Miramonte High School (Orinda, CA)
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Aug 2010
Hi,
My daughter will be starting Miramonte High School in Orinda next
week.I am concerned about her attending this school because I am not
sure if she would fit in. Knowing about Orinda, if you are not rich,
beautiful, athletic and super smart - you just don't fit in. I don't
live in Orinda and it was not my choice to have her go there. Can
anyone give me any feedback about their experience with the school?
Not the decision maker
dear not the decision maker,
from multiple parents of kids who've attended Miramonte, and from the
mouths of these students themselves, I've heard the same - over and
over. Hopefully she'll find a few friends and it won't be bothersome
to her, but the general gestalt of the place is that which you are
concerned about. What to do? I'd take her out as soon as you can if
she seems intensely unhappy, don't wait. On the other hand, try to
encourage her out the gate. Perhaps she'll find the good things and
people who are there. If you're not the decision maker, at least be
the advocator for your daughter if you see that she's miserable. 9th
grade's not an easy year for many, so it's important to try to
separate that from the issues of Miramonte. good luck.
Peacha
Hi,
I woould never, never send my child to Miramonte AGAIN. I must
say the education is stellar, but the kids are really worse than
Mean Girls, the film. Also, the DRINKING, DRUGS AND SEX is
overwhelming. It is not just a few kids, it is a pervasive sense of
entitlement. If your kid is pretty and smart, then the other girls
will cyberstalk, trash talk the girl to other girls, bully etc.
This is NOT A GOOD place to send your child for any healthy
emotional development. Having said this my child is extremely
attractive, athletic , very smart and very sophisticated and
reasonably well off. I WOULD NOT SEND MY CHILD AGAIN, even though
academics are terrific. I am sorry to confirm ALL, probably, of your
worst fears.... not a nice place and the mothers, particularly
perpetuate this sense of nastiness and entitlement.
anonymous
As a parent of 2 children that, as inter-district transfer students,
have gone and are going through the middle and high school years in
Orinda, I understand your concern. I can't say there is any overt
exclusivity among the ''native'' kids towards kids from out of the
District. In fact, may new kids come in at the start of High School.
While some are, not everyone in Orinda is super wealthy. There are
folks out there that have been seriously impacted by this dip in the
economy, and many two pay check families are sacrificing a lot and
working hard to have their kids in that district. The academic and
counseling programs out there are good for the most part and many
have been saved from the worst ravages of budget cuts by the
financial contributions of the parents. (Be warned, the many parent
organizations will expect you to contribute too.)
That being said; how your daughter will react will depend on her.
Some kids are outgoing and will make friends whatever the situation.
The kids there aren't all beautiful, athletic and super smart; some
might just have parents who will pay for stylists, coaches and
tutors.
Good Luck, It's hard sending your child into a new environment.It's
a large school and since there are many diverse programs, your
daughter is apt to find some kindred spirts.
Been There
Is your girl coming in as a Freshman or did you just move in?
Dispell the myth and please don't let on to your daughter that you
feel that way or you'll be setting her up for failure. Yes, Orinda is
LaLa land, and she deserves a portion of her life to be educated well
and be amoungst kids that have been raised by supportive parents in a
climate not unlike the French Riviera.
Email me and I'll set her up with a Big Sister. She's gonna LOVE it
there!
Reen
My daughter entered Miramonte as a freshman a few years ago via an
interdistrict transfer. We're not wealthy, just middle class, and
we told her ahead of time that there would likely be things that
other girls had there that she wouldn't (extravagant Sweet 16
parties, new cars, expensive closthes). She had no problems with
the other girls, made plenty of friends among boys and girls, was
not excluded, and was INcluded to an astonishing degree. The
classes and opportunities were very good. She went there all four
years and got a great education and made great friends and had no
regrets. I think you can have a wonderful or terrible experience at
any school. We had her in a middle school that was much ''poorer'',
and she was so pleased to be in a ''nice'' school, with beautiful
facilities. As for peer pressure and bullying, most girls have had
plenty of experience with ''mean girls'' by the time they reach high
school, so I think your daughter's going to deal with that wherever
she goes. But avoid the stereotypes, and let her find her niche.
anon
My daughter is now a junior at Miramonte High School. We are not
wealthy, and she is an average kid, who is very shy and quiet. Yet,
she fits in quite nicely at Miramonte, has many friends, and is happy
there. While there may be a higher percentage of overachievers at the
school, there is a whole range of students. There are students who do
well, there are those who slack off, and there are students who
struggle. It's just like anywhere else. Not everyone at Miramonte is
a superstar.
My daughter and I have discussed the fact that some kids at her school
come from incredibly rich families. I tell my daughter that there
will always be people that are richer, prettier, smarter than she is,
but it shouldn't keep her from achieving what she wants for her life.
She is at Miramonte to avail herself of the strong academics and all
the opportunities the school has to offer. We are happy that we are
able to send her to such an excellent school.
Anon
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