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2008 Recommendations

March 2008

Looking for a great recommendation for a Family Law Attorney in the Eastbay. I would prefer the Walnut Creek area, but definitley open to any surrounding areas. Thanks! Susan


I would recommend Larry Rosen. He's a mediator (also an attorney), and helped me through a very tough divorce--so that it wasn't nearly as tough. He's in oakland (other side of the tunnel!) and SF. 415-356-9834. BB
Hi, I'm happy to recommend a friend, Lillian Epstein, who is warm, bright, and empathic, and now in her own family law practice in Berkeley. Lilian Epstein 510-868-3302 lilian[at]epsteinfamilylaw.com Good Luck

2006 Recommendations

Oct 2006

Looking for an attorney highly experienced in family law, custody. Thank you


I have tremendous appreciation for my family law attorney, Mary Oaklund, who has won multiple court judgements for me and my kids (custody and schooling issues) through her legal wisdom, sharp wit, and silver tongue (no dirty play). These successes are especially notable in that she has been up against an attorney who other lawyers seem to detest dealing with because of her nastiness (not the legal term, I suppose) and legal subterfuge. I highly recommend Mary Oaklund 483-6047 I'm so glad I found her.

2005 Recommendations

Nov 2005

I am looking for a good family law attorney. I need someone to review my divorce papers and let me know what my rights are when it comes to my Golden Retriever, Jake. I appreciate any recommendations. Erin


Divorce is pretty messy. When I started grad school in the engineering department my spouse became, shall we say, unsupportive. We decided to part ways since I wanted to get a PhD, and she wanted me to work for real money. Sigh... But I did manage to find a good divorce attorney. I called a good deal of the San Francisco family law attorneys, and didn't really click with anyone. When I finally got to the 'Law Offices of Jessica Watson' I had a noticeably different experience. She answered my questions rather than waiting for her turn to speak. She told me upfront what her rates were, which I couldn't get from others. She gave me references to look up and made me feel that I would be part of the process. I'm a control freak, so I really appreciated her catering to my special needs. I didn't feel like Ms. Watson was going to stamp a number on my case and put in a boilerplate performance. Felt very personalized...like my case, my life, was important. I appreciated that.

So, a high recommendation to the Law Office of Jessica Watson. The webpage is here: http://www.sfchildandfamilylaw.com her website says they specialize in divorce, adoption, and dependency. -Pascal


June 2005

I am looking for an attorney that specializes in child support. Not to go into too much detail, my husband is having to go to court for ''contempt''. He had been paying child support regularly until he lost his job back in October. He now has a job and has started paying as of May, but he still received a letter ordering him to go to court. Is there an attorney out there that helps the fathers????? anon


A really good lawyer is David Wong. His number is 510 868 1716. His rates are reasonable and he is smart, aggressive, and is very professional. Greg
June 2005

I'm pretty sure my ex is underreporting his considerable income and I'm looking for an attorney who is skilled in financial investigation and aggressive as well as being a relatively decent human being. Don't know if I can get all of that in one package but I've been turned off by the few attys I've interviewed so far, who seem competent and high-powered in legal matters but cold and indifferent as people and contemptuous of my child-centered values. I don't expect my lawyer to be my friend but can't imagine working with someone who can't muster some semblance of kindness. Scorned Nurturer


I have used Lori Wallerstein, recommended here, to investigate hidden assets. She left no stone unturned and found things in Europe as well as California. Still don't know how she did it. She is also an attorney but focuses only on investigations and business advising. She is at One Embarcadero is SF at 415-773- 2821. She is very easy to talk to and empathetic. Pretty funny too. She would probably help you find a lawyer you can work with. Good luck

2004 Recommendations

Sept 2004

I am looking for an lawyer who specializes in family law, in the East Bay. Mom in need


I know someone who is a psychologist and arbitrator in family law and no doubt knows lawyers in that business. She is a personal friend of mine so I don't feel comfortable putting her contact info on a public forum but if you're interested you can contact me and I'll share her e-mail with you directly. ilona
I would recommend that you speak to Through Understanding (and Larry Rosen). He's a lawyer and mediator. Essentially, he helps couples find a way to divorce in a harmonious way. I saw some really positive posts about him on Berekeley Parent's Network a few months back and then called with a little skepticism. My (soon-to-be-ex) husband and I have now met with him twice and I can't tell you how helpful it's been for us. My husband had an affair a year ago and I though I really don't want much of a relationship at all with him, I don't want to fight either. I mean I want what's best for my kids, which is for us to co-parent and at least respect each other, even if we're apart. Larry has helped us move far away from intense anger. My husband has ''heard'' me for the first time in so many years. And I don't forgive him but I do understand him better now, which is interesting. We've put in place some temporary agreements which we plan to finalize in the months to cmoe, and i just feel better about my life. Larry is pretty talented and generous person. He is a lawyer but not in the traditional sense, i guess. I've actually been really looking foward to posting this note for a long time. Jane ps His web Address is www.ThroughUnderstanding.com

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Jan 2004

This is a bit far afield, but can anyone recommend a good family law attorney in the Sacramento area? anon this time


I can highly recommend a close friend of mine's mother, Camille Hemmer, who has a family law practice in Sacramento. I have not had experience with her professionally, but can extrapolate from my experience with her as a person, that she would be a good choice. Her phone number is 916/920-9504 and address: 797 University Ave. Sacramento, CA 95825.
Try Barbara Bender at Stein & Baydaline. I don't know how much family law she does, but she did our family trusts. She's very straightforward and nothing surprises her - I'd describe her as worldly. If she doesn't do family law, she could at least point you in the right direction for the Sacramento area. Her email address is: bbender@stein-bay.com Good luck. Sharon
We have used Attorney Hugh Allen who is a Certified Family Law Specialist. He is in Rancho Cordova phone 916-852-0222. If you are looking for an attorney to fight for you he is the person to have. We won our case with him which was a real miracle. He is tough but extremely good. I would recommend him very highly. JH

2003 Recommendations

Dec 2003

Does anyone have any experiences with David Bunn, who is a family law attorney in Berkeley? I am looking for someone who is obviously knowledgeable, able to negotiate well, yet caring/understanding with his clients. It seems difficult to evaluate good attorneys in this field, and your feedback will be most appreciated. Anon. Richard Hill, on 5th Street in Berkeley, is the top of the heap when it comes to Trusts and Estates law. He can do the most simplest of trusts to more complicated scenarios of estate protection and division. His pedigree is impeccable, he was the trusts and estates person for Morrison and Forrester (sp?) for many years, he has a lovely personality, and he does not watch the clock, scrupulously. Many attorneys use him, which is really the highest possible endorsement. And,good for you for taking care of business. Richard Hill Fan


I don't know anything about David Bunn. However I used to practice family law and can recommend a good family law attorneys and mediators in the East Bay.
Lawyers:
Susan Bender 832-1411
Ann Fallon 925-296-6000
Margaret Gannon 452-1700
Cynthia Podren 849-9008
Dennis Rothhaar 763-5611

Family law Mediators:
Eva Herzer 526-5144
Martina Reaves 559-2685

Mediator for intergenerational/cultural family issues:
Adele Grunberg 530-9049
Amy
Oct 2003

hi, I need to find a family lawyer who has experience with how the Child Protective Services system works. There is an ongoing CPS investigation which is supposed to determine whether my toddler is being sexually abused. Because my child is young, CPS has been slow to come to any conclusions, and their investigation, though still open, has been completely inactive over the past couple of months. I haven't found a way to stop my child's other parent from visiting my child (unsupervised visits are court ordered and still ongoing). I need to find someone who can help me work with CPS and the family court services system to come up with a visitation schedule that is not a risk to my young child. I would sincerely appreciate any leads you might be able to give me. anonymous


Here's a quote from a lawyer I know [I asked about your concern]:

''Sounds to me like this person's case is in Family Court, and a Family Court judge has ruled it premature to have supervised visits. In cases such as this, there is usually dirt on both sides..... And since every case keeps the same judge throughout, judges know the case history pretty well.

The only way to get CPS moving is for the person to motivate the Family Court Services mediator handling her case, or, provide evidence something new has occurred. However, given CPS speed of late, if something new happens, I would file an Emergency Screening before a judge instead.

Another CPS thought: Unfortunately, the budget cutbacks have slashed resources and staff. So, the person needs to phone and write letters regularly.

However, once the person gets before a judge again, she/he really needs to pin the judge down to reasons why the current custody order remains in place.''

I hope it helps. -anon


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