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Toddler Bed vs. Twin Bed

June 2004

Hi Everyone, Would you give me advice on transitioning from crib to bed? Lily is 2 1/2 now. We are considering getting an inexpensive fun toddler bed (with fun characters or fun design) for Lily. We wonder the kid's bed might be too high for her even though we can install rail. When she sleeps, she moves a lot. She can end up at the bottom of the bed. Besides, when she wakes up in the middle of the night, she might be a little disoriented and get off the bed on the wrong side which does not have the rail guard. If we get her a toddler bed, how long will she be able to sleep in it? Any experience or wisdom to share. Appreciate it very much. Teresa


Hi, I was just looking at my 3.5 year old daughter last night and thought she was getting too long for her toddler mattress. She isn't especially tall for her age. Just my experience. thinking about the twin bed
Why we just did this 3 weeks ago with our 26 month old! I always thought the concept of a toddler bed was a waste of money (we didn't have them when we were kids). Instead, for our daughter, we bought rails for both sides of the bed we were going to put my daughter in (since the bed was not flush against the wall), to minimize her falling out. So far, so good. The first night I laid in bed with her rubbing her back for about a half hour while she scratched the mesh net the entire time (then I gave up and put her back in her crib). The next night, my husand laid in bed w/her for about 45 mins. doing the same. That's all it took! After that she went to sleep alone in her (as we keep calling it) ''big girl'' bed. Also, my sis-in-law has been having a real tough time trying to get her 4 year old out of his toddler bed and into a regular bed. So I say don't waste the money on a toddler bed! barbara
With a regular twin bed it is easier for you to lie down with your child and read stories and cuddle. This makes the big bed even more attractive than the crib. You can get fun characters on the sheets, comforter, pillows, etc. (BTW, when our daughter moved to a twin bed at 2 1/2, we forgot to get the rail so we just put chairs with their backs against the bed to prevent her from falling out. It turns out she never even needed them as she somehow knew where the edge was, just as grownups do. You can also put cushions or pillows around the bed until you are sure she won't fall off.) Good luck!
For what it's worth, we moved our 2 year old into a regular twin mattress on the floor. He kind of fell out on his first night in it - but it was no big deal. The transition was easy and he loves it. Good luck! anon
We moved our now almost 3-year-old into a twin bed in January. I definitely am glad we skipped the toddler bed. The toddler bed is not bigger than a crib, and our daughter is very tall and was simply too big for a toddler bed. It would have been one more thing to buy (and eventually get rid of), and I hear that finding bedding for toddler beds is difficult. We have a twin bed against the wall with an average-size bed rail and it has been great. She has to climb to get into it, but if that is a concern you can put the mattress on the floor until your child is taller. I would say get a twin bed and place it against a wall, get an extra-long bed rail (I've seen them online), and if you need to, put something soft on the floor at the end of the bed. Liz O.
You might want to consider just a twin sized mattress on the floor. That's what we did for my son. I was also concerned about the chances of his falling out of a big bed. I didn't want to get a toddler bed because I figured that he would grow out of it so quickly. With a twin mattress, you can always buy the bed frame for it later. Ruth

Extendable toddler bed?

March 2004

I want to move my son from the crib to a bed and I am wondering if the extendable beds which have 3 sizes (start as a toddler bed, go to a medium size and extend to a regular twin size) are really of good quality. It would be convenient for us, because my son's bedroom is very small and we could use it there in the smallest size; by the time we need the twin size we will have hopefully moved to a bigger house. However, I've seen many people selling these beds in the marketplace newsletter and I am wondering if it is because they are not sturdy or good quality enough for a more grown-up child. If that's the case, I'd rather buy a twin size now and have the bedroom a bit more full, than to have to end up buying 2 beds down the line. Any advice from people who have bought this extendable beds would be very much appreciated(I believe they are sold at Ikea, I am not sure if they are sold at any other place, and i, that's the case, if they are of better quality than the Ikea brand). Bed searcher


I bought the Ikea model to which you seem to be referring, and I think it is just great. For six months we had it in its smallest configuration (starting when my daughter was 2 years 2 months), until just a few weeks ago (she'll be three next month). It was just the right cozy size for her when she made the transfer into her own ''big girl bed'' (she was moving from my own queen size bed, not a crib, so we wanted her to feel the bed was just for her -- ''big girl''-sized!) I was worried at first about her falling out -- but the bed is relatively low to the ground, so it's not a far drop. I propped some pillows next to the bed for the first few weeks, and after one little tumble -- no harm done -- onto those pillows, she never fell out again. We put lots of pillows on top of the bed, and a canopy with fun, whimsical sheer panels draped on the wall above it (all available extremely reasonably at Ikea as well) and she was just thrilled when she saw it. (They have motifs that are just as fun for boys as for girls, by the way). She showed it off to everyone who came to the house! Now that we've lengthened the bed to its intermediate configuration, I can lie down in it fully extended with her (I am 5'4''), Daddy is more comfortable cozying up with her when it's his turn to put her to bed, and she feels cool because ''she's getting so big Mommy had to make her bed grow.'' It's very handy, feels perfectly comfortable, and the quality seems quite decent -- solid wood head and footboard, and slats to support the mattress. I'd definitely recommend the product! daly
We too have this bed, and it was wonderful for my daughter for a year or so. My only caution-- we purchased the Ikea mattress that went with it, and it outgassed for several months in the other room while we tried to get it safe enough for her to sleep on it. Mattresses have the most foul chemicals--and I assume that Ikea is worse than usual due to the price point. This mattress continuted to stink for about 3 months, at which point we threw it away, unused, and purchased an all cotton futon, which worked well with that bed as you could still fold up the tail and head and expand as needed. Nancy

Where to buy a toddler bed?

March 2003

Any stores in the area that have a good selection of toddler beds? I've seen the prior posts which deal more w/ kid furniture and not toddler beds. anon


We looked around at the larger furniture stores: Macy's, Ethan Allen, etc. and found the quality on the cheap side (pine and veneers) and the price quite high ($1000.00 and up). There is a store on Shattuck at Blake (?) called Berkeley Kids' Room, but they too are expensive for what you get. We eventually went where the quality matched the price, IKEA. They had a very solid pine toddler bed that expands to a twin size for approx. $150.00. They have other choices as well. anon
check out IKEA--they have several. anon
An excellent place to find toddler beds is at Berkeley Kids Room at 2474 Shattuck Ave downtown. Be sure to check out their upstairs - great designs and terrific service. Cassandra

Bedding for a toddler bed

Feb 2003

Where does one buy inexpensive yet tasteful bedding for toddler beds? Used is fine. elisabeth


One place for toddler bedding is Carousel Designs, Ltd. on the web: www.carouseldesigns.com/. It's a good place for toddler pillows and cases, and top sheets for toddler beds. Their quilts and comforters are pricey, tho, and I did not buy one because I'm lucky enough to have a seamstress for a best friend and godmother to my daughter.

For blankets that will fit well on a toddler bed, we use standard throw blankets. My father just got our daughter a down throw for Christmas that I love. Down throws aren't even very expensive!

For used, just go to a used baby/children's shop such as Once Upon a Child (one in Newark that I know of). Oh yeah, 2 other good resources for childrens bedroom stuff and bedding are Sears' Room for Kids catalog and Lillian Vernon's Lilly's Kids catalog (www.lillianvernon.com). Have fun! Jennifer


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