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Customs for a young man coming into manhood

Sept 1999

My uncle is wanting to find what different customs there are in different countries for a young man coming into manhood as my cousin is turning 13 in a few weeks. Any recommendations or tips regarding this would be appreciated! Tamara


Re: Coming of age practices in different countries. The classic book on this is by Van Gennup (sp?), called "Rites of Passage." A warning that the customs in many places involve the sexual initiation of the boy/man. This may not be quite what your uncle had in mind. Dianna
We bought a book a few years back that discusses such rituals (among others). It's called "The Circle of Life: Rituals from the Human Family Album," edited by David Cohen, copyright 1991 by Cohen Publishers Inc, printed by Toppan Printing Co., Ltd. ISBN 0-06-250152-6. We thought it was a GREAT book.

After I recommended the book, "The Circle of Life: Rituals from the Human Family Album," I paged through it again. It had been some years since I had looked at it. I realized that some of the pictures were quite graphic. By this I mean that they show pictures of some rituals that we in our culture might find shocking, not that there are explicit body parts shown. There is a picture, for instance, of a teen undergoing the ritual of female circumcision. No explicit view of her genitals, but a VERY clear view of the expression on her face. I still think it is a great book. But I would consider it more of an anthropological piece, rather than as something to hand over to a teen unsupervised. Dawn


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