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I am moving to the Bay Area from New York with three children this summer. My husband will be working in Marin Co. We are considering living in Fairfax/San Anselmo as we have heard there are good schools. I have two children in elementary and one in middle school. Does anyone have any advice or reviews of White Hill middle, the elementary schools in the area, or Sir Francis Drake high school? Any know anything about these school's music programs or any community music programs for kids in Marin? Any advice about moving to San Anselmo or Fairfax in general would be appreciated - such as, are there more kid friendly neighborhoods to look out for, art and music summer camps? We visited recently and liked what seemed to be Fairfax's laid back vibe. Any thoughts about this? Any advice is greatly appreciated! Jeanette
Hi, We're thinking about moving to Fairfax or San Anselmo and would love some advice. How are the public schools? Are there certain schools to avoid or are they all good? Are the after-school programs good? Are some neighborhoods better than others? How is the commute into the financial district for work?
How are the people? We don't want to move to Mill Valley because we know that we won't fit in. I'm not a skinny, yoga-attending, stay at home mom and I worry about being shut out by the other mothers. We are highly educated but are not into the country club scene. Instead we are tattooed burners who love to have a good time. Our son is in the middle of his class academically and has a hard time sitting still. He is doing okay at his current east bay public school.
Do you think that we will be happy if we move across the bay? I've heard such awful stories about how cliquey people can be in Marin and want to avoid that. Thanks for your feedback
If you choose Fairfax or San Anselmo, be prepared for a nightmare commute. Sir Francis Drake is the only way to SF. (unless you go the back way through San Rafael.)
The towns that still have some semblance of reality in my opinion are the two you mentioned plus San Rafael and Novato.
The schools in San Rafael are not as high performing than in the other towns mentioned but I know people who have found them fine enough for their kids.
Of course, you will certainly find friends who value what you do. It might just be harder than in other places
Plus sides....Marin is gorgeous, great weahter, clean, great shopping, access to healthy foods, wonderful bike paths and access to Mt Tam, Stinson Beach, Phoenix Lake etc. The schools are all good really and it is very safe. former marinite
Dear BPN, I am hoping that the collective wisdom of this community can help me in my search for place for my family. Neither my partner nor I are originally from the area though we have lived here for many years. We have two young children and are finding it increasingly difficult to live where we are (Marin co.) for various reasons including density, commute, and a general feeling that we are surrounded by a competitive mindset and lack of friendliness. We have lived in our current town for almost 2 years and have struggled to find 'our people,' but not for lack of trying from our perspective. We have certainly connected with and made friends with some nice people, but not as many as we'd like. We moved here to be closer to the woods and ocean, but are now questioning our decision to leave Berkeley. We really don't want to uproot our older child again, but feel that so many of our daily encounters here involve a lack of kindness and even civility. We thought that enrolling our daughter in a Montessori preschool that seemed great would put her and us into contact with kinder, gentler people who are seeking community but this just has not proven to be the case. Does anyone have experience with Marin that corroborates ours? I like to think that we are generally good, kind, and friendly people and when we have asked others we know they say that they think our issue is likely where we live and not with us. Marin was never ideal in many ways because of the lack of diversity, including the overwhelming affluence but we wanted to give it a try. We have found there to be more entitlement than expected. We do not want to uproot our daughter again but also don't want to keep trying to fit in a place that ultimately is not for us. Is this lack of friendliness, kindness, entitlement etc. happening in the Bay Area in general? Does anyone have experience with a community in the Bay Area where there is a warm, friendly community mindset, or is this just wishful thinking in this day and age? I realize this may sound terribly naive and I know some of what we are experiencing is due to the density, high cost of living, and stress many have in living in the B.A.. We are starting to consider moving out of state as well as back to Berkeley for that reason. We just want to find a down-to-earth community of (mostly) kind people to raise our kids with. Are people in the BPN finding that warmth and friendliness where they are or am I dreaming? Thank you so much in advance! Anonymous
I lived in Terra Linda (a neighborhood in San Rafael) and now live in Santa Venetia. Neither are denizens of the 'super-rich.' I expected little from Marin. However, the people I've met are as kind and down-to-earth as people I've met anywhere else, and I've been lucky to make some friends.
So my personal experience in Marin has been positive, but I have lived places where I felt horribly isolated, lonely, and alien. It's awful. Some places are just not the right fit no matter how hard you try. But I want to point out some things to consider in making your decision.
I've read complaints of isolation and exclusion from many parents on BPN: cliques, being excluded, how hard it is to meet people. I've heard similar complaints from friends in Seattle, Petaluma, Hawaii, North Dakota, Los Angeles, Napa, and elsewhere -- 'it's really hard to meet nice people and make new friends.' Sometimes that complaint goes away and sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it takes much longer than 2 years to find your niche.
It's hard to make new friends past your mid-20s, post-college. When you have kids, you spend time with other parents just because your kids are the same age, not because you have much in common. And when you move somewhere, many people already have their social lives set, and there's no way to make new, solid connections.
I'd suggest expanding your social network. That might mean going to church, or community college, or Spirit Rock or joining the Sierra Club, or ... something else. Usually I make new friends through old friends or through common activities. It's really lonely if you move someplace where you don't know anyone. It's SO MUCH easier to make connections if you already have friends where you move. --Good Luck in finding your 'people'
Hey everyone, Just curious what people's experience has been with Marin co. I am originally from Novato and Fairfax, but haven't lived there consistently since I was 18, and I feel that these towns have changed. They have become even less affordable than they were in the 90's, as has the entire bay area. But, being Marin, there is another layer of geographic isolation and lack of diversity to deal with. My wife and I are likely moving back to Fairfax with our 2 year old (a below-market rate family deal that's too good to pass up), but I've been having some misgivings. We have lived here in Richmond for about 6 years, and, frankly, I'm worried about culture shock moving back to Marin. We don't have a lot of money (hence living in Richmond), but we are open-minded and not hardcore leftist, like many of the people I meet who bag on Marin county. Thanks!
It is rather cloistered and white, very quiet, but our lives are hectic enough already. Hiking is WONDERFUL. My husband's not white, and he feels comfortable here.
We appreciate the bountiful outdoors; how much people in Marin LOVE animals; a well-funded library system, polite and responsive police, and people in Marin do put their money where their mouth is when it comes to paying taxes to support services. Public transit's not wonderful but it's an easy ferry ride to SF. Decent shopping available at the mall in Novato (Costco, etc.) and Corte Madera (more high-end).
Downsides: fewer cultural destinations, no BART, racially and financially rather segregated, lack of decent cheap ethnic restaurants, pricey.
Our cousins who just moved her are much happier with their school (but we are talking Terra Linda, not Fairfax).
Fairfax is a lovely town IMHO. My only concern would be the lengthy drive between Fairfax and the 101; with all the traffic, it can be brutal. Fairfax is kind of a small town, so your happiness will depend a lot on how well you like the people there. On the positive side, you can take backroads to Novato and Petaluma.
If you keep harking back to how it used to be, the transition will be more difficult for you emotionally. It's moved and changed like the rest of the world. Lola
My husband, 4 year old and I are looking to relocate to San Rafael. Can you recommend family friendly neighborhoods with good schools in San Rafael. Looking for a ''kids can ride their bike around the neighborhood'' feel, where neighbors welcome you as you move in. I will be commuting to SF for work via the Larkspur ferry, so closer to the Ferry the better. But we would sacrifice a longer commute for better school district and a more community feel. Moving to San Rafael
We are thinking about moving to Albany or somewhere in Marin county. We are in search of good public schools and want a neighboorhood that is walkable and kid friendly. We love the diveristy of the east bay, and are also drawn to the outdoors of Marin county. Can anyone offer any insight or suggestions on specific areas/neighboorhoods? Thanks! Thinking about relocating
- Great Schools
- Proximity to restaurants, bay trail, tilden, movie theaters, etc.
- Close to major thoroughfares - has BART access to SF, etc.
- Friendly neighborhoods with very little elitism/classism
- Very diverse (I have a mixed race family)
- Small lots, neighbors are close and noisy
- Can be close to BART noise or trains
- Not as clean, higher theft
- Nicer weather, warmer and less fog but not too hot
- Beautiful trees around lots
- Close to beaches, Mt. Tam, bike trails
- artsy culture
- Great schools
- Relaxed and casual environment
- not diverse ethnically or politically
- definite classism/elitism
- expensive to buy and to live
- hard to get to SF - no BART options
- drug use at high school age is high and accepted culturally
- see both sides
Marin is wealthier, by and large, and may have more 'rich kid' problems (teen drug use, for example) and my impression is that there's less social integration of economic levels and ethnic and other identity groups. Marin feels much more isolated from other regions; there's no BART, there's only one main freeway (101) which isn't even an Interstate, and it's bounded on three sides by ocean. Individual neighborhoods and towns are more often separated by hills and/or water and many have a secluded feel. So people in Marin seem to do more driving than people in Berkeley/Albany, although they do have easier access to mountain biking and other outdoorsy activities.
Albany is much more connected with the surrounding metropolis, and has easier/faster access to, say, Tahoe or Los Angeles, but still retains its own 'small town' feel. As far as specific neighborhoods, there aren't any bad ones in Albany. In general, the farther east you go (away from the freeway) the 'nicer' but there are no huge differences from one corner of town to another, and the entire town is one school district with all very good schools.
In Marin, for more pedestrian-friendly 'hoods, consider from Gerstle Park in San Rafael west to San Anselmo and Fairfax; the flatter areas of Corte Madera and Mill Valley; Terra Linda; Sausalito and Tiburon; maybe Peacock Gap (it's more hilly) and parts of Marinwood/Lucas Valley (more sprawly). There are highly-rated schools in all of these areas, but I'm less familiar with specifics. I've known a number of happy Fairfax and San Anselmo residents, including parents of young kids. My Kids Walk to School
Hi everyone, Thanks for all the insight and advice you have to offer. We are in turmoil since moving to Berkely from a great public school system on the East Coast. We love the diversity, the vibrant atmosphere, and the progressive attitude but we want to live in an old fashion neighborhood where kids go to public school and play in the neighborhood together.
We have been looking at areas of Marin and wonder if anyone has up to date information on which neighborhoods are warm and welcoming with excellent public schools and smaller class sizes. We really want a school that has a more progressive approach to education, provides differentiated learning and does not teach to the test. Places we are considering include: Dixie School district, Mill Valley, Tiburon, and Ross. Any input is very much appreciated. Seeking a wonderful place to call home
Re: Mill Valley - it's funny, Mill Valley was my dream town for many years (so incredibly beautiful!) until a friend moved there. The more I visited, the less I liked it. A sizeable portion of the population seemed (to me) to be pretty snobby and not very friendly.
I do not know much about Tiburon or Ross except that they are very expensive, but also extremely pretty areas. Tiburon is closer to SF, if that matters to you or your husband... Ross is further away so I assume it would be a much longer commute.
Another place to check out would be Fairfax, especially if you appreciate the progressive vibe of Berkeley. It's boho and beautiful and has a really cute downtown. Also, the people there are friendly, and the town itself has a real sense of community. And the schools (as far as I know) are excellent. Fairfax is also on our list, though Terra Linda is a bit more our style.
Anyway, I've lived in the Bay Area my whole life and the general stereotype about Marin County is that it's very snobby and homogeneous. Some of this is true: it is certainly less diverse than the East Bay, and in some areas people have a ton of money which can lead to snottiness.
However, we've spent the better part of a year hanging out in San Rafael, Fairfax, San Anselmo (another choice for you), and Novato (cheaper and still in beautiful Marin but the town itself is not as pretty) - going to parks with our kids, patronizing shops and restaurants, etc, and we've had nothing but good experiences. (By the way, I am Latina and my husband is 'white'.) People have been friendly and I actually enjoy the playground experience more in Marin than in Berkeley.
That said, the big reason why we're thinking of staying (and it would be a sacrifice - our home in Berkeley is small and a bigger house in our same neighborhood is out of our price range) is *because* of the schools! So I was surprised when you cited the public school system as a reason for moving.
BUSD is actually highly rated (check out greatschools.org for individual school scores), but more importantly, my husband and I see the work our son is doing in 1st grade and what he is learning and we have been beyond pleased. We also love the school itself (Berkeley Arts Magnet, or BAM) - it has a great sense of community and our sensitive boy is thriving there.
I should also say here that we were kind of skeptical of the school system in Berkeley at first - we are practicing Catholics and don't really fit the Berkeley mold in some ways, so we originally thought we'd send our children to Catholic schools - but we have been incredibly happy with our experience. One of the reasons we chose BUSD is because we have 4 kids and Catholic school would have been too pricey (ironic, eh?), but I have to say, at this point even if our parish offered us a full scholarship, we would still stick with the Berkeley public schools. That's how much we love BAM.
Also, if you are concerned about teaching to the test (I share that concern, as well), I don't see that happening. The kids do all sorts of creative-type learning... nothing seems dry or 'rote' at all.
And I do totally hear you on the neighborhood schools thing, although we are lucky in that BAM does happen to be the school closest to our house. I love being able to walk our son to school, I have to say. Believe it or not, I'd be giving this up if we moved to Terra Linda, as the neighborhood elementary school in that particular 'hood is actually too far a walk.
Anyway, hope this helps you with your decision. If you'd like to chat more, please feel free to email me, and best wishes! monica
Hi, I'm hoping you can weigh in on a big family decision.
We are a 2-mom family of sweet little 5 & 6 yr olds. We've lived in Mill Valley for the last 10+ years, now considering a move..Berkeley or somewhere other than here. I never thought we would move, but, as parents we now feel very disillusioned with Southern Marin...the money spoils everything. We worry about the attitudes, values and behaviors of many of the wealthy or worse the trying-to-be- wealthy parents rubbing off on their kids, and ours. We absolutely love the natural beauty of Marin and proximity to SF. But, we are looking for:
1. Strong private schools with more than token diversity (we are the only same sex couple in either of our kids' schools; one private one public) a general level of inclusivity...and a wide range of grounded, respectful kids. This is the biggie.
2. A neighborhood, or at least a few neighbors who are friendly, would be nice.
3. Something relatively safe and quiet.
Am I over-glorifying Berkeley and some of the areas around Berkeley, and as importantly the private schools in the area (HR, Bentley, ProspectSierra) as friendly, one-vote- for-everyone, sans-snobby-mommy-in-$100K SUV territory, or am I just not seeing it? Has anyone made a similar move and how is it working out for you? Any neighborhoods, schools you would recommend or avoid? thanks! Sue
If you're going the private school route you don't have the issue of school boundaries complicating the search either. Being a two mom family really is a non-issue, the East Bay seems very accepting of things that would be called 'alternative lifestyle choices' elsewhere.
I would start by looking at North Berkeley, Elmwood/Claremont in South Berkeley and Rockridge in North Oakland. The Oakland / Berkeley hills are nice, but you need to be prepared to spend time in your car - not everyone's idea of fun.
You won't entirely escape the tyranny of uber-moms in prestige SUV's, but from my experience of Mill Valley I'd say you'll find things a whole lot more amenable on the 'Right Side of the Bay'. Other things we have over here are lots of excellent restaurants, mild weather, culture (Cal Performances, Berkeley Rep etc.) and far, far fewer horribly bratty and entitled kids. There's wealth and affluence in the East Bay, but it's tempered by the much wider overall socio-economic spread than you'll find in southern Marin.
If you do find yourself missing the thrill of interacting with over-entitled sociopaths I can recommend a shopping trip to Berkeley Bowl - make sure it's busy for the full experience.
The pleasures of wild West Marin are a still available to you here, it's just a quick drive over the Richmond bridge.
Come on over - you'll like it here. Happy in the East Bay
I'm sure there are others who have struggled with this choice but am hoping for some fresh advice from those who know Fairfax. We are trying to make a choice between Berkeley (easier commute, established friends/community, bigger homes on average, personal history) and Fairfax, Marin Co (closer to nature, public schools, maybe closer-knit community?, less 'urban stress'). Boy, we can't do it! We are primarily thinking of the school system for our kids, one of whom gets easily overwhelmed and we have taken out of the local public and put in an independent school. The tuition is too much and we want to get our own house, hence the conundrum.
Anyone else out there make the choice to leave the East Bay for the schools in Fairfax? Was it the right choice for you? What did you miss? We have already thought about the diversity issue and all the great urban perks like food, movies, art shows, etc. However, the stress that can come with 'diversity' (I went to BHS) can also be an issue, particularly for a sensitive kid. What about the intellectual community in F? I'm attached to Cal and also love being close to the people I work with there. What about the high school in Fairfax (Drake)? BHS has some issues, but a lot of opportunity too. Is it safe but also 'vanilla'? Do they teach things akin to Howard Zinn in the HS?
Just trying to get a feel for what it is 'really' like before we make the mortgage-commitment. east bay folks
I moved to Marin (San Anselmo) almost 2 years ago, and my daughter started public kindergarten last fall. I am looking for some way to connect with other moms who have careers, and moms and dads who are interested in things like comtemporary art, books, politics, design, etc. People who like to get together and talk about ideas and images and culture, not just about what they are doing with all their money. It might be a bit early to be complaining, it takes time to get to know people, but I feel like a fish out of water there. I work full- time in a high pressure career (both because I enjoy it AND ALSO because we need my income to survive), so I am not able to be a room parent, organize all the class parties and field trips, etc. I do volunteer once a month (as does my husband) to be the class parent helper. Usually my husband drops off /picks up my daughter, so he sees all the other parents (mostly mothers) more than I do. But when I'm around, I make efforts to be friendly. Regardless, the mom clique usually just nods hello and then goes on talking amongst itself, not leaving much room for entree. It would be nice to have some kind of relationship with the parents of the kids my daughter spends her days with (hell, it would be nice to have a single name to put down for''emergency contact!''), but I get the feeling that I have little in common with these people. Judging by the talk I hear (and I'm sure there are some exceptions to be found), the mothers seem to do yoga and remodel their houses, and the fathers work ''in finance.'' On occasions when I have been around these moms in more social situations (always school- related), the conversations, when not about kids, are usually weighted toward how good someone already looks after just giving birth, who's wearing the cutest work-out clothes, and how frustrating contractors are. I find it hard to believe that these educated, successful people have nothing else going on, so I'd like to think that they just fall to the least common conversation denominator - stuff they feel they can all relate to, because it's easy an unlikely to offend. But how do I find out if there is more ''There'' there? How do I find a meaningful social life here? There is no BPN for Marin, which is such a drag! (If I had the time, I'd think about starting one!) I tried Craig's List, but the ''Women for women - looking for friendship'' posts seemed a bit creepy, and most were young girls looking for''new friends to party with!!'' I'm actually considering posting signs on bulletin boards - but where? I thought by now I'd have naturally created a group of friends. I've never had any trouble in the past. Any thoughts or advice much appreciated! anon
I have found that getting to know other moms one on one works MUCH better than trying to break into a group. What if you scheduled a play date with a child that your daughter likes and then invited the mom to have tea/coffee when she dropped off or picked up?
You might want to try to figure out which moms work, whether part time or full time, and see if you feel more of a connection with them. Of course they won't be chatting in front of the school, they will be rushing off, or they have someone else bringing the kids to school.
I think it takes a long time to get settled into a new community. That being said, I think Marin would be a VERY hard place to settle into. I went to high school there (a long time ago) but whenever I'm there now I can feel how different it is than the East Bay. Your might have to work hard to find people with whom you can connect. anon.
Speaking of Marin moms' salons, Book Passage in Corte Madera offers a class every Sunday for moms who write. Even if you're not a writer, it might be a fun, inspiring place to be, share ideas, meet people, etc.
Another thought: have a party, invite the school parents over? Maybe over a glass of wine, it'll be easier to connect with a few....
I find I meet people when I least expect it: in a cafe, at the dog park or playground. In fact, Coffee Roasters in San Anselmo on a Saturday morning is bustling with parents. It's our favorite cafe in Marin. My husband and I met a really nice father there the other day, someone we felt we connected with. good luck! amy
ItUs true that the people here can be annoying but, frankly, I thought a lot of people in SF and Berkeley were annoying too while I was living there. ThereUs no doubt a lot of people in Marin have money but that doesnUt mean everyone here is superficial. I would tend to ignore those types people anyway. However, your post seemed to over generalize and continue that stereotype of the people who live in Marin. The majority of the people IUve met are incredibly nice, very smart, and hard working people who do not spend their days pondering how to burn through their money.
You asked about groups. There is a group that I joined called Southern Marin Mother's Club (SMMC). I believe there is a group for residents in your area called Ross Valley Mother's Club. Through the SMMC, I was able to make friends, find a job, and learn more about schools, businesses, and the community.
Almost every day I look around and feel so happy and fortunate that I could move here. Marin is an incredible place. Anon
Now that both of his parents have passed away, my husband (along with a sibling, who lives out of the area) has inherited his childhood home in Marin, and we find ourselves faced with a huge life decision: Whether to leave our beloved East Bay neighborhood and move across the Bay.
On the plus side: The Marin house and yard are much bigger than our current, relatively small home, and we could conceivably stay there for the long haul. We could also send our two elementary-aged children to public middle- and high school in Marin (which I really don't think is an option for us in our current locale; though we've been happy with their public elementary school here, I've done my research and do not feel good about the public-school options beyond fifth grade).
On the minus side: We'd be heartbroken to leave our very tight community here, the Marin house needs a TON of work, and we'd be stretching ourselves to our absolute financial limit to move into it (we're both chronically underemployed creative types).
I'm also worried about ''starting over'' socially there. We know a few people in Marin (mostly my husband's childhood friends who stayed -- none of whom I feel particularly close to, plus a few of my friends and acquaintances who don't live terribly near the area we'd be moving to). The neighborhood seems much quieter and more private (and thus more isolating?) than the kids-running-in-and-out-of-each-others'-houses, can't-walk-a-block-without-bumping-into-five-people-you-know, totally down-to-earth vibe we LOVE here. Also, Marin seems so changed to us now -- compared to the much more liberal and funky-seeming place where my husband grew up. Finally, I'm wary about all the expensive SUVs, perfect trophy wives, and general chichi vibe I sense there.
Of course, we've talked about selling the house and using the money to either move into a bigger home in a ''better'' school district on this side of the Bay (but with the way prices have gone up, I'm not sure we'd get something all that much different from our current abode), or staying put and using the money to help offset the cost of private schools (an option my mate isn't keen on -- he feels like it would be a better investment to put the cash into something that will appreciate in value; plus, our house is a tight squeeze now, so we can't quite see having teenagers here -- and if we were to expand, our only option would be to go ''up,'' which wouldn't increase the value of our home as much as it would cost). We've even talked about selling both houses and moving out of state, though both of us were raised in the Bay Area and can't quite imagine life anywhere else.
Does anyone out there have advice or insights to share? Anyone with personal knowledge of Marin who can tell us whether there's a real sense of community there? Or how much of an issue the whole ''status and money'' thing is, really -- both for kids and adults? Would a family of somewhat liberal, pretty laid-back, fairly disheveled, and relatively broke folks even begin to fit in there? (I realize, of course, that we're incredibly fortunate to be faced with such a dilemma at all.) Any advice, food for thought, etc. would be most appreciated! Thanks so much, East Bay mama
Well, it pretty much sucks. It took about two years for anybody to talk with me (I was 8 months pregnant when we moved in) and, 4.5 years later, we have two friends in our neighborhood. One is a nice family from Fremont (Indian) in a McMansion across the street, and the other is a persian/russian islamic mix down the street. In short: NOT the little helmet- haired blonde women with the huge houses and no books. (sigh).
My caution to you? BE VERY CAREFUL. Your neighborhood sounds utterly wonderful. We are dealing with socialization issues with my poor kid, who is growing up not really having many people around. If we meet someone we like, it's hard to get their nanny to have time to bring the kid to play. sigh.
There is one child that we know who lives in our entire neighborhood and he's busy. In my opinion, the upper middle class people who live in the 3 mil - up houses have got to be some of the most unfriendly folks I've ever met in my life. ICK ICK ICK.
I hear that there is a nice sense of community in parts of Marin, and you might want to go over and hang out. On the other hand, we were at the Children's Discovery Museum in Sausalito yesterday where a young hippie-looking Marin mom was standing with a friend, talking. ''It has to be a great party,'' she said. ''I think I'll have the Counting Crows do it. What do you think?''
Seriously, vibes like that are toxic to kids. Good luck! ''from where the children have ''Princeton'' tattood on their foreheads at birth...'' bummed mom
We are thinking of moving to Marin to use the public schools ) and of course it is quite pricey. We are interested in finding out what the best school districts are and what neighborhoods would be appropriate. Yes, Kentfield and Tiburon are beautiful, but we are looking at affordable areas of San Rafael and Novato. Maybe affordable wasn't the word, but you see where I am heading. If someone from Marin was moving to the East bay I could give them quite an earful about neighborhoods, schools, etc...I need a marin counterpart! I am familiar with the test score sites, and marinschools.org, I need an editorial opinion of the situation over there: Like if we moved to Novato, would we always find ourselves driving south for kids stuff, restaurants, etc.. like how we drive to Berkeley, or Rockridge? I am looking for the real skinny! Thanks
I have co-workers who are parents and live in San Anselmo and Fairfax, and they like it; there seems to be a lot available for kids and a lot of support of various kinds in the community for the schools. But the neighborhoods are a little more...remote. Traffic is an issue because of the hilly little roads in and out, and you have to drive more because there are fewer walkable areas. It's more like being in the Berkeley hills or Montclair.
Novato, as far as I can tell, is more like being in Antioch or Fremont. Newer, and therefore larger, houses in car-oriented tract developments. Big box shopping. But I don't really know anything about the schools or other kid-oriented activities and resources there.
The one person I know in Kentfield, by the way, sent his kids to private (Catholic) school! :-) Commutes over the Richmond bridge
I am wondering how people compare living in Marin County versus the east bay in terms of kid-friendly activities and diversity. We are a mixed race (asian/caucasian) family with a 2.5 year old. We like to do all kinds of activites(classes, museums,etc.) and meet friendly people at playgrounds who we can turn into friends. We find it pretty easy to do that in the east bay (mostly Berkeley and Oakland). We are thinking of moving to somewhere in Marin County, and are wondering what will change and what we might miss in terms of lifestyle. anon
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