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We have two appointments scheduled with Dr. Lopez at Kaiser in Oakland. It is our understanding that he is a specialist in Autism Spectrum Disorders. However, our son has been seen by another psychologist who thinks he has sensory integration disorder. Kaiser doesn't seem to have anyone who specializes in this.
We filled out an autism questionaire provided by our pediatrician, and the only red flag it raised was on a sensory related question- does your child sometimes cover his ears? We are scheduled for a full autism screening even though I told Dr. Lopez that my son does not engage in repetitive behavior, is not obsessive, and does not show any other signs of autism. He is a happy, affectionate child who is very sensitive and may have a language delay, though he has been assessed by OUSD for that twice and they found his development to be in the normal range. I do not object to the screening, I guess we just have to rule autism out, but I don't think anyone is listening to me. They just keep asking me over and over if my son makes eye contact. He does.
Can anyone share their experiences with Dr. Lopez in a similar situation, related to autism or sensory issues? I'm afraid that if your tool is a hammer everything looks like a nail, and that my son may be labeled inapproprately.
Most kids with autism spectrum disorders have SI, but most kids with SI do not have an autism spectrum disorder. I have been reading a lot. I'm not a psychologist but I've read the DSM, looked at the categories for ASD, and I don't think my son fits there.
We are scheduled for an assesment by an OT at OUSD, as well as with a psychologist and a speech and language specialist. I am not sure if we will hold our son out a year from kindergarten or send him to a public or private school this year. A lot depends on these assessments. We are casting a wide net, looking for a variety of opinions. Any insights on working with Dr. Lopez or with OUSD, or with the search for answers in general would be appreciated. If you have any advice on how to cope with all of this I could use that as well.
We have found Dr. Lopez to be very helpful. and I do not feel that we have been ignored by him. He has attended IEP meetings with the school district and was very helpful in dealing with them.
The worst part was that after the whole painful excersise with both him and Kaiser Santa Teresea my son was labelled with autism and it appears everywhere on his medical chart... so now every medical visit we have for anything is overshadowed by this... ear infection... oh your son has autism....er visit.. oh your son has autism... well child visit.. oh your son has autism. The thing is my son is 7 now and is awesome, caring, funny but the whole experience follows us round like a shadow. disappointed with kaiser
Dr Lopez saw my son at least 30 times. When my son started adolescence, his behavior became so challenging (running away from home, failing classes that he had been getting A's in a semester earlier, extreme, sometimes violent anger, etc.) We asked Dr Lopez several times for a referral for a neuro-psychological evaluation, which he refused. We ended up in the Kaiser emergency room because our son was talking about suicide. Dr Lopez was on call and handled the situation in a highly un-professional manner. At that point my husband and I decided that Dr Lopez may be well-intentioned but was not helping our son.
We paid for an neuro-psych evaluation ourselves and for the past year he has been seeing a private psychologist. Our son, at age 13, was immediately diagnosed with ADHD. With this diagnosis we have been able to move forward and my son is doing remarkably well.
I don't understand why Dr Lopez never recognized my son's disorder. Spending 4 years with a patient and not once suggesting that ADHD may be a factor. W
Can anyone recommend an excellent child psychologist at Kaiser Richmond? My almost 4 y.o. son is having extreme tantrums, lots of defiance and anger, etc. It may not be at a ''clinical'' level--I just don't know--but our family needs help regardless because it is affecting us all. I checked the website and recommendations are mostly for Kaiser Oakland. Thanks. Anon.
She later attended a group anger management session that Kaiser offers that helps teach children how to identify their feelings and frustrations and appropriate ways to deal with anger and other emotions.
It's been a long journey and I'm not saying it's going to be easy because I've found that we never truly find out what one particular thing set her off, but at least she has strategies to help her cope and communicate her feelings. Also, find other parents that are going through the same thing. It helps to talk to someone who knows what you are going through and for the kids to have play dates because they will tell their peers more than they will tell an adult and they don't feel so alone. Good luck. celia
Hi. I'm new to Kaiser and need to find a good developmental psychologist/evaluator to assess my 6 year old son who is having behavioral problems, mostly with self-control, and home and at school. Has anyone been through this process at Kaiser Richmond and if so would you recommend the people you worked with there? Thanks so much. concerned mom
Last updated: Jun 19, 2009
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