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On Monday, my daughter (a freshman at BHS) was accosted by a group of teenagers at the bus stop after school. One girl grabbed my daughter's iPod out of her hand and passed it off to a boy while another girl distracted her by yelling in her face. My daughter was with a large group 7 or 8 kids. When she turned to them for help, they refused to get involved because, they told her, they didn't want to ''get beat up.'' My daughter didn't recognize any of the perpetrators, but her friends later told her that at least one goes to BHS; some had even had things stolen by this same group before but never reported it to the police for fear of retaliation.
Granted, she shouldn't have taken her iPod to school, and we could have chalked the whole thing up to lesson learned, but we felt it was important for the police and the school to know about this activity so we filed reports. Now I'm wondering if all we've done is set up our daughter for further bullying.
Does anyone else have experience with this kind of thing at BHS? Concerned mom
So after the dean found the perpetrators on tape, she then asked the Berkeley police to follow up with my son. So get this, the police come to the class and call him out of class with no respect for confidentiality or his safety! Nothing like trying to protect BHS student who is trying to do the right thing!
Long story short, nothing was resolved, but I was very angry how the administration and the police handled it. I think and hope things have improved. My younger son just graduated from BHS and I never heard of any problems for him.
That being said, we as parents must protect our children, teachers and staff from this type of intimidation. How in the world can your daughter return to school knowing that at least one BHS student did this to her and her friends were scared to intervene? There needs to be consequences. Otherwise the intimidation won't stop. If nothing else, school security and the police must be aware of this and be more vigilant at times when this may be happening.
Good luck and thank heavens no one was hurt. In my son's
case, he tried to run and the kids slammed him against the
wall, but again he wasn't hurt. There have been incidents,
mostly I think with boys, where BHS students were badly
hurt, requiring medical treatment and/or hospitalization!
A concerned parent who has been there
You did the right thing by reporting the crime to the Berkeley Police Department. If a BHS student was involved, you should also report it to the school, which seems to take such things a lot more seriously if a police report has been filed.
Not reporting the crime spreads the message that iPods are fair game to be stolen because they aren't valuable enough to prompt a response... A better message might be that NOTHING is worth stealing, because of the likelihood of being caught and punished. Any of us who refuses to file a report, out of fear, is complicit in the victimization of the NEXT kid who is bullied or robbed. Our safety is in numbers.
My sympathies to your daughter -- who deserves better friends
than those who would stand by and watch her victimized. Perhaps
they should agree as a group how to behave next time, if there is a
next time.
Heather
Our silence and fear in regards to bullying, theft, and aggression only sends the wrong message to the perpetrators of these acts and does nothing to mend a victim's wounds. And the troubled kids who think that they can act in an aggressive manner need our attention, not our apathy or fear.
This issue was somewhat recently (in August) discussed on the Yahoo listserve for Berkeley High School Academic Choice. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BHSAcademicChoice/
Best of luck to you and your daughter, Diana
I had four children attend Berkeley High (from 1990 to 2005) and am currently working part time as the Volunteer Coordinator. Today the school is SIGNIFICANTLY calmer than it was in the nineties. When my children first attended the schools there were staircases where gamblers hung out, non BHS students wandering on and off campus, bathrooms that were not safe, and tension between student groups. Today I see none of this. I walk in and out of student bathrooms all over campus all the time, up and down any staircase I want, and work at the front desk where I hear and see a lot. The school feels calm and secure. I attribute this ambient to two factors: personnel and buildings.
In the spring of 2004 the new administration building on the corner of Allston Way and Milvia was inaugurated. The building is magnificent. In addition, it completes the perimeter which in essence has created a closed campus. It is now possible to lock gates from 2nd period on and stop non students from wandering on campus. Students walking the halls must have large red passes clearly identifying them as BHS students with hall passes. Non BHS students are not allowed to wander unsupervised. Underage drop ins are not allowed. Finally, Mr. Slemp, now in his fourth year as principal, has been at the school long enough to set in place safety policies and make sure they are implemented. Our security officers know their job. Mr. Ramos is a really good dean. Mr. Smith who runs the On Campus Intervention is awesome.
Statistics back up my impressions: Over the last four years the number of students facing disciplinary action has fallen each semester. In the fall of 05 there were 15 assaults, 220 disruptions. In the fall of 2006 there were 3 assaults, and 147 disruptions. Now keep in mind that Berkeley is a VERY large school. There are 3,200 students. The number of discipline problems is very small.
These are the problems I DO see. For one, the school has done such a good job handling discipline and safety some fighting has been pushed off campus. The school safety officers are currently working with the police and merchants to do a better job making sure the downtown area is a safe place. The biggest problem however is thievery. Many students lose items from their backpacks—especially freshmen who arrive without street smarts. During the first fire drill any number of kids walked away from their backpacks only to come back and find they had been rifled through. The librarian just had her wallet lifted as did an office worker. It always makes me sad but kids (and grownups) do learn to watch their stuff and leave easily lift able items home.
Janet Huseby
I have a daughter beginning BHS as a 9th grader next fall. I have been told by two "credible" sources that there is a particular hallway on the BHS campus where white kids are not welcome and have been jumped if they stray there. Would someone please comment? Please don't use my name. Thanks
I too have been reading about the "dangerous halls" and "disgusting grounds", so I decided to see for myself. I have to be honest, as a 35 yr resident of Berkeley and BHS graduate, I was truly disappointed to see the conditions under which our kids have to pursue their education in academics and life. The atmosphere is not pleasant, and the attitude is meaner, but there is still good work going on in spite of the conditions.
There are far too many kids roaming the halls and grounds during class times, and it is difficult to determine which kids are students and which have come onto campus through the numerous un-monitored entrances. Truancy is a huge problem, but so is scheduling. When I've asked kids why they were not in class at various times, they say they have a "hole" in their schedule. So why don't they fill it, well they are teens, and a hole means "free" time.
The attitude of the parents and administrators needs to change about how to "guide" these potentially great kids, and not just "let it happen", because this is what you get.
Finally, I would like to say, IF YOU ARE REALLY CONCERNED, please take an hour out of your day and come down to the campus and join the effort of the Parents and Guardians on Campus to help "keep an eye on things". Believe me, every teacher I have encountered is very grateful that parents are getting involved. After all, isn't it more effective to start a conversation off with, "I've seen", rather than, "I've heard". Thanks for listening, I hope you heard. Ed
About ten days ago, my son entered the second floor H building hallway and saw the passageway "blocked" by twelve boys. Realizing that he could not pass through them, he walked casually up to two boys whom he did know who were standing close to the group of twelve. He said hello to one of the two boys, talked for a minute or two, and then stood with both of them, since he felt "safer" with them than alone. Suddenly, he told me, the larger group got excited and a boy about 6'2" raised his hand high in the air. Then, without warning, the boy with the arm raised turned 90 degrees to the boy my son had been talking to, and swiftly, powerfully, smashed his fist into the boy's jaw. My son said that he could hear this boy's jaw crack as he fell to the ground. The larger group of boys stood over him as he lay on the floor, laughed at him, called him names and then walked away. The boy got up, his nose bleeding, and walked down the hallway in a daze. A teacher came along who helped him.
A week later when my son saw the boy who had been hit, the boy asked my son if he knew who hit him and why. The group who did it could not be identified.
None of the hallways at Berkeley High are safe. The violence is random and perpetrators go unpunished. There are thugs who go to school every day to prey on unsuspecting "targets" who don't know who hit them or why. Most students don't report being robbed, mugged or threatened because they are afraid. And they have reason to be.
Let's put this into perspective, BHS parent, and others who think because their kid hasn't been victimized, that the safety issue has been overblown. Last year it was fires; this year it is unwarranted assaults. Berkeley High School IS unsafe. Thirty two hundred students are crammed onto this campus and there are only "three escape routes" and no abundance of security. I tell people who ask me about Berkeley High that this safety issue is not rumor. It's real. And it needs to be addressed. NOW. Another Berkeley Parent
I would like to post this in the discussion section in response to parents concerns about violence at BHS
From: "Laura Menard"
Superintendent Steve Goldstone and Principal Frank Lynch have been meeting with City Manager Weldon Rucker, Mayor Shirley Dean and the BPD Youth Services to develop practices and procedures to meet security needs and develop truancy solutions. Frank Lynch explained his intentions to promote a respectful, safe learning environment with this extraordinary mutual support.
Some of the remedies being implemented are: revised security plan, increased personnel, BPD supported training for safety officers, new vests identifying BHS Safety officers, improved student identification cards in the fall and increased reporting practices. When students who have experienced or witness violence report the incident to Principal Frank Lynch, security manager Barry Wiggan and/or the police youth services division, consequences can be given to those responsible.
Walk your Talk Join in! We have been walking the campus in pairs or threesomes. When we encounter a problem, we call BHS Safety Officers via radios. Currently we only have a handful of folks, we need more. Primarily after lunch, noon 3:00. You can volunteer by calling Laura Menard 849-4319 or Frank Lynch 644-4567. Drop-in is fine, red windbreakers and radios are available from Frank Lynch.
Mayor Dean is greatly concerned about the violence and physical assaults at the High School. She is working with the City Manager and the School District to take immediate steps to ensure the safety of all students at Berkeley High School. One piece of her efforts to solve the problems at the High School is the attached item that she has submitted to the City Council, for consideration on Tuesday, May 8th. The Mayor believes that all students should be in class between 2nd and 6th periods. Students should not be roaming campus, the building hallways or the Civic Center Park. The Mayor requests that parents who support her suggestion to the School District and who want the violence ended at the High School should come to the City Council and voice their concerns. There is a 30 minute public comment period at the BEGINNING of the Council meeting at 7 p.m. Ten cards are selected at random from those submitted by people wishing to address the Council. If you are not able to come to the meeting, you can send an e-mail to the Mayor and Council members by directing it to clerk@ci.berkeley.ca.us The City Clerk will distribute your message to the Mayor and the Council members.
Maintaining a parent presence on campus all day long for the remaining weeks of school is the principal's number one priority at this time for parent involvement. At the General PTSA Meeting on May 1, Principal Lynch asked that every parent, guardian, grandparent, and significant adult in our children's lives take time to walk on campus. He described a campus situation that has become "critical" and needs all of our immediate attention.
To help out, please go to the front desk of the administration portable any time between 8:00 a.m. and 4:00 p.m. You will be given a red jacket and be sent to walk about the campus in pairs. Drop in is fine, but you may also sign up in advance by calling Principal Frank Lynch at 644-4567.
This is true -- my son sees the people who jumped him almost everyday at BHS. They are apparently students at the school. He is reluctant to report them, but has described them to security. What is needed but very hard to accomplish is a way to identify these people without fear ot being "discovered" or sought out by those committing the crimes -- how do we accomplish this and insure our kid's safety?
Kids are jumped or robbed at all hours of the day on and off campus -- Last year one of my son's friends was robbed as he was walking to lunch with a group of friends -- he disappeared for 10 minutes and came up to his group and said "I was just robbed" -- this is broad daylight at lunch time near Shattuck Avenue -- lots of people around.
Last updated: Jan 27, 2007
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