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Editor Note: This page contains a list of therapists, psychologists and psychiatrists that have been reviewed by subscribers of the Berkeley Parents Network. Prior to 2007, reviews archived on this page included suggestions from colleagues as well as reports of first-hand experience. Beginning in 2007, we are archiving only first-hand experiences, and these reviews are grouped by the type of therapy requested - Couples', Teens, etc. (See the index for a list.)
A - D
  • David Akullian
  • Isadora Alman
  • Gail Alter
  • Greg Alter
  • Preston Parsons Alvarez
  • Stephen Anderson
  • Colleen Arnold
  • Sarah Ashton
  • Peter August
  • Toni Ayres
  • Stephanie Baer-Spoden
  • Annie Bailey
  • Dale Bailey
  • Naomi Baran
  • Tali Barr
  • David Barron
  • Michael Baugh
  • Zoe Becker
  • Sandy Bemesderfer
  • Kenneth Benau
  • Fran Bennett
  • Shoshana Bennett
  • Anna Berger
  • Jodie Berke
  • Marc Berke
  • Brad Berman
  • Elea Bernou
  • Anne Bernstein
  • Kirsten Beuthin
  • Yvonne Beyer
  • Collette Bischer-Choate
  • Richard Bloom
  • Adria Blum
  • Joan Bonnar
  • Mary Bradford
  • Esther Brass
  • Tim Brower
  • Sandra Bryson
  • Sydney Buice
  • Keith Burrell
  • Sheila Byrns
  • Christy Calame
  • Connie Capen
  • Kellie Carbone
  • Kristen Carey
  • Anthony Carpentieri
  • Ellen Case
  • Charna Cassell
  • Joanne Chao
  • Thana Christian
  • Christine Chu
  • Mary Ciofalo
  • Rachel Clark
  • Sally Clark
  • Hilde Clarke
  • Bola Cofi
  • Diane Cohen
  • Helga Cohen
  • Judith Cohen
  • Lawrence Cohen
  • Ruth Cohn
  • Andrew Condey
  • Patricia Contaxis
  • Elaine Cooper
  • Ann Coyle
  • Linda Cozzarelli
  • Eileen Crean
  • Bruce Cribley
  • Christopher Cunningham
  • Marjorie Cusick
  • Davidson & MacIain
  • Hope Dean
  • Eike Diebold
  • John DiMartini
  • Fran Diyan
  • Margaret Dodson
  • Jan Dombrower
  • Susan Drager
  • Francis Dreher
  • Albert Dytch
  • E - K
  • Jay Earley
  • Dr. Eaton
  • Bruce Ecker
  • Deborah Efron
  • Carl Eggers
  • Diane Ehrensaft
  • Ruth Fallenbaum
  • Madeline Feingold
  • Elizabeth Ferree
  • Leah Fisher
  • Lor Fjerkenstad
  • Stephen Flannes
  • Denise Forte
  • Monica Frame
  • Jennifer Freeman
  • Cynthia Front
  • George Gardener
  • Hilary Goldstine
  • Jeremy Gordon
  • Silvia Gorla
  • Erik Grabow
  • Victoria Green
  • Sharon Gregory
  • Zona Gregory
  • Philip & Miriam Gross
  • Paul Guillory
  • Mary Haake
  • Howard Hamburger
  • Lisa Hardy
  • Pamela Fox Hargrove
  • Kate Harling
  • Heidi Harrison
  • Gina Hassan
  • Mick Hausauer
  • Bob Heavner
  • Mary Claire Heffron
  • Toby Hendon
  • Mary Herget
  • Ruth Hill
  • Cindy Hill-Ford
  • Marsha Hiller
  • Kathryn Hirt
  • Chandler Hoffman
  • Anneke Hogeland
  • Karen Hollinger-Jackson
  • Melissa Holub
  • Katya Hope
  • Peter Howard
  • Joanne Long Howell
  • Austin Hurst
  • Judith Isackson
  • Karen Hollinger Jackson
  • Richelle Jacobs
  • Beth Jaeger-Skigen
  • Jim Jenkins
  • Valata Jenkins-Monroe
  • Alf Johnson
  • Cheryl Jones
  • Denah Joseph
  • Deborah Joy
  • Colorado Kagan
  • Susan J. Kahn
  • Kaiser Therapists
  • Milton Kalish
  • Jane Kaplan
  • Fortunee Kayra-Stuart
  • Virginia Keeler-Wolf
  • Gene Kennedy
  • Charles King
  • Kim Kluger-Bell
  • Karl Knobler
  • Sue Kramer
  • Candice Kunz
  • L - P
  • Kathy Labriola
  • Mario LaMort
  • Anya Lane
  • Linea Larsen
  • Linda Lawton
  • Mai Le
  • Ilene Lee
  • Daniel Lesny
  • Jeanne Leventhal
  • Richard Levine
  • Miriam Levine-Alcala
  • Leonard Levis
  • Howard Liebgold
  • Larry Liebman
  • Joyce Lindenbaum
  • Gail Lindsay
  • Scott Lines
  • Bruce Linton
  • Dean Lobovits
  • Dana Locke
  • Janet Long
  • Michael Loose
  • Jose Lopez
  • Susan Love
  • Loland Lowe
  • Howard Lunche
  • Phyllis Mace
  • Shane MacKay
  • Paul Malkin
  • Yvonne Mansell
  • Vicky Marlow
  • Audry Martin
  • Lynn Martin
  • Matthew Marzell
  • Laura Mason
  • David Max
  • Vicki McGuire
  • Donald McKillop
  • Barbara McMahon
  • Jeff Meeker
  • Jeanne Menary
  • Andrew Michaels
  • Lucia Milburn
  • April Miller
  • David Miller
  • Marlene Millikan
  • Kathy Mill
  • Paul Minsky
  • Barbara Mintzer-McMahon
  • Valory Mitchell
  • Kathleen Ranlett Mock
  • Matthew Mock
  • Cynthia Moore
  • Paul Moore
  • Dr. Moulton
  • Johanna Murphy
  • Kristen Nemzer
  • Gilbert Neuman
  • John Nickens
  • Nancy Novack
  • Audrey Nulman
  • Jacob Ofman
  • Naomi O'Keefe
  • Bob Oliver
  • Peggy O'Neil
  • Grace Manning Orenstein
  • Peggy Orlin
  • Ruth Paris
  • Heather Parrish
  • Marion Pastor
  • Gayle Peterson
  • Dusky Pierce
  • Laura Pilnick
  • Eugene Porter
  • R - Z
  • Marcia Rafinski
  • Melissa Rapp
  • Tara Rech
  • Catherine Regan
  • Mary Ann Regan
  • Winifred Reilly
  • Rona Renner
  • Skip Roache
  • Bob Roberts
  • Pay Rose
  • Julia Ross
  • Donna Rothert
  • Nancy Rothschild
  • Lisa Ruben
  • Jan Ruchlis
  • Joe Saah
  • Elayne Savage
  • Penny Schuchman
  • Judy Schwartz
  • Ellie Schwartzman
  • Michael Searle
  • Dr. Seligman
  • Pepper Sbarbaro
  • Heidi Berrin Shonkoff
  • Rodney Shapiro
  • Regina Shields
  • Dawn Shifreen-Pomerantz
  • Jean Shimozaki
  • Jill Shugart
  • Roscoe Simmons
  • Michael Simon
  • William Smith
  • Laura Soble
  • Norman Sohn
  • Jim Sparks
  • Hans Stahlschmidt
  • Sandra Stark
  • Fran Staton
  • Leslie Sternin
  • Susan Stoeffler
  • Claire Stone
  • Sam Tabachnik
  • Judith Tabb
  • Julie Tenenberg
  • Sharon Testa-Harker
  • Betty Tharpe
  • Sharada Thompson
  • Michael Tompkins
  • Dee Tivenan
  • Terry D. Trotter
  • Shirlene Turner
  • Virginia Vandenbergh
  • Barbara Vivino
  • Pete Walker
  • Ellen Walters
  • Barbara Waterman
  • Bonnie Weiss
  • Stephen Walrod
  • Emily Weaver
  • Laurie E. Werbner
  • Colleen West
  • Melinda White
  • Fran Wickner
  • Dan Wile
  • Lloyd Willey
  • Sola Williams
  • Susan Schreier Williams
  • Marlene Winell
  • Cherry Wise
  • Virginia Wolfe
  • Anna Wong
  • Sheri Glucoft Wong
  • Sara Wood-Kraft
  • Randall Wyatt
  • Michael Wymes
  • Mary Yabroff
  • Denise Capra Young
  • Pamela Zelnik
  • Ellen Zucker

  • David Akullian

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (April 2000)
    Re: good therapist for teens: David Akullian, North Berkeley, Shattuck at Cedar Street, 848-4203. Worked well with both my 11 year-old son and 15 year-old daughter.

    Isadora Alman

    Re: ''Sex-Positive'' Therapist? (July 2005)
    I highly recommend Isadora Alman in SF as a non-judgemental, very sex positive therapist. www.askisadora.com ANON

    Re: Help with communication - No touchy-feely stuff (May 2004)
    I hear Isadora Alman (www.askisadora.com) in San Francisco has helped many couples. anon

    Re: Couples counselor for Cross-cultural relationship (April 2003)
    recommendation for couples' counselor ''very well versed in cross-cultural relationships'' is Isadora Alman in San Francisco 415 386-5090, www.askisadora.com. anon

    Re: Couples Therapist in San Francisco (June 2003)
    Isadora Alman in San Francisco (centrally located office) specializes in couples counseling and is quite reasonably priced. She is also non-judgemental. Her website is www.askisadora.com


    Gail Alter

    Re: Therapist to help us heal after Infidelity (March 2005)
    Please try Gail Alter in Berkeley. Her number is 510/433- 2972. We saw her for several years, and she was patient, nurturing and validating. This must be a tough time for you, and I applaud you for wanting to make your marriage work. Gail helped us through some difficult times - I hope she is able to help you as well.

    Re: Therapist for teenage girl (Aug 2004)
    I can highly recommend Gail Alter as a therapist for teenage girls and for their parents. Phone is 510-433-2972

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    Gail Alter, LCSW may also work with boys, but I recommend her for girls: 433-2972
    So much depends on the fit, but all are reputable and come with good recommendations.


    Greg Alter

    Re: Male therapist for shy 17-y-o son (March 2005)
    For the parent seeking a hip therapist who can connect with teens, I'd like to suggest Dr. Greg Alter. I appreciate Greg's approach with teens so much, I asked him to become the therapist for the Haven Learning Center. Greg works with teenagers out of our new space -- the Mind Body PlayLab -- located at the New Age Academy on Adeline near Ashby. He also sees people at his home office in Pt. Richmond. You can reach him at 510.307.4321. Claudia L'Amoreaux, director, Haven Learning Center

    Preston Parsons Alvarez

    Re: Mother suffering from bulimia (July 2001)
    Preston Parsons, LCSW. She is located in Rockridge. Good luck. Sara

    Re: Eating disorder (2001)
    Preston Parsons Alvarez was someone who was recommended to us by my daughter's adolescent medicine doctor at Kaiser, Dr. Tipton. Preston is not a Kaiser provider -- she is private and this is costly. We decided we had more confidence in the private sector than Kaiser Permanente when it came to psychological help. I interviewed 5 therapists, including Preston, over the phone in lengthy conversations and then presented the results to my daughter. Ultimately, it was my daughter's decision. My daughter feels as good about Preston now as she did 5 years ago. Preston worked for many years in the in-patient units for eating disorder teens back in the days when they were subsidized by the government. She worked well with my daughter, and also consulted well with the psychiatrist who treated my daughter when she became an in-patient through Kaiser.

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    My 17-year-old daughter has been seeing a wonderful therapist named Preston Parsons Alvarez (College Avenue/Oakland). She has seen her for 9 months and the whole family is very impressed with her -- we have all been in for visits with our daughter for family history reasons, but my daughter is her patient. Preston is very clear about patient confidentiality and has kept our daughter's trust accordingly. My daughter also attends a peer group (teenage girls) that is attended by a facilitator who interns with Preston, and she is very happy with the group as well. I have had much experience with therapists of all license/education backgrounds, and am very critical of the whole thing -- I think Preston is very good at what she does. She is also very kind and supportive. Very skilled. Good luck.


    Stephen Anderson

    Re: African American therapist for teen
    I would recommend Stephen Anderson--he's an intern (post master's, working towards his license) under good supervision. You can reach him at 893-2001 (x6). He was a student of mine, and an intern of a friend/colleague. He's worked with kids and adolescents. Mary Ann Leff, LMFT (2000)

    Colleen Arnold

    Re: Therapist to help with miscarriage grief (June 2003)
    Hello - I am a licensed MFT in the Rockridge District who has just joined the Pacificare panel. I have a special interest in grief work, and I am very aware of the particular issues involved in miscarriage. I have some openings on Mondays, and would be happy to talk with you more...Colleen Arnold, PhD, MFT (415) 263-6965 carnoldphd at aol.com

    Sarah Ashton

    Re: Couples Counseling
    As for couples therapists I want to recommend Sarah Ashton. Her number is 433-7984 and is located next to Oliveto's on College Ave. in Oakland. I know her because I am also a psychotherapist (I'd recommend myself except I guess that would be a conflict of interests). I highly respect her as a therapist. She is very smart, very compassionate but not squishy. Melanie

    Peter August

    Re: Therapist for reckless & destructive 13-year-old (Sept. 2003)
    Peter August MFT is a gentle, caring, intelligent, forthright, honest, compassionate therapist. He has helped my daughter (now 13) navigate the difficult territory from her anorexia (which surfaced during the aftermath of a divorce) to a state of recovery where she expresses her feelings, and preferences like any other persistently annoyed young teen.

    One very important piece of information about the work Peter has done/is doing with my daughter is that he has created and maintains a sense of safety where any combination of parents/ex's/step-parents feel safe enough to walk into a room together to discuss the things we can't work out alone. Somehow this great guy can support each of us, simultaneously, until we get through whatever we can/must to continue the important work of helping the child survive and grow.

    Peter's office is on Piedmont Avenue in Oakland and his # is 510-654-4282. Sim

    Re: Therapy for a child (Feb 1998)
    Two excellent child therapists are:
    Hope Dean (510) 649-1144
    Peter August (510) 273-9568 Both are professional, experienced, knowledgeable and reassuring. They can help you understand and deal with children's upsetting feelings and behaviors. Pat


    Toni Ayres

    Re: Therapist for painful intercourse (Aug 2003)
    Toni Ayres is a sex therapist in SF (or close by). She taught a sexuality course that I took to get my counseling degree and was wonderful. She is very experienced and also has a nursing degree--so she understands the physiology behind what is going on. I would also encourage you to look up Dr. Jerome Weiss ...

    Stephanie Baer-Spoden

    Re: Sex issues therapist - Walnut Creek (Feb 2004)
    I know of an amazing therapist in Concord who I strongly recommend (I assume you want a female)? She's not necessarily a sex therapist, but she's just amazing at dealing with relationships (with self and others) and is an incredible woman. Her name is Stephanie Baer-Spoden and she's an LCSW. Her office number is: 925-890-1208. I'm a therapist myself and she's been a colleague for years. Her integrity, humor and instincts are just exceptional. I've never sent anyone to her who wasn't very pleased. Good luck! Abby

    Annie Bailey

    Re: Family therapist in Lamorinda (March 2002)
    I would like to recommend a wonderful therapist for children and adults. Her name is Annie Bailey, MFT and she is located at 2920 Domingo Suite 205- the phone number is 510-548-3700. Karen

    Dale Bailey

    Re: Imago Relationship Therapy (Feb 2003)
    From my friend who works for Harville Hendrix... ''I know a few of the therapists...some are imago therapists. But I know Dale Bailey very well and think he's great. Of course, though, it really is an individual decision, whether they click or not. But Dale is well-respected in the community and I personally like him.''
    past ''Getting the Love..'' participant

    Naomi Baran

    Recommended for Couples Counseling Sept 2006

    Tali Barr

    Re: Foreign-Born Therapist (Sept 2004)
    I can highly recommend Tali Barr. She is a wonderful therapist -- very effective and compassionate. Her office phone number is 433-2800. She is from another country (not sure if it's Europe). lauren

    David Barron

    Re: Hypnotherapist for nail biting (July 2003)
    I highly recommend David Barron as a hypnotherapist. He is amazing and gets excellent results in many areas -- habits, long- held belief systems which are causing problems, personal growth, competence. I have several friends who also see him now too, so he is willing to come up for regular sessions with us. He is in San Jose and will either see clients there, or comes up here for sessions occasionally. His phone number is (408) 885-1855, and his e-mail address is dr.barron at changework.com. Linda

    Re: Hypnotherapist for working on behavior modifications (Feb 2003)
    I highly recommend David Barron as a hypnotherapist. I have worked with him on everything from musical development to weight, and even more personal issues. He is excellent and I get amazing results. His office is in San Jose, but he is willing to come to this area for appointments. His phone is (408) 885-1855, and his email address is dr.barron at changework.com. Feel free to call or e-mail me if you'd like more specific information. Linda


    Michael Baugh

    Re: Couples Therapist in San Francisco (June 2003)
    We have a really fantastic couples counselor whom I've already recommended to several friends (after several friends recommended him to *us*!) and now we're all seeing him and everyone seems to think he's just terrific. Michael Baugh, LCSW LC 9324, Clinical Director, New Perspectives Center for Counseling, 650-756-1758. He has two offices where he sees patients, one out on Geary Blvd. and another down south (past Krispy Kreme). He's given us a safe place to sort out hot issues, and tools to argue and talk better, plus he has some background in child development and has interesting input about child-rearing issues. I can't say enough good stuff about the guy, we think he's just great (and so far, so does everyone else we've sent his way!). Saved By Counseling

    Zoe Becker

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    My partner & I saw a couples therapist we both couldn't recommend more highly. We've both actually gone back to see her individually after seeing her together on & off for about 3 years. She is in SF, which is a bummer for us since we're now in East Bay, but it has still been worth it to remain with her. Zoe Becker 415/586-5627. She's in Glen Park Lise

    Sandy Bemesderfer

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    Re: Therapist recommendations: I recommend my aunt Sandy Bemesderfer, PhD, 526-7127. Although I haven't seen her as a therapist--she sure has been great to have as an aunt!

    Kenneth Benau

    Re: Counselor/therapist for 13-year-old (Aug 2002)
    Therapist for teen -- Dr. Kenneth Benau, on Telegraph Ave., Berkeley (510) 704-0116. He is excellent with teens as well as with families. Debra

    Fran Bennett

    Re: Therapist for anxiety and depression (Dec 2004)
    I saw a therapist for group counseling for women who struggled with depression and I really liked her. I'm not sure if she's still doing groups, but I would go to her for individual therapy as well. She used to practice some in Berkeley but I believe she now only works out of her Hayward office. I think it would be worth the drive. Her name is Fran Bennett and her number is (510) 888-2415.

    Shoshana Bennett

    Re: Postpartum depression March 2000
    Call Shoshana Bennett, with Postpartum Support for Mothers at 727-4610
    Hutcheson-Wilcox Family

    Re: New mom with old baggage to sort through (July 1999)
    Shoshanna Bennett in Castro Valley is a very good therapist who specializes in pregnancy and postpartum issues. I saw her during my pregnancy privately and also went to a post-partum depression group - while I was pregnant. Both were very helpful. I'm sorry I don't have the number but I'm sure she is listed.


    Anna Berger

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (April 2000)
    It mattered a lot for our teen to like and feel accepted by a therapist--even more important than for an adult--because acceptance is the stuff of teen identity. It was also important for our teen to build a trusting relationship with an adult, and bridge the generations for a source of advice in addition to peers. From this experience, I would suggest interviewing several therapists to find the right fit, and not be afraid to change the therapist if that right fit, for whatever reason, isn't there. I can recommend , for one, Dr. Anna Berger, who is warm, savvy, and wise. 848-3050.

    Jodie Berke

    Re: Marriage Counselors (Aug 2005)
    I am familiar with both Jodie Berke and Gayle Peterson. Both are highly qualified, nurturing therapists, who have been working with individuals and couples for many years. Jodie Berke, I saw individually, but think she would also make an excellent couples counselor. Patty

    Marc Berke

    Recommended for Couples Counseling June 2006

    Brad Berman


    Elea Bernou

    Re: Preschooler who may have Oppositional Defiant Disorder (Sept 2002)
    I recommend Dr. Elea Bernou. She does very thorough child assessments, including neuropsych, cognitive, learning, and psychological issues. She is also great with kids and thoughtful in her recommendations and feedback. If money is an issue she supervises some interns who do assessments at a lower fee. phone 510-841-8484.

    Anne Bernstein

    Re: Weighing adoption vs. donor eggs (July 2003)
    I highly recommend Anne Bernstein who helped us with a similar decision. Phone: 549-0598. Office: 2955 Shattuck near Ashby. She is an incredibly skilled therapist with a great deal of experience working with people on ''family-building choices'' and how children deal with having ''unusual origins.''

    Kirsten Beuthin


    Yvonne Beyer

    Re: Therapist for teenage girl (Aug 2004)
    I can't say enough good things about my daughter's therapist, Yvonne Beyer. She is warm, funny, relaxed, straight forward, and very practical. She has two grown daughter's of her own (she told me when I asked-many therapists don't). She is open to talking with me anytime, and has really been there for my daughter in crisis times. And she takes my insurance, Pacificare. My daughter feels very comfortable with her and comes out from her session a relaxed and happy kid (even at 13!!). Yvonne is in Oakland and her number is 601-0132.

    Collette Bischer-Choate

    Re: Couples Therapist in Lamorinda (May 2003)
    Collette Bischer-Choate is a friend and collegue of mine. She is very good with couples and families, fair, professional, and practical. I suggest meeting with her a few times and then deciding if she's a good match for you. susan

    Richard Bloom

    Re: Couples Counseling
    Here's one from friends who went to this guy before they had kids to get help with communicating - they liked him - they have a pretty ideal marriage as far as I can tell so it must have helped: Richard Bloom 3120 Telegraph Ave. 848-2695

    Bola Cofi

    Re: African-American Couples' Counselor (Oct 2005)
    I would recommend Bola Cofi of San Francisco. Her e-mail is BCofi at aol.com. My husband and I went to a couple of other therapists and I ended up feeling worse than when I went in. Bola is great. bola fan

    Diane Cohen

    Re: Therapist for college-aged daughter (March 2002)
    Diane Cohen, Ph.D. on College Ave. in Rockridge (653-1464) is also very good with young women but I think she's in the same situation---that she's not accepting any new MHN clients.

    Helga Cohen

    Re: Foreign-Born Therapist (Sept 2004)
    I would like to recommend Helga Cohen, a MFT in Oakland. I have seen her several times in the past for a few years, and I found her to be quite helpful. She's from Germany, and speaks English, German and French.

    4281 Piedmont Ave. Suite 3 Oakland, CA 94611 (510) 601-8404

    I found this info about her practice on the net: Special Interests: Couples/premarital counseling, depression, anxiety, adult attention deficit disorder, ethnic and cultural problems (Europe, Eastern Europe, South and Central America), divorce and custody mediation, parenting, post-traumatic stress, young adults, expressive arts therapy. Languages: English, German, and French.

    Good luck! Mischa


    Judith Cohen

    Re: Couples Counseling
    My husband and I have a wonderful couple counselor to recommend. We have been seeing Judith Cohen, LCSW, for 2 years and she is one of the most impressive therapists I have ever met. I mention this here because she is building her practice and it occurred to me that someone (family, couples) might be grateful for the recommendation! Judith is warm, intuitive, empathic and generally a life saver. She charges $95 an hour but reduces her fee for those in need. Her offices are near the corner of San Pablo & Marin in Albany and she can be reached at 510-527-3132. Stacie

    Joan Bonnar

    Re: New mom with old baggage to sort through (July 1999)
    Joan Bonnar, Ph.D., is a fabulous therapist. I have seen her alone and with my husband for the very issues you describe. She is warm, intuitive but also intellectual. She has a great analysis of how hard it is to be a woman in our culture but rather than spend time raging against the machine she focusses on how to handle it in a healthy fashion. When she does couples counselling she is scrupulously fair to both partners, even though she has a long-term relationship with me. Not too mushy, so my husband is comfortable with her.

    Mary Bradford

    Re: EFT Couples Therapist (June 2003)
    I can strongly recommend Mary Bradford, PhD. Her office is in central Berkeley. She works with couples from the EFT perspective. Very experienced, very knowledgeable, very good therapist. Her office number is: 510-843-5508. Carol-Ann

    Esther Brass

    Re: Exhausted mother of two young children Sept 1999
    Regarding therapists. I as a therapist know both therapists you mentioned as reputable. However, I believe Esther Brass has raised children which may be helpful to you. Peggy

    Tim Brower

    Re: Queer-friendly psychiatrist (Feb 2002)
    I know of a great queer-friendly psychiatrist named Tim Brower who works in the East Bay. I don't have his number but he's listed I'll bet. Very knowledgeable and kind. Good luck. Massberi
     From Whitepages.com
    
    Brower Timothy MD
    39013 Sundale
    Fremont, CA  94538
    510-608-5803
    

    Sandra Bryson

    Re: Female therapist for relationship issues (Dec 2002)
    I can highly recommend a female therapist. Sandra Bryson has been in private practice for about 20 years. She's in the Rockridge area near the Berkeley border. Her manner is so warm and caring that you will immediately feel comfortable with her. Plus she's extremely intelligent and has great insights. An excellent therapist. You can reach her at 510-653-6353. v w r

    Re: Family therapist who accepts MHN (Dec 2002)
    My husband and I have been seeing a good family therapist called Sandra Bryson through MHN. She's just over the border of Berkeley in Oakland, on College near Claremont. She's been very helpful to us in marriage counselling and also issues that have come up with our son. Her phone number is (510)653-6353 -- Satisfied Client


    Sydney Buice

    Re: Helping couple through divorce (2001)
    Your situation sounds similar to what I went through two years ago. Although we were not married, a five year relationship was coming to an end with a two year old child involved. I wanted to leave and he wanted me to stay. Unfortunately the relationship had reached a point where I felt that me leaving was the only feasible possibility. I did agree to go to a counselor, however, who simply told my "x" that she could not tell me to stay if leaving is what I wanted. She did, however, help us get through some of the emotions and help each of understand why the relationship was coming to an end. I also learned quite a bit about how we project our emotions onto to others. That remains to be helpful to me.

    The number one reason that I recommend this counselor (listed below) so highly is because she was straightforward with us. She was not looking for repeat business, but simply told us that if we chose to get back together than she would work with us at that time. Otherwise, she was not looking to have someone stay in a relationship just for the sake of the child. And especially, for the well being of the child if there is continual arguing and unhappiness in the home.

    I wish you well. I know that it is a really hard situation to be going through.

    Sydney Buice
    419 Kearney St.
    El Cerrito
    527-5430

    (She has a sliding scale. When we went to her we were not covered by our insurance)


    Keith Burrell

    Re: adolescent therapy
    Although I can't speak to the quality of the program, I got a flyer today about Anger Management Groups run by Keith Burrell and Laura Soble. There are two groups, one for ages 6-9, and one for 9-11. It says (in part) "in a safe, fun, interdactive environment participants will explore anger, social skills and decision making skills using art, drama and other creative approaches." For registration & information, contact Laura Soble at 510/215-7300 and Keith Burrell at 510/667-3400. kirsten

    Sheila Byrns

    Re: Eating disorder (2001)
    There is an excellent eating disorders psychologist in Berkeley. Her name is Dr. Sheila Byrns, 649-7979, 3020 Telegraph Avenue, Suite 10, Berkeley 94705. She will be on vacation from September 17 - October 17, but probably could recommend someone in her absence as well.

    Christy Calame

    Re: ''Sex-Positive'' Therapist? (July 2005)
    I have been working with Christy Calame, and can assure you that she has many clients who are sex workers or poly or just sex positive. Her office is off Grand Avenue at Lake a sex-positive mom

    Connie Capen

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    One more recommendation: Connie Capen in Berkeley: 704-4497. She has counseled several lesbian couples. Lael

    Kellie Carbone

    Re: Post-partum Issues Couples Therapist (Sept 2004)
    I would like to recommend Kellie Carbone, MFT at 510-594-8262. She does individual, couples, and group therapy. I have only had experience with her as an individual therapist but I am absolutely sure she would be great as a couples therapist as well. She is extremely kind, dedicated, and insightful. I have had experiences with other therapists and have never found someone so caring and committed to her clients' growth. Good luck!

    Kristen Carey

    Re: Mediation for mom and 14-y-o in turmoil? (May 2004)
    Regarding thirteen-year-old with problems: We recommend Dr. Kristen Carey at 587-3260. She saw our thirteen-year- old for six months of wonderful meetings.Our daughter would come home, full of new confidence and enthusiasm, where before, she'd felt disconnected and somewhat frightened of growing up. Our family has grown as a result of Dr. Carey's intuitive and caring approach. Our daughter is now speaking up for herself at school and at home; she's looking forward to eighth grade and a summer full of new experiences.

    Anthony Carpentieri

    Re: Down-to-earth Couples Counselor near Campus (Feb 2003)
    I highly recommend Anthony Carpentieri (M.A., MFC). My husband and I have found him very ''down to earth,'' sensitive yet non-judgmental, sensible and balanced, available. Both of us feel we have benefited from his gentle but focused interventions. His office is 2315 Price Street in Berkeley; phone is 849-1626.

    Re: Therapist for husband's childhood demons
    Anthony Carpentieri (in phone book) in Berkeley is male and experienced with step family situations.

    Re: Therapist for Step parenting issues (Feb 1999)
    Yes there are very unique and challenging aspects of Step parenting. There are two wonderful people who I can recommend in this area.

    Anthony Carpentieri, MFCC
    5335 College Ave. #21
    Oakland, Ca.    94618
    849-1626
    

    Step Family groups and Family / Couple / Individual Counseling
    Sherry

    Re: Therapist for Step parenting issues (Feb 1999)
    Yes - stepparenting is incredibly hard work - and with such young people. My husband and I are learning lots of lessons. We did see a local therapist who specializes in stepparenting and runs a support group at Bananas. His name is Anthony Carpentieri. The support group is the first Thursday evening of each month at Bananas. I don't know the protocol of giving phone numbers over this site, but he is listed in Berkeley. Good luck.


    Ellen Case

    RE: Couples Counseling in Lamorinda
    Ellen Case has an office in Concord. If she doesnt work on the weekends, perhaps she could refer you to somebody who does. Her telephone # is 510-530-5797

    Charna Cassell

    Re: ''Sex-Positive'' Therapist? (July 2005)
    I recommend Charna Cassell. She is actually a somatic therapist, but she is well connected to the feminist, sex positive, abuse recovery and queer therapy communities. You can also try calling the Feminist Therapist Referral Network. Good luck! anna

    Joanne Chao

    RE: Help with communication (Sept 2005)
    Dear Sad Wife, You might want to try Dr. Joanne Chao in Oakland (near the Berkeley border). She is warm, fair, and helped our communication greatly. She is an active therapist who is not afraid to call us you on your ''stuff,'' but does so in way that you can hear it. Her contact information is: 510-594-4003 6536 Telegraph Avenue Oakland anon

    Thana Christian

    Re: Grief Counselor for children (Nov 2001)
    To the woman whose husband recently passed away and who wanted referrals to professional support around your family's grief, I offer an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) on Piedmont Ave. in Oakland named Thana Christian. Although I have seen her alone, I know she has a lot of experience with family dynamics and pediatrics and is the most caring person I've ever met. I can't imagine a counselor/therapist who could be of greater assistance to you at such a sad time. I would be happy to give a more in-depth referral if you e-mail me, or just call Thana directly at (510)547-1779. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Whether you work with Thana or not, I wish you the best and congratulate you on reaching out to find help for you and your kids. Michael

    Christine Chu

    Re: Kaiser Therapists for an Adult (June 2003)
    I love my therapist at Kaiser San Francisco, Christine Chu. She is very compassionate, a good listener, and turns the focus to my strengths while not dismissing the validity of my difficulties. She does not put things into a diagnostic format which I like- labeling disorders always makes me feel flawed. She is not overtly feminist in her approach, but she is so intrinsicaly. I see her on a long-term basis which Kaiser gives me because of a chronic condition. Kaiser Oakland had told me that only short-term was available. But I only get to see her every 5-6 weeks, which of course makes it very different than the intensity of private (expensive) therapy. I am considering switching to Kaiser San Rafael for my therapy because it is faster for me to get to than San Francisco. But I hate to leave Christine!

    Mary Ciofalo

    Recommended for Couples Counseling Sept 2007

    Rachel Clark

    Re: Grief Counselor for children (Nov 2001)
    Rachel Clark is an excellent grief counselor and counsels with families and kids. She is in Berkeley -- her phone number is 524-2918. Cam

    Sally Clark

    Does anyone have experience, positive or negative with: Therapist Sally Clark MFCC especially dealing with children's issues? Thanks very much.
    I saw Sally myself for a couple of years, and highly recommend her. I think she'd be great with children as well as adults, as I know her to be very compassionate, gentle and insightful. She has experience with pre and perinatal psychology, which I found especially helpful as a parent and as someone who works with babies, to become more aware of how fully conscious babies are even before they are born. Lucia (2001)

    Hilde Clarke

    Recommended for Couples Counseling May 2007

    Re: Severe tantrums in 7-year-old May 2001
    I highly recommend child psychologist Hilde Clarke, 420-1866, who works with children of all ages and their parents. She is very compassionate and bright, and really works with families to find creative solutions to the challenges they are facing. If she doesn't feel she can help she would probably have a good referral for you. She is located on Howe Street in Oakland.


    Lawrence Cohen

    Re: Therapist for anxiety and depression (Dec 2004)
    I also have seen a psychiatrist for my depression and recommend him. He is Dr. Lawrence Cohen and has an office in downtown Berkeley. His number is 510-981-9141.

    Ruth Cohn

    Re: "Passionate Marriage" approach to counseling (May 2005)
    Ruth Cohn MFT (Rockridge location) uses the approach you are looking for. I've worked with her in the past with a different method (Imago) and it was very helpful. anon

    Re: Pre-Marital Counseling (May 2004)
    Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! We were referred to a premarital counselor, Ruth Cohn, in Rockridge who we really liked. I too had a reluctant fiance who initially didn't really see why this was a good thing to do but thankfully, he ended up liking Ruth (she wasn't too touchy feely for him). One of the most helpful things she did for us was providing a framework for helping us stop and truly listen (and get!) what the other person was trying to say. That might sound too simplistic but it's amazing how that part can be the primary source of misunderstanding! Her number is 510/653-6256. patrice


    Andrew Condey

    Re: Family therapist (1999)
    There are two really great therapists on Solano Blvd. in Albany who are good with family issues. The other therapist is Andrew Condey, Ph.D.. He is also very good, but I don't believe that he is on the Pacificare list yet.

    Patricia Contaxis

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    I highly recommend both Marsha Hiller 644-2724 and Patricia Contaxis 524-5028. They are both MFT's and have extensive experience working with couples and doing child therapy. They are excellent clinically and have impeccable ethics. Sara

    Elaine Cooper

    Re: Woman psychotherapist near Montclair (Nov 2002)
    Elaine Cooper, PhD (540-6555) seems like a good therapist for what you mentioned. She's practical and gives feedback and ideas, rather than simply alot of empathic listening (at least in my case). She works mostly in SF, but on Thursdays works in the office building in the Italian Colors complex. anon

    Ann Coyle

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    I recommend the following therapist for Lesbian couples: Ann Coyle, Ph.D. 415 561-9779 She will be moving to the East Bay and establishing a practice. Meghan

    Linda Cozzarelli

    Re: Therapist to build 5-year-old's social skills (March 2003)
    Two child therapists that I would highly recommend are: Hope Dean, LCSW on Carelton St. in Berkeley at 510-649-1144 Linda Cozzarelli, LCSW on College in Oakland at 510-428-9050 They are both seasoned therapists who specialize in working with children and (it's almost a given!) do play therapy. Good luck! dscott

    Eileen Crean

    August 2003
    I would like to recommend Eileen Crean, MFT. We are currently seeing her right now for marriage counseling and we both like her! She accepts UCB's PacifiCare insurance. She is in Berkeley at 2340 Ward Street, Suite 204. Her phone number is 549-3404. Anon

    Bruce Cribley

    Re: Therapist to help us heal after Infidelity (March 2005)
    My husband and I went to see Dr. Bruce Cribley in Oakland, off of Grand Ave. I don't know that this is his area of expertese (sp?) but my husband had been unfaithful before we got married and Bruce helped us work through it. We've been very happy now for 2 and a 1/2 years. If you're interested his number is 510- 530-4112. Good luck.

    Christopher Cunningham

    Re: Therapist who accepts Medi-Cal and/or Medicare (Jan 2003)
    Christopher Cunningham, MS is an excellent counselor in SF. He has an office downtown near Montgomery BART and another in West Portal. I know he uses a sliding pay scale, but I am not sure whether or not he accepts Medicare/Medi-Cal. He can be reached at 415/661-5667.

    Marjorie Cusick

    Re: Couples Therapist in Montclair (July 2002)
    We have been very happy with Marjorie Cusick, MFT. She is warm and straightforward, communicative and both of us felt heard and understood by her. Her office is not in Montclair but pretty close...on College and Alcatraz.She may also have a second office. She can be reached at 510.428.2309.

    Dawn Davidson & Akien MacIain

    Re: Affordable marriage counselor (Oct 2001)
    After consultation with my husband, I am writing again to offer the possibility of your consulting directly with my husband and myself. My husband and I also do personal and relationship coaching (we are NOT therapists). Normally we charge more than $80 a session (since we work as a team, and usually do 2-hour sessions twice a month). But we are willing to negotiate if you are interested (we also take some trade). We utilize a mix of styles and approaches, which we try to tailor to your needs. You can find out a little more about our work at http://www.weirdness.org/coaching/index.html. If you can't read our page, or you just want further information, please call us at 510-562-6417. I'd also be happy to give you a reference to one of our "graduates" if you want another opinion as to the value of our work. At present, sessions are usually conducted in our home in San Leandro (within walking distance of the Oakland border), on weekday evenings. Feel free to e-mail us for more info (coaching AT weirdness DOT org), or call 510-562-6417. Dawn Davidson and Akien MacIain

    Hope Dean

    Re: Therapist to build 5-year-old's social skills (March 2003)
    Two child therapists that I would highly recommend are: Hope Dean, LCSW on Carelton St. in Berkeley at 510-649-1144 Linda Cozzarelli, LCSW on College in Oakland at 510-428-9050 They are both seasoned therapists who specialize in working with children and (it's almost a given!) do play therapy. Good luck! dscott

    Re: Therapy for a child
    Two excellent child therapists are:
    Hope Dean (510) 649-1144
    Peter August (510) 273-9568 Both are professional, experienced, knowledgeable and reassuring. They can help you understand and deal with children's upsetting feelings and behaviors. Pat (Feb 1998)


    Eike Diebold

    Re: Foreign-Born Therapist (Sept 2004)
    I recommend Eike Diebold, Marriage and Family therapist. She's on Dwight Way near Telegraph. 510-843-1396. I saw her with my young daughter and enjoyed working with her. Beatrice

    Re: Therapist to help with conflict with father (Feb 2000)
    We found a most wonderful therapist, Eike Diebold, at the Redwood Center at 2428 Dwight Way, Berkeley. Her number is 843-1396 x47. She has seen me individually and with my husband and child. Stefanie


    John DiMartini

    Re: Eating disorder (2001)
    While my daughter was being treated for an eating disorder, her therapist recommended an excellent family therapist who we all went to together alongside her therapy with my daughter, named Dr. DiMartini.

    Re: angry adolescent
    Dear Parent: I have two daughters, both of whom have experienced anger and depression resulting from divorce, etc. My older daughter is in therapy with a fantastic clinical psychologist who, in turn, recommended a wonderful family therapist who specializes in individual and group/family therapy. His name is John DiMartini, located just off College Avenue in Oakland near the BART. I don't have his phone number with me at the moment, but if you are interested in pursuing this, please feel free to e-mail me. The reason I like him so much is that he absolutely protects the rights of children while helping every member of the family to feel whatever is going on for them and he is extremely fair. He is excellent at enabling everyone involved to listen to everyone else -- quite a remarkable task. He is also open to suggestions if something goes off, and I think this is critical to any group situation. I don't know if he would see an individual and that individual's family at the same time -- usually therapists just do one or the other. However, I am confident that he could recommend someone else if you eventually felt the need for individual and family therapy. Obviously, since both of my children are female, I don't know first-hand about how John would do with a male child. However, I would guess he would be wonderful with your son and/or you and your husband. Good luck. Just this past weekend I was at Emerson School's playground with my younger daughter who was playing basketball, and we witnessed a 5-year-old boy who was screaming, hitting and biting his mother and sister -- his parents were also nearing the point of a therapist. My thoughts are with you. Take care, Tamara


    Fran Diyan

    Re: Exhausted mother of two young children Sept 1999
    I and my daughter worked with Fran about 6 years ago when my husband passed away. I liked her a lot. Nancy

    Margaret Dodson

    Re: Therapist for Preschooler (Feb 2003)
    My therapist, Dr. Margaret Dodson, on Solano Ave., often sees children. I haven't taken my child to her, but she has such a kind, gentle manner and a great sense of humor, that it seems like it would be worth checking her out. Her number is 510/526-0474. Stefanie

    Re: Female family therapist in Albany? (March 2002)
    I would very much like to recommend Margaret Dodson (526-0474) in Albany (Carmel Ave.). She is good with both children and adults. Dawn


    Jan Dombrower

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    In response to the request for Teen Counselors I personally recommend:
    Jan Dombrower,M.S.
    Liscensed Marriage, Family & Child Counselor
    1345 "B" Street
    Hayward, CA 94541
    510/537-8630
    I'm not sure where you are located, which is a concern, because if its too far to travel then you tend to not go, so get someone close to your home. I took my daughter to Jan for almost two years and the results were great. My daughter was a victim of a crime and so the state paid for our counseling (mine too!) so I don't know how much it runs. She is excellent with kids and is more than willing to give references for someone in your area.

    Susan Drager

    Re: Therapist for depression (July 2001)
    Concerning treatment of depression. I strongly recommend Susan Drager. She is a LCSW but has connections with excellent psychiatrists if medication is in order. I have recommended her to a friend for her daughter and they are very satisfied. She sees patients at offices in Oakland or Walnut Creek. Her phone is 510 763 1502. Suzanne

    Francis Dreher

    Re: Treatment for bulimia (Mar 2005)
    Dr.Francis Dreher, in Kensington at Colusa Circle is a hypnotherapist who works with eating disorders (and other issues) and has had many successes. He's at 528 3738.

    Albert Dytch

    Re: Anger Management Nov 2002
    An excellent therapist who specializes in anger management is Albert Dytch, MFCC. He works with individuals, couples and families. He also does anger management groups for men. He is located near Lake Merritt in Oakland. His phone number is 510 452-6243. If he is too far for you, he may be able to recommend someone who works in South Berkeley. Good luck.

    Jay Earley & Bonnie Weiss

    Contact info as of Sept 2007: Bonnie Weiss LCSW 415 924-5200 bonnieweiss@gmail.com experientialcoach.com

    Re: Couples Therapist (May 2004)
    I have been working with Bonnie Weiss as my coach/therapist for over a year and a half and think she is super. While I do not have direct experience with her and Jay as a couples therapist, we have certainly covered a number of relationship issues. I think her background in gestalt therapy, coaching, and more recently family sytems theories would make her an excellent choice for a couples therapist. I also think Jay is highly qualified. JC


    Dr. Eaton

    Re: Kaiser Therapists for an Adult (June 2003)
    Dr. Eaton (male) at Kaiser Richmond is kind, caring, competent, grounded. highly recommended. Laura

    Bruce Ecker

    Re: Affordable marriage counselor (Oct 2001)
    My husband and I have seen someone recently who might work for you. His name is Bruce Ecker. He does something fairly unusual (he literally wrote the book on it!) called "Depth Oriented Brief Therapy". The hallmark of this technique is that he believes that deep, long-lasting change is potentially available FROM THE VERY FIRST VISIT. He will see individuals or couples (so far we've always gone together, although some visits were more like individual therapy with kibbitzing), and he will schedule sessions at whatever interval you feel comfortable with. Each session is scheduled at the end of the current one, so you're in no way "committed" to see him for any set period of time. The downside is that it can mean inconsistent timing of visits, since it will depend on whatever he has open at that point. But we've never had any problem finding a mutually acceptable time within about 2 or 2 1/2 weeks. He has a sliding scale, and I believe that the bottom is $80. He is not solely a marriage counselor, but he certainly does work on dynamics between couples, very effectively (he is both an MA and MFCC). He works in Oakland, at 445 Bellevue Ave. Suite 101. Phone number: 510-452-2820. Good luck! Dawn

    Deborah Efron

    Re: CBT Therapist for anxiety disorders (Jan 2005)
    I am delighted to recommend my colleague, Deborah Efron, LCSW. She is an expert CBT Therapist with a very strong background in the treatment of anxiety. Her office is in Berkeley on upper Solano Ave. Her phone number is 510-717-1415. Pamela Zelnik, MFT

    Carl Eggers

    Re: Post-partum Issues Couples Therapist (Sept 2004)
    I would recommend Carl Eggers, MFT for couples counseling. He has a website at www.lovingrelationships.com that describes his approach, including some out of the (sand) box ways of helping people begin to express themselves when words fail. He's in the North Bay, but I believe he also sees clients in the East Bay.

    Diane Ehrensaft

    Re: Preschooler who may have Oppositional Defiant Disorder (Sept 2002)
    Diane Ehrensaft (near Childrens Fairyland in Oakland) is excellent with young boys. We were reluctant to take our son to therapy when he was 7 years old. But he was miserable, angry, and a roller coaster of emotions with no apparent source. School and knowledgeable parents all separately recommended Diane. She was and is wonderful. Diane was not quick to diagnose, did not assume it was environmental (it was not), and was not quick to recommend medication. She has been invaluable in the parent conferences and with our son's school. She also is practical and a straight shooter, and genuinely cares about our son. He still sees her at age 10,and we feel extremely lucky to have her in his life.

    Diane is usually booked up, but if you're flexible you could get lucky. Her number is 547-4147.


    Ruth Fallenbaum

    Re: Therapist for college-aged daughter (March 2002)
    Ruth Fallenbaum had been recommended to me by a colleague who was really happy with the work that he had done with her. I interviewed her and liked her quite a bit, but she didn't have room in her schedule at the time. This seems to change over time, so I would definitely talk to her. She seems quite bright and compassionate, and was willing to offer referrals which I thought was really helpful.

    Re: Therapist for college-aged daughter (March 2002)
    I can whole-heartedly recommend Ruth Fallenbaum. (Unfortunately, she is not taking any new HealthNet/MHN clients.) Ruth is very professional and non-judgmental. She has a down to earth style that has allowed me to work to my own solutions with the advantage of her skills, perspective and insights. I don't have a lot of experience with therapists but the difference between a negative experience with one (on the MHN list but not on your list)and Ruth Fallenbaum has been like night and day. Ruth's office is at Telegraph and Woolsey in Berkeley, 835-2368.


    Madeline Feingold

    Re: adolescent anger
    My son went through some similar issues and we found it VERY helpful for him to see a psychologist. We took him to Madeline Finegold (Feingold?), who has an office in Berkeley and in Walnut Creek, and we really liked her (and so did our son!). He only went for about 5 times (and one visit for parents only), but we saw a marked improvement. Also, there was a somewhat superficial, but interesting, article in Working Mother magazine this month or last on how boys are socialized to ONLY express anger, no other emotions. Also, you may want to check out the website www.6seconds.org. Six Seconds is a non-profit that does emotional intelligence trainings for parents and teachers. FYI it takes 6 seconds for the chemical reaction of anger in the brain to dissipate, so the advice of "counting to ten" is excellent! Good luck!

    Elizabeth Ferree

    Re: Couples Therapist in Lamorinda (Sept 2003)
    Dr. Beth Ferree in Lafayette (925-284-3665) has helped us a lot. She is a great listener but quickly helps you get to the root of the problem (in a gentle, supportive way) and then gives you easy suggestions (make some time to talk, go out more as a couple, etc.) for improving your everyday relationship. She was not covered by my insurance but was worth every out-of-pocket penny. Anonymous

    RE: Couples Counseling in Lamorinda
    We use Dr. Elizabeth Ferree in Lafayette, (925) 284-3665. She has made my husband comfortable with the idea of therapy, no small task! No idea if she has openings, but you may want to give her a call.


    Leah Fisher

    Re: Couples Therapist in Lamorinda (Sept 2003)
    Leah Fisher, LCSW has an office in the Lamorinda area. 510-527-0107 She is an experienced and very reputable therapist who has over 30 years experience. From talking with her recently, I understand that in addition to the marital therapy she has offered for many years she is being certified in an approach developed by John Gottman. It sounds like a very active and apparently successful approach to marital therapy.
    Sherry Reinhardt

    Lor Fjerkenstad

    Contact information as of August 2006:
    Lor Fjerkenstad, MFT Intern, CMT
    17 Armanino Court
    Oakland, CA 94618
    (510) 594-4034
    

    Re: ''Sex-Positive'' Therapist? (July 2005)
    I saw your posting and the first therapist that came to mind is my colleague, Lor Fjerkenstad. Given the concerns listed in your posting, I believe that Lor will be a very good fit for you. She has experience working with the issues that you've discussed - the sex-trade industry and open relationships. I find her to be a very compassionate, non-judgmental therapist. Michael

    Re: Insightful marriage counselor (Feb 2005)
    My partner and I had a great experience with Lor Fjerkenstad. She is definetly a smart, insightful couples therapist. She really helped us with some difficult communication issues. What we liked about her was that she was very warm and down-to- earth. I do believe that she offers a sliding fee, but you'd have to check with her as to the fee range. Her office is located in Rockridge , about a 3 minute walk from BART. anon


    Stephen Flannes

    Re: Therapist for husband's childhood demons
    Don't know what area you live in, but Stephen Flannes in Montclair has been a tremendous help to my husband, who also has some childhood abuse issues to deal with. Steve is caring, smart, insightful, and practical. My husband has made tremendous headway with him.

    Denise Forte

    Re: Woman Therapist not too new-agey (Sept. 2001)
    I am currently seeing a wonderful down to earth therapist by the name of Denise Forte. She is a very caring, sweet lady to talk with. I almost want to call her my friend. She works with Berkeley Primary Access Clinic. She also has her own private practice as well in Berkeley on Telegraph. Nia

    Editor note: as of Jan 2006, Denise Forte can be reached at her private practice at 510 286-7615 on Alcatraz in Berkeley.


    Monica Frame

    Re: Family therapist experienced with teens (Jan 2005)
    I know of a wonderful family therapist in the Berkeley/Albany area. Her name is Monica Frame and she has lots of experience with kids, teens, and parents. You can reach her at 510/504-8168.
    Mom of Teen and almost Tween

    Jennifer Freeman

    Re: adolescent therapy (Jan 1999)
    Both of the counselors that we have seen in the past few years have experience with adolescents. Dean Lobovits and Jenny Freeman. They both practice in a building on the corner of 5th and Cedar in Berkeley. It's my impression that Dean mostly does Marriage & family counseling now, though he used to work in Teen Centers. And Jenny mostly does kids now. She saw my stepdaughter from age 10 through age 13. They are the authors of a book called "Playful Solutions to Serious Problems" (I think), which gives you an idea of their philosophy. Good luck! Dawn

    Re: Therapist for a child
    We have been very happy with Jennifer Freeman. Her office is at 5th Street and Cedar, and her phone number is 526-2336.

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    I recommend:
    Jennifer Freeman
    5th & Cedar, Berkeley
    526-2336
    Jenny has worked with our daughter from age 10 to present (13). She does child and teen therapy. She's a warm and non-threatening woman with a pleasant Austrailian accent. She's going to visit relatives in Australia for a month or so, starting next week (I think), so you might want to call right away if the situation is urgent. Good luck!


    Cynthia Front

    Re: Female therapist for relationship issues (Dec 2002)
    Dr. Cynthia Front has office hours across from the Claremont Hotel (in the complex where Peet's coffee is). I like and trust her - she's easy to talk to, and isn't as passive as some therapists, she has good suggestions.

    George Gardener

    Re: Affordable marriage counselor (Oct 2001)
    marriage counselor. George Gardener, LCSW has an office in Oakland and he is a really great therapist! His number is 482-1002 Good luck

    Re: Therapist for husband's childhood demons
    George Gardner in Oakland is an excellent therapist, specifically with men's issues. HIs number is 482-1002


    Hilary Goldstine

    Re: Seeking "wise sage" woman therapist (May 2002)
    I have seen Dr. Hilary Goldstine off and on for years, and she is wonderful. I think she probably saved my life at one point. She is very unusual in that she gives good, practical advice, and makes me feel that we are working together to figure out solutions to problems. She is consistently positive and empathetic. I like her because she doesn't dwell on unhappy childhoods, etc.,etc. - rather she is strengthening, and very much in the present. She is also very honest, and has a great sense of humor. Because of her good work I was able to get through my depression, and out of an abusive marriage, and move on with my life. Dr. Goldstine has also worked extensively with children, and she is also an authority on cults if that is of any bearing in your situation.

    Jeremy Gordon

    Re: Down-to-earth Couples Counselor near Campus (Feb 2003)
    Hi There, Jeremy Gordon with the Berkeley Therapy Institute (BTI) is the most amazing wise and wonderful therapist. There is another woman there as well and her name is Karen McLellan who is equally wise and wonderful. You can't go wrong with either! The practice is close to campus on MLK. The number is : (510) 841-8484. Good luck Stephanie

    Silvia Gorla

    Re: Kaiser Therapists for an Adult (June 2003)
    A friend of mine is a therapist at Kaiser in Walnut Creek, Silvia Gorla. I don't know her as a therapist but rather as a friend. She is very intelligent, compassionate, open -- all the wonderful things you could say about a friend. Given her relationship with me and any other friends I've seen her with, I can't imagine she would fail to provide her best in her chosen field. She's never worn a ''badge'' of feminism around me, but her life is not one lacking feminism.
    a female friend

    Erik Grabow

    Re: Marriage Counselor who accepts MHN? (Sept 2005)
    I'm not sure what insurance he accepts, but I think Erik Grabow is a wonderful therapit. He is located in south Berkeley. His number is 549-3797. Good luck!

    Victoria Green

    Re: Help with compulsive overeating (May 2005)
    I highly recommend Victoria Green, MFT. Her focus is eating disorders and food/body issues. She is also a nutritionist. Her office is located in San Francisco in Laurel Village but she will occasionally take a session over the phone if you are unable to get there. Her number is 415.974.9322. I believe her fee is $95/hour. She has also recovered from an eating disorder so she can relate on a very deep level. I encourage you to call. anon

    Sharon Gregory

    Re: Female therapist for relationship issues (Dec 2002)
    Sharon Gregory is a wonderful therapist who works in Berkeley -- her office is on Shattuck at Ashby. She's smart smart smart, and she doesn't hesitate to give her opinion or to ask tough questions. She's definitely not a sit-quietly-and-listen type. She's empathetic and kind, but she's also very professional. We did a lot of great work together, and now -- two years after my sessions with her ended -- I still use the skills she taught me and remember the advice she gave me, particularly when it comes to conflicts within my marriage. I found her quite good in helping me untangle relationship issues.

    Zona Gregory

    Re: Imago Relationship Therapy (Feb 2003)
    Zona Gregory is also an excellent couples counselor, one of the best I have ever encountered, and well-trained in Imago (she's in Berkeley and SF). I have heard Robert Jupe is excellent too, if you want a man. Cynthia

    Philip & Miriam Gross

    Re: Frustrated with child's behavior issues (Nov 2002)
    I don't have the same health insurance you have so I do not know if they are part of your plan, but I have been taking my child to see Dr. Philip Gross. My son loves him and looks forward to our visits. While my son is seeing him, my husband and I meet with his wife, Miriam, a licensed clinical social worker. Their team work is very good and we feel we are making progress in dealing with our son's behavior, which had making us crazy. Good luck. been there, tried this.

    Re: Help for 4-year-old who has trouble adjusting (June 2002)
    I would highly recommend Dr Philip Gross and his wife, Miriam Gross, who is a LCSW. They work together - your son would meet with Dr. Gross and during their session you would meet with Miriam. Miriam works with the parents on ways to handle different situations, and is most helpful. They are really wonderful and have been very helpful to us -- our son has a similar situation as you describe. Dr. Gross is in Albany, on Marin Avenue.


    Paul Guillory

    Re: African American therapist
    Regarding the request for an African-American counselor for teens-- I suggest Paul Guillory, Ph.d (psychologist). His telephone number is 451-5011. Barbara

    Howard Hamburger

    Re: Help with communication - No touchy-feely stuff (May 2004)
    My husband & I are seeing Howard Hamburger (653-6393) He's in Oakland off Piedmont Ave. We had seen two other couples counselors before (from the ucb recommendations) and while they were nice their approach didn't work for us. We are dealing with many issues - children (yes the relationship went downhill after our child was born), depression and financial stress in our life. We view life completely differently and can hardly have a conversation without arguing. With Howard's help we are slowly getting through this. He's very intuitive, does not get emotionally involved (which the others did) and knows how to keep you on track. Feel free to email me with any questions. Good luck. Until seeing Howard I had lost faith in couples counseling.

    Re: Couples Counseling
    I can strongly recommend Howard Hamburger, MFCC, as a marriage counsellor. I believe he's been at it for 20+ years and he brings a wealth of caring and insights. I don't know if he has any openings, but I expect my partner & I will be wrapping up our own sessions in the not too distant future. Unfortunately, he's neither inexpensive nor particularly close to UC: Our sessions are $90. His office is at 19 Gleneden Ave in Oakland, which is just off Piedmont Ave. near Pleasant Valley Ave. His work number is 653-6393.


    Lisa Hardy

    Re: African American therapist for teen
    Lisa Hardy is an outstanding and highly respected Psychiatrist at Children's Hospital in Oakland. She has seen numerous teens and is compassionate, sensitive and, well, magical! I was surprised not to see her name listed on previous recommendations but I know many other parents whose teens have been helped by her, as was my own (not of color). I don't know her experience with biracial and adoption issues but do know she's wonderful with adolescents. Her phone number at Childrens - 428-3571 Joan

    Pamela Fox Hargrove

    Re: Therapist to help with conflict with father (Feb 2000)
    A great marriage/family counselor is Pamela Fox Hargrove. She has offices on Piedmont Ave and in San Ramon and is really good. I don't have her number handy, but she's listed.
    Christian

    Kate Harling

    Re: Female therapist for relationship issues (Dec 2002)
    I know just the person for you. Kate Harling is a wonderful, warm, and honest woman therapist in Berkeley. Her number is 841- 0531. Danielle

    Heidi Harrison

    Re: Therapist to help with conflict with father (Feb 2000)
    A therapist I'd recommend is Heidi Harrison, MFT. She specializes in children and families and is very down to earth and direct. She also has a sense of humor, which I find very helpful in therapy work. Her number is (510)869-2342. Her office is in Montclair. I think she also has an office in albany.

    Gina Hassan

    Re: Exhausted mother of two young children Sept 1999
    I am responding to the anonymous wish for a referral to a psychotherapist who is a health net provider. I am a health net provider for CARE services, and would be happy to talk with you to see if I could be of service. My name is Gina Hassan, Ph.D., psychologist, and my office number is (510) 525-8235, I have office locations in Albany and North Berkeley.

    Mick Hausauer

    Re: Therapist for feuding mom and 15-y-o son (Sept 2004)
    I highly recommend Michael (Mick) Hausauer (4281 Piedmont, Oakland 654-2311). Mick has helped my entire family at various times over the last few years, and recently saw my son and me to help us through our communication issues (it worked!). He has also seen my son individually to help him deal with a traumatic event. Initially our son was reluctant to go to him, but we insisted he go at least three times. He ended up continuing to see him voluntarily for several months...with impressive results. Mick has a kind, low-key style (without being touchy-feely) that kids respond to. I appreciate his practical/results-oriented approach. anonymous

    Bob Heavner

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (April 2000)
    High on my list is Bob Heavner (843-4377). Bob deals almost exclusively with adolescents and their many issues, including drugs/alcohol, family issues, video/computer addictions, etc.

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    Two men I know who have good reputations for working with teen boys are:
    Dr. Bob Heavner psychologist 843-4377
    So much depends on the fit, but all are reputable and come with good recommendations.


    Mary Claire Heffron


    Toby Hendon

    Re: Hostile 11-year-old son (May 2003)
    Please don't walk, but run: first to your pediatritian for a thorough checkup and then to either a psychologist or a psychiatrist. It could be many things besides emotional issues: Non Verbal Learning Disabilities, ADD/ADHD, or even a mental health problem (depression for example). There is a wonderful MFT in Albany who specializes in kids and families, and runs social skills groups for kids with social/emotional issues. I find her empathic, experienced, and skilled.Her name is Toby Hendon.
    been theredonethat

    Re: therapist for a child
    For almost a year our 9-year-old has been attending a weekly four-child play group run by Toby Hendon (in Albany, 869-4534). It's been very good for his social skills, communication skills, and emotional stability. Toby's perceptive, gentle, intelligent, and effective; I'd recommend her for just about any child. John (6/99)


    Mary Herget

    Re: Therapist to help us heal after Infidelity (March 2005)
    Both my husband and I are eternally grateful to Dr. Mary Herget who practices in SF. She used to teach grad classes to student therapists in Berkeley and I believe she used to practice in Berkeley, but may no longer. Her number is 415-221-9973. To this day, I send a holiday card to her updating her on our family life. At one of our last sessions with her all those years ago, she asked us what she could tell her students that, in our experience, helped us begin to rebuild our relationship. We both agreed that we had to take responsibility for our part in the relationship and that both of us had a role to play in its breakdown. Now, 11 years and 3 children later, I still believe that.

    Ruth Hill

    Re: Therapist for college-aged daughter (March 2002)
    I saw Ruth Hill as a therapist on a couple of different occasions when I was in college, then graduate school. I thought she was wonderful for me at that juncture in life; supportive, reinforcing, somewhat holistic, and she helped me grapple with a couple harsh crises. She is very Jungian, and a lot of her work deals in rather abstract concepts.

    Cindy Hill-Ford

    Re: Couples Therapist in Lamorinda (Sept 2003)
    I am a Marriage & Family Therapist with an office in Lafayette and in Berkeley. I do see a lot of couples in my pratice in Lafayette. I would be happy to talk to you (or e-mail) to help find a good match for you. My office number is 925-210-9964 or e-mail. Good luck. Cindy Hill-Ford hillford AT sbcglobal.net

    Marsha Hiller

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    I highly recommend both Marsha Hiller 644-2724 and Patricia Contaxis 524-5028. They are both MFT's and have extensive experience working with couples and doing child therapy. They are excellent clinically and have impeccable ethics. Sara

    Anneke Hogeland

    Re: Recommendations for women therapists (July 1999)
    In response to the person looking for a woman therapist. I'd like to recommend Anneke Hogeland, MS, MFCC. Her office is on Solano Avenue in Berkeley. She is quite extraordinary with an emphasis on "solution oriented counseling." She is extremely dedicated to the well-being of her clients and is very skilled, insightful, warm and creative. She is also skilled in hypnotherapy. She can be reached at 510 528-4788.

    Karen Hollinger-Jackson

    Re: Therapist for anxiety and depression (Dec 2004)
    A few years ago I was experiencing panic attacks and terrible insomnia due to severe anxiety, and I had a really positive experience with Dr. Karen Hollinger-Jackson. She's in the City of Alameda. I liked her interactive style -- she listened well, but also provided suggestions rather than just leading me to answer my own questions, which I really needed and appreciated. Sympathetic

    Melissa Holub

    Re: Seeking "wise sage" woman therapist (May 2002)
    Melissa Holub, Ph.D., is wonderful -- I can't recommend her highly enough. She is in Berkeley, on Shattuck Avenue.

    Katya Hope

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    I recommend Katya Hope at 848-2109. She's very skilled, empathetic and has a strong background in working with kids with learning disabilities. She's on Delaware in Berkeley.

    Peter Howard

    Re: Couples Therapist in San Francisco (Oct 2004)
    My husband and I went to Peter Howard in SF in Pacific Heights. He is a behavioral guy, and really good. I wish I had his contact info, but don't right now. He was very insightful, and good at forcing ''balance'' between us (in our relationship, I am actually the faster talker, etc. Peter was ON me, and didn't let me zip around things). He is a *very* smart guy (not to sound like a jerk, but my husband is an attorney and I am a PhD and we have had therapists who just didn't keep up). Only downside is that he is pretty expensive (which I guess comes with the territory of being really good).
    Need a smart therapist to keep me in line!

    Joanne Long Howell

    Re: ''Sex-Positive'' Therapist? (July 2005)
    I have a recommendation for you. Joanne Long Howell, 510-848-9325. I know Joanne would be positive and accepting toward your life choices, and she has a lot of experience working with people in a similar situation as yours. Ann

    Austin Hurst

    Re: Therapist to help us heal after Infidelity (March 2005)
    A great couples' therapist is Austin Hurst, Ph.D. in Lafayette-- 945 Risa Road, Ste. A Lafayette, CA 94549(925) 283-5740. anon

    Judith Isackson

    Re: Play therapy for 5-year-old (Feb 2000)
    I love doctor Judith Isackson. She is on Solano Ave. I am not sure if she is on the Albany or Berkeley side. She has seen many of the kids I work with (I am a pre-school teacher) and she has been wonderful to work with. Thomas

    Karen Hollinger Jackson

    Re: Therapist for troubled 15-year-old (April 2002)
    A recommendation on a therapist for teens is: Karen Hollinger Jackson. Our peditricians's office recommended her and we used her for a short term issue. A slight drawback for you is that she practices in Alameda. When I asked our doctor replied that she specializes in adolescents and they have had very good feedback about her. Realizing that it takes a very special person to work with adolescents, we went to her and were impressed! Cathy

    Richelle Jacobs

    Re: Woman Therapist not too new-agey (Sept. 2001)
    Therapist: I think you would really like my therapist whose office is on Russell Street in Berkeley. Her name is Richelle Jacobs (510) 845-5178. Paula

    Beth Jaeger-Skigen

    Re: Couples Therapist in San Francisco (June 2003)
    My friend and colleague is a superb therapist (she sees couples and individuals) in SF. Her name is Beth Jaeger-Skigen and her # is (415) 317-4893. martha

    Jim Jenkins

    Re: Male therapist for general life concerns (May 2002)
    I can recommend Jim Jenkins. He is a clinical psychologist with an office in Kensington (510) 559-9963. He would be happy to speak with you to see if working with you would be helpful. ellen

    Valata Jenkins-Monroe

    Re: Therapist for teenage girl (Aug 2004)
    I highly recommend Dr. Valata Jenkins-Monroe, whose office is in Rockridge. She helped my 13-year-old daughter through a rough time. Her number is 510-547-7792.
    been there

    Alf Johnson

    Re: Male therapist for shy 17-y-o son (March 2005)
    My son has been very happy with his therapist Alf Johnson. He isn't young (50's) but he is very cool and totally able to relate to what my shy 15 year old son is going through. He was recommended to me by a therapist acquaintance who saw him with her son. His office is in Walnut Creek and his phone number is 925-952-4841. We also have seen various therapists over the years and Dr. Johnson is by far the best we've seen. best wishes

    Cheryl Jones

    Re: Therapist to help us heal after Infidelity (March 2005)
    I think that Cheryl Jones, 510-653-7374, has a good grasp on the issues surrounding marital stress and families, and what it takes to maintain a union. She certainly doesn't believe that relationships are doomed if infidelity has occurred. Anonymous

    Re: Therapist for depression (July 2001)
    I recommend Cheryl Jones as a therapist. (653-7374) I've suffered from depression for years and have gone in and out of counseling. She's the first therapist I've found who really seems able to zone in on where I get stuck and help me create concrete ways to overcome them, in addition to being empathetic and creating a space for me to express pent-up feelings. She can't prescribe meds, but she can work with your husband to figure out whether meds would help and his primary care physician probably could prescribe them. Alternatively, he could get a limited referral to a psychiatrist to get an appropriate prescription.
    (For the full message , see Husband is Depressed)


    Denah Joseph

    Re: couples therapy (May 2004)
    I don't know about the therapists you mentioned, but we have been to several different ones and can say that we have never found anyone close to the effectiveness of Denah Joseph. She doesn't beat around the bush, is fair, and pushes both members of the couple to grow individually and as a couple. She is located in Oakland on Peidmont mc

    Deborah Joy

    Re: Help with communication - No touchy-feely stuff (May 2004)
    I'd recommend Dr. Deborah Joy (phone: 524-8284, practice is on Solano in Albany). She's very smart and compassionate, and good at helping couples work on practical communication skills and reestablishing loving feelings. The emphasis is building the positive in your relationship, and working through problems without getting mired in blame-throwing and anger. She's helped us with some of the exact issues you mention: making a decision about a second child when the first (though deeply loved) stressed our marriage, dealing with a period of infertility (which she herself struggled with, having a child fairly late in life), and anger management. We were in bad shape when we started with her, and are on much more solid ground now...and happily expecting our second child. Good luck to you!

    Re: Couples Counseling
    I HIGHLY, HIGHLY recommend Deborah Joy, PhD, in North Berkeley, at 524-8284. She helped put my 15 year relationship and 9 year marriage back together so that we're much better together than we had ever been before. One less divorce, one more in-tact family, and one more satisfying and hope-filled love affair later, I don't think we could have done it without her. Deborah is highly intelligent, highly intuitive, and I can't recommend her enough. Best of luck.

    Re: Sexual Abuse (Dec 2002)
    An excellent therapist who deals primarily with issues of abuse is Dr. Deborah Joy, PhD. She is in the North Berkeley/Albany area. Her phone number is 510 524-8282.


    Colorado Kagan

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (April 2000)
    Colorado Kagan (297-4937) has a softer, nurturing style for a teen who needs to be drawn out.

    Susan J. Kahn

    RE: Help with couples' communication (Sept 2005)
    Sorry to hear you're going through rough times. I'd like to recommend Susan J. Kahn (she goes by S.J.). She's located on College Ave. in Rockridge. I can't find her number at the moment, but she's really great. -been there in Berkeley

    Milton Kalish

    Re: Divorce & Children's Issues
    Milton Kalish, LCSW, holds class sessions for children of divorce at the Lafayette Orinda Pres. Church (classes have nothing to do with the church). They are held simultaneously with the parenting group which meets every Monday evening at 6:30. (These meetings are great, by the way, with childcare provided, all for $3.00!) So you're both learning and receiving support!

    He has about three 8-week sessions per year at a cost of I believe $60. He is extremely compassionate and loving, uses art and games to draw out the children's feelings. My 7 year old daughter likes it a lot and always begs to go. He MAY have an Oakland location, too. His number in Lafayette is 925/299-0924. Mari


    Jane Kaplan

    Re: Eating disorder (2001)
    in reply to the Eating Disorder "advice wanted" entry: Jane Kaplan is an experienced therapist who specializes in eating disorders. Her practice is in Albany

    Fortunee Kayra-Stuart

    Re: Play therapy for 5-year-old (Feb 2000)
    I highly recommend Dr. Fortunee Kayra-Stuart located both in Berkeley on 9th Street (near the West Side Cafe) and in Walnut Creek. My child has been seeing Dr. Stuart for the last 4 months for similar issues that you mentioned and we have found her help to be incredible. We have Health Net so we had to go thru the magic UC Mangaged Care phone number, but it's worth the $20 co-pay. Dr Stuart's # is 510-549-0181.

    Virginia Keeler-Wolf


    Gene Kennedy

    Re: Insightful marriage counselor (Feb 2005)
    My husband and I have gone to see Gene Kennedy in Oakland. I don't have his number on me right now, but he is in the yellow pages. His office is on Telegraph near Alcatraz. He really helps us to communicate with each other, and he's funny, too! anon

    Charles King

    Re: Therapist for husband's sexual addiction (Sept 2004)
    My husband saw Dr. Charles King in Berkeley for therapy after I discovered his sex addiction problem. My husband was very willing to go to therapy. (He also tried going to an SAA (Sex Addicts Annonymous) meeting, and liked it, but found one on one therapy more appealing.) Our schedule at first was for him to go every week, but I accompanied him on alternate weeks so that we could do couples work to facilitate his recovery. After a year and a half or so we were able to taper off to two appointments a month, one with me, and one without. After a year of that my husband was recovered enough that we decided to just do couples work. And now after a year of that we are ''fixed''. But as a caution... therapy only works if the people involved are willing to change. Give therapy a try, but also be prepared to make some hard choices.

    Kim Kluger-Bell

    Re: Therapist to help with miscarriage grief (June 2003)
    To help you with your loss, I highly recommend Kim Kluger-Bell, whose office is on Solano Avenue, 524-1475. I have no idea if Kim takes Pacificare, but I do know she has worked with people in the past to get on their insurance. Kim has written a seminole book on pregnancy loss, called Unspeakable Losses. If you can't get to see her, I at least highly recommend you read her book. Of all the books available about miscarriage, I consider hers the best. My husband and I were patients of Kim's for a while to help us with relationship problems stemming from multiple losses. We both enjoyed seeing her and found her to be both compassionate and practical in her approach. I hope you can manage to see Kim. I don't think you'll be disappointed. Amy

    Re: Therapist to help with miscarriage grief (June 2003)
    Kim Kluger-Bell MFCC, is an excellent therapist who specializes in helping women with fertility issues and miscarriage. 510-524-1475. She has written a helpful book, Unspeakable Losses, Understanding the Experience of Pregnancy Loss, Miscarriage, and Abortion. Her practice is in Albany on Solano Ave. I don't know if she is on your list of providers, but she may be able to recommend another therapist if you need it.

    Re: Therapist for Infertility & Pregnancy Loss (Oct 2001)
    I have heard that Kim Kluger-Bell on Solano Avenue is quite skilled in this area. She also has a book out called "Unspeakable Losses" -- I am sure you can find it on Amazon. Best of luck. Dayna


    Karl Knobler

    Re: Therapist for husband's childhood demons
    I'd like to refer Karl Knobler, who is located above the ACCI Gallery on Lincoln and Shattuck Avenue in North Berkeley (2046 Lincoln)-- he is a patient and kind person -- and I've heard great feedback about him from the people I've referred to him. I've referred men, women, and couples to him, and they all have appreciated his very relaxed manner and professionalism. his phone # is 510-849-0945. Christine

    Sue Kramer

    Re: Imago Relationship Therapy (Feb 2003)
    I have been a psychotherapist for the past 20 yrs, and do know about Imago and Harville Hendrix. Sue Kramer is the only one I know of that list and she is great. She has been a therapist for some 30 years, and has had extensive training in Imago work. She sees many couples and has a very grounded, to-the- point, wise, and kind way of expressing herself.

    Candice Kunz

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (June 1999)
    This is in response to needing a recommendation for a therapist or counselor for teenagers. We found Candice Kunz in Concord to be extremely helpful and insightful. Her telephone number is (510) 687-2132.

    Kathy Labriola

    Re: ''Sex-Positive'' Therapist? (July 2005)
    I haven't seen this person myself, but she came highly recommended by someone I trust deeply who lives an alternative lifestyle. You might give her a call and see what you think. Kathy Labriola. I went with someone else because some of my issues involved the very friend that made the recommendation and that didn't feel comfortable to me. Good luck!! Anon

    Mario LaMort

    Re: counseling for adolescent (Jan 1999)
    For the person looking for a counselor for a child/young adult I highly recommend Mario LaMort. He is in San Anselmo and well worth the drive. He is very direct and can zone in on what the problem is and how to work with it. Although we have not had occasion to take our child to him two close friends have taken their children and been very pleased. He is involved with the schools there, working with kids in group settings and also has a private practice. His # is 415-457-8547.

    Anya Lane

    Re: Therapist in SF for teen's eating disorder (Jan 2005)
    Anya Lane DMH in San Francisco is excellent with teenagers and eating disorders. She can be reached at (415) 346-1466. Jules

    Linea Larsen

    Re: Recommendations for women therapists (July 1999)
    I highly recommend Linea Larsen. She has an office on Marin Avenue in Albany. She is a very good therapist. She has training in EMDR (Rapid eye movement therapy) for trauma therapy and is skilled in general family-issue therapy. She helped me with my parenting issues and post-partum depression. She charges on a sliding scale basis.

    Linda Lawton


    Mai Le

    Re: Couples counselor for Cross-cultural relationship (April 2003)
    Mai Le is a fantastic couples counselor, although I don't know if she has specifically addressed Latina/American issues. However, she is Vietnamese, and her husband American, so I am sure she is familiar with cross-cultural issues. I cannot say enough good things about Mai, I adore her! She has 2 offices, one in SF, and one in Berkeley. Here is her number: (415) 928- 6736. Good luck! kelly

    Ilene Lee

    Re: Therapist for Preschooler (Feb 2003)
    We know of an excellent ''floortime specialist'' who trained with Stanley Greenspan. She can work with your child in your home and also train family members to foster communication through a relational approach. Please call me for details about Ilene Lee, PhD. M.L.

    Daniel Lesny

    Re: Male therapist for shy 17-y-o son (March 2005)
    My husband and I have worked with Daniel Lesny at Center for Creative Growth, on Marin Ave in Albany, phone 527- 2100, for many years. It was a challenge for my husband to go in the first place, and now he is seeking help from Daniel when he needs it. I know Daniel has experience with teens. Call him; there are also several other therapists there, highly recommended. Diane

    Jeanne Leventhal

    Re: Post-partum depression (April 2000)
    One of the Bay Area specialists in postpartum depression and also in womens hormones and mental well being is at Kaiser Oakland. Dr. Jeanne Leventhal in the Department of Psychiatry.(This is number for her nurse. I don't know if it is the way to make an appointment, but try it 596-7899) Sherry

    Richard Levine

    Re: Psychiatrist for Bi-polar son (Oct 2002)
    Richard Levine is an excellent psychiatrist. His office is in Berkeley. Telephone # is (510) 540-1746 good luck

    Re: husband is depressed (March 2002)
    I have been using a wonderful and highly recommended psychiatrist, who is really a 'mensch' - Richard Levine, MD for many years for familial depression. He's very up to date on the latest treatments, both prescription and therapeutic, is wonderfully compassionate, and has been an absolute lifesaver. I've sent several friends, all who have been very pleased. His phone is 540-1746. His receptionist's name is Claudia. His office is at 1749 MLK between Francisco and Delaware. They do bill insurance Hope this helps. Joan


    Miriam Levine-Alcala

    Re: Therapist for Step parenting issues (Feb 1999)
    Yes there are very unique and challenging aspects of Step parenting. There are two wonderful people who I can recommend in this area. Miriam Levine- Alcala , LCSW 1035 San Pablo Ave. #9 Albany 94706 525-7669/420-1238 mess. Step Parenting Groups and Family/ Couple / Individual Counseling

    Lenny Levis


    Howard Liebgold "Dr. Fear"


    Larry Liebman

    Re: Psychiatric services at Kaiser for 10 year old (Jan 2003)
    While I know you're asking about a psychiatrist, if you're interested in going the therapy route I HIGHLY recommend Larry Liebman. My 8 year old son has been visiting him for a couple of months and while my son still struggles, it has helped immensely. They have developed a great repoire, and he is very open to working with the entire family, if you desire.

    Joyce Lindenbaum

    Re: Depressed Partner Couples Therapist (Sept 2004)
    went through the same exact issue with my husband. Joyce Lindenbaum was our savior. on college near Diesel Books. Ph: (510) 601-9171 Anon

    Re: Affordable marriage counselor (Oct 2001)
    we saw Joyce Lindenbaum, LCSW, on College Ave in the Rockridge area. It was many years ago so the price would be outdated, but she was flexible in reducing the fee for us. Even so, it was a stretch financially, but we figured we could put off saving money to buy a house so that we'd have the best shot at wanting to live in it together! Joyce was a tremendous help and I recommend her highly Tony

    Editor Note: as of 2006, Joyce Linderbaum is not working on sliding scale


    Gail Lindsay

    Re: Down-to-earth Couples Counselor near Campus (Feb 2003)
    My husband and I loved our couples counselor. She is down to earth and close to campus (Carlton and Telegraph). Her name is Gail Lindsay and her number is 433-9785. Danielle

    Scott Lines

    Jan 1999
    Re: adolescent therapy
    I have recommendations for two therapists that my family has used and were very pleased with:
    Scott Lines Ph.D.
    5435 College Av
    Oakland
    482-8460

    Scott Lines was very helpful to my husband, our children, and me when he was doing a post-doc at Kaiser Oakland in 1993. We consulted with him for a "second-opinion" and were very impressed with him for the few months we saw him. Circumstances with 10 visit limit at Kaiser neccessitated that we go elswhere for long-term therapy. Scott was very perceptive. It seems that his advice and diagnosis certainly were on target. He really knew what he was talking about! The kids liked him too, though they weren't with him too long. Good luck!


    Dean Lobovits

    Re: Family therapist (Jan 1999)
    We were very pleased with the family therapy we received from Dean Lobovits. He is an MFCC, and his office is in Berkeley, not far from the 4th Street Shopping area. His phone number is 527-4569. We saw him in many configurations: As a couple's counselor; as a family counselor with my stepdaughter; with various important people in our lives for a single session (such as my mother, for instance). He has experience with kids and teens, and he's not attached to any particular structure for a family: whatever works for you is OK. I cannot recommend him highly enough. Dawn

    RE: counselor for adolescent (Jan 1999)
    Both of the counselors that we have seen in the past few years have experience with adolescents. Dean Lobovits and Jenny Freeman. They both practice in a building on the corner of 5th and Cedar in Berkeley. It's my impression that Dean mostly does Marriage & family counseling now, though he used to work in Teen Centers. And Jenny mostly does kids now. She saw my stepdaughter from age 10 through age 13. They are the authors of a book called "Playful Solutions to Serious Problems" (I think), which gives you an idea of their philosophy. Good luck! Dawn

    Re: Couples Counseling
    We love our counselor, Dean Lobovits. He has an office at 5th and Cedar. Great guy, very perceptive. He might be a bit too much of a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) for you, though. I'd schedule a trial visit/interview, and see what you think.

    By way of contrast, I worked with another counselor years ago. Her first name was Barbara--can't remember her last name (which should tell you something!). My experience with her was so negative it took me years to get over it. Dean has rehabilitated the whole species of couple's counselors for me! I can't recommend him highly enough.

    Regarding coverage, Dean is NOT on Health Net, but he does take Blue Cross Prudent Buyer, and many other PPO's. Usually, HMO's provide very limited Mental Health benefits. Often, it's something like 5 to 20 visits per year, with a co-pay of $20 to $30, and you have to use THEIR therapists (which are very few in number). And you have to have your Personal Care Physician recommend that you do it. Very complex, and almost never worth it, in my opinion.

    Re: Bi-lingual therapist
    I would recommend (again) our therapist, Dean Lobovits. I don't know if he speaks Spanish, but he and his wife are of different nationalities, he American, she Australian. They both practice at 5th and Cedar in Berkeley (she does more child therapy; he more couples work). 527-4569.


    Dana Locke

    Re: Depressed Partner Couples Therapist (Sept 2004)
    Dana Locke is a thoughtful, warm, insightful individual and couples'psychotherapist with an interactive style. She will definitely address the impact of your husband's depression on the marriage. She leaves no stones unturned. Her office is conveniently located at the corner of Claremont and College. Her number is 510-655-2823.
    Julie

    Janet Long

    Re: Pre-teen asking for counseling (April 2003)
    For counseling for the preteen-- Janet Long is a wonderful art therapist who works with adolescent and pre-adolescent children. She has been doing art therapy and teaching it for a long time. She is smart and easy to be with and talk to. Her phone number is 531-3267. Christine

    Michael Loose

    Re: Psychiatrist for teen's anxiety attacks (Sept 2001)
    If you are able to submit a bill to your insurance company I highly recommend Dr. Michael Loose, MD. (He does not accept insurance of any kind.) He's in Walnut Creek, very near John Muir Hospital, 925-944-2404 at 177 La Casa Via. Dr. Loose is also on the staff at the Mt. Diablo Hospital adolescent psych unit so he sees lots of teenagers. My child really likes his caring style.

    Jose Lopez

    Re: Kaiser Therapist for Spirited Child (March 2003)
    Oakland Kaiser used to have a group program for elementary school age kids but I'm not sure if they still do. We had Dr. Jose Lopez when we needed a specialist to work with our shy 4-y- o and found Dr. Lopez to be kind, gentle and patient, although he didn't seem to take much of what we said (our self- diagnosis?) into consideration when he began working with our kid. He also seems to have lots of experience working with pre- teen kids on a variety of issues. By the way, if a therapist doesn't work out after you make an effort to make things work, switch to another one. That's what my therapist friend told me.

    Loland Lowe

    Re: African-American Couples' Counselor (Feb 2005)
    I would recommend Dr. Loland Lowe. He is African American, in his mid 50's, and is my marriage counselor. He is located in Oakland, near Summitt Medical Center. I find him to be objective which is something that our marriage needed and communication is what we are working on right now. Here's his contact information.
    Dr. Loland Lowe
    350 30th Street, Suite 550
    Oakland, CA
    (510) 206-6029
    

    Howard Lunche

    Re: Grief Counselor (Nov 2001)
    I don't have information about any of the names you posted, but I thought I'd recommend another therapist in case you're interested, because I found him so extremely helpful. I saw Howard Lunche (LCSW) for bereavement counseling after my brother died, and I can't say enough good things about him. He balanced his listening and talking very well, he remembered every single detail I ever told him about my brother, and he seemed to have perfect insight into how I was feeling and the development of my grief process. One last thing (and take it for what it's worth--I don't know if this describes your situation)... I noticed that all the people you listed were women... when I was looking for a grief counselor, I thought I would prefer a woman, but I decided I'd interview all 3 of the people I'd been referred to (including Howard). But even in that initial phone call, Howard was head and shoulders above the others. He's in the phone book... give him a call. Kristine

    Re: Grief Counselor (Nov 2001)
    For the person requesting recommendations for grief counselors, although not on your list, I would like to recommend a therapist who helped me work through some extremely difficult issues around my father's death. His name is Howard Lunche, and he is an MSW in private practice specializing in grief. Howard worked with Hospice for many years, and he was recommended to me through my family doctor, who suggested that I take his Grief Education class. This class is held the third Saturday of each month at Alta Bates Herrick campus from 10 AM till 12 noon. If you are interested in attending, you just need to call him to let him know you would like to come. He only charges $10 for this class. He provides valuable information about what grief is all about (and it is different for everyone). He also gives out a wonderful no-nonsense booklet that he authored on the subject. To sign up for the class, call Howard at 841-2930.

    I think grief is a very, very specific issue, and to be honest, I don't know how many therapists are really qualified to deal with it. My father's death and dying affected every facet of my life. My husband attended the class, and it gave him a better understanding of why I was feeling and behaving the way I was. I am forever indebted to Howard and I cannot say enough good things about him.

    By the way, I was seeing another therapist while my father was dying as well as for awhile after he died. I wish I had met Howard sooner, as I am convinced it would have helped me to have a more meaningful experience. The other therapist was not equipped to help me, but what was unfortunate, is that she did not have the humanity nor the professionalism to admit this to me. I wasted precious time with my father that I can never retrieve.

    Re: Grief Counselor (Nov 2001)
    I would also recommend Howard Lunche in Berkeley. He is gentle, compassionate, concerned, and really sees who you are. Leah


    Phyllis Mace

    Re: Counselor/therapist for 13-year-old (Aug 2002)
    I highly recommend Phyllis Mace as a wonderful therapist to work with on teen issues. She knows a lot about the schools in the area, and the different issues at different schools. Also excellent at working with parents and/or students to help figure out what will motivate a student, what type of support he/she may need, etc... Her phone number is 704-8455, and she is located at 5435 College Ave. in Oakland, in the Rockridge Area. It's a bit of a trek from Berkeley, but I think she's great.

    Re: Therapist who works with teenagers (April 2000)
    Phyllis Mace (704-8455) has been effective in getting our teen daughter through a turbulent, defiant adolescence.


    Shane MacKay

    Re: Therapist for anxiety and depression (June 2004)
    Try Dr. Shane MacKay on MLK in Berkeley. He treated my depression and anxiety and I'm very happy with the results. He has a very low-key respectful attitude.

    Paul Malkin

    Re: CBT Therapist for anxiety disorders (Jan 2005)
    I highly recommend Paul Malkin, he's a cognitive behaviorial therapist in Oakland. I don't know if he has specific expertise in anxiety disorders since that is not my issue but I have found him extremely helpful in working on my distorted thoughts. Paul Malkin, 510-494-0328.

    Yvonne Mansell

    Re: Female therapist for relationship issues (Dec 2002)
    I want to recommend my therapist Yvonne Mansell, MFT. I was looking for someone who is non-judgemental, and not only did I find that, but I learned how judgemental I am of myself. In therapy I learned to lighten up and then find compassion for myself. I had been in psychotherapy before, but at this point in my life, I needed a spiritual approach to look at what was going on with me, because the other ways weren't working. I needed a new way to work with what was bothering me. I was very involved with and very attracted to the Buddhist approach and Yvonne was able to point out the things I already had read or knew, and remind me of them. Because of my appreciation of the teachings I had to stop and listen... maybe there was something to what she was saying ... and I learned to apply the teachings in new ways. She brings a passion for Buddhism and psychotherapy that was just so useful for me.Yvonne is seemingly non-directive, but with humor, she made me look in new ways at myself. She made a very sweet and delicate impression to me at first, but I learned that she is not like that at all. I really felt that I could express myself exactly as I was, and that made me very comfortable. I need to be able to talk how I think, and I really felt heard. One other point is that Yvonne is willing as a therapist to reveal some of her emotions or character flaws that make her more real, and brings less of a ''sterile'' or non-personal approach than other therapists might use. Her office is actually not in Berkeley, but just over the border in Albany. You can reach her at 528-9551. Susan

    Vicky Marlow

    March 2003
    Regarding Kaiser couples counseling in the most recent newsletter. I can understand your frustration if this is your first baby. I wish I had gone to counseling for my first one too. However, we did not start couple counseling until our second baby. My counselor is great. Her name is Vicky Marlow in Lafayette and her phone # is (925) 254-4807. If you or your husband are working, ask your personnel office if you qualify for the Employee Assistance Program. This is a program that allows you to seek counseling for your kids, marriage or individual for free. It is completly confidential. Vicky accepts this program. ESP bills her and I do not pay anything or deal with any paperwork. IT'S GREAT!!! My husband and I work at the same place so we each get 6 session every 6 month. That means we have 12 free counseling sections every 6 months. I strongly recommend this program because you do not want to add any more financial burden to your problems. Hang in there. It gets easier with time. Good Luck!!! anon

    Audry Martin

    Re: Therapist for Lesbian Couple (March 2004)
    My partner and I saw Audrey Martin (Oceanview Ave. N. Oakland) about 7-8 years ago now and thought she was really good. I'd also recommend Susan Morton in Berkeley. Good Luck

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    Couple of people come to mind initially:
    Audry Martin 428-1505
    Leslie Sternin 524-7705
    Adria Blum 486-8146
    All are experienced and lovely woman. I always recommend people talk with a few people to get a feel for differences and who feels most comfortable, especially when there are two people trying to feel safe. Sherry


    Matthew Marzell

    Re: Post-partum Issues Couples Therapist (Sept 2004)
    I highly recommend Matthew Marzell for couples counseling and couples communications issues. He is going to be doing some couples workshops and he also has expertise working with entire families and individuals. My husband and I were recommended to him by a trusted friend who has had many experiences with various therapists over the years. My friend said that Matthew was the most effective counselor he had ever come across and that with Matthew's tools he and his wife had been able to deal with issues faster than he ever had with other therapists. I found my friend's comments to be completely true. Matthew is aggressive, but in a really good way. He helps you identify commitments that you want to make in your life and helps you stick to them. My husband and I went to him when our relationship was truly falling apart and infidelity had become an issue. Matthew has an approach that worked wonders for us. He's a fantastic relationship coach and if it wasn't for him, I don't know if I'd still be married. Matthew is not a licensed therapist; he's a counselor with many years of experience. I was a little hesitant about going to someone who isn't licensed, but he's completely professional and I think he whipped us into shape faster than months and months of slow therapy ever would. He's great! Both my husband and I were both doing our own individual therapy when we started seeing Matthew (because we were in such crisis), but we actually stopped seeing our individual therapists because we thought Matthew was so effective. He's in Martinez - an easy drive from Berkeley. You can give Matthew a call at 925-229-3260. I'm also happy to talk to anyone and give more detail about him.

    Laura Mason

    Re: Female therapist for relationship issues (Dec 2002)
    I've seen Laura Mason, and liked her. She's smart, insightful, and down-to-earth. She's on Santa Fe near Solano. Phone 526-3600. Susan

    David Max

    Re: Couples Counseling
    David Max is an excellent couples counselor. He has this canny ability to teach you how to hear what the other person is saying and at the same time to feel that he has supported both of you. I believe his telephone number is (510) 428-1671.

    Vicki McGuire

    Re: Therapist for lesbian couple with kids (2001)
    I am a a therapist who has experience working with lesbian couples, and I also have a good understanding of parenting and children's issues in lesbian families. I would be glad to talk with you. I also have good referrals as many people like to interview 2 or 3 therapists to see who is the most comfortable match for them as individuals. Vicki McGuire, MFT 654-4560

    Donald McKillop

    Re: Couples Counseling
    I understand your situation and can greatly empathize. My husband and I have had a long, rocky road. We started seeing a therapist together about 2 years ago before we were even married. I highly recommend our therapist, Dr. Donald McKillop. He is an excellant, compassionate therapist and a wonderful human being. And, he practices here in Berkeley on Channing so he's walking distance to the campus. In the mean time, hang in there. I know what its like to be pregnant and contemplating a divorce. I was there not too long ago. There are services around to help. It just might take a little research to find more info about them.

    Barbara McMahon

    Re: Helping couple through divorce
    A therapist named Barbara McMahon has a group for people in transition, primarily divorce and separation. Over the years, she has been very helpful to a number of people who I have referred to her. Number is 925-254-8510.
    Sherry Reinhardt (June 1999)

    Jeff Meeker

    Re: Couples Therapist in San Francisco (June 2003)
    my husband and i went to jeff meeker. he's sensitive, intuitive, and balanced. we saw him through some stressful times for about 12 sessions. he practices at networks counseling center on clement street near 19th ave. we learned communication skills that enhanced our relationship considerably. good luck

    Jeanne Menary

    Re: Marriage Counselor who accepts MHN? (Sept 2005)
    My husband and I were very happy with Jeanne Menary, who takes MHN. I don't have her # offhand, but you can find it by googling her. She made us both feel comfortable and had a smart, perceptive way of framing our issues. anon

    Re: Therapist for college-aged daughter (March 2002)
    I had several sessions with Jeanne Menary and liked her very much. I chose her specifically for her expertise in helping people cope with pregnancy loss, but our work spilled into many other areas as well. I highly recommend her, if your daughter feels comfortable with her, and would consider going back to her for general