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Re: Bentley and Head Royce 2nd and 3rd grade teachers
Our daughter is currently in second grade at Bentley and she is having an amazing year. Both second teachers are truly excellent - at the top of their games - and I have not heard one single complaint about either since the beginning of the year. On the contrary, I hear comments like ''Ms. B really gets my child and she is so caring'', ''With Ms. L's positive comments and annotations on my child's homework, my son is so motivated to practice what he has learned in the classroom at home'', and ''You can't go wrong with either teacher - my child is so happy''. The amount of feedback that we receive in meetings, weekly letters, and most recently in the parent-teacher conferences has made us feel so connected to our daughter's classroom experience. Along with top notch academics, there has been a strong emphasis on creating an environment that is supportive,respectful, collaborative - all in all, a great environment for our daughter.

Re: Bentley vs. Head Royce for K
I have 2 girls at Bentley. I have a child in the Lower School and one in the middle school. We really like the teachers. If you have any questions for them, they get back to you within 24 hrs. Both kindergarten teachers are really good at teaching kindergarten. I know that Bentley gives the teachers lots of opportunity to do professional development. The teachers really seem to care about all of the students in there classes. I like how my daughters teachers have been able to teach to a variety of learning styles. The teachers really keep the kids challenged and engaged while teaching. The Bentley school has a well rounded program. I also have to say that the location is great and I like that before and after school child are is included in the tuition. Hope this helps. We really love Bentley. Adrian

It is smaller than Head Royce both in area and population but for us that has been a bonus. You will know our Head of school. You will know your child's teachers, all of them. And you will know many, many or our Bentley families. A smaller campus naturally results in familiarity. Our child feels extremely comfortable in her surroundings. She has made friends with many students and teachers in the upper grades. They invite her to play, and help her with homework when she asks. This strong community is fostered through buddy programs, and PACT (positive action character teams) family groups. PACT families bring together students from K thru 5 to work together to brainstorm on campus issues, ranging from recycling to conflict resolution. Imagine 5th graders helping Kindergartners put together a presentation for the entire lower school? I could go on...but suffices to say, It's really a special place.

As far as academics, they are terrific. The curriculum is delivered in an exciting and creative way. Teachers are encouraged to explore and find what works best for their students. Lessons are frequently woven into games, challenges and puzzles that generate great excitement at home. It is rigorous, but not overwhelming.

As far as commute, I don't remember from your original post which direction you are driving from, but if you are in Berkeley, Bentley is an easy commute. The drop off system is well oiled and efficient. You don't ever have to leave your car unless you want to. If you are headed to SF from here the traffic on 13 can be ugly, but it's not going to be any better from Head Royce. A quick shot down Ashby and you can hop on BART. Thats what we do and it's easy. Hope this helps. Best of luck whichever school you choose. Happy Bentley Parent

Re: Considering Head Royce and Bentley for kindergarten

My children have attended both Head Royce and Bentley lower schools and I have only good things to say about each. Both schools have extremely nurturing environment with involved parents and teachers, and there is no dearth of art, music, science, math, all incorporated in a variety of ways into the curriculum. Additionally, the kids are wonderful, bright and exuberant, and the teachers by and large committed to their classrooms!! I believe the HRS lower school may have a few more students than Bentley, although the class sizes were the similar when my kids were in elementary school. The parents at both schools are devoted to their kids and come in many stripes and colors so it is not difficult to make lasting friends.

The main difference is that Bentley tends to be a bit more rigorous in lower school, and does not have a pool or tennis courts, which HRS kids enjoy. HRS is K-12 on the same campus, and is bigger overall, which is a plus for some and not for others. Both lower schools are extremely good. Feel free to email me [the moderator will give you my info] if you would like to know more. Grateful for, and happy with, Bentley and HRS

I know your child will enter kindergarten next year, so I will certainly address Bentley's K program. But since this first year will go very quickly, it is important to carefully consider and evaluate the educational experience beyond kindergarten.

First, Bentley's kindergarten program is excellent. There are two classrooms, and the teachers are quite creative and collaborative. 5 and 6-year olds require entertainment, structure, and discipline, and Robb Hedges and Stacey Norman weave together a program that caters to children at different learning stages. The children learn and progress quickly, and their love for these two teachers is more than apparent. My first grader had an excellent K experience, and is now quite enjoying 1st grade.

The early grade levels set the stage for more focused learning as the kids develop and mature. I am amazed at some of the work my 4th grader is doing. Yes, I think she is bright, but the instruction, mentoring, and nurturing she is receiving makes her excited about learning - and her favorite subjects are math, science, and Mandarin. Actually, there aren't any subjects she dislikes.

Bentley is truly a special place. The teachers are fabulous. The student population is quite diverse. And the students seem truly happy and engaged.

Assuming you have the opportunity to select between Bentley and Head Royce, you can't go wrong with either. Both are excellent K-12 private schools. Spend as much time as possible at both schools. Get to know the faculty and administration. Think about what will be best for your child now, several years from now, etc. Meet as many current parents as possible to see how you would fit in. This will become your community too, not just your child's. If you prefer one school - tell them they are your first choice.

Good luck with the process. Try and enjoy it, and remember that the selection process is mutual and both you and the schools want to make the best long-term decision. A Happy Bentley Parent

Re: Head Royce or Bentley?
Both our children are at Bentley and really enjoy it there. Our son just started kindergarten and our daughter is in second grade. It is an intimate community and the kids receive a great deal of attention from their teachers. The quality of teachers and the curriculum are also very impressive. The tours are stating in January. I would suggest joining one and seeing the school in action. Hope this helps.

Bentley Upper School

Does anyone have any experience with the Bentley Upper School? We have an 8th grader who has some learning differences (slow processing, dysgraphia) and are considering Bentley for high school. Our current option is our local public high school, which is an excellent school but is very academically competitive and perhaps not the best fit for our son. Bentley is very impressive, but am curious as to how they really work with kids with his sort of issues. (FYI, our son is a sweet, conscientious kid with no behavioral concerns.) Any thoughts/perspective appreciated. Many thanks. (BTW, we are also looking at Orinda Academy, but have some concerns that he might not fit in as well there socially.) MiddleSchoolMom

Re: Middle School for son with advanced math & science
Since we were in a very good district, we tried public kindergarten for our daughter after 3 years of preschool at our Temple. K was fine so we continued there to first grade. This school's API rating is in the 900s. We volunteered to ''help out'' at math time once a week and what we saw caused us to look for a private school for our child - and she started in third grade at Bentley School, K-8, which is located at the bottom of Hiller Highlands (Oakland/Berkeley border). No school is perfect but we got the main thing we were looking for - a school to challenge our daughter academically. She continued there through middle school (6, 7, 8). The classes are small which can be good, and can be bad!

Then we made the mistake of deciding to send her to the local public, very highly rated high school, for 9th grade. After a month it became clear that in fact Bentley K-8 school does prepare students 1-2 years ahead of the public schools academically. She was bored and not challenged at all. We quickly fixed that mistake and sent her to Bentley High school after about a month at the public high school.

In summary, Bentley K-8 school teaches 1-2 years ahead of the public schools, so if your child is not challenged and likes academics, I would highly recommend Bentley, and the high school seems great so far! (Bentley high school is in Lafayette). Anon

Re: Choosing a high school for our daughter
My daughter had been diagnosed with Asperger's, was very shy and also had low self-esteem. We sent her to Bentley and she had a very good experience there. It's a small school and we found it both rigorous and ''touchy-feely'' (for lack of a better word). The teachers were very good, very kind and always ready and willing to help with any problems.

Because the school is so small, my daughter was able to form friendships with students in all the grades, not just hers, which I think provided her with social interactions she wouldn't have had in a bigger school.

My daughter did not have learning disabilities per se, though she had trouble with executive function. Bentley was very helpful in that regard, because they taught organization techniques to the students and there was a lot of one-on-one teacher/student interaction.

We have not had personal experience with Orinda Academy, but two of my friends sent their children there and quickly removed them when they found that the school did not seem to know that their kids were leaving campus during the day and getting into all kinds of trouble.

Good luck with your school search. In hindsight I will say, don't worry about your daughter being in the perfect school. As long as she can get the attention she needs from the teachers and can meet some friendly kids, she will be OK.

Reply to query about Bentley Upper School Dec 2010

1. The basic curriculum is not easy but not especially demanding either but if you take honors and AP classes, especially in math and science, it can become very demanding. I gather CPS classes are uniformly demanding.
2. The problems of a few years ago concerned the then headmaster who has since left.
3. Bentley has many strengths and most students get excited about something--academics, arts, sports. Students may not be motivated when they arrive but become motivated because they become interested. My daughter loved the school and I had only a few problems with it. First, their inflexible college prep requirements, which go beyond the UC a-g requirements in several respects, are largely academic and should not be for everyone. However, Bentley just will not alter them unless a student fails a class. Second, they have a sports program but required PE program. Finally, they require a lot of jumping through hoops to establish minimal accommodations for their LD students. Bentley alum parent

1. Teachers are amazing- involved in the school, engaged with the students, and great in the classroom. The academics are top notch with challenging AP and Honors classes but there are also choices for a less rigorous academic course.

2. Brian Thomas, the current Upper School head (for the past 3 years) is immersed in the school at all levels, interested in every student, and really strives to make the upper school a special place. Arlene Hogan, the current Bentley Headmaster (after serving as acting head for a year) is very experienced, well connected and dedicated to making Bentley a superior school.

3. The feel of the Upper School is quite dynamic and diverse. Things like Town Meeting, the drama productions (many student led), the student philanthropic involvement in projects like Bay Sudan, Debate and of course the Friday BBQ club create a vibrant student culture. Bentley Parent

Our son has been going to Bentley School for kindergarten and has had a fantastic experience. Bentley's program is solidly academic, yet allows the children a chance to explore areas of interest, engage in social learning and use creativity in every classroom setting. Everything about the school is praiseworthy, from its language program (the children are exposed to Spanish, French and Mandarin) to its core academic program (which includes a fabulous science program) to its arts and music program. In addition, the children get physical education and movement classes three days per week. The after care program is bundled into the tuition and is marvelous! There are both indoor and outdoor games, arts and crafts, free play and additional classes. My son is taking ''Crazy Chemistry'' this semester and loves it. Choices for after care are abundant--everything from basketball to cooking / gardening to dance to karate to chess to music (the music program is exceptional). Finally, the Bentley campus is a safe, beautiful spot where children can explore and learn among highly qualified and vibrant faculty. We're so happy to find our son thriving at Bentley. I highly recommend the school! CR

My daughter is 14 and started at Berkeley High in the IB program this year. In the past, she loved school, but it's gotten increasingly more difficult socially over the years. She excels in school academically (this is a kid who read The Hobbit in first grade) but is bothered by the general attitude of most of the students and teachers who don't care about actually learning. She is also suffering under a huge load of busywork. We're looking into alternate options, especially Maybeck, for next year. Is there anyone who has transferred their child from BIHS to Maybeck?

Re: Middle Schools - Visited Several - Perceptions
Interesting question to pose...I have experience only with Bentley and would say you son will likely learn something new everyday in all subjects. Further, the desire to learn is expected and supported from administration, teachers and fellow classmates and your son may find making friends easy in this environment. Social and emotional growth is also supported with guidance from a staff psychologist. Bentley mom of an 8th grader

We are in the midst of the high school application process, and our daughter has expressed a strong interest in Bentley upper school. We have questions we don't feel we have clear answers to, and are hoping for feedback from people with some exposure to the school about:
1. The academic rigor/homework load. My impression of the lower and middle school is that they are very rigorous, but the upper school is less rigorous than say, CPS or Head-Royce (which are both great institutions, but need kids who are motivated to be there). What do you think?
2. I'm under the impression that the school went through a fair amount of turmoil a few years ago - what were the issues? Has it stabilized since then?
3. Any feedback or comments overall?
Thanks; we'd love to get some recent feedback - we're trying to figure out what would be the best match for our daughter, and are daunted by the volume of choices! 8th Grade Parent

The head of school is a warm and intelligent man. The staff has had some turnover, but teachers like to move around a bit.

I feel that Bentley is the right school for our son. Your child will likely know which school feels right for them and there is no formula. However, Bentley is competitive and rigorous while maintaining a warm friendly atmosphere. Happy

2.) Turmoil in the past: yes, there were a few years of transition for the school overall but wow, the team that is in place now is dedicated, full of energy and enthusiasm and you can just feel the electricity from the team. Any school will have the transition years and I have to say that Bentley is better for having gone through the self review process and they have emerged with style. I am excited to be a part of the new Bentley.

3.) Comments overall: Great school, nice parents, a sense of place, dedicated teachers, kind students, very amazing group of talented kids...we were at the Winter Concert last night listening to Jazz, Choir, Strings and a bit of rock and roll, very inspiring. Bentley is a place where your child can be who he/she is and live up to their own dreams.

I would say that the one area still being worked on is email communication. At this point there are too many emails from too many folks on too many different days. I believe they are working to correct the lack of communication from the past but it is a process in transition and I think this will get better. kd

We are looking at Bentley Lower School for our son and are wondering if someone can give us their opinion. We've heard some good and not so good things. We are looking for a nurturing environment that also challenges our son academically but is not inappropriately rigorous. What about teacher turnover, administration, homework load, diversity (ethnic and socio-economically)? Is it a warm place? Are teachers approachable? Any thoughts are appreciated. concerned dad

Your questions are good ones, and similar to the ones we had when looking at the school. We have several children at Bentley, our oldest being in 3rd grade, and we couldn't be happier.

The curriculum is rigorous and academic, no doubt, but not to any degree where a child might feel overwhelmed. The teachers make the difference. They form a strong bond with the kids and are able to work not only with the group on a core curriculum, but also individually with kids who may need support in certain areas, or for those who need to be challenged ahead of the group. We have a range of learners in our family and throughout the years the teachers never cease to amaze me in how they understand and provide what each child needs developmentally.

This is true for languages (a choice of Mandarin, Spanish or French), physical education, computers and music. I have had each of those teachers stop me and tell me something about my different children, how they're helping them with an area or proud of their progress.

As for the administration, there have been changes. Arlene Hogan is a very experienced and thoughtful new Head of School, we are lucky to have her. The campus has a Diversity Committee and I've seen a greater range of ethnicities here than I have on other campuses. Economically, scholarships are discreet and any show of financial advantage is infrequent. It's very much a community to be a part of -- if that's what you want. For two working parents, the before and after school programs are wonderful and resemble my old neighborhood where all the kids mixed and had a great time.

All in all, we feel lucky -- and most importantly -- our kids feel lucky every day to be at Bentley. Lisa

Re: Which middle school for CPS students?
You asked ''which middle school your child attended?'' Bentley. ''Do you feel that the middle school did a good job preparing your child to succeed at CPS?'' Yes, but I think it was more her than anything about Bentley. ''How does the CPS homework load compared to that particular middle school homework load?'' She felt the workload was actually a lot less her freshman and sophomore years than she'd been used to at Bentley; then it ramped up. ''Are there any academic areas that your child felt he/she wasn't well prepared for CPS?'' No. Did the middle school prepare your child for study skills needed at CPS (or any high school for that matter)?'' Absolutely.

Re: Elementary schools where African American boys thrive
I personally think that the Bentley School is an excellent school for African American boys. I have 2 girls and a baby son. My 2 daughters go to Bentley and love it. They have teachers of color at the Bentley school that are fantastic as well as amazing white teachers who have a love for diversity in the classroom. My son is just a baby, but I will have him attend Bentley when it comes time for him to go to Kindergarten. You should really check the school out. I am sure that you would love it. anon

We have a 2nd grader and soon to be in Kindergarten next fall. I am torn in between The Academy and Bentley School.
1- French Foreign Language from Kindergarten onwards Both schools offer this but I would like to know which has better foreign language program in terms of teacher (native speakers) quality of teaching, curriculums. And if the class is conducted in French only or English or both? How would you rate the proficiency level of a child by the time they reach 8th grade?
2- Science I understand that Bentley School use the hands on approach, thesis, experiments and project base. Is this the same case for The Academy? And at what grade do they start using this method, from kindergarten onwards or only until they reach at a higher grade?
3- Are the teachers specialist and experts in the field they teach for all grades or teachers that have at least a Bachelor's Degree?
3- What is the classroom ratio for both schools? I understand that Bentley has a maximum of 20 per class. Do they have a ratio of 20:1 or 10:1?
And of course, the fees between this two schools is about $6k.
4- Financial Aid for Bentley is it given out only to middle school and high school or do they offer it to lower school as well?
5- Middle class income parents do you feel uncomfortable or have you ever been put in that situation among other Upper class/Rich Parents? I am torn... Anon

1. When we were at Bentley, it was French 1/2 year, Spanish 1/2 year til one of the higher grades. Our child came away not learning much as a result. Don't know if Bentley still does the same split now or not. As for the teachers, I believe Bentley has a very new French teacher, so I can't comment on French there now. But the French teacher at the Academy is superb. She is a native speaker and in the earliest grades runs a very oral immersion sort of program, so the children have very good comprehension and accents. As the grades go up, she gives them more written/reading work. And in all cases she has high standards and demands excellence from her students. She's very warm with the children but the same time runs a tight ship. The Academy has a French spelling bee every spring; the children are given a word list with over a hundred words to study for a few weeks, and then there's an all-school competition. It's wonderful fun and the children rise superbly to the challenge. Bentley had nothing like this. In our experience the French program is of extremely high academic caliber.

2. There is simply not enough space here for me to rave about the academic excellence of the science program at the Academy. For one thing, there is a specialty teacher just for science. When we were at Bentley, science was part of the regular classroom curriculum and didn't go into much depth. At the academy, not only do kids do hands on work from the get go, it's detailed, sophisticated science that they are doing. Among many other topics: sophisticated planetary science & plant biology in the 3rd grade, human biology & electromagnetism in the 4th grade, chemistry in the 5th grade (this list is not exhaustive for these grades). The teacher is imaginative, dedicated, inspires the children immensely. He encourages creativity, insists on excellence in written work too. Every March there's a science fair where every child designs an original science project. As of this year, there's a beautiful new large science lab as a result of renovations this summer.

3. I'm not sure what you mean by 'specialist and experts in all grades': in the lower school there are specialists for French, Science, Music, Art,P.E. Beginning with 6th grade there are specialist teachers for math, history, literature, latin as well. The teachers bios on the school website lists their credentials.

3b. Academy class size maximum is 16, our grade currently has 12. Kindergarten is usually somewhere around 8-10. While there were 16 in kindergarten at Bentley, Bentley had more than 20 children in the class in the grades above that when we were there, I think it was 22 or 23.

4. My understanding is that financial aid is available at Bentley for all grades.

5. Atmosphere: we at times were uncomfortable with the 'country club' atmosphere that can be perceived at Bentley, the Gala and the $$$ bidding that goes on there, recognizably different financial cultures in different families. Folks there just had a lot more money than we did and were focused on different things. There are some awfully nice people there we got along well with, but there was enough of an atmosphere to be noticable. When we first visited an open house at the Academy to explore moving there, we felt ''Ahhhh, this is where we belong''. Lots of parents are scientists, programmers, faculty at Cal, drs. We're an academically oriented family and what we perceived at the Academy felt like the right culture for us.

We have no regrets about our move to the Academy, only wish we had started there in kindergarten.

One final comment: as for the social scenes, our child was pretty lonely at Bentley, easy to get lost on the big playground among 40+ people in your grade. At the Academy no one falls through the cracks. At least in our grade, the class is like a family, everyone interacts well, and, crucially, everyone interacts. And the children get to know the children in higher & lower grades well as they have music & P.E. together. Our child has blossomed socially at the Academy. Glad we moved to the Academy.

She went to Bentley. Socially there were more students to choose from and she felt she could be herself and choose friends with similar interest. Yes, Bentley is a small school but bigger than The Academy.

My daughter did not like French at The Academy, she felt there was too much busy work and as a result, hindered learning. She love science, lots of hands on work, and says Mr. Aho is the best science teacher ever!

Bentley classes were much more structured, expectations were clear and although her teachers knew her, they didn't know her intimately, and as a result, did not judge her. She felt she was treated fairly by her teachers. Anon

Re: A Kinder, Gentler High School???
I'm a parent of 2 Bentley Upper School Alums and absolutely love that school. We made it through OIS but after 1 child with 1 year at Miramonte that was enough for us and my daughter transferred to Bentley. My son followed 3 years later. It's a great school - the teachers are excellent and very caring and interested in their students. They typically have gotten alot of kids from Seven Hills. There have been some administration issues there but they are definitely working on those issues. My son graduated last year and my daughter in 2005. I'm more than happy to talk about Bentley if you want further info. Judy

Re: Considering alternatives to public high school
My son went to Miramonte in Orinda for his freshmen year and became very depressed. The kids were cliquish and cruel. He did like his English class because the teacher, Mr. Lytton, was creative and inspired, but my son was not impressed by his other teachers.

We are sending him to Bentley this year and he has a lot of respect for all of his teachers. Also, he is a guitarist and he is thrilled with the music program. Socially things are OK - not great - but the Bentley administration and faculty take the well-being of the students very seriously. Intolerance and the kind of teasing that goes on at Miramonte is not allowed. It may be a better place for your son - I don't know - it is so hard to know what to do when your child is depressed. I hope things work out for you. Bentley Mom

Hello Parents, I'm writing to ask about folks' experience with Bentley School, the K-8 program. I'm interested in a school that has a multicultural philosophy and curriculum, a school where social justice and inclusivity is important and noticeable, in the air- the curriculum, school culture, faculty/staff, student body, and families. (Multiculturalism to me goes beyond the number of families of color, it is an appreciation of diversity that includes race/ethnicity, socio-economic positions, and family configurations.) For those of you with direct and/or indirect experience with Bentley can you give me your honest opinion? We are currently at a school in Berkeley, and due to lack of financial aid we are looking to move. We are looking at other schools, where their commitment is more evident, but there is a question mark about Bentley, and for certain reasons at this time it remains on our list. Please give your straightforward opinion, and if you have any recommendations about a particular school please add that as well.

The only downside was that I was acutely aware of being the only poor kid at school. At least, I thought I was; perhaps I was only unaware. I never felt that race was an issue, and neither was family structure, but the economic divide was seriously harsh. I never felt that I could fully forget it. It was clear to me, all the time, that these kids had money and I didn't. There was an undercurrent of economic/class division that was impossible to ignore, at least for me.

Of course, all this should be taken with plenty of salt. It was, after all, thirty years ago. But the point is, I loved Bentley. I still do, in the way you love old stuffies that you played with as a child. But perfect? Nope, it was never that. Kathleen

Bentley provided many things for our son, including an exciting and vibrant academic environment. But no, it was not a school that embodied a multicultural philosophy in the way you define it. The positives: there have been efforts to ethnically diversify the students and faculty, often achieved by Caucasian and Asian American families, some international families, and unfortunately, only a few African American families. The school also increasingly respects diversity in terms of working constructively with children with learning disabilities. An interest in world cultures is fostered at all grade levels, and fiction and nonfiction readings on issues social justice have been incorporated into the regular curriculum. But if you are looking for a social justice oriented school culture - community projects, awareness of wealth and poverty within the student body, day-to-day problem solving related to interpersonal issues and parent involvement in dialogues on multicultural issues within the school, there are better schools to provide this in the East Bay. We don't think of Bentley as a racist institution, but we would not consider it a multicultural institution. We are Caucasian. I hope this helps you weigh the pros and cons. Bentley parent

Re: Head-Royce and Bentley lower school
We looked at 6 schools and were torn between HRS and Bentley but ultimately decided we wanted a nurturing and smaller school setting with a strong math, science and foreign language program for our family and therefore picked Bentley as our top choice. We also thought our children would probably benefit from a campus change as they grew older rather than being in the same setting for 13 years.

However, you really can't go wrong with either school. The pace of academics IN THE LOWER SCHOOL is higher at Bentley than at HRS while it still manages to have an awesome language, arts and music program as well (I know the latter two are true for HRS as well).

The teachers are extremely warm and the lower school head at the school has an open door policy. Beth Crowley is a former teacher and still loves to be in the classrooms mentoring new teachers and helping with any issues pertaining to children. I can't say what a difference it makes having someone who is so involved and the kids love her.

What is amazing is that Bentley really tries to emphasize to parents not to overschedule kids with activities and has taken steps to ensure that the children are challenged but not stressed out and I've seen this attitude in the middle school as well. I was very pleased to see how our kindergarten teacher focussed so much on the overall well being of our daughter rather than where she was academically during our first parent teacher meeting. She told us we should cut back our extra curricular activities to one or two/week and make sure our daughter had access to sand play and given opportunities to continue her imaginative play. When visiting the school, you really do see that the children are enjoying themselves but still learning at a steady pace.

Anyway, we love the school and have become a part of the active network of parents - its a very involved community and you find folks of many different backgrounds there. But again, I don't think you can go wrong with either school. We know parents that are quite happy at HRS as well and satisfied that they made the right choice for their family.

You may want to contact Arlene Hogan in the admissions office and have her set you up with a follow up tour as it really is inspiring to watch the teachers in action.

Good luck with your decision! - Pleased Bentley Parent

Re: Math for gifted kids
Bentley's lower school (grades 1-8) has a great math program, especially for middle schoolers, who take two years of Algebra (7th & 8th) from two extraordinary teachers, Saul Gerry & Nick Grener. Bentley isn't for every child, but it is fabulous for the academically gifted child, especially those who excel in math. mom of gifted child

As a parent of Bentley Upper School for 8 years I’d like to express my appreciation for an outstanding experience for my two children. I value Bentley’s challenging academics, honest communication and skilled and caring teachers. My children were offered and enjoyed participating in many cultural, athletic and artistic endeavors that they would not otherwise have joined. I was struck by the enthusiasm, eloquence and accomplishments of Bentley alumni who came back to speak to current parents and students about the college admissions process and their college experience. I’ve seen this high school grow from its first class of students to full classes and I am grateful that my now adult children have learned academic and life skills that carry them through their years. This school is a great addition to the choices for HS and has served our children extremely well- including its growing pains. Thank you to the teachers who are talented, caring and creative- you are wonderful adult role models who will be remembered for all you gave to us. The school has been great for our family and I'm sad to have my youngest graduating. Grateful parent

I have read all the existing reviews on Bentley, have toured the school and am very impressed with what they offer. I just wanted to pose a couple of questions to existing or former Bentley parents:
- When touring the school we saw the 'open court' textbooks in the classrooms. We were very surprised since that's one of things we are trying to get away from by going to private school. Unfortunately, we did not ask the school about it while we were there.
- We have heard some comments that in addition to the already steep tuition there is an excessive amount of fundraising and an obligatory donation event once a year. I understand that all schools have fundraising activity, but I am just trying to gauge how much that is and whether it is more than other schools do any input is very much appreciated. anon

Now many years later, my child has 'caught' up and is reading proficiently, prolifically and is on track with her classmates. The children who were prolific earlier readers still seem to be prolific readers. I believe that the way Bentley supports such a broad range of learners is that the classrooms are stocked with a broad range of books of different levels of difficulty. When the students have assignments like their reading challenges (read as many books as you can in the Month of May) or book reports they are encouraged to read at their 'comfort' and interest level. So while Open Court readers are used I don't think that they represent the only tool in their arsenal of reading tools. As a parent of a student that was slightly 'behind' the core class we were asked to set her up to succeed by reading often with her and to encourage her to read books that were 'comfortable' and interesting to her to build her confidence and her vocabulary. In truth I don't think I remember seeing the Open Court reading books much at all. I saw lots of library books of my child's own selection.

In regards to fund raising. Yes it is a part of life with any private school that does not have some source of revenue generator like an endowment. Unfortunately I believe that for most schools the cost of annual operation is not fully covered by the already high tuitions. Like any school, Bentley would love for every family to give lots of money so that it could continue to fund growth, improvements, pay for good teachers and programs, etc., etc. There is strong encouragement to give to the Annual Fund. The more the better, but participation from all families at any level of giving is also encouraged. The annual 'Gala' is not a mandatory event. Many of us go to support the school and because it is a lot of fun!

Bentley is a great school. It has some issues as I imagine any school does. I wish I had millions to give to the Annual Fund. I don't so I give what I can. It seems to work out ok for our family and the school Bentley parent

As for your question on Open Court, Open Court is a reading series used in 3-5. They also read many other age appropriate novels. The K-5 uses the McMillan series as their anthology. They also read many other age appropriate chapter books that tie in with the Social Studies and Science curriculum. As far as financial aid, there was a letter and a follow up email asking for a donation. Definitely not overbearing and we're grateful for that. You can decide to give whatever you want whether its $25 or a lot more but we haven't felt anyone pressuring us. The school seems to enjoy great resources from existing parents as well as former families and corporations giving.

Overall, we've been extremely pleased with our daughter's happiness here and the fact that she's getting a strong overall education is definitely the added bonus! Bentley Parent

We'd be grateful for any information on Bentley (esp. 5th grade and beyond): atmosphere, teachers, workload, kid dynamics, anything. Older postings indicate concern about the administration focus on the new middle school site, problems in parent-administration communications, etc. Is this all over and done with?

The past issues with the administration seem to be resolved for the most part. In particular, the middle school head is amazing. Parents are very pleased both with his communication with them, and with the way he interacts with the students.

My daughter has lots of wonderful friends at school, although they do live all over: Oakland, Berkeley, Kensington, Orinda, and Lafayette. We have found the social environment to be considerably more nurturing than that of a typical public school. Of course, this varies class by class, but the kids in the fifth grade are supportive of one another, and have minimal social conflicts.

Bentley is a pretty academic environment, and my only caution is that it may not be right for every kid. The teachers are skilled at helping every student meet his or her potential, but the classroom pace is fairly fast. Bentley is the perfect place for bright students who want to learn. I can't imagine a better school for my daughter!
Bentley Parent

Although I agree with much that has been posted about the Bentley administration, I must weigh in with some comments about the school. My daughter is a student at the lower school, and this will be her fourth year at Bentley. We have found the school to be an enormous gift to our daughter, who is bright, highly academic, and was not challenged by our excellent public school. The teachers are wonderful, dedicated, and skilled. In our experience, they have all been highly responsive. E-mails are answered promptly, and teachers make time throughout the week to meet with parents by appointment. The students work one full grade level ahead (i.e. the third graders work from fourth grade texts). The math program is outstanding. Social studies is also very strong. For example, in second grade when the kids study pioneer life, they participate in ''Pioneer Day''. The students come to school in pioneer costumes, and experience an entire day of pioneer activities--everything from leather tooling and hoop rolling to lemonade making and ice cream cranking. Bentley students start out with exposure to both French and Spanish. In third grade, they choose one language to continue. My daughter is in the Spanish program, which is excellent. Again, the teacher is incredible, and the children love her. Bentley also has a wonderful art program. The art teacher is a much beloved character at the school--the kids adore him. The art curriculum includes art history, as well as amazing projects. The kids work with a variety of media to create sculptures, carvings, oil paintings, and much more. Often, art projects tie into what the kids are studying in other subjects (i.e. making paper mache penguins when they are learning about penguins in science). There is an all-school art show each year. The music department is also outstanding, although at the lower school it is focused almost entirely on vocal music. The kids participate in concerts twice a year. There are many other wonderful aspects of the school, but by far its greatest strength is its teachers. Even though some teachers left the lower school last year, there are many, many outstanding faculty members remaining. There were no staff departures this year, and the last year's new hires are also excellent. I believe that despite the weakness of the administration, the school is an amazing place for kids to learn and thrive. A Happy Bentley Parent

Re: Which private school?
As a parent who has had a child in Bentley and in Piedmont (and examined several of the other alternatives you mention), I would emphatically recommend against Piedmont for a gifted child, and especially a shy one. Being a public system that must take all residents, and hew to state and federal goals, Piedmont's focus is on the average (or, really, slightly below ave! rage) child. ... Before you decide against Bentley, please visit. For my child, Bentley was freeing, and a place where her interests and talents were valued and supported. Bentley fan

We are looking for the right Kindergarten/Elementary school for our daughter.

I have heard some good things about Bentley but also some questionable things about the new administration and would love to hear from parents who already have kids there about what is really going on.

Specifically, is the school well run? Are teachers happy and are retention levels a Bentley similar to other schools? When there are issues, are parents able to give feedback to the Bentley staff and is it responded to?

We would be in this for the long haul and wouldn't want to get our daughter enrolled if the school isn't clearly headed in a positive direction. Many thanks, Ian.

Among those are many good teachers. The classroom experience is still wonderful. Really dedicated, passionate talent. The enrichment activities, art, music, foreign language, are fantastic. The lower school campus is lovely and well maintained. Our question is how much longer this great classroom experience can last. Sixteen teachers and staff left last year.

The focus of the new headmaster and the Board seems to be on building a new middle school: parents hear a lot about raising money, but it is telling that in presentations to parents, almost nothing is mentioned sustaining and building a great learning environment that supports and nurtures teachers. (There seems to be no understanding that if you have a happy school that is on fire with learning that parents will send in money by the buckets-many families are not contributing to the annual fund this year as the only way they have of making their discomfort felt.)

We've also found that at Bentley, there is no way for the parents to express concern. Letters to the Board signed by large groups of parents have gone unanswered. The old "Headmaster's Forums" where the Headmaster would meet with Parents have recently been renamed "Community Nights" and the Headmaster does not take any questions or open discussion. Parents are told to not talk to one another and trust that they Board will handle all, but we have no insight into the process of how things are being resolved.

There has been a clause inserted into parents' contracts stating that if there is not a "positive and constructive working relationship between Bentley and the parents" Bentley can suspend or terminate a student at any time (plus the parents is still responsible for the full tuition). Teachers were asked to sign a document stating that they wouldn't talk to parents privately about the school.

My son spent nine years at Bentley, and the experience was very good for him. He was a serious, academically-oriented child who fit in reasonably well. In retrospect, I think that the math program may have stifled his creativity somewhat, but all in all it was a good fit.

For my daughter, however, Bentley was a disaster. She didn't respond well to the rigidity of the academic program. In the later grades she developed health problems related to depression. Ironically, my pediatrician had warned me about ''Bentley burnout'' when my daughter was younger, and I had paid no attention.

I don't know whether Bentley was to blame for my daughter's problems, but I believe the counseling staff handled them very badly. Although my daughter was never disruptive in any way, both she and I sensed a spirit of blame rather than compassion.

The moral of all this may be that you should be really sure that your child is a Bentley child before you choose it. You should also be more watchful than I was for signs it isn't working out.

To protect my daughter's privacy, this has to be ... Anonymous

I knew that Bentley would be a good school for my son when he was in the 8th grade and went to Bentley for a visit day. He was so excited about the classes he sat in that he had taken pages of notes! Later, when my husband took him to the open house there, the teachers remembered him. In middle school my son was more of an introvert, but at Bentley he has competely blossomed.

A Bentley mom

Re: Middle Schools with a strong math/science department
There are two middle schools that I can say with certainty have fantastic math programs: Black Pine Circle and Bentley. They both have fabulous dedicated math teachers, Mr. Gulimovskiy at Black Pine, and Mr. Lubliner (I think that's his name - they call him Mr. L) at Bentley. Both schools just placed first and second in the East Bay Math Counts competition and will be sending teams to the State competition. This has been the case for years now. Lucy

My daughter has been going to Bentley for two years. I was hesistant at first about even applying to the school, because it did not seem to address diversity in any way. I live in a community where diversity only means White and Asian ( I am not implying that these groups are less meaningful - but in the Bay Area getting to know and learn about these cultures is a bit easier). Anyway, what I have found is a place that wants to produce well educated and informed, responsible, well rounded students.

The enviroment is warm, fun, and friendly to students. The teachers are supported in an environment where students want to learn. The students form a community or better yet a neighboorhood with aftercare, (which is included in the tution) afterschool activities, forums, town halls, communication committees. The parent association is very active and you can get as involved as you have skills and time (no Mandatory volunteer hours yet).

The Diversity of the students, staff, and faculty is also flourishing. The academic curriculum is fun and challenging to keep my child stimulated and working on applying concepts to the real world as she grows. It is worth checking out the school for your child. Parent in 2A

I'd like to invite all parents of fall 2002 kindergartners to the Bentley Kindergartners' information sessions on Saturday, Nov 10 from 10-12 pm and Thursday, December 6 from 7-9 pm at their Hiller Campus, located at the juncture of Tunnel road /Ashby and the entrance to Highway 13, just past the Claremont Hotel. Hiller is a sharp left. Bentley's Hiller campus is a private K-8 grade school. I hope to be at one or both session with my prospective Kindergartner.

My older daughter is in her second year there after spending three years in public school. She had a good experience in public school but she loves Bentley. She enjoys all the students in her class, both the boys and the girls. She cannot wait to go to school each day, and she even enjoys doing her homework-- complaining occasionally, but never failing to do it.

The parent groups at the school are very active. I am a part of the Diversity Committee and the parents on this committee are incredible. All have the same values and principles I hold important for my children. Community. Family. Education. Diversity. As the parent of biracial children, I am very concerned that my daughter continues to have a positive self-image. So far so good.

I must admit, prior to applying to the school, I read the information about Bentley on this website and I was a little discouraged. My husband and I both wanted a more structured academic environment than our public school had to offer but we didn't want to sacrifice the richness, diversity and sense of community our local public school had to offer. While Bentley still has a ways to go in that regard, The new headmaster and many committed parents have made it their goal to ensure the richness of the Bay Area is reflected in the school.

To refute the previous comments about Bentley School, my daughter not only cares about the academics, she enjoys the music, arts and language programs as well as her girl scout troop. She also enjoys the healthy competitive atmosphere of the school and their athletics program. Last week, she decided she wanted to win one of the fitness awards and now does sit ups in the evening.

My 4th grader is a normal healthy child who loves soccer, scooby doo and all manner of cartoons--not an exceptional genius, but given the stimulation and supportive atmosphere at Bentley, my husband and I feel she will certainly grow up to be an exceptional person.

Audrey

My daughter is currently a third grader at Bentley School. We have been extremely happy with the school. She started as a kindergartner. The school has an undeserved reputation as a tough, unfeeling school. That couldn't be farther from the truth. The school places a very high emphasis on academics, and the kids generally work at about one grade level above (for example in 2nd grade the math book was grade 3, this year in 3rd grade the math book is for grade 4.) However, all of the teachers have been great, kind, caring individuals who watch out for the whole kid. there is a new headmaster this year who is fabulous. He talked in the beginning of the year about how Bentley has a reputation of only working with kids from "the head up" meaning only emphasizing academics and avoiding the social, developmental aspects. I do think this was the emphasis of the past headmaster, although it was not the case with the teachers. Anyway, this headmaster in maintaining the high academic standards, but making sure that the social elements are not forgotten. the last comment I will make is that while academics are emphasized, the art and music program are also excellent!! Holly

Bentley is divided into the lower (K-8) school in Oakland and the upper school (9-12 --highschool) in Lafayette. Although I know little about the lower school , I can speak about the upper school, which opened about 3 years ago. My daughter is a 9th grader there, and its been a positive experience. The teachers are well-qualified, and professional, many with Masters degrees. Classes are small, and there are about 50 students altogether in her grade. The classwork is rigorous, but not overwhelming. The focus is on a "traditional" education--for example she is learning ancient history and is reading The Odyssey in her English class. There are many school activities and clubs, so I don't feel the focus is just on academics. For someone who likes a small, intimate school environment where all the teachers and students know each other, a classic education, and a fair amount of nurturing and oversight, Bentley is a good choice. Because this high school is so new, teachers are willing to try new things and the students are from all over, most have not attended Bentley lower school. The lower school has a much longer history, and a more intense academic and social environment. As the upper school grows, I suspect it will probably become more in line with the lower school. I rather enjoy this phase, where its growing and defining itself. -- dorfro

About Bentley...from the two years that my older daughter went there, your observations seem right, lots of pressure to learn and test well. We say that Bentley does a good job from the neck up, but what about the whole person? It's a good school but lots of pressure and the community is very status concerned. - Anon.