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Pediatric dentist or not?

April 2005

I am considering taking my child (3yrs.old) to my dentist for the regular checkups. I took her to a pediatric dentist the first time, and I thought my own dentist would be just as good and half price. She wasn't to impressed with tricks and toys anyway. I figure that if a problem arises I can always take her to a pediatric one. It would be helpful to have some inputs from people that do it too! Mom


The first time my daughter saw a dentist, I took her to my dentist, figuring it would be nice for her to see me having my teeth cleaned first. And she was tolerated it just fine, but after reading the reviews here about Dr. Bob Khalil, a pediatric dentist, I took her to him for her next checkup (age 3) and she LOVED him. I think she was much more comfortable with the staff, who were used to dealing with kids, and happier in the chair, which was smaller. Now she talks about how much she likes Dr. Bob and how much she loves going to the dentist. Your child might not care, or she might not care until she is older--mine was fine with the adult dentist, but much happier with the pediatric one. A Believer in Pediatric Dentists
I took my 3-year-old son to my regular dentist, and he did just fine. She was calm and matter of fact with him, and he allowed her to do all the necessary procedures with no fuss. Karen
Hi - I'm with you on switching to a non-pediatric dentist. It seems to me that they've got quite a scam going that they can charge twice the prices for the same services as adults get. All for extra toys (like we don't have enough junk around the house to stumble over) and bubblegum flavored toothpaste. After one trip to the ped-dentist I bailed and took my kids to my regular dentist. I figured the same as you, if something comes up that requires someone specialized in pediatric dentistry then I'll go back, but not for regular check-ups and cleaning. Not worth it in my book. - Tired of being overcharged
My dentist said he wouldn't bother taking a child in to a dentist before they are 4 or 5 (he has a toddler like I do). The only reason he recommended taking one in would be if you detected brown spots on the teeth, which would indicate tooth decay. kim
Hi - if you dentist is not experienced with children, I would go to a pediatric dentist. We took our daughter to one for her first visit at 3 y old and they were really good with her and very understanding when it absolutely did not work the first time (they didn't even charge us) -- thankfully, it did work the second time and they were able to examine and clean and polish her teeth (with her lying on top of her father). Ioana
My take on this is that you don't need a pediatric dentist. Much of their pull is gimmickry and marketing, to make parents belive that they have something special to offer their children. We have 2 children and took them to 3 different pediatric dentists in the East Bay in the past 8 years, before taking them to our own ''regular'' (non-pediatric) dentist in Berkeley who my son has dubbed the ''nicest grownup'' he has ever met. We began with a pediatric dentist in a well-respected group in Berkeley after our son chipped his tooth at the age of 12 months. Then when they didn't ake our insurance anymore, we tried Dr. Matsuishi in El Cerrito, with all of his ceiling TV's, video games, balloons, x-rays, etc. It was a tad demoralizing to be called into the ''business office'' of his suite while his employee determined how much of our visit would be covered by our insurance even before our son saw him. A couple of years later, we took our 3 year old daughter to a different pediatric dentist in Berkeley who found numerous cavities and had staffers administer a strong sedative to her in a very traumatic, insensitive manner. We have since learned that much of this work was unnecessary. anon
Go to the pediatric dentist. They have tricks to disarm your little one, and even if you think your child doesn't care, it will make your life easier. Plus they know what to look for, what kinds of questions to ask, how to educate you, how to educate the child. It's very intrusive to have a stranger poke around in your mouth. At least forthe first time, make it a good experience. If it doesn't seem worth it to you, you can always try your own dentist afterward. jan
My daughter is almost 5 and has been going to my dentist since she was 2. She has never been to another dentist. My dentist says that if he finds a problem he will tell me to take her to a pediatric dentist. Funny thing, my dentist is sort of gruff and all business with me, but much friendlier and animated with my daughter. --no cavities
I assume you've talked to your dentist about bringing your little one. If he, she?...forgot..sorry..isn't phased by the cutsey stuff in a ped. dentist office, then your family dentist, assuming he/she is good with kids should be fine. Our kids started seeing our family dentist when they were 5 ish. He's an older guy, very gentle and savvy to kids ways. My older son never knew he was getting a shot because of the way the DDS handled my son and the injection. I say go for it. anon
I was always skeptical about pediatric dentists. I took my first two kids to the same dentist I was going to, but my third child has been going to a pediatric dentist. Now I have to say, I really like the pediatric dentist better. Not so much because I think the dentist is more skilled, but more just the little things. Like, all the chairs are kid-sized, so the kids aren't reclining on a huge chair having their teeth looked at. The waiting room is kid friendly. The examining room is open, so that several kids can be in there at the same time, which I think is comforting to kids. There are chairs and magazines for the parents in the examining room, so your child has you there, and you can watch, without getting in the way of the dentist. The dentists are good with kids - that's their specialty - and they see kids all day long, day after day, so they really know how to talk to them, and make them feel comfortable. We go to the Wampler/Katsura group - I think they are great. Ginger
When my son turned three years old I took him to a much recommended pediatric dentist in Berkeley (Regent St) and it cost me $125!!! The dentist and his staff spent less than 15 minutes on my son's teeth. Well, enough of that waste of money and racket! I sent him to my dentist, Dr. Barry Kami, who charged $70-$80 to clean my son's teeth. They provided him a fun, pampered atmosphere and a great goody bag. He loved it, and I now schedule our appointments together, which so much easier on my schedule. My advice, don't waste the money on a pediatric dentist(unless your child as some pretty serious dental problems) especially if your dentist can serve children well. anon

13-month-old with 6 teeth - first dentist visit?

March 2002

I have a 13 month old baby with 6 teeth. I am a little confused about when to take her for her first dental visit. I have read different opinions ranging from 6 months after she gets her first tooth to 2 years old. Does anyone know? Thanks. Julie


My children's (pediatric) dentist recommends starting dental visits when a child has 8 teeth and is at least 18 months old. I have 3 children, the youngest of whom is almost 2, and from my experience, this advice has worked for us. Usually, the first visit is short and consists of counting the teeth and a gentle cleaning. My kids have always sat on my lap for the first visit. If nothing else, it helps the child get used to going to the dentist. At this point, my kids enjoy their dental appointments. Charlotte
For whatever it's worth, we finally took our son to the dentist at 3.5 years old. My son would not open his mouth. The dentist didn't insist, and set another appointment - for six months later!

When should my 9-month-old start going to the dentist?

May 1998

My 9 month old son has 9 teeth now (8 front and 1 molar) and I'm wondering, when should he start going to the dentist? I've heard a lot of people say at 2 years, but I also heard a commercial from the American Dental Association saying they should start at 1 year. I looked on the UCB Parents Newsletter archives at recommendations for a pediatric dentist, but does anyone know of a dentist in the Oakland/Berkeley area that is specifically good with very little kids? Thanks for any help you can give. Heather


Dr. Matsuishi in El Cerrito believes that as soon as they've got enough teeth, you have to be concerned with dental hygene (phone: 524-4633). I started taking Chris to him at 18 months (didn't get his first teeth till 12 months) and was very impressed with Dr. Matsuishi and his staff. Beth
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