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Therapist for infertility issues

August 2006

Can anyone recommend a good therapist for inferility issues who also would be considered in network for United Healthcare? I would prefer Oakland or Berkeley if possible and someone who had flexible hours (after work or weekends). Thanks anon


I highly, highly, highly recommend Kim Kluger-Bell, a psychotherapist and MFT in private practice on Solano Avenue in Berkeley. She is truly amazing and an incredible person to talk to about infertility. I had many sessions with her and her pervasive knowledge on the topic and her ease in which to allow her patients to cry and laugh is incredible. I am not sure about the insurance, but you can call her and ask, she is very welcoming on the phone. She also wrote a book titled ''Unforgettable Losses'' (you can find it on amazon.com I believe) that I read and found to be very helpful. Her office number is 510-524-1475. Good luck Dana

Therapist for infertility/pregnancy issues

April 2006

I would love to get names of some therapists (perferably in Oakland or Berkeley) who are good to talk to about infertility and the difficulties I am having conceiving. Thanks anon


My heart goes out to you. I endured the suffering for 7 years. My thought is that a really good therapist generally will be able to help. You can try Rose Phelps 510-658-4344, she is great. I remember that talking to other people who were going thru the same thing at the same time was often depressing; maybe talking to someone who is finished with the process might help. I've never given my info out before but if you want anyone to talk to, please email me.
Contact Donna Rothert, Ph.D. at (510)273-9548. She is part of Perinatal Psychotherapy Services, a collective that specializes in infertility and other issues surrounding pregnancy. anon
Gina Hassan is a psychologist in Berkeley who specializes in infertility and pregnancy issues. She's smart, warm and has a lot of experience in working with people through this experience. She's located on Shattuck near Cafe de la Paz. Good luck anon
I wanted to respond to the request for a therapist who specializes in infertility/pregnancy issues. Sheila Longerbean, MFT is a practices on Piedmont Avenue and works with these issues. I've found her to be a very compassionate and caring therapist. I believe her number is: 510-595-4664. Celeste
To find a therapist, you could check with Resolve (www.resolvenc.org). Dave

Secondary infertility therapist needed

Nov 2005

I am in need of a therapist to deal with secondary infertility issues. I need someone very smart and directive who can help me find tools to work with all the fears and sorrows this journey toward a second child has raised. I've check the web but would don't find much on the people my insurance covers. Does anyone have any experience or information working with anyone covered through United Behavioral Health? Thank you!


Peggy Orlin works at Pacific Fertility Clinic. If you just google her name, you'll get to their site and read her impressive bio, one which makes her sound well-suited to your needs. She specializes in infertility issues. We saw her for one mandatory meeting and liked her fine, but I honestly can't remember much because we ended up working with a different clinic, and pretty long ago at that. I'm sorry for your tough emotional time. Walking down that infertility road was about the hardest thing I (and we) have ever had to do. But I have to say, the demands of that journey also deepened us as people. Good luck. anon
We have nothing but praise for Dr. Cary Littell who is on your list. We now have a 3 1/2 year relationship with her dealing with an extremely difficult situation and cannot speak highly enough of her. She is insightful, compassionate and very respectful and supportive. Anon
I recommend Kim Kluger-Bell. She has a specialty in infertility- related therapy. I don't know if she's covered by your insurance (was not in your list) but you might check to see if she can be added as a provider. Her office is on Solano. She's very focused on developing action plans that CAN be implemented. Anon

Weighing adoption vs. donor eggs

July 2003

We're looking for a licensed therapist (preferably in the Oakland area) who can help us weigh the pros and cons of adoption vs. donor eggs. Thanks for any recommendations.
Wanna baby


I highly recommend Anne Bernstein who helped us with a similar decision. Phone: 549-0598. Office: 2955 Shattuck near Ashby. She is an incredibly skilled therapist with a great deal of experience working with people on ''family-building choices'' and how children deal with having ''unusual origins.''
Hi, My sister works at a fertility clinic in SF. I asked her if she could recommend a therapist for your adoption/donor egg concerns and this was her reply: Her name is Peggy Orlin and she has a private practice in the east bay (i think Oakland or Berkeley). Don't know her number but she is listed. They should also look at www.resolve.org; then link over to the NC chapter. Hope this helps, Michelle
We used Dr. Ellie Schwartzman. Her office is on Piedmont Ave, (510) 869-1339. She was recommended to us by Dr. Eldon Schriock. She has gone through fertility treatments herself and understands what you are going through. She helped us through adoption vs. donor egg vs. no more kids. Friends of ours used her as well and thought she was biased toward donor egg. We didn't think so. I still go to her for general counseling. Happy mom

Therapist to help with miscarriage grief

June 2003

I experienced a miscarriage in January and realize now that I need help working through the grieving process. This has also affected my relationship and I think I need some counseling in that area as well. Can anyone recommend an experienced woman therapist, preferably someone who takes Pacificare? I reviewed previous postings but did not find anyone who was reviewed and on my provider list. Thank you very much. Anonymous


To help you with your loss, I highly recommend Kim Kluger-Bell, whose office is on Solano Avenue, 524-1475. I have no idea if Kim takes Pacificare, but I do know she has worked with people in the past to get on their insurance. Kim has written a seminole book on pregnancy loss, called Unspeakable Losses. If you can't get to see her, I at least highly recommend you read her book. Of all the books available about miscarriage, I consider hers the best. My husband and I were patients of Kim's for a while to help us with relationship problems stemming from multiple losses. We both enjoyed seeing her and found her to be both compassionate and practical in her approach. I hope you can manage to see Kim. I don't think you'll be disappointed. Amy
Kim Kluger-Bell MFCC, is an excellent therapist who specializes in helping women with fertility issues and miscarriage. 510-524-1475. She has written a helpful book, Unspeakable Losses, Understanding the Experience of Pregnancy Loss, Miscarriage, and Abortion. Her practice is in Albany on Solano Ave. I don't know if she is on your list of providers, but she may be able to recommend another therapist if you need it.

Therapist for pregnancy loss & infertility

October 2001

I received names of following counselors from my insurance company and I would like to hear from people about them. I occasionally feel that I wish I had a counselor that I could talk to about just daily life issues. I also have had infertility issue as well as pregnancy losses. I would like a counselor who is especially sensitive to those issues related to pregnancy. Does anyone know if one of those counselors listed above may meet my need?


I have heard that Kim Kluger-Bell on Solano Avenue is quite skilled in this area. She also has a book out called "Unspeakable Losses" -- I am sure you can find it on Amazon. Best of luck. Dayna
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