortable
for my son for longer periods of time. (although I'd probably
sneak the hip hammock into the storage space...)
Hope that helps. Happy baby-carrying!
Tiffany
I used a sling with my babies until they were each 3 years old,
and even occasionally after that. We loved our slings! But
personal preference for mom and baby can vary and I suggest you
try out several styles (see if friends will let you try out).
good luck
My baby HATED slings when he was little, but two carriers we've
loved as he got older (1) the Hip Hammock (www.hiphammock.com)
and (2) the Ergo Baby Carrier (www.ergobabycarrier.com). I used
the hip hammock from about 5 months on and still love it (my son
is just over a year). But, now that he's getting heavier (23
lbs. +) and better at reaching for things I use the Ergo a ton.
It's a backpack carrier but with no metal frame and SO
comfortable for us both. Rolls up small, so it's easy to carry
around. Caveat: it did take some getting used to, and learning
to get the baby in it on your back is hard at first. They have
a video on their website that helps. It's well worth the
effort. One added feature for the Ergo - it has a head support
sheath that you can use if/when the pup goes to sleep on your
back so the little head doesn't bob around so much. The Ergo
can also be used as a front carrier. I don't do that much, as
it's harder on my back, but last week when he was really sick
and miserable I carried him that way for an hour and
half ''wearing him down'' so he could sleep. In the front
position it's almost like a Baby Bjorn for really big babies.
It was a bit of wear on my back, but really tolerable and it
made him feel a lot better when he was miserable and suffering.
My son doesn't nurse, but that's the other big benefit of being
able to turn the Ergo into a front pack - you can just zip him
around to your front and breastfeed if that's still going on for
you. Can't do that with a metal frame carrier. Note on both of
these - they're for older babies with some amount of head
control.
Baby Wearing Mama
I got a Laotian fabric carrier that I love. Since it is just
fabric, no frame, it is easy to take on trips; it fits in my
diaper bag. The baby goes on your back, which for innumerable
reasons, is way superior to a front carrier. It is also
ergonomically better than a frame pack because my baby is right
against my back. A frame pack sets the baby away from your
back, which allows air circulation, but adds a moment on your
body from the baby's weight (moment equals force times
distance). Also, the straps go across my chest, so it doesn't
pull on my shoulders.
Feel free to give me a call and come over to try it on. You
could borrow mine to copy and sew it yourself, or maybe you
could buy a beautifully embroidered handmade one from our
babysitter. She sold them to me before for $40.00.
Sarah
Backpacks were also recommended - see Baby Backpacks
June 2003
Hi out there, I'm looking for the guatemalan/chinese type
slings where I could carry my baby on my back and have my hands
free. Now that my child is older, he sometimes wants to be held
when he is tired,hungry (making dinner) and I need my hands
free. Can anyone suggest where to find one or if someone local
makes them, and does anyone know what the size or weight
suggestion is for them? Thanks!
felicia
I have a maya sling and though I haven't quite graduated my baby
to back-wearing, you can do it with this sling. It is of
Guatemalan fabric and design. I know you can order it directly
from the manufacturer. Go to www.mayawrap.com. You can even
have them send you swatches of all their patterns before
ordering.
kim
I know a WAHM in Alameda who makes many different kinds of
slings/carriers herself. Her website is www.omelay.com, and
she's really fantastic to work with. I had some questions about
making my own, and she was very kind to show me how the slings
work and how they're made. If you are interested in buying one,
she offers ''home visits'' to Moms at their homes to show them how
to wear slings and carriers. She seems very genuine
about ''spreading the word'' about slings and back carriers. Give
her a call. If you don't buy from her, she would tell you where
to find other ones.
Good luck!
Pei
Here's a link for you to check out:
http://www.wearsthebaby.com/babywearing/podegi.html
I haven't tried one of these, but I hope to with the next baby.
I think they look very comfortable. Sorry, but I have no idea
where to get one locally...
anon
May 2003
I have decided to use a sling for my 3rd child due in July. I have
used the Baby Bjorn, but I found I was always hugging my baby
and pulling her up towards me more. It just didn't feel as close and
secure as I needed. Not to mention the back ache I got as she got
older. Anyway, I was wondering which of the many slings that are
out there is best suited to carry my newborn, being that I am a
larger than normal mom. I am 5'4'' and will weigh approximately
200lbs. when I'm done with this baby. I would like one that is
comfortable and that won't be too straining on my back as the
baby grows. I would also like to get one where I can somewhat
tuck baby to one side to do household chores and tend to the
other siblings. I think I may be asking a lot from a sling, but I have
heard many a great things about them and their versatility. Thanks
in advance to all.
Why don't you try making your own? It's really easy, and
Elizabeth Lee Designs (http://www.elizabethlee.com/) has a
pattern for it as well as super breastfeeding clothes. I used
my homemade sling until my babies were 4 years old and we loved
it. Much more convenient than strollers until they weigh about
30-35 pounds. I just wore one of my bf dresses this weekend
although I haven't nursed in 2 years. The patterns are that
nice!
I love baby slings!
Hi I designed and make a custom sling that I measure to fit your
body -I would love to show you how they work. It is Wwider and
more roomy then other slings I've seen or tried and the ways you
can hold your baby are numerous.
It is called The Lev Love Sling-
Made out of 100% cotton Flannel, strong and soft, cozy and
nurturing,
Versatile positions for babies (newborn - toddlers - 26lbs+) The
LOVE SLING is custom fit to your body and is measured for
perfect fit. The LOVE SLING has a holder so you can hang toys
for added fun. The LOVE SLING come in fun colors and prints too;
forest green, sage green, navy, rose, burgundy, violet, black
and pastels.
The LOVE SLING is sewn double stitched, overlocked, very strong
and safe.The LOVE SLING is $ 45
Call Liza @ 510.665.1698 Or Email: Liza AT silverwalker.com
A crafty sling Along mom-
Have you heard of the baby bundler? The website is
www.babybundler.com (photos of carrier on web). It is not a
sling but it is a great way for a third time mom to carry her
baby (at parks, around the house, making meals, etc). I used
one with my second child for the entire first year. I tried a
sling but it hurt my shoulder. Basically, the bundler is a
piece of cloth which after arranged around your shoulders, back
and waist holds a baby in several positions (and it works well
for nursing). Furthermore, the bundler allows for the
shoulders, back and hips to support the weight of your child
without putting tension in any one area of your body. I never
had back, neck or shoulder problems like I did with other
carriers. I would also recommend a Baby Trekker
(www.babytrekker.com-great photo of carrier on website) for
babies over 4 months old. It carries baby in the front but has
hip support and the straps have adjustability for people of all
sizes. I have never been a fan of baby bjorns and these have
been great alternatives. Check out the websites. If you
choose the bundler e-mail me and I would be glad to give you a
demo of how it works (though they provide a video with the
bundler).
mary
Try http://www.taylormadetreasures.com/ - this work at home mom
(WHAM) makes great slings with really long tails and great
fabrics. By the way, I've never had luck putting baby all the
way to the side because then she's under my arm. As baby grew, I
sometimes used a backpack when doing housework (I also couldn't
get the hang of wearing baby on my back with the sling). BUT,
the sling is my favorite mode of conveyance. It keeps baby close
and happy. It is much eaiser to tote around compared to a
stroller or carseat. Best of all, I have TWO hands free for
other things. There are many folks much more expert than I in
sling wearing, hopefully you'll hear from some about side & back
wearking. Best of luck!
Chris
kangarookorner.com has a great comparison chart of different
slings. The company can also make custom slings.
As a full-figured mom none of the slings I tried fit me well. I
ended up using a baby bundler which I bought from my local La
Leche League group. It was wonderful, soft, very supportive and
the baby was much higher than in the baby Bjorn. Contact me if
you are interested in one. I will put you in touch with the
person who sells them.
Dana
April 2003
Several months ago I was in touch with a local woman who made
custom baby slings. Sadly her email was automatically deleted.
If anyone has info on how to get in touch with someone who does
this I'd be grateful.
thanks,
Susannah
I believe the site below makes custom slings:
www.kangarookorner.com
aprill
Liza Silverwalker makes wonderful custom baby slings.
You can reach her at 510-665-1698. They are really
comfortable and look great too.
Enjoy.....
Shoshana
My friends, Jessica and Susan, of Birthwonders make custom
slings. Located in San Leandro and Hayward. Phone number is
(510) 889-9163. Other services they offer: childbirth education,
birth doula, belly casting, accupressure, pregnancy massage,
Reiki, post-partum financial counseling.
---Sophie
March 2003
I'm trying to decide which sling to purchase for a newborn. I
heard wonderful things about the Maya Wrap and the Over
the Shoulder Baby Holder, but can't decide which would be
better. I'd love to hear what people like and dislike about
these slings, especially if you used/tried both. And of
course any other wonderful sling that's worth mentioning.
Thanks!
I have a one year old - and he has always been a sling held
baby. I have tried many of the slings out there but decided to
make my own and it works great other people like them too.
So I've started making them for sale. They are 100% cotton and
have a place to hold toys, very strong triple overlocked
construction, flexible for many different holds. I will measure
you and fit to your size or in between so more than one person
can use it.
liza
There is a table of sling characteristics at
http://www.kangarookorner.com/page81.html that contrasts and
rates the features of the different slings.
However, the problem with slings is that both you and your baby
need to like one for it to work! My advice is, wait for the
baby to arrive and see if you can borrow some from friends
until you get a feel for the different styles.
We have tried the Over the Shoulder, then a similar one that is
almost the same but less structured, then the New Native Baby
Carrier (in several sizes), and the Baby Bjorn for back-up.
Our daughter was a cuddler and loved the New Native Baby
Carrier for months, and it got us through some very bad colicky
times. It's simple, lightweight, easy to launder, and we
bought it in 2 sizes for me & my husband, although it was a
little tough getting used to. With many slings you need to
take a leap of faith that NO, Your Baby Will Not Fall Out if
you use it correctly.
I never cared for the Over the Shoulder, just never could get
it comfortable, and baby seemed to get lost in it. But my
sister in law used hers for over a year.
With our daughter we'd switch between the New Native and a Baby
Bjorn (when she was big enough) and had no trouble going on day
hikes this way. When she was around 10 months we switched to a
baby back pack.
By the time our son was born, we were experienced sling
converts, but he HATED all slings and after 2 months of trying,
we just used the Baby Bjorn. You just never know!
Happy shopping!
Diane
Congratulations on deciding to use a sling! We simply could not
live without ours.
There was a wonderful review of all the major sling makers in
the Nurture Center Fall Newsletter. The newsletter can be found
at: http://www.nurturecenter.com/fall_2002.pdf
The article, ''Adventures of a Sling Momma: Seven Baby Carriers
Reviewed'' is on page 9. This includes a breakdown by padding,
rings & hardware, video instructions, customer service, ease of
use, fabric selection, and sizes. Wonderful article!
In fact, the Nurture Center (in Lafayette) holds classes on how
to properly use a sling (of any make), including all the
different positions for your baby or toddler. I found this
crucial in using slings safely and confidently. You can even
take the class before buying a sling...they let you borrow
whichever brand you want to test out during class. Wonderful
class!
Hope this is helpful!
Julie
Anon-
I used both for my second child - I found that both the Maya (I
had more luck with the Maya Pouch vs the sling) and the Over-the-
Shoulder sling had their distinct advantages. At times,
especially when carrying my baby and chasing a toddler, I liked
the security of the bumpers on the over-the-shoulder but I also
found that sling to be quite warm at times. I was more
comfortable nursing her in the over-the-shoulder. My daughter
is nearly 2 1/2 years now and i find that I still use them both
depending on the ''whim'' of the day - I think we go for the over-
the shoulder for those days when she wants to snuggle down and
needs more security and the pouch as a help to me when we are
out and about and she wants up down up down up down and still
wants to be able to check everything out!
Don't know if that helps much with your decision....good luck!
Suzanne
I have used the Over the Shoulder Baby Holder with both my kids
and really like it. It's comfortable and sturdy. While I've
never used the Maya wrap, a friend of mine who's used both says
that the Maya wrap is great but she thinks it works best for
experienced sling users and that she's glad she started w/ the
Over-the-Shoulder model.
Hope this helps.
elisabeth
I've used several different slings, each with their own benefits.
I started off with a Koala sling but I found it too thick and
bulky for a newborn. It did come in handy later when my baby was
big enough to be worn in a hip hold, and I enjoyed its
quick-release feature. I found the Dr Sears Cradle Sling worked
well when my daughter was a tiny newborn, and I enjoyed how
comfortable and adjustable it was, but it also seemed a bit
bulky. My favorite sling turned out the be the New Native. It's a
comfortable and streamlined piece of continuous fabric, not too
hot, it's versitile, and it takes up very little space in a
diaper bag. My daughter is walking now and she often finds the
sling and brings it to me so I'd have to say it's her favorite
too. My advice would be to try several different slings as well.
They're not difficult to find used.
MEG
The Maya Wrap was recalled last year. Go to the Consumer
Product Safety Commission to read about it:
http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml01/01225.html. This is
the site to go to before buying children's products. Another
good website is safechild.net.
Stella
For an infant I highly recommend the New Native Baby Carrier.
It has a pocket and so the baby is super secure. It is also
really comfortable and has no padding so it can be stuffed into
a pocket or diaper bag easily. I am convinced that my kids felt
like they were back in the womb when I put them in there. It is
not my first choice for toddlers, but I still use it with a 25
pound child. It works in all the same positions as an
adjustable sling, but some of the older child positions don't
work as well.
What ever you decide, remember that it takes a while for you and
the baby to get used to the sling (although, the earlier you
start the easier for the baby), but it is well worth it!
anon
We have every kind of sling you can think of and my husband and
I both find them very useful. The ''over the shoulder baby
holder'' is very nice, but because it is so versatile, I would
recommend getting some training. I know it sounds like overkill,
but it was so helpful for us. This is because there are lots of
positions that you can hold the baby in with this sling and if
the baby is positioned wrong, you may become discouraged. Brooke
Russell does home visits and provides a very inexpensive
training and demonstration. Her number is 655-0412.
The ''new native'' sling is very simple and seems to be the best
for newborns. You can't really go wrong with it.
I also use the didymos, which is a long peice of beautiful
fabric that you wrap every which way. They come from Germany. I
ordered mine online from Santa Cruz. I like to use it when my
son is sick and wants to be held. I wrap him up attached to me
chest to chest and then go about my household chores. You can
also carry the child on your back with this sling.
My husband did most of the carrying, by far, since I have a bad
back. When I carried my son I used the baby bjorn, because I
felt more balanced, although there is some concern that a
newborn shouldn't be held upright.
Later, once my son could sit up on his own, I got a hip carrier.
He is in the same position as when I carry him on my hip, except
that my hands are free. The carrier attaches around the waist
and across the shoulder, so it's not too much strain on the
back, most of the weight being taken by the hips.
Good luck!!
anon
I've tried quite a few slings between my two children(the
youngest is now 8 months old). Here's my personal assessment of
a few:
The big one(forgot name) with the large ring at the shoulder is
great if you are of med to large build. Too much fabric to walk
around with. I would often get seriously confused between the
back and the front of the sling. Which is which?
Native carrier (at Rockridge Kids). This one was decent. Less
fabric, better looking and more comfortable. Not really
adjustable. I tended to always wake my baby up getting him in or
out - very difficult.
I know you asked about slings, but I thought I would also throw
in my bit about the following (b/c that's what I turned to when
the slings didn't work for me).
Walking Rock Farm's hip carrier - see informative web site at:
http://www.walkingrockfarm.com/slingbaby.htm Their carrier was
VERY comfortable. Easy to use, easy to get a small infant in and
out of. Very versatile - can wear baby on your front, side or
back. They also have a sling, but I haven't tried it.
The Hip Hammock - at Rockridge Kids. This is what I've stuck
with. I love this carrier. Very light weight, small and can
carry your baby till their 3 yrs old. Much less fabric than the
slings and easier to place a baby in/out of.
sling to hip
Feb 2003
My baby is getting too heavy for me to carry her in the Baby
Bjorn (approaching 20 lbs). Can anyone recommend a good baby
carrier that works well for bigger and heavier babies. I have
already tried the sling and a baby back pack and don't like
either. It seems to me I saw someone carrying a baby in
something that looked similar to Bjorn worn on the hip, but I've
never seen it since.
Lisa
Try the Hip Hammock. It is available at Rockridge Kids or
Waddle and Swaddle. It's nice b/c the baby is close by, but
supported by your hips/waist belt. I think the backpack is more
comfortable for long periods of time, but you can't see or touch
the baby so the hip hammock is great for grocery trips, folding
laundry b/c you can still make eye contact with your baby.
www.hiphammock.com
candace
I use a hip hammock. I really love it. It is suitable for 15-
30 (?) lbs. You are also able to interact more with the child.
I got mine at Waddles and Swaddles -- it was 50ish dollars
(that's the part I didn't like so much.) I got a cheaper
version through www.onestepahead.com (it was 20) but I returned
it because it was hard to adjust the straps and it simply wasn't
as comfortable.
anon
I absolutely LOVE the Hip Hammock. It's very simple to use
(just two straps with buckles), and it places virtually all of
the baby's weight on your hip. The baby can either sit on your
hip with her legs around you, or you can slide the baby around
more to the front, so that the baby is facing you in kind of a
hug. Either way, there is almost no strain on your back or
shoulders. I found the Bjorn impossibly uncomfortable. But
with the hammock, I can take long walks without trouble. You
can buy them online at http://www.hiphammock.com/. I think
Waddle and Swaddle may also carry them. Good Luck!
Amy
I use a Hip Hammock bought at rockridge kids (have also seen
more expensively at Waddle and Swaddle) and I love it. I have
travelled alone with my crawling 9mo and we walked through
numerous airports, stores, etc with it. It is very comfortable
and my son seems to like being in it. Doesn't take that long to
figure out and is much less bulky than the sling.
hip hammock fan
Hi,
you may like the first journey carrier, i just purchased it
recently and we love it! it is similar to the bjorn but has a
waist strap and can be used as a backpack w/ the baby facing in
or out as well as the front carry. the baby also sits next to
you, not the carrier and it is all soft, no hard parts. i
believe you can use it up to 35 lbs. it's a new carrier from
the makers of baby trekker - which you may also like since both
are more substantial than bjorn and offer more support - the
trekker is more bulky but can be used for up to 40 lbs. my
partner can carry our baby comfortably (she weighs 15lbs) for a
few hours w/ no aches or pains. it takes a few times to get
used to figuring out the straps and positioning the baby
properly, but after that it's great! plus since your baby is
already bigger it should be less of an issue.
the websites are: www.first-journey.com and www.babytrekker.com
they are made by the same co., a nice family co. in canada.
good luck!
stacy
I like the baby trekker. This carrier places almost all of the
weight on hips and has really cushy straps for over the
shoulders. It also has a pocket for carrying a diaper, keys,
wallet. I take my little guy on long walks all over town and
he is very content (but he's only a 16 pounder). You can carry
your baby in front facing out or in and on back facing out or
in. I usually carry him in front, but the back position facing
out has been great for gardening and cooking. The minuses are
that the pack is a bit bulky and is (in my opinion) not very
fashionable. I chose the silver color which looks kind of like
a cross between a giant maxipad and a straight jacket --
however it is extremely comfortable (and you could choose blue
or green instead). I ordered mine online at babytrekker.com,
these are made in Canada and cost $80.00.
mkm
I highly recommend the Babytrekker. Its design distributes the
weight much more evenly than other front carries like the
Bjorn. It has a padded waist strap that takes the pressure off
your back. I got a BabyTrekker when my baby was around 15 lbs
and as soon as I tried it, I never went back to the Bjorn. I
still use it as a front carrier from time to time (my daughter
is now 16 months & 23 lbs), but more often, I use it as a
backpack now. You can get more information at
www.babytrekker.com .
Marie
I have something called a hip hammock that sounds a lot like
what you're talking about. It holds the baby on your hip like
you would if you were carrying him only you aren't using your
arms to hold him up. It's great! I got mine at Rockridge Kids
on College but I'm sure you could find it on the internet. I
think the tag even had a website on it but I'm not sure what it
was...try www.hiphammock.com. Good luck!
Sarah
I use the Hip Hamock, which I purchased from Rockridge Kids for
under $40. I love it, and use it for grocery shopping and
running errands. I once had the Walking Rock hip carrier and I
really liked that one too...until it was stolen from my car in
Elmwood. Both are designed to carry older, heavier
babies/children.
maya mcbride
Just my 2 cents, but I have a problem with carriers in which
the baby's weight is mostly supported between her legs. The
baby's poor private parts! It seems to me the compression could
contribute to urinary tract or yeast infections or diaper rash.
Again, this is only my opinion, I have never studied this!
a sling fan
I didn't see the original post, but based on the title
''post-Baby Bjorn baby carrier'' I'd like to highly recommend
the Hip Hammock (I think that's what it's called). I found one
at a consignment store for $30 (I think they retail for about
$60) and I use it all the time with my 12-month old. It's kind
of like a sling, except that the child is sitting on your hip just
as if you were carrying him/her in one arm and resting the
child on your hip. There are two straps: one around the
waist to take most of the weight, and one that goes over the
shoulder. It's very easy to put on and take off, and it makes
carrying a heavier baby/infant/toddler MUCH easier. I use it
in the grocery store, at walk-around type places (museum,
park, etc.) when we go out with my older child. My daughter
loves it and it makes it so much easier to get around with
two kids. I'm not sure where you can get one, but I suspect
you'd find them on the web somewhere, or check at the local
consignment. Good luck!
Gretchen
I also highly recommend the Hip Hammock. They're made by Nancie
Swanke in Idaho. Her website address is www.hiphammock.com.
The waist belt really does take most of the weight so if you
have a heavy baby, it's very useful.
amy
Jan. 2003
I have a 2 1/2 month baby and I need help with figuring out how
to wear my sling. I have chronic low back pain so I have not
been carrying her around much at all, but I would like to carry
her in the sling as much as possible. I have tried the cradle
hold but would like to try other positions. I have a book which
explains the different positions to carry her in. However, what
I really need is an actual person to physically show me how to
do it. Not a book or a video. Does anyone know of someone out
there who can assist me???? Thanks!
Hi there,
I don't know what type of sling you have, so I'm not sure if I
can help you personally.
I have a MayaWrap and would be happy to show you how I use mine
if you have the same or a similar type of sling (unpadded,
threads through rings). My son is 8 months old now, but we
started using our sling when he was about 2 months old.
Some shopkeepers who sell slings may also be able to show you
how to use one and I've heard that you may be able to get help
with slinging at LLL meetings.
If you'd like to meet up for a demonstration of the MayaWrap,
just drop me a line:)
Beth
Check with Waddles and Swaddles on Shattuck in Berkeley (former
home of Birthways). They used to offer a class on sling use.
Another idea might be a drop-in mom's group -- it's likely that
the moms would be using a variety of slings and could offer you
some help. I believe Waddles and Swaddles and the Berkeley Y
offer these groups. Good luck.
Sally
I teach both the Alexander Technique and Body Mapping and could most likely help you be more comfortable carrying your baby and carrying your baby in a sling. I'm only teaching for the next 3 weeks or so as I'm due to have a baby in about 4 weeks.
You can e-mail me at amy@amylikar.com for more information. My guess from reading your message is that you are probably overarching your back somewhat and not using the power of the weight bearing portion of your spine. Thus your back muscles are overworking to compensate and causing the pain.
Best wishes
Amy
You could try Waddle & Swaddle on Shattuck, the women who work there are wonderful and helpful. There's also Birth & Bonding, on Solano, depending on who happens to be working when you go in. I wonder if a really good lactation consultant could help you?
Jill
I carried my baby around in a sling (the New Native) a lot for
the first 6 months or so, though as she got heavier and my
shoulders got more tired from lifting/carrying, slumping over
to nurse, etcetera, I found that the backpack or the stroller
were preferable modes of transpo. Anyway, I got advice on how
to use the sling at the Birth and Bonding Center on Solano
Avenue in Albany (1.5 blocks east of San Pablo). My mother
bought the sling there, but I don't think I mentioned that when
I went there to ask for help with it. I think I also called
them in a panic early on when I was worried that my tiny
newborn would get crunched in the sling... she sort of curled
up like a pill bug in there, but it turned out to be fine. I
went back when my daughter was older, sitting up well, and they
showed me some ''toddler'' carries, which I still use, in which
the baby sits upright in the sling and her legs dangle down.
Anyway, they're helpful there, I found, though I've heard mixed
reports from others who find them a little snooty.
Alexa
May I suggest you attend a La Leche League meeting? Many of
these mothers are experienced baby slingers. I have fond
memories of using the sling with my two children (regularly
until age 3, then occasionally until age 5) and I hope it will
work out for you and your baby. :)
http://www.lalecheleague.org/
La Leche League of Oakland/Berkeley:
http://www.prairienet.org/llli/WebOaklandCA.html
J12
What type of sling is it? Where did you buy it? The staff at
Rockridge Kids, Birth & Bonding, or similar shops that sell your
brand/type of sling should be able to help you, as should a
local Maya rep if that's where you got the sling. Attending a
La Leche League meeting or asking your mom's group or birth prep
class members may also get you several people willing to help
you out. Heck, if you live in Albany or thereabouts, I'd be
happy to give you an informal lesson! (I wore my son in a sling
pretty much all the time for his first six months, and still use
it occasionally now that he's almost two.)
Holly
You may receive some assistance from other women who have mastered
the sling, but many mothers have told me they found the sling
class or a home visit from Brooke Russell to be very helpful.
Her number is: 510-703-0288
Sherry
you could try going to birth & bonding on solano avenue in
albany, a store that hosts a monthly la leche league
breastefeeding meeting and whose owner(s) are pro-sling--they
will probably help you out on the spot. you could also go to a
la leche league meeting--many lll moms wear slings of different
kinds, and you'd be able to get input from multiple women! (see
www.lalecheleague.org for meeting dates & times around the bay
area)
jess
Brooke Russell does home visits and provides a very inexpensive
training and demonstration. Her number is 655-0412.
anon
September 2002
I saw a previous post from 99, but wanted to see if there was
updated information about good baby slings and where to find
them.
kerrie
take a look at the Maya Wrap at www. mayawraps.com.
they're made of beautiful Guatamalan fabrics (with a large
selection to choose from) for about $38.00 (not including
shipping). it's fabulously adjustable and comfortable for
both my son and me. he loves sitting in it and being able to
look at the world like a big boy; it's just as comfortable for
him to nap in when i'm out and about. can't say enough
good things about it.
after the birth of my son, i tried the Native (it curled my child
up into a ball and was difficult to get him in and out) and the
Baby Bjorn (difficult weight distribution with a lower back
problem); there was another one (Kangaroo something or
other?) that was larger but not adjustable enough and he
was swallowed up by the edges.
you might give it a try, and good luck.
Hi,
I just purchased the Over the Shoulder Baby Holder, but haven't
received it yet (should soon!) so I'll let you know then what i
think. Everyone I ever bumped into that had one loves them.
But there is a great website www.kangarookorner.com that has a
pretty elaborate comparison of the various slings available, they
do it by climate, ease of breastfeeding, and their own opinions
from experience...as well as sell them from their site!
Good luck!
=D
Stacy
The Nurture Center in Lafayette produces a quarterly newsletter,
and our most recent newsletter has an article written by a local
mom reviewing 7 slings. Just go to
http://www.nurturecenter.com, and click on the link for the Fall
2002 newsletter to read it. One sling she really liked is the
Over The Shoulder Baby Holder, which we carry at The Nurture
Center (925-283-1346).
Sherry Henderson, The Nurture Center
There are a lot of them. From around $20 all the way to more
than $100.
Just type ''baby sling'' in Yahoo or Google Search Engine.
For example:
http://search.yahoo.com/bin/search?p=baby+sling
http://dir.yahoo.com/Business_and_Economy/Shopping_and_Services/Children/Babies/Slings/
As for individual recommendation, maybe someone else can fill it
in. I've never bought a sling in the USA, I used the one from my
home country (it was only $1).
Good luck to find a sling which suits your need, your body
frame, your baby's likeness, and your budget.
Anon
We have been VERY happy with our Over-the-Shoulder Baby
Holder. We've tried other baby holders (the Baby Bjorn and the
BabyTrekker) but they were much harder on our backs. I hired
Brooke Russell to come to my house and give me a private lesson
on the sling. She brings about 10 or so in various colors and
fabrics for you to choose among, and teaches you how to wear
your baby in a variety of positions. Her phone number is
510/703-0288. Her lesson and that sling have been some of the
best money we've spent since having our son 7 months ago. He
loves being in it. We go walking with him in it every day, and
he's nearly 20 pounds. It's also great for just wearing around
the house when you're doing chores. Feel free to email me if
you have any questions. Good luck.
Kate
I love my MayaWrap sling(s) (www.mayawrap.com). It's a long piece of
beautiful Guatamalan fabric with two metal rings, which you can wear in a
variety of ways. I was given one for a shower gift and bought another.
Everytime I go out with my baby in this sling, I get at least one if not
several comments. I like it especially now that my daughter has outgrown
the front carrier. It's easy to sling her so she's in effect sitting on my hip,
but her weight is distributed across my back by the fabric. I know some
people are intimidated by putting it on, but once you learn it, it's great.
Jocelyn
Oh slings are my FAVORITE subject! I have many many many since
my first NoJo. I prefer non-padded slings - I find the padding
to gouge my neck and prevent me from adequately adjusting the
tightness of the sling. My second sling was a Maya, but the Maya
has a real adjustablity problem with the shoulder - as soon as
you move, the sling slips from your shoulder (since there is no
pocket for your shoulder to fit into) and rests on your neck.
Yuck. So, I then found the world of WAHMs (Work At Home Moms)
and tried a few. I love the fabric of the B'sKnees
(http://www.mywahbiz.com/~bsknees/) but REALLY loved Taylor
Made Treasures Batik Slings
(http://www.taylormadetreasures.wahmbiz.com/) - Bernice (B's
Knees) only uses plastic rings - she feels they are safer - but I
really like metal rings. Both of these moms have been around for
a LONG time and are very safe to order from.
So...one day I was browsing in JoAnn's (fabric store) and found
loads of fabric for .66/yard and was FORCED (I mean, REALLY, arm
behind my back and all!) to buy some and made my OWN slings! I
got some gorgeous fabric and it is really so very easy to make
your own.
I'm about to make a purchase of batik fabric from equilter
(http://www.equilter.com/) - WARNING!!! one trip down the batik
isles of that store will keep you glued to your monitor for hours
!!! and will be happy to make you a sling if you find a fabric
that you absolutely must have :).
Anyway, they're so easy to make - the biggest expense is the
fabric.
kathy
I HIGHLY recommend THE BABY BUNDLER. The Baby
Bundler is a long piece of stretchy cotton that wraps around
you and the baby together, distributing the baby's weight
between BOTH shoulders, the upper back and the waist. It
SAVED my back, shoulders and arms, all of which hurt with
regular slings and also with all the front carriers. The only
drawback is that it seems intimidating to learn to use it - but
it's just a matter of trying it, practicing, and getting creative
with positions. You can position the baby in sideways (like
in a regular sling) or use it as a front carrier with baby facing
in or out. You can even use it to carry the baby on your back!
I rarely see it mentioned, so I wanted to make sure people
knew about it. You can read more and order at
http://www.babybundler.com/. And no, I have no commercial
interest in this product - it's really just fabulous :-)
Inbal
August 2002
I've seen a few Moms around town using a sling made from a single
long piece of cloth wrapped around both shoulders and waist and
then knotted. This looks to me like a more comfortable and
flexible way of carrying a baby from newborn on then any of the
slings I've been able to find in stores or online. Does anyone
know whether this is a product or just a make-your-own thing? If
I can't buy it, can anyone tell me what approximate dimensions of
cloth would work best, and maybe some basic wrapping advice?
We're expecting baby number two pretty quick here, and I'm
looking for something I can use right away and that has strapping
around the low back as well as the shoulders. We used a Baby
Bjorn with our first, and that got tiring on the shoulders and
back pretty quick. Thanks!
Jessica
I know of 1 ''Tie Your Own'' Sling, it's called the Didymos sling.
Though, I've also heard about buying fabric and tying your own.
I've checked out the tying methods on the Didymos website, and it
doesn't look to complicated... I know that most baby devices seem
complicated, but having made my own slings (like Maya Wraps) for
a year now, I've come to learn that it comes naturally. Up until
recently, mother's have crafted baby holding devices...
Here's the link for the Didymos
http://www.didymos.de/english/index_e.htm
Rachel
Hi, it's very possible that what you saw was a Baby Bundler. It
is a great way to carry your baby! If you would like more
information about them, please contact me. The La Leche League
group of Oakland/Berkeley sells them and I am the current
contact person.
Dana McMahan
Sounds like a Didymos (sp?). I'll look for the link. They are
very expensive ah...here's a link
http://www.didymos.de/english/index_e.htm
here's another link
http://groups.msn.com/MamaRoo/yourwebpage1.msnw
kathy
I believe the sling is from KidsNature.com. It costs around
$100+.
Michlene
Others already mentioned the Didymos sling. I have two of them (a
long and a short one) and I just love them. The first weeks our
son wanted to be carried all the time. I don't know how I would
have survived without them especially as he was too small for the
Baby Bjoern for a couple of weeks (needs to be 21 inches).
I ordered them directly from Germany which is cheaper than from
the online stores in the US that they list. They are about 100$ a
piece including shipping (the prices on the page include the
''value added tax'' of 15% which you don't have to pay; this makes
up for the shipping costs plus minus a couple of bucks).
I would advise against making them yourself because you will need
just the right fabric. Otherwise either you will never be able to
untie the knots or the fabric will slide through. Also they
really take care in having a high quality fabric that doesn't
suffer from being tied in a knot at the same place frequently.
If you like we can meet and you can have a look at them.
Ina (ina.reichel@gmx.net)
I have one of those looooong pieces of fabric you describe. If
you'd like to come over and try it out (and measure it) that
would be fine... I can't remember how to wrap, but I bet someone
on this list will know! Just drop me a note so we can arrange a
time, if you're interested. dearsooz@yahoo.com Sooz F
La Leche league sells what you're describing, the baby bundler.
In fact, I bought one for a friend at their booth at the
'nurse-in' last weekend in Berkeley. It is as you described, a
very long piece of cotton fabric that you wrap around yourself &
the baby. It looked comfortable & easy to use. It comes with an
instructional video, too. I don't see it listed in the product
catalog at http://www.lalecheleague.org/ but it looks like you
can get info at http://www.babybundler.com.
Rebecca
I didn't see any response about the baby-bundler, so I thought
I'd chime in.... I saw a mom shopping with her babe in one of
these and immediately decided that it is what I will have with
my next one. I talked with the mom and she absolutely loved the
versatility and the all-over support it gave (I have used
slings, bjorn-type packs and other various carriers and nothing
appears to be so comfy). It's essentially one (very) long piece
of fabric that you cross over and around yourself in a few
different ways. The expense seems to be the instructions
really - the mom I spoke with said that it would be somewhat
hard to figure out on your own. This is the website where I
found what she had... http://www.babybundlers.com/index.htm. I
hope you find something that works for you!
Freyja
Hi! I don't know about the sling you are talking about, but I
want to put in my thumbs up for the Over the shoulder baby sling!
I have used mine so much and the Dr. Sears Baby Book has a whole
chapter in it on all the different ways you can use it. Your
local La Leche Group can also help you master that sling safely.
And then I cannot say enough good things about the Baby Trekker!
I only recently got one, and I love it! My baby is older and
heavier now (over 22 pounds) and it is no problem to carry her in
it even in the front! If I had known about the Baby Trekker I
would have never ever bought or used a Baby Bjorn. You can only
buy the Baby Trekker on their webpage (as far as I know)
www.babytrekker.com. It's about $80 and it is worth very penny a
hundred times over, it is so well designed and really easy to use
for both front and back carrying (great for cooking).
Baby Trekker Fan
July 2002
I commute with my baby on BART which means I carry my baby in the
Baby Bjorn, the diaper backpack on my back and my bag with work-
related stuff over the shoulder for about 15 minutes to and from
BART. I prefer carrying my baby as I find the stroller very
cumbersome on BART. However,my daughter now weighs just over 20
pounds and although I love the Baby Bjorn, she is getting too
heavy
for it, as my shoulders ache even after a short walk with her in
the Baby Bjorn (and even without the diaper backpack etc). I also
like the sling, but also find it hard on the one shoulder that has
all the weight. I also have a REI backpack carrier which is very
comfortable, but too unpractical for a commute on BART. Does
anyone have experience with the Baby Trekker for older, heavier
babies? On their webpage it looks like it might be more
comfortable for carrying an older baby, but before I spend more
money on yet another carrier, I was wondering what people thought
about the Baby Trekker.
Thanks, Anna
I love my Babby Trekker! Not long ago, I did a search to try to
find a front baby carrier that distributes the baby's weight
more comfortably than the Snugli, Baby Bjorn, and sling that I
had. I was especially interested in getting a good carrier,
because I teach Mom & Baby Postnatal Exercise classes where I
use a front carrier during the class, and am converting my class
to an exercise video. After searching, I tried out the Baby
Trekker. As soon as I tried it once, I stopped using my other
carriers completely. I found the Baby Trekker to be much more
comfortable. The wide padded straps that cross in the back are
more comfortable than the other carriers, but it is the wide
padded waist ban that is really great! My baby does not yet
weigh 20 lbs, so I can't speak specifically to the weight that
you are referring to. For my video, I purchased several Baby
Trekkers (I needed extras in case any got dirty while shooting),
so I have two extra Baby Trekkers. One has never been opened
and the other was used just for one day at the video filming. I
was planning to save these to give as gifts; however, if you'd
like to buy one, I'll sell the unopened one for $70 (so, you'll
save the $10 shipping charge) or $50 for the one that was used
for one day. Even if you're not interested in purchasing one of
mine, you're certainly welcome to come by my home and try one on
for feel. When I talked to the folks at Baby Trekker a few
months ago, they indicated that they are coming out with another
model soon. It is supposed to be less bulky -- I wonder if it
will still be as comfortable...
Marie
May 2002
Does anyone know of a place in the Bay Area where I might
purchase a Chinese baby back carrier. The ones I have found on
the web are very expensive, so I am looking for something more
affordable.
Thanks.
Sharron
I found a Chinese baby back carrier in a tiny San Francisco
Chinatown store on Stockton Street, just on the Chinatown side
of the Stockton tunnel. I don't remember the name of the shop,
it may not have had a name, but it did have baby clothes in the
window.
The carriers were not on display; I had to ask and it was complicated
because I don't speak Chinese and they didn't speak English.
They were very beautiful, bold printed floral fabric, and cost
about $30. This seemed expensive to me at the time so I sewed one
myself.It helped to see the shape and proportions, but really it
was just a tapered square with 2 straps. Let me know if you want
to try the one I made.... I still have it (made of raw silk!).
Incidently, I found the New Native sling to be vastly superior after
all the fieldwork on the Chinese carrier. Good luck!
Claire
I don't know where to buy them locally, but I have a brand new
one purchased in China. Unfortunately, I have never used it
with my 6 month old daughter because I find the western-style
carrier more comfortable. I'd be willing to sell it to you for
a very reasonable price.
I often work in SF Chinatown and see lots of people wearing
them, especially on weekends. They must sell them
somewhere in the neighborhood. You could browse the
stores or just ask someone wearing one where they got it.
I've considered doing it myself.
Mara
March 1999
I got my baby sling at the Health Education center of Kaiser in Oakland, 3772
Howe Street, Ground floor. (510)596-6204. I remember it was a good price
compared to $35 and up most of other places. However I don't know if you need
to be a member of K-P to buy it.
My baby is seven weeks old now and both of us love it. She sleeps much better
when I carry her around with the sling in the house. It works well outdoors
in warm weather when I don't have to carry an extra blanket or anything other
than a diaper bag. It took both of us a little while to get used to it. "the
baby book" by M.D. Sears has a wonderful chapter on wearing a baby using a
sling. One thing we found is that we still need to bring a seat with us if we
are not going to walk around and it is likely to put down the baby after a
while. (we got well-minded comments like "you are spoiling the baby by
holding her all the time!" when we didn't bring the car seat w/ us.)
Pei
I used and liked very much the official Nojo brand sling--the one marketed
by Dr. Sears. I found it very versatile, although hard to figure out at
first. But after a few trials--try using a doll or a gallon-bottle of water
instead of the newborn--got it figured out. It distributes the weight of
the baby pretty well across the entire back, minimizing somewhat the
15-pound-necklace effect that most snugglies seem to have. Also very easy
to get baby in/out without waking, unlike a typical snugglie. And you can
nurse while wearing it (I found this possible, but not very easy to do, but
I've heard from others that they had more success with this). One potential
drawback: you pretty much have to keep one hand or arm on the baby the
whole time you wear it. I've seen them for sale at Target, but I got mine
much cheaper (about $12) second-hand at Lauren's Closet in Alameda. A lot
of the second-hand kid stores seem to have them frequently--call ahead to
see who has one before driving all over the place. I've noticed that some
of the knock-off brand slings don't have as deep of gathers as the Nojo
brand, so inspect the one you're considering carefully before you buy.
Meg
I tried a Snuggli brand front-pack with a semi-rigid panel going across the
parent's front that looked like it distributed the weight into the waist,
but it actually didn't do so very well--the manufacturer got the
cantilevering wrong, I think. And it was a royal pain to get the baby out
after she fell asleep in it, without waking her up. Forty dollars wasted at
Terget, IMHO.
After my daughter got older (about 10 months) I started using "Sarah's
Ride," which is a minimalistic pleated triangle of cloth attached to a waist
belt and an across-the-shoulder belt. The baby is basically in the same
position as if s/he were sitting on your hip. It puts a lot of the baby's
weight into your waist (i.e. off your upper back), and is very easy to put
the baby in and out. I don't see it around very often, but I managed to get
two different ones, also used for about $12, one (a knock-off) at Darla's in
El Cerrito, and one at Lillian's on College Avenue (the real thing, and much
more comfortable). Because of the pretty good weight distribution, I have
been able to use it as recently as last month, when my daughter weighed over
30 pounds (19 months old). I don't think any ordinary upper-back-straining
front-pack could possibly be feasable for a child at that weight.
My husband liked the Baby Bjorn very much, which gives a more secure (tight,
hands-free) fit. They are very expensive--$70 or more, depending--and I
have never seen a used one around. It is pretty easy to get the baby in and
out. The baby is vertical in this carrier, which some folks feel is not good
for young babies. I recently read--on this list, I think--that it is
subject to a retrofit recall, so make sure if you buy one of these that you
get an updated one. I believe that Baby World on College Ave carries these.
I've seen a good-looking front pack by Kelty that has a realistic-looking
system for putting some of the weight into the waist/hips. They came out
after I was already "slinging," so I never invested in one--I'm sure they
are pricey. Maybe REI would carry such a thing, or maybe that high-end
store (I forget the name--City Kids?) on Clement Street at about 3rd ave in
the City.
Not long ago, I saw a Berkeley LLL leader wearing her newborn in a very long
strip of jersey fabric that wrapped round and round her and tied in a simple
knot. It looked very simple and "traditional," snug and secure and
hands-free. I made a mental note to definitely look into one of these if I
ever have another newborn to carry around. I don't know where it came from,
but I believe the leader's name was Lila--you could call the Berkeley LLL
and ask for her.
OK, that's my complete review of baby carriers! Maybe I focus more than you
need to on getting the weight off my upper back, but between having an
unusually heavy baby and the "milk factory" (which must weigh another 5
pounds at least) to carry around, combined with a philosophical commitment
to wear the baby at least four hours a day, distributing the weight was a
primary consideration for me.
Best wishes on lots of close times wearing your baby
(response to person asking for baby sling recommendations): During our
daugthers' first year or more we used a baby sling called "The New Native
Baby Carrier". It's a sling without any clips or fasteners and you chose
a size (S,M, L, XL) that fits your build. I found that both my husband
and I were able to the same one comfortably though. You have a choice of
either 100% cotton or organic cotton.
I noticed that they have an
ad for it in Mothering magazine, and they have a toll free number:
800-646-1682. Our daughter really liked the sling and it was a great way
to carry her around, she felt very secure in it. When they get a little
older you can position them in different ways (you can wear the sling in
all different positions: front, side, back). They say that you can use
it for newborns to kids up to 35 lbs., but I remember that at about 22
lbs. she started to feel too heavy to carry that way. Good luck!
Anne
I recommend the New Native Carrier.
It is designed in a way that held my son when he was both very small (5.5
lb) and continued working until he lost interest at around a year old (17-18
lbs). I loved using it and he loved being with me, tucked inside. The design
is unique and worth checking out. Shanta
For babies up to 35 Lbs, I recommend the "New Native" baby sling, made
by a small business right here in Davenport CA (south of Half Moon Bay).
Comes in regular or organic cotton. Great colors (they use low impact
dying techniques). Sturdy design. About $35.
Call 1-800-646-1682 for a brochure. They also sell organic cotton
diapers, burp cloths, nursing pads, etc... Caroline
I tried to use the Nojo sling and neither me nor my son liked it. I bought
the Over the Shoulder Baby Holder, which is basically the same design, but
for some reason it worked better for us. I bought it used at Lauren's Closet
for $16; I also saw another one there for half as much. I suggest you try
out
as many different baby carriers as you can before you actually buy one. Some
babies are picky: my kid didn't like the sling until he could at least sit
facing
forward, at about 3 1/2 months. Now, at 7 months, I don't know what I'd do
without
it. Good luck.
Laurel
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