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Hi there, any ideas about nice places to live around NYC? We
MAY be moving there and I want to look around at nice
communities... places like Albany/North Berk ...? Good school
districts? Not a bad commute for a daily trip to NYC? Anyone?
Thanks so much...
-East Coast Gal
Moved to Oakland from Hastings-On-Hudson, NY (easy 35 min. rail commute to
NYC) in '06 after raising family in NY. Also Dobbs Ferry, Tarrytown
Hartsdale (inland: not on river) and Westchester co. in general. Do a Wiki
search on these communities to start, for basic info. Hastings has good
schools, wonderful history, cool artists, writers, smart folks, etc. River
towns have great summer programs, and what's not to like about the cultural
& culinary offerings of NYC...? :-)
--Missing NY a little bit!
There are all the the other boroughs (Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens, and Staten
Island), but you could try towns in Westchester on the Metro North train
line too. You need a little more money up there, but it's definitely
commutable. Or for the real suburban experience try Long Island, also on a
train line-the LIRR.
We may be moving to New York so that my husband can take a
promotion. His office would be in Midtown Manhattan. I know
nothing about the New York suburbs. Can anyone recommend livable
places within an hour or so commute of Midtown in either Northern
New Jersey or Westchester County. We're looking for the usual,
good schools, relatively affordable housing (somewhere you can
buy a three-bedroom house for less than $600,000 or so), where
the people are generally friendly. Also, does anyone know of an
resources like BPN for the New York City area?
Any suggestions would be much appreciated
A good place to consider is Teaneck, New Jersey. It has the feel of an old town, not
just a suburb, and is about 10-15 minutes away from the GW Bridge. That means
that it takes no time to get to the city. There are convenient buses that depart
ridiculously often during rush hour (like, every 10-15 minutes). It's very lush, lots
of old trees.
We are also considering a move to the New York area. My husband may open a
branch of his architectural firm in Manhattan. We've spent quite a bit of time
researching various areas. In New Jersey, Westfield and Summit are incredibly
attractive little towns with terrific schools, tree-lined streets and nice Main Streets.
I've seen homes for under 600k on internet real estate sites -- probably more in the
Westfield area. Prices seem to range from 400k to over a million. Both towns are
on the train line and friends there tell us it is about an hour to Penn Station.
Neighboring towns called Scotch Plains and Cranford are also nice and perhaps a
little bit more affordable. In New York, Larchmont is a very nice community much
like Summit and Westfield -- but I think 600k will buy you less there.
Hope this helps. We are still actively learning about these areas ourselves.
I grew up in Bergen County, northern NJ in a small town called
Englewood Cliffs that's about 15 minutes away from midtown
Manhattan (without traffic). It was a wonderful place to grow
up: safe enough to ride bikes around town yet easily accessible
by public transit to NYC for school trips or quick errands. At
the same time, folks in NJ don't depend on going to NYC for
everything; every town has a small downtown area that has all
that you need--you don't *have* to cross the GW Bridge to get the
best pizza or bagels or clothes. NJ has all of that; I can't say
much about Westchester since I never lived there, but my guess is
that Westchester has all of that, too, but is more expensive,
less culturally diverse, & somewhat more private (or isolated).
I'm not sure where you could find houses for $600K & under for a
3 BD, though. Like here, the towns with the best schools, lowest
taxes, & quickest access to NYC are more expensive--$700K-$850K+
for 3 bdrm. I'm not sure how much the schools have changed in
the past 10 years, but when I was in that area, towns with the
better schools & w/in an hour commute of NYC include: parts of
Tenafly, Teaneck, Cresskill, Norwood, Demarest, Closter, Old
Tappan (Northern Valley), Westwood, Ridgewood. You could also
try Fort Lee, Cliffside Park & Edgewater; their elementary
schools might be okay
Love the Garden State
We moved to Oakland from Westchester last Dec. I raised my 2
kids in Hastings-on-Hudson, NY. and LOVED it. NYC's a quick
commute (30-35min. on the MetroNorth, the commuter rail; plus,
there are express buslines, and once you get into the city
limits, the subways are the way to go) the drive into the city
is quick & easy (no traffic: 25-45 min, dep. on where you're
going; during rush hrs: add 45-75 min. to that) the schools are
GOOD, many are GREAT, (they provide school buses there!) The
''Rivertowns'': Hastings, Dobbs Ferry, Irvington, Tarrytown, are
beautiful (check this site to answer many of your questions:
http://www.westchestergov.com/ ...and our old village:
http://village.hastings.ny.us/ ...or this, with other links:
Plus lots of towns ''inland'', not on the river,(Ardsley,
Hartsdale, Scarsdale, Chappaqua, Millbrook) and all the towns
on the L.I. Sound, like New Rochelle, Mamaroneck, Larchmont,
Pelham) to check. Many, if not all, have websites to explore.
Jersey has beautiful places, too, but you're separated from NYC
by the Hudson River, and then must therefor deal with either
bridges (Tappan Zee, or Geo. Wash.) or tunnels (Lincoln or
Holland). Not fun, but people do it. The diversity is
wonderful, and of course the arts/cultural opportunities boggle
the mind. We lived in NYC until the kids were 8 & 4, then moved
out, for a slower pace, school, green things. Best of both
worlds, everything's accessible; did trips to Old Sturbridge
Village, skiing in VT, Boston wkends, the Catskills,
Adirondacs, - I miss it, but am appreciating ''the Left Coast''
more each day, and am loving the diversity of Oakland. E-me if
you'd like my collection of local maps, or want more info. :-)
I lived for 19 years in New Jersey, the last 9 in Monmouth County which is at the
northern end of the Jersey Shore. Despite the snide humor, New Jersey is a really nice
place to live, and I would guess that the cost of living is more reasonable than
Westchester would be. (I lived in Eatontown; the public schools were good).
Look for a community that is convient to the trains into NYC. I don't think your
husband would want to drive and park daily in Midtown
I saw some of the responses you got and wanted to make a couple
of other suggestions. We moved from Maplewood New Jersey to
Oakland last December. We loved Maplewood. Its a lovely older
town (i.e. not ugly tract housing) and its one of the most
diverse suburbs in the country. When we moved from New York City
to the suburbs that was something that was really important to us
so if that is something you are looking for you should check out
Maplewood and its neighbor South Orange (they share a school
district). The diversity means the test scores may not be as good
as a place like Summit (which is much richer and whiter) but our
experience with the schools (K and 1st grade) was great. Another
similar community in NJ is Montclair. All have direct trains to
Penn Station. You can find info at www.maplewoodonline.com.
We have vague thoughts about relocating to New York City (for
professional reasons) and we are wondering about life there with
young children. Aside from the obvious issue of housing, what is
it like to live there (in particular, the area near Columbia
U.)? I know it's a great place to visit with kids (parks,
museums, etc.) but I'm wondering about day to day life in NYC.
What are the public schools like? What about noise pollution?
Does schlepping to school/daycare/work in the snow become old?
Obviously, millions of families live there happily but I'm
wondering how a long time Berkelelyan would handle it. I've
checked the archives but was hoping to hear from someone with
recent experience living there who can compare it to life in the
I just relocated to Berkeley from NYC due to the more friendly
environment here. The Columbia U. vicinity is not a bad area to live.
The schools are much better than schools in other areas. However,
these have changed drastically since I have left, ridding the Board of
Education. I would definitely try an online search on that school district
to inquire about their ratings. I know Hunter Elementary is a good
school, and most in the area are. You might have a problem obtaining
afterschool child-care and might need someone to pick them up, but
there are lots of nannies in that vicinity. I attended Hunter College and
might be able to give a local phone # to a friend that lives in the area if
anyone would like that. Good luck.
I was born in and grew up in NYC. I also went to Columbia, and
lived in that area. What seemed to me to be a totally normal
childhood, I have learned was really quite unique and special.
* You and your children will have unbelievable experiences,
both positive and negative. You will live in a multi-cultural,
multi-ethnic, multi-income, chaotic, electric environment. You
will interact with people from all over the world and from every
walk of life. And you do it all in one place. There is a lot of
good that comes with that and there is some bad. I almost
always experienced good. But I did one night find a neighbor in
the street unconscious after being mugged.
* You and your children will have access to the best museums,
theatre, music, culture, shopping, food and minds in the whole
wide world. By the time I was 12, I had seen every play on
Broadway. Every one. My mom would get standing room tickets,
and we saw them all for $10 or $15. We went to the opera, the
symphony, and the Met. These field trips were just wonderful
and I am glad I had those experiences to this day.
* Your children will be quite saavy. It's something about that
environment. They will know everything.
* It is very crowded and dirty and loud and relatively
unfriendly in both human demeanor and in services (You have not
lived until you have carried your child and the stroller and
your bags up and down subway stairs OR sanitiation goes on
* It is expensive. My husband and I have estimated that if we
were to move back and maintained the same standard of living, we
would have to spend $750-$1,000,000 on housing. Cabs are
expensive. Food is expensive and the quality of the produce
will severely disappoint you. Restaurants are expensive.
*Schools - there are some very good public schools. Bronx
Science, Stuyvesant, High School of Performing Arts -
EXCELLENT.....But your kid may have to travel long distanes to
go to school. And, if your kid does not get in.....you may be
forced to look at a private school, and all of those stories you
hear about cut throat social climbing competition is real. Not
to mention tuition.
* Housing- will be very small and expensive compared to what you
* It is HOT and HUMID in the summmer and COLD and WINDY in the
winter. I never minded it until I move away....and now I know
how good I have it. If you live up by Columbia (which I
recommend) you will be just wind whipped in the winter by the
wind coming off the river.
I would move back for a set period of time to give my son some
of my experiences, but I would not move back permanently. It
made me who I am, and I am so very glad I had that experience.
But, you can enjoy a much nicer standard of living in other
parts of the USA. New York, to me, has always been about
sacrifice. You will sacrifice your comfort (unless you are a
multi-millionaire) for experience.
I was born and raised in NYC and can't think of a more amazing
place to raise children. I grew up on the upper west side and
ended up going to Columbia and living near the campus around
113th Street. I moved to the Bay Area about 5 years ago and it's
been a huge culture and way of life shock. If you are from here
all I can suggest is that you really ''go with the flow'' in NYC
and embrace how much there is to do and see. I think the
positives WAY outway the negatives. In my experience, children
raised in NYC are more open to diversity, more ready to try new
things and accept challenges and are open to more possibilities
in their lives. The culture and multiculturalism are
unparalleled. In your case, you might need to think of it like
moving to a foreign country - it's a great experience for all,
but might never feel like home to you. Good luck!
My dear friend Erica, who lived in the Bay Area for years, now
lives in NYC. She wrote this to you:
Our son attends preschool in the neighborhood you are
considering relocating to and we live about 30 blocks south
(the West 80s).
The weather is going to be a huge adjustment for you.
Transportation is another issue. Although some people have cars
and use them on a daily basis, because parking is such a
challenge--there are only metered
spots on the street--most parents with small children don't
drive (except to escape the city on weekends) and instead walk
or take the public bus. Accordingly, it's best to pick a day
care center or preschool that's close to a bus route or within
easy walking distance of your apartment or office so you're not
spending a lot of time getting to and from school/work/day care
(or dragging your kid onto crowded, rush-hour subway trains
whose stations don't have good stroller access).
There are good public elementary schools on the Upper West
Side, just not near Columbia. Good ones include PS 87 and PS
199 (general education), and the gift and talented programs at
PS 9, PS 163, and PS 166. Unless you are in the
school's ''catchment zone'' (in which case,
you can just register right before school starts), you must
apply a year in advance for a waiver to attend the school even
though you are in the district (the UWS) but not in the zone.
To qualify for the g & t program, your child needs to take an
intelligence test the year before and they must score at or
above a certain percentile rank (usually 90-93 or above).
Noise pollution is a non-issue on the Upper West Side. It's a
residential neighborhood. The loudest noise you'll deal with is
sound of trash trucks picking up garbage. If you are very
noise, avoid living on the large commercial boulevards
End, Amsterdam) and choose a place on a high floor on a side
The snow is what it is. It's fun to play in but does make the
logistics of everyday living a bit more of a challenge.
Good luck in your decision.
As much as I love living in Berkeley, my family situation
is calling me back to NY city. I was wondering if someone
on this list has a place to rent in NY (or knows of someone
who does). It could be temporary until I find something
Well, any advice would be very helpful. My daughter is 18
months old and I am not sure if NYC will be as welcoming
for us as Berkeley has been. I wonder if there is a similar list
for NYC parents!
Well, I can't recommend a place to rent, but I think you will
have a great time in NYC with your toddler! We lived there
until my daughter was 18 months old and I was sad to leave.
There are so many resources in the city for both parents and
kids and so many wonderful parks (nothing here comes close to
the Central Park playgrounds). And everything is accessible by
stroller -- it is so nice not to have to get into the car for
every little thing and so stimulating for little kids to see the
city unfold on the sidewalks right in front of their eyes! For
things to do in the city, check out gocitykids.com. Good luck
with your move!
I don't have a specific apartment recommendation, but having
just moved from NY last year, I do have a location
recommendation. We spent two years in Manhattan and then four
years in Park Slope, Brooklyn. Our oldest was born and spent
his first year in Park Slope. It's a great area, and definitely
very child friendly. Plus, Prospect Park is right there, with
lots of playgrounds, a lake and lots of nice spots to take
kids. Park Slope is a haven for couples with young kids, so
you'll find pleny of child-oriented activities and family
friendly restaurants. As you can tell, I can't recommend it
enough! Good luck. As long as you can live through the
winters, NY definitely has a lot to offer to families with young
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