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My question is to families with kids in private high school who have decided to foot a
bill that stretches their family resources. One of the school we talked to ($30,000+
tuition) discussed that it was a ''value proposition'' in terms of their future. How is
this working out for you and your child? My child is most interested in College Prep so I
would love to hear particularly from these parents as we wait for admissions decisions. I
can see it might help with college admissions primarily in terms of supporting the kids
toward putting forth the best applications, although high-achievers at Berkeley High also
do well, but it does not seem like merit scholarships to college can be depended on even
for the kids with stellar grades, so that is not part of the value equation. We have a
kid at Berkeley High and are satisfied overall and do not have serious reservations about
public education. We just have a feeling that private high school might be a better fit
for this particular kid.
Background: I have a highly motivated and high achieving 8th grader- other than buying
supplies for projects, we have never even had to monitor his work (no Tiger parents,
working too hard to afford private middle school) and he is top of his class in one of
the more academic private middle schools, plus he has a good group of friends who enrich
his life by sharing in his love of learning. Our biggest challenge is that which many
parents will know well- he thinks he knows it all and all our decrees should be up for
discussion. His older sibling at Berkeley High and glad to have ''gone public''. He is
interested in private high school for a consistent level of challenge with teachers who
are given the time and resources to have deep discussions and interactions, and in the
hopes of having the ability to find a group of kids where he can be himself.
We would not
be eligible for financial aid with 2 incomes, but we would have to continue to make
sacrifices for private school: old cars, markedly deferred maintenance on our home, not
saving enough for retirement, vacations usually staycations. The biggest deal is that we
could not save for his college either- so these sacrifices will be for 8 years if we hope
to help out. In fact, a frustration with private school is that the double-income,
no-financial-aid families seem more stressed and unable to enjoy being part of a school
community, than single income families who are eligible for aid- we're not talking about
the very wealthy in either case.
Please help us with this complex equation. I know I am missing some of the intangibles of
private HS as many folks have made that choice.
parent trying to do her best
I don't think your presumption that being dual-income automatically disqualifies
you for financial aid is valid. In fact I believe all the schools assume, as a
matter of fairness, that for two parent households both parents will work. It
would be your income/asset level that is relevant. At our child's private high
school they state that, in fact, the majority of financial aid ends up going to
families in the $100K-$180K income range. This IS the Bay Area after all. Of
course, even with financial aid you will still face some of the challenges you
If your kid would be happier at a private high school, that is a good reason to
send him. But, I'm not sure about the value proposition of a private high school
education compared to BHS. Lots of BHS students are currently attending excellent
colleges alongside kids who went to local private high schools.
''Value'' is, by definition, subjective. Every family has different variables,
and only you can weigh them and assess the value of a private school education
for this kid and for your family. I'm not sure anyone can help, but I will try.
My sons went to CPS; one is in college, one is now a Senior. CPS is an
extraordinary place. I have never seen such a group of engaged and bright
students, or gifted teachers, as I have seen there. I just went to the
student-run Cabaret Night. The talent of the kids was breathtaking, the
enthusiasm and support from their friends in the audience was heart-warming.
CPS's small size means no one can back-bench the education. The teachers really
get to know the students and vice versa. My Senior loves his classes, his
activities, his teachers, and his friends. He keeps saying how happy he is at CPS
-- particularly that he has found a community of kids who don't think it is weird
to be smart, read The Economist, or quote Shakespeare. Both my sons have gotten
a superb education at CPS -- learned to write well, and to think deeply and
broadly and for themselves. I am grateful there is a school like that for my
But be forewarned: Your kid, however bright, will be average at CPS. All the
kids are smart, and many are scary smart. Different kids respond differently to
that environment. My older son found it deflating; he had effortlessly excelled
in school before, and was discouraged to work way harder for less stellar grades.
The academic challenge undermined his confidence. My younger son is more
academically motivated and is exhilarated by the intellectual environment. He is
not undone by the high standards, even if it means he gets some B's. How will
your son deal with not being the smartest in the class?
On college admissions: CPS has great reputation with the colleges, which go
deeper into the class to accept CPS kids. But the top colleges still expect top
grades, and it is not easy to get top grades at CPS. I wouldn't go there on the
expectation it will yield an Ivy League ticket. And the mix of demanding classes
and super-smart kids can depress GPAs enough to make it harder for CPS kids to
get into UCs, where admission is rigidly numbers-driven.
Is it worth scrimping for? That's a tough call. We have gulped at the tuition,
but have been able to manage it and still pay for college. If it were a choice
between CPS and paying for college, though, it would be a hard choice to make.
For the older son, I'd have opted for public school; although he got a great
education, CPS was not such a perfect fit for him that it would have been worth
putting him in college debt. For the younger son, who has thrived at CPS, the
foundation for a life lived fully and confidently was probably worth it.
Mom of Big Guys
I have put three children through private school. Private school is no guarantee
of college admission. My children went to the best known East Coast schools and
most kids ended up at strong liberal arts colleges but they likely would have
gotten there from public school. Most kids who go to the Ivies are children of
alums. Most kids went to the colleges their parents went to. The few non-alum
students were exceptional and likely would have gotten in from public school.
Choose private school for the education. If your child is motivated and intense
it will likely be great for him. But the great education should be your goal, not
college. That puts a weird pressure on your child. I never heard the ''value
added'' term. It likely means they are on first name basis with Ivy admissions
people and that might help some but I hope they are ''selling'' their education.
I'm posting to urge you to stick with BHS for this child, too. I really feel it
would be a huge mistake to stress your family to the degree you describe in
return for potential rewards that are highly uncertain. You write that if you go
the private high school route, you will find yourself in 4 years time with no
retirement savings and no money saved for either child's college education. In
return, you're hoping to provide your child with a more enriching and challenging
high school experience from both an academic and a social standpoint. That's a
commendable goal, but even if you attain it (which is far from clear), it is
still not enough of a game-changer to justify the cost. Your kid can overcome any
disadvantages a public school education entails (and that route has pluses, too,
not just minuses). On the other hand,having to take on huge debt to get through
college will be a ball and chain around his ankle for a long time. If that's not
enough to convince you, think about all the enrichment you can provide him with
for just a fraction of that $30K - e.g., summer study abroad; one of those really
cool summer programs at Harvard or Georgetown for high school students. Possible
middle ground - have you considered one of the good Catholic high schools which
are half the cost of CPS? Lastly, wherever he goes, he'll have to be a star in
order to be admitted to an Ivy League school. Query where it will be more likely
for him to star - amongst those just like him at CPS, or at BHS.
Please, just say no to the private school lure
Yes, I think there is value for certain kids. My kids went to BHS and wouldn't
have been happy at a school like CPS, but my husband went to CPS and for him it
was a life-transforming experience. He was always a smart kid who loved learning,
but his impulsiveness and obsessiveness drew him to the ''bad'' kids, and often
got him into trouble in public school, and as a result his grades were mediocre.
He went to CPS as a sophomore on scholarship. There he found his ''people'' --
years later many of his closest friends date back to CPS. His peer group at CPS
inspired and challenged him to higher levels. That was a big value. I think he
would say the other great value was gaining an adult-level appreciation of art,
literature, music, history, and philosophy, taught by skilled teachers who
related to their students almost as peers, holding them to high standards. He had
always been good at math and went on to get a PhD in engineering, but at CPS his
world opened up to include the humanities, which still give him a lot of
In terms of pay-off, I would say that a smart motivated student would succeed
regardless of his high school, and also that a school like CPS does not guarantee
later success, however you define that. My husband's CPS friends are now in a
variety of careers - writers, college professors, elementary school teachers,
small business owners, even a priest. But for him, his experience at CPS started
him on a new road and made him the man he is now - lover of books, excited by new
ideas, curious about the world around him, and eager to learn new things.
I went through this question 4 years ago and went with private. No one can tell
you how to value something, but here is my experience. My son, now a junior,
wanted the elite education of a private school. He wanted the small classes, the
excellent teachers, the community of focused learners. He did not want to go to
BHS where he saw large classes with lots of kids who had their heads on the desks
and where he knew no BHS students who considered more than one of their teachers
''great''. My son was and is not all about academics, but he does take his
education seriously. So I gave him the preferred private HS education, knowing
that I might not be able to help him with college. He loves school and works
hard. He enjoys his peers. He is in awe of his fabulous teachers, almost
without exception. He is aware of the privilege of his education. It is
definitely preparing him well for college, better than BHS can. I am less
concerned about drugs and other social issues. And the expectations of the
private school students is quite high without being too much. BHS has to put so
much of its focus on getting kids through and graduating; there's not much left
for high achievers. I now have a daughter applying and hope that she is
accepted. My kids would have done fine at BHS, but they are getting instead a
fabulous, inspiring education.
Happy with private school choice
I have a cousin who is thinking about enrolling her child into an underperforming
high school in San Francisco. Her child had previously attended a parochial
school where he was an average student. One of my cousin's motivations is that
he may rise to the top at an underperforming school and hence have a better
chance at UC acceptance. It seems logical enough, but would love to hear from
this board about any potential cons to the plan.
My daughter just graduated from UC Santa Cruz. Both her middle school and high
school are what you'd now call under performing, I'm sure. All of four years ago,
I don't feel like that term was getting as much use. But they were definitely
considered undesirable by lots of parents, who were very surprised I'd send my
daughter to either one.
Both were good experiences for her. She was a decent student, getting Bs and As,
but not an outstanding one. She did not have the drive to push hard for As, and
probably would have done poorly in AP classes had they been available at her high
school. But she was in close range to being top of her class, and she got into UC
Santa Cruz, her first choice. She did fine at collegeâ€”got Bs with a few As and
Cs, and graduated in four years, a real feat right now.
I watched my stepson go from a small Christian school where he was an A student to
Lowell High School in SF, where he became a struggling C student. He didn't attend
college (became a police officer). I hated seeing his loss of confidence. He went
in feeling smart and came out feeling dumb. We didn't even apply to Lowell for my
daughter; I could see how it would go for her there.
My daughter went to school with kids of varying backgrounds/ethnicities, many with
low incomes. It was very grounding. Being with people at her same or lower income
levels was a good thing; she was content with what she had, instead of comparing
our income to kids with much more. She had some great teachers and great
experiences. I felt she was safe at both schools. I think it worked out well for
her. I don't see how she would have gotten into UCSC from a more competitive high
school; she's just not the type. She left both high school and college feeling
good about her accomplishments and ready to move on.
what matters most is the student's performance
My son is enrolled in Albany High School, which is supposed to be a
gem among public schools in our area, but the school is not serving
his particular needs. He is flunking out of every academic subject,
essentially. It is difficult to know how much of this is his own
attitude problem and how much is the social situation and the academic
fit. But something has to give. Problem: I have a fairly well-paying
job ($90,000/year) but I have to pay a chunk of that in spousal and
child support to his Dad, whose half-time job places him below the
poverty line. And I have essentially no savings for his college. So,
given those factors: is there a private school in the East Bay that
would be good for a kid like mine (musically gifted, academically
challenged, very sociable and likable?) AND affordable for me?
motivated to make a change
I have had two children come through both public and private schools in the last
twenty years. Our daughter graduated from Albany High, after a particularly
difficult time in Berkeley High (BHS was different then.) Based on your
description, I'd try another approach. Unless your teen is getting bullied, I'd
try to figure out what is causing the problems. Could it be your divorce? Change
takes a toll on kids, and as a male teen, perhaps more so. Most private high
schools (except for St. Mary's) are going to be far away, at least a 45 minute
commute each way. Albany is a medium/small school which is more navigable to
most teens than others. For some kids, this is good. Some kids, alternately, need
a larger ''pond'' to swim in. Private high school is a minimum of $20K a year, or
more. Probably more like $25K. And if the problems are personal, they will follow
him. You could try for an inter-district transfer to BHS, where they have four
''schools'' to choose from, each with a different focus. It may work since many
BUSD families would love to go to Albany High! Perhaps a counseling session or
two to try and figure out the core of the issues would be a wise and economical
Been there, done that
I would check out Maybeck High School
in Berkeley. That's where I ended up when I
was flunking out of Berkeley High. They turned me around, and I ended up making
it into UC Santa Cruz. Best of luck!
I would encourage you to contact Holden High School in Orinda,
http://holdenhigh.org/ (925)254-0199. It is a tiny non traditional high school
for kids like your son and mine who are not doing well in a cookie cutter
setting. There are kids from Berkeley, El Cerrito, Albany, Richmond Annex etc.
They truly want their students to succeed, so they have different approaches to
helping them achieve their goal of graduating from high school and their future
from there. I no longer have homework battles because he does it there. I am so
glad my friends told me about the school after sending their son there. I am so
relieved to see my son doing better, seeing himself be successful and be
respected for the person that he is.
They have financial aid which will help offset your expense. They also assign
Resource Specialists to each student who are interns and are the kid's advocates.
They are able to provide clinical support as needed including the family.
If you contact them they will give you parents that you can talk to. I wish you
luck, just know there are options.
My son is a senior in a private h.s. and has been struggling with studying for
the entire duration. Music is his great love and main pass-time. Unfortunately
the school doesn't offer any Music classes. It is an excellent school, but they
have not been able to address his weak study skills and lack of motivation.
I think you are better off leaving him where he is socially happy. Committing to
a private h.s. will only add to your financial stress (especially under your
circumstances), will put a burden of guilt on your son when he fails(that's
happened to my son) or lower his self-esteem when he compares himself to high
achievers (happened too...).
I made a point of involving my son in the solution process, then invested in
short-term tutoring per subject. The success that followed boosted his
confidence and improved his skills. The costs were reasonable and the results
were worth it.
I have been letting go incrementally, allowing him to take charge of his
p.s. I'm a single mom too. Hope this helps, and good luck!
I also have a 9th grader at
AHS whose grades have plummeted this year. 9th grade
is hard. AHS is a pressure-filled, academically demanding environment with lots
of tiger-mom energy driving the curriculum, there is way too much homework IMO,
and there has been a lot of extra chaos and drama this year, with teachers
leaving and class schedule changes. Oh wait, lets not forget puberty!
My son is also gifted in the arts, and you know what? That's good enough for me
(for now). Having one thing he excels at and having lots of friends means your
son is successful in ways that many kids are not. Taking that away from him as
punishment for not getting good grades isn't a good strategy; if you must use a
consequence, don't take away the music and social life that motivates him. Get
him a tutor, remove yourself from the drama, and try to strategize together with
dad-- sounds like there is a rift there, but if you can agree what the strategy
and consequences will be, your son will respond to your unity on this issue.
I think your expectations may be skewed regarding private schools. My son was in
2 different private schools (he has ADD) and neither of them was anywhere near as
good as Albany. Call the principal, set up a meeting, get proactive. No one else
is going to set the boundaries that you need to set. And remember... he's a
teenager, he will likely settle down eventually and get to work if you are firm
and settled yourself.
Albany Panda Mom
I recommend that you check out REALM Charter School in Berkeley. It is new this
year and a fabulous school. They started only with a 6th grade and 9th grade
class. They are located just off University Ave. on 8th Street. It's an amazing
program and well worth looking into.
REALM School Fan
What about one of the charter schools? These are available to any California
resident, you don't have to live in a particular district. For example,
Oakland School for the Arts or Envision Academy in downtown Oakland?
My husband and I moved back to the Bay Area after an absence of many
years so our daughter could have the benefit of the schools in
Orinda. Our daughter is adopted and bi-racial with a weight
problem. Her 8th grade experience was wonderful, but the hormones
and competitiveness in high school are destroying her self esteem.
She is severely LD and is a kinesthetic learner. We are looking for
a public or charter school in the Bay Area that would be a good fit
for our daughter. She is artistic - loves drama, dance and self
expression. She needs small learning environments and does best
working on projects - not homework. We know with cutbacks such a
school may not exist, but I can't bear another year of no friends,
migraine headaches and anxiety attacks over not fitting in.
I think Orinda Academy
may be perfect for your teen. It has a warm and
nurturing environment; all the classes are conducted in small group
learning environments; the school has an active anti-bullying policy;
and the school actively follows a pre-college curriculum, with many
strategies in place to assist kids who have LDs. It is not a charter
or public school, but truly, the vast number of families at OA are
there not because they are wealthy, but because they have found the
very best environment for their teenagers. I am a teaching
professional with a PhD and I understand something about creative
learning. I have been delighted with Orinda Academy, where our son has
flourished and where he actually WANTS to be at school. You could
contact the director, Ron Graydon (Ron@orindaacademy.org), or the
Admissions Officer. I'm also including my email address in case you
want more info from me. Good Luck!
Take a look at Orinda Academy. They have a good arts and dance
program, classes are small and students get to know their teachers.
Also, the kids at the school are really nice and supportive of one
another. Good luck.
Holden High School
in Orinda is a wonderful small alternative high
school which might be just what you and your daughter are looking
for. I worked there for two years and can't say enough good things
about the immense support teens get at this wonderful, personal
school from the dedicated directors, teachers and counselors:
www.holdenhigh.org Tel.: (925) 254 0199
I am trying to figure out which high school would be a good fit for my daughter.
After suffering through a disasterous 6th grade experience at Orinda Intermediate, I placed
her in a small private middle school (Seven Hills) where the kids are pretty much all kind
gentle and very accepting. Unfortunately, this school only goes through 8th grade and I am
wondering what high schools are known for being academically challanging, yet socially
My daughter is a prolific writer, is passionate about animals, loves science and math, and
has a very kind heart. Unfortunately, she is not adept at reading subtle social cues and so
she is sometimes seen as a bit ''odd''.
Right now, I am looking at Athenian, Bentley, and Campolinda.
Any insights or suggestions?
daughter has attended one of the schools you mention and a good
friend has a daughter at another of the other schools you mention.
Both girls are socially well-adapted, sensitive and highly
intelligent. Both girls and both mothers wish that they had
attended the local public high school because their friends in the
public high schools do not have the same problems with meanness that
they have encountered in these private schools. The public high
schools have more kids so that such a child can find some group or
friends and offer excellent education for those who wish to work for
one. The only school I have heard of recently who actively and
successfully addresses such situations is Berean Christian in Walnut
Creek, but they do not offer the same high academic standards found
at the other schools you mention.
Our daughter graduated from Athenian two years ago and it was a
wonderful experience! She came in as a 9th grader and was a little
concerned that about half the class was continuing on from the
Athenian middle school and already knew each other (she didn't know
anyone going to Athenian). However, this was never an issue. The
faculty and staff go to great lengths to ensure that all the students
get to know one another and treat each other with respect. There is
great diversity at Athenian with students coming from as far away as
Vallejo and San Jose, the whole range of ethnic and economic groups
as well as international boarding students. My daughter has made
many lasting life-long friendships from her years at Athenian. We
moved to Moraga with the intention of taking advantage of the great
school system there but for various reasons, sent our daughter to
private schools ending with Athenian. We and she have never
regretted her going there. If you'd like to speak with me off line,
I'd be glad to give you more information, just ask the moderator for
my e-mail address. Best of luck.
Happy Athenian Mom
I'm a parent of 2
Bentley Upper School Alums and absolutely love
that school. We made it through OIS but after 1 child with 1 year
at Miramonte that was enough for us and my daughter transferred to
Bentley. My son followed 3 years later.
It's a great school - the teachers are excellent and very caring and
interested in their students. They typically have gotten alot of
kids from Seven Hills.
There have been some administration issues there but they are
definitely working on those issues. My son graduated last year and
my daughter in 2005. I'm more than happy to talk about Bentley if
you want further info.
has a lot to offer but I wouldn't place your daughter
there because it's not a kinder, gentler school. It's the
conventional, high achieving school in the public school treadmill
mode. I would think a smaller, alternative school would have more of
what you are looking for. Mine is not a judgemental call against
Campolindo because Campolindo is a fantastic school in many ways, it
just doesn't have what you're looking for and there's hopefully a
better fit elsewhere.
All the best to you!
Our daughter had a horrible time at OIS too, in 7th and 8th grade. We
ended up pulling her out. At the suggestion of her IEP team, we
transferred her to Marchus School in Concord. Marchus is a highly-
regarded, counseling-enriched public school for kids with emotional
or social difficulties that made regular school difficult for them. A
substantial number of kids there have difficulty picking up on social
cues. Our daughter has a fabulous teacher and access to her school
psychologist onsite whenever she needs to talk with her. She is
thriving there, regaining her confidence, and maturing well. If you
think you might be interested about whether Marchus could help your
daughter, call school psychologist Christi Norton at 925-602-3434.
You're welcome to mention I suggested you call.
The other place that might be great for her is Envision School in
downtown Oakland (15th & Webster, a business area). My daughter was
just accepted there for 9th grade and we are thrilled. It's a charter
school (free public school) and sounds like a magnet school for kids
interested in the arts and technology. My daughter is a prolific
writer, too, and loves drawing. For further info, search the BPN site
for Envision School, Google it and go to its website, and check out
parent reviews on the Great Schools website. Act quickly; there are a
few spaces left and the school is in the midst of parent information
nights. Your daughter is lucky to have you as her advocate.
I certainly understand how harsh the social scene at Orinda
Intermediate is after sending my son to Miramonte. He now attends
Bentley Upper School which is definitely a kinder, gentler school. It
is small and the administration and teachers take the time to help
nurture healthy social dynamics.
Are you considering College Preparatory School? I understand that the
kids are really academically inclined and very good to on another. I
would definitely check that out.
High School should be more fun than it is
My two oldest daughters graduated from Campolindo high school. My
third daughter currently attends Campo. I will never forget the day
my middle daughter came home from school, about a week or two after
school had started for her as a freshman at Campo. She said ''mom, I
can't believe what happens at this school. Anyone can be friends with
anyone. Yeah, there are people who hang out with certain people but
people can be in band and be cool, people can be in sports and be cool
and people can be really smart and be cool. Everyone just mixes with
everyone no matter what group they're in. I didn't know this could
happen in high school mom.''
Enough said. We have had very good social experiences with the ''kids''
at Campo. I hope this helps
I tutor middle school and high school kids and when I posed this
question to a couple of them, I came up with St. Mary's in Berkeley
and The Urban School of San Francisco (highly recommended).
A Bentley student did not recommend Bentley, based on your posting,
but everyone's experience is different.
We are very happy with Athenian. My child sounds like your daughter.
Great at science and math, very kind, oblivious to social cues, high
achieving academically. Your daughter would find many such kids at
Athenian. The environment itself (in Mt. Diablo State Park) lends
itself to relaxing as soon as you get there. It is a small, nurturing
place where the teachers are expected to build strong relationships
with students - and they do. The science learning is very hands-on
with lots of experimentation. They are raising chickens in the
working garden that raises fruits and veggies for the school kitchen.
Many teachers live on campus. It is unlike any other school. There
are great academic offerings, but nurturing the whole child into
becoming the best person s/he can be is the focus.
I have two sons that go to Maybeck High School in Berkeley, which is
currently on Bancroft Ave across the street from the CAL campus. This
summer Maybeck is moving to a new site on College Ave (St. John's
Church). The school is one of the smallest high schools I know of
(approx 100-110 students), which creates the environment of intimacy
for both student relationships and student/teacher relationships. My
sons have flourished there emotionally, socially and academically.
There are many talented and interesting students. There are
interesting opportunities to travel during a ''special programs''
session in the spring. Right now some of the students are bicycling in
Japan; others are in the Copper Canyon, Mexico. Mine are in Hawaii
hiking and surfing. There is an emphasis on academics, the environment
and bicycling. There are no competitive sports teams, however, if that
is an interest.
Does anyone have any direct experience with West County Community
High School in Richmond or The Envision Academy of Arts and
Technology in Oakland? I am considering alternatives to El Cerrito
High School for my daughter who will be in 9th grade next year. I'd
also welcome suggestions for other small charter high schools in the
east bay. Thanks
My son is in 9th grade at Envision
and is very happy there. The
teachers are all enthusiastic and dedicated to each student's
success. The curriculum is very motivating and project-based. It
is so small no one can fall through the cracks. Please feel free to
contact me if you have any other questions.
We were looking for alternatives to the private schools and felt lucky
to find Envision Academy
in Oakland. You can get a good sense of the
school from their extensive website, with video of students and
teachers. The Principal is communicative and articulate, and hit all
the right notes for me: engaged learning, sophistication of course
outcomes, students working at differing levels, etc. It is spearheaded
by the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, with a space that is simply
gorgeous--many of the expensive private schools in the area are in
spaces that don't begin to compare. It's simply a joy to be there.
Someone wrote on one of the BPN groups that it's in a seedy area, and
I completely disagree. The light is beautiful in that part of Oakland,
and the streets are quiet there. It is an urban, not a residential
setting, so if you're squeamish about an urban school's being in an
urban area, it's not for you. But I would have no problem sending my
only son there at any hour in daylight (true of any neighborhood in
the Bay Area). My son wondered if he'd feel comfortable in classes
with so many students clearly from parts of Oakland he doesn't know,
but he came out of the classes he visited with a huge smile, he was
just delighted. This school is going to keep growing; it is a terrific
resource for Oakland families.
Mother of Private School Student
My daughter is a 9th grader at
Bay Area School of Enterprise in Alameda. It is a college
prep. charter school which focuses on community involvement,critical thinking and
empowering young people. We live in Richmond and feel that even though it is somewhat
of a commute it is worth it. There are students there from all over the East Bay. As parents
we are very happy with the school. As a student our daughter really enjoys it.
My daughter has been going to Envision
since the very beginning and I
believe she would not be the excellent, motivated 11th grade student
that she is today if it wasn't for Envision. I believe this has all
come from the teachers and administrative staff who really care about
each and every student. They really do care that my child is
successful, and they are helping her get into the college she wants to
go to. This school is not easy. The curriculum is project based and if
the students haven't completed their work for their assigned projects,
they have 'Success Days' where the students stay until the work is
done. There is extra help available to kids who need it and I've seen
some amazing transformations in behavior and academics from some kids.
I've also seen kids leave because they couldn't follow the code of the
school. And being in downtown Oakland gives them opportunities they
wouldn't have at other suburb schools, like last year, classes went to
city hall and met with the mayor. This year, the 11th graders have
internships with local companies. Come and check it out.
Our daughter is looking into Marin Academy and CPS. We've read the
several years back. Does anyone have current thoughts about the pros
of each school for a North Berkeley family?
Hi, my daughter is a freshman at
CPS (now officially College Prep) this year,
and is thrilled with it. The teachers are all fabulous, and are always willing to
spend extra time with her, be it to give help or just to chat. The kids are all
ingratiating and supportive. Though the workload is heavy, she enjoys what
she has to do. The small classes are intimate and rewarding, and she is
challenged in a way that was rare in her past education. The school is
definitely suited to a certain kind of student though, and kids who attend
must be willing to work hard. However, alongside this academic rigor, the
school offers many opportunities for fun and enjoyment. I don't know how it
compares to Marin Academy (she didn't look into the school), but she
certainly loves everything about CPS.
Hope this helps.
If you are in the East Bay, it makes much better sense to
go to CPS. Remember that your teen will make friends at
this school and want to hang out with them on nights and
weekends. This equals lots of driving for the parents!
I do not have a child at Marin Academy, but when I lived
in Marin County I knew many families who sent their kids
there. Having lived in both the Berkeley/Albany area as
well as Marin County (I went to high school there) I would
say that Marin county kids are definitely more privileged
and typically more affluent. Both schools are well known
for their strong academics. If I were deciding between the
two I would pick the place that seemed to have students
whose values seemed closely aligned with those of my own
former marin county resident
Apply to as many private high schools that you can manage. There may be
more spaces with the changes to the economy, but for the last ten years or so
there have been more people in the Bay Area that want private education
than there are spaces. With the announced closure of many public high
schools, I expect many parents and extended families that can come up with
tuition will be applying to private schools. We applied to seven high schools
in the Bay Area, San Francisco and Marin with a nearly straight A middle
schooler, got into 1 school, waitlisted at 5. Marin Academy was the one
school that just said no. Luckily we were admitted off waitlist at one of our
favorites, and it was a life changing experience. The college admission
process was much, much easier than private high school in the Bay Area, and
I have heard that from literally dozens, and dozens of parents. Go to all the
family welcoming events and dress up.
The Athenian School,
My son is a junior at
and we live in Oakland. It has been a
fabulous experience even though there has been a lot of driving, but I have to
say it has been worth it. My impression is that MA and CPS are very different
schools. We live close to CPS, but my son never considered it because he did
not want the academic grind it is known to have. Marin Academy has been a
great fit. The kids at MA all seem to have at least one great interest - sports,
music, art, but they are strong students too. You should go to schools you
are thinking about and get a feel for the culture. Marin Academy seemed the
most interesting and had the best energy of all the schools my son applied
to, and the physical plant is beautiful.
Worth the drive
We have one daughter that went to
CPS and one that went to
Both were fabulous. We live in Berkeley and were in carpools for each school.
If your daugther/son is interested in the arts (music, drama, arts, dance,
photography, etc) as well as an academically challenging program, I would opt
for Marin Academy. Per a recent reply, there were plenty of families and
students at Marin Academy that were not wealthy and shared our values. Each
school prepared our daughters very well for college.
My husband has started a new job in Emeryville. My children and I will move
summer of 2009 to join him. We are looking in the area of Orinda, Moraga,
or Walnut Creek (can't afford Piedmont or Berkeley). Which High School do
would be more accepting of a new student - my son will be a junior, is an
student, but is very angry about moving and is quiet - I want to stay clear
of a school
that is too cliquey and less accepting of new students. Also, advice on
neighborhoods (children aged 10, 15, 17, 19) in above mentioned communities
welcome. My two older kids will be in college but home sometimes. Thanks!
You asked which high schools are best: Orinda, Lafayette, Moraga,
Walnut Creek, but ruled out Berkeley due to expense. In my
experience, Berkeley can be much, much cheaper than the first
three. Sure, there are some really expensive houses in Berkeley,
but there are also some that aren't quite so crazy. I've looked
and looked and can't find anything even vaguely affordable in
Lamorinda (and I've been looking, because their schools are so
good). Walnut Creek tends to be the most affordable of those you
mention-- but with Walnut Creek you need to be careful to get a
place in the WC school district (pretty good), but more than half
of the homes in WC are in another, not quite as good district.
-- living in Richmond (eek)
Hmmm -- you are going to get opinions all across the board here!
I will say that I am speaking from the perspective of one who
grew up in Lamorinda and has chosen to locate to Walnut Creek for
our kids because of the schools they attend. Lamorinda, by virtue
of its location, is somewhat secluded. I am sure that your son
would do fine once he got his feet wet; all of the high schools
in that area are excellent (Miramonte, Acalanes, Campolindo).
However, there is very little diversity across the board. Some,
but not much. That is not necessarily good or bad, depending on
how your family defines itself. We chose Walnut Creek as it is
much more diverse, the high school, Las Lomas, is excellent as
well, but we just like the feel more -- the community as a whole
is more accepting of differences in all aspects, there is a
larger range of socioeconomic scale, and we simply found it fit
well for us -- a tough call for you and your family, surely!
Good luck with your decision; we have not regretted ours!
burst out of the bubble
I have some questions about east bay private high school. I have been
reading the reviews on BPN and they all sound wonderful. Our daughter
will start looking at possible high schools this year and any input
from parents of kids at area schools would be great. Our daughter is
very bright, but also loves art, sports and is very into her social
life. I gather that CPS is very strong academically from previous
postings, but how is there arts and sports program? (In fact, where
are there athletic fields for that matter!?) We live in North
Berkeley, and I like that she could take public transportation to
school on her own, but will all her friends live over in Oakland? Does
this isolate kids? I have also heard wonderful things about Marin
Academy academically, but also about their sports and arts
programs. However, I worry about the effect of the long commute on my
daughters social life as well. Can any parents comment? Will all of
her friends live over the bridge? (How do kids at MA from East Bay
deal with that?)
Or should we just bite the bullet and send her to Berkeley High?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks to all.
If you are looking for quality sports facilities for a high school you
might consider Head Royce
in Oakland. It is located near the mormon temple off of Hwy 13.
My son is going
there for middle school. While we have yet to experience the school, I
can say the
campus boasts beautiful sports facilities and we were very impressed
with the classes
we observed. They also have a strong drama and art program to go along
Check out Berkeley High.
After all, BHS has the most number of
AP and Honors classes than any school in the area, the
largest/most varied athletic program of any high school west of
the Mississippi, and an incredibly visual and especially
performing arts program (the jazz band of course is nationally
ranked). In addition, BHS offers more languages than many
colleges (Spanish, French, Latin, Swahili, German, and starting
next year Mandarin Chinese). With this year's implementation of
the new International High program, every student has the
opportunity to be in a community-based setting. In addition to
the IH program (where students will be able to choose to receive
an international baccalaureate degree), there is Academic Choice
(traditional, college prep), and the small schools:
Communications/Arts/Science (CAS), Community Partnership
Academy, Social Justice, and Arts/Humanity (AHA), themed and/or
somewhat non-traditional college prep. Not to mention the
amazing number of clubs, associations, and other student
activities. Yes, Berkeley High can be intimidating for some
students and for some, the independence and freedom at BHS can
be too much to handle but I truly believe that NO PRIVATE HIGH
SCHOOL IN THE BAY AREA provides more overall than BHS in terms
of academic opportunity, academic rigor, and more importantly
We live in N Berkeley and my older son is a sophmore at CPS.
He really likes CPS and the school is a good fit for him.
CPS's strength is academics, but they have a good arts
program. We've been to some very impressive student music and
drama performances. I've seen art shows of student work that
were also amazing. My son isn't an artist per se, but he's
been taking stagecraft this year and is really enjoying it.
While they do have sports teams, yes there is a field and they
use other facilities, I don't think the sports programs have
the strength of the arts and music programs. Kids at CPS come
from every where, not just Oakland. There are other kids who
live in N Berkeley, some come from Marin, Walnut Creek, Moraga,
etc. Kids pick a common place to meet to get together, meet
on Shattuck to go to a movie, etc. Sometimes they will go
together for burritos or pizza on College Av after school. As
a full time working parents (and I do a lot of business travel)
we really appreciate it that the CPS teachers and
administration have their act together and we spend no time
dealing with school issues.
We investigated private high schools, went through the whole
application process and enrolled our daughter in a private
school for ninth grade. (She was accepted at multiple
schools.) She ultimately decided to attend a school in Marin,
and the commute was awful even though the school provided a bus
from N. Berkeley, upwards of three hours per day. She also
found that she really needed to be in a larger school
environment, having attended private school for K-8. We
finally agreed to let her transfer half way through her first
semester to Berkeley High, despite already having committed to
the tuition at the private school, and the experience has been
great for her.
Because she came in mid-year she didn't get a choice of program
or classes, but the school worked with her to get her into the
right level of classes, and she is certain she made the right
decision. She is the only Freshman in several of her classes.
So, my advice is, look into Berkeley High as a positive option,
not a last resort. Many people outside of the city find ways
to enroll their children in BHS because it is a vibrant
community with excellent academic options.
The right school for your child depends on their personality
Happy BHS parent
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