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21-month-old is throwing up every day

May 2005

i have a 21 month old who has been throwing up everyday sometimes twice for the last few days. he shows no other sign of illness except a snotty nose (clear) he has a 5 week old sister and I strongly suspect its an emotional reaction to her presence. he's generally a very sweet, easy going kid and has shown no signs of regression that you expect with a new sibling. he has the normal moments of frustration, hitting, whining that are hard to differientiate what's about his sister and what is just his age.

we try to give him as much positive attention, reassurance and mommy time as possible. he does seem to be curious about the baby and likes to kiss her and point out her body parts which he's recently learned to say. he's generally a fun kid, but the throwing up is getting really old, really fast. often in the evening around bath and bed time which he does not have to share with the baby but sometimes hears her crying in the background while someone else holds her.

any ideas? mom of a throw-up kid


My daughter also went through an odd throw-up period when she was a toddler. Her symptoms were very similar -- no sign of fever or even a runny nose, but she tended to barf in the evening, especially after dinner. At first I thought she was just trying to demonstrate how very much she didn't like her dinner . . . but after a few days of this I took her into the doctor. We're with Kaiser and fortunately the pediatrician knew what it was right away -- she was severely constipated!! She had been pooping but I guess not enough, and over a period of weeks had basically backed up to the point where there was not enough room in her tummy for a full dinner -- hence the vomiting. He confirmed this diagnosis with an x-ray and we had to give her an enema (yuk) but it was all over in a day.

My daughter is now an older teenager but to this day she tends to get constipated whenever she is under stress, particularly when we are traveling. Perhaps your toddler is having a similar response to the stress of a new baby?

In the interests of protecting my teenager's identlty I will just sign myself as . . . been there, done that


stomach virus. my daughter has had it too. deb
We have the same problem with our 26 month old. If he has a full stomach AND gets upset usually he'll throw up. In our case it appears to be an emotional issue and not a digestive issue. He wants attention, you can't give it to him, he throws up and then the whole world stops and he gets his attention.

Although this is probably emotional you can reduce the chances of him doing this.

1) Try not to have your toddler eat too late at night right before bed. If he goes to day care find out what his eating was like that day and plan accordingly. It's not good for them (or us) to lie down with a full stomach, it leads to indigestion, heart burn and nausea.

2) Do not to give them too much milk before or in bed. Milk is hard to digest, and whole milk has a lot of fat, which babies/toddler's need, but it is hard to digest.

3) Try to keep them from getting upset after eating. If they are really cranky you need to try calm them down, stop what you are doing, include them into your activities, get down on your knees and look them in the eye. (Maybe you can give him little task to help with his sister when you are doing something with her ''get mommy sister's shirt. good boy'').

Of course if it continues see a doctor, we did and we were told it's not uncommon for babies and toddlers to do this. Medication exist to help toddlers digest but only put them on medication if you know for sure it is not an emotional problem or it's getting otu of hand. Joe G


16-month-old is vomiting often, usually in the car

Jan 2005

Hi, My 16-month-old is vomiting almost every 2-3 days, mostly in the car, and mostly in the mornings. I've taken her to the pediatrician, who thinks it is either GERD, sinusitis, or carsickness. If it's carsickness or GERD, those require medications to be given regularly. I hate the idea of giving my child medication every day. Has anyone else been in this position? What have you done to minimize nausea? I'm desperate for ideas...! Thanks for your help. Sandra


I was a carsick kid. What made me sick was the smell of vinyl, especially in newer cars, so we rolled the windows down, which helped. I also did better in cars with cloth seating. The smell of tar also made me ill. If your child suffers because of the motion, they may want you to give her medication, but you might try pepermint tea with a little sugar first to settle her stomach before putting her in the car (fresh pepermint boiled, strained, then served with a little sugar and ice cubes). Peppermint helps with stomach ailments, but it sounds like you may be forced to use the medication. anon

Random vomiting - 4 year old

May 2004

My happy healthy 4-year-old daughter has started randomly vomiting. It's happened about 6 times in the last couple of months. It's not a bid for attention, as sometimes it happens in the middle of the night, then she just wants to go back to bed. Nor is it a ploy to avoid something she doesn't want to do, as it has occured before a day at the beach, or before preschool, which she loves. She lies down for half an hour afterward, then is fine. There have also been several episodes of just general stomach upset, which is new for her. I'm asking about this here rather than taking her to the doctor because I can't imagine that a doctor could find anything wrong with her based on these symptoms. She is always fine soon after, and there's only a little bit of vomit, usually. She never has a fever or any other symptoms. Anybody else had this situation? concerned


It sounds to me like she might be slightly lactose intolerant or have some other type of food allergy. On the days she threw up did she drink more milk than usual? The slightly lactose intolerant members of my family can drink about 4 ounces of milk at a time without cramps and/or vomiting. Your daughter could have had this condition for a long time but only now if she is drinking increased amounts of milk is it becoming a problem. liz
call the doctor. That's what they are there for. They can look for things that you wouldn't think of, and do blood tests, etc. Don't delay. janet
I would take your child in to see the doctor, or at least call the doctor and describe the symptoms and see if s/he can give you some guidelines or advice. You say that you ''can't imagine that a doctor could find anything wrong with her based on these symptoms,'' but the doctor (hopefully) is trained to look at a constellation of symptoms and come up with a diagnosis. The symptoms may seem perplexing to you, if you are not medically trained, but it may seem clear to the MD. In any case, at least the doctor could check your child out and rule out some problems. May as well ask

16-month-old throws up daily at daycare, never at home

July 2003

My 16 month old son just started daycare 2 weeks ago. Its a home day care where hes the only child until sepetember. Hes been throwing up everyday at the daycare so far.

The care provider says this happens when she feeds him- he seems to gag and eventually throws up whats in his stomach. I cant see a pattern in the triggers. Once it was rice, once it was milk, another time it was the yoghurt he ate successfully the previous 4 days. I started grinding his lunch, but that didnt help either. Have currently regressed to sending jar food with him, but he threw that up 1 day too.

The strange thing is - at home he will eat anything that catches his fancy ( mostly stuff he sees his elder sister eating)- fruit ( that I peel & make into pieces), rice, bread... without a problem..

Any insight into whats going on is much appreciated.


My daughter threw up often in a home daycare, too. Always right at nap time. I never figured out exactly why, but it might have been that she was eating too much lunch and then being told to lay down right away for nap, when she wasn't really tired yet. She stayed in daycare for only six months (starting at 14 months old) and really didn't like it much toward the end. It seems she found the home daycare too boring. She has been in preschool for over a year and only threw up when she was really ill. LC
Sounds like a psychological thing. I think he's traumatized by the new daycare situation.
First and foremost see a gastrointerologist (stomach/liver/intestine doctor) to make sure everything is working properly. However I have been a childcare provider for years. It does not sound like a food allergy but nerves, anxiety, basically stress related to his being separated from his primary caretaker (you) for extended periods of time. Children who are in day care tend to have elevated levels of Cortisone (stress hormone) as opposed to children who are at home. This could cause the child to throw up (almost like stage fright.) Learning problems such as ''ADHD'' (I put it in parenthesis because I think it is sometimes over or mis- diagnosed) are more prevalent in children who have been placed in daycare for many years. And as an elementary teacher, I can usually tell by the first day of school which children are latch- key (meaning they go to daycare after school, or go home to an empty house) and which go home to parents, because of behavioral differences. It is up to you what decision you make in regards to keeping you child in his current situation anon
I didn't see the original question... on how many different days and times within one day did the child vomit at the daycare? After evaluating possible reaction to food or food- borne illness, you may want to check if pesticides are used in the childcare facility. Ask several sources because sometimes teachers or even Directors can mistakenly assume that pesticides are not sprayed. For example, if the building is being rented,there is often little communication of such info from landowner who contracts out the work to the contractor, and the teachers/director. I've seen it happen many times.

A common acute symptom of organophosphate pesticide poisoning is vomitting. Diazinon and Dursban are two common and very toxic pesticides used for ants and termites. Genetic makeup can render more susceptibility to organophosphate poisoning to a signficicant percentage of the population. A damaged form of an enzyme which breaks down the neurotransmitter, acetylcholine renders 4% of the population more susceptible to organophosphate poisoning. In addition, yet another enzyme,paraoxonase, which acts to deactivate organophosphate, has been found in about 35% of the population to be less functional according to the literature.

Persons who may have genetic susceptibility as well as being exposed to organophosphate pesticides may exhibit symptoms whereas other around them may not. Dursban and Diazinon have been banned by US EPA in 2000 for use in residential structures but still legal to sell/buy/spray by contractors until 2004. So watch out for them on sale! Fetus & children are much more susceptible to the neurological damage these pesticides are known to cause, particularly under the age of 5-6.

An intruiging report on toxic threats to children's development written by the Greater Boston Physicians for Social Responsibility and the Clean Water Fund can be found at: www.igc.org/psr/.

If pesticides are ruled out, you may want to find out what they are using to clean the facility. Both during school, and after school. For more info on safer alternative cleaning methods, you can look at www.pfse.net. For info on industrial cleaning products recommended by Green Seal, see their Sept- Oct '99 and March '98 issues on line. Susan


Toddler gagging on food and throwing up

May 2003

Our otherwise normal and healthy 21-month-old has been having some trouble chewing and swallowing his food properly. About once a week, on average, he gags on some food and throws up. Usually the offending food is something soft and innocuous that he's eaten successfully other times, such as pasta. (For example, twice it was on Annie's shells, which are tiny, the size of your pinky.)

I have talked to his peditrician several times about this. Basically, because our son is happy and healthy, she's not really interested in seeing him. She said some kids just gag easily, and they tend to get better as they get older. She offered the hypothesis that he has reflux, and said we could have a test done where he swallows barium and they Xray him, but it seems like a lot to put him through when the results would not be that helpful. If we seriously thought he had reflux, we could put him on (relatively innocuous) anti-reflux drugs without the test, but given the relative infrequency of the problem and the circumstances in which it occurs (almost always when he's eating, although he has thrown up a few times when he wasn't eating anything (and he wasn't sick)) we don't think it's reflux.

There are several mysteries about the situation. One is that he was pretty good at eating food from about 12-18 months; this problem started around 18 months. Another is that, as far as we can determine, he has never gagged on food while he's with his nanny. I've quizzed her about what she feeds him, and it's pretty much identical to what we offer him; she doesn't cut his food in smaller pieces or anything. He shares his nanny with another toddler who's a voracious eater; if anything, you'd think that would make our son more likely to gulp down his food without chewing it well. But although DH and I have considered, many times, the possibility that our son is gagging for attention, it really doesn't seem that way.

Someone I talked to knew a kid with a similar problem who was helped by speech therapy. This seemed like a weird idea to me, especially since my son is quite a good talker, but apparently the speech therapist enabled him to use his mouth more effectively.

Does anyone have a recommendation for a Chewing Therapist, or other advice on helping our son get over this yucky problem? Barfy in Berkeley


I would love to talk to you about this, and will be interested to see what others say. My daughter, almost two, also just started this. (She even starts gagging when we put a bib on her!) Melissa

14-month-old is making himself throw up

March 2003

My 14 month old did a strange thing at breakfast this morning - he put his finger down his throat so far that he gagged and threw up. He had a normal breakfast of bananas and cereal, didn't seem at all sick either before or after this, and didn't even seem very bothered by throwing up. It seemed more like he was kind of interested in what would happen if he did this. Later that morning he seemed to be doing the same thing with his toothbrush (which I give him while I brush my teeth in the interest of getting him familiar with it), but I quickly took the toothbrush away. Has anyone else's child ever done this? Is this normal or should I be worried? puzzled


I'm curious what any ''experts'' would say about this, but, as the mother of a toddler, I can recount a similar thing with my boy. I was aware that I wanted to discourage him from doing it (he just made himself gag), but I primarily did NOT want to put a big charge on the issue. I just gently asked him not to do it, and moved on to the next thing. I remember being somewhat worried, but was also aware that he was experimenting with his body. He stopped doing it, and I was glad not to have fretted. anonymous

How to clean up barf

Sept 2005

My daughter recently threw up and my husband just grabbed her comforter and put in the washing machine. Shouldn't you try to wipe most of it off into the toilet or the garbage? I mean putting partially digested food in the washing machine doesn't seem right! But anyways, we have been lucky so far our child hasn't ever gotten sick before, so this was our first experience. So we were wondering, how do you clean up throw-up effectively? The smell still seems to be lingering in her room on the rug..... and oh my gosh how would you get the smell out of a car? Julie


Kid barf is way grosser than adult barf, as kid's bile is more concentrated and smellier than adults! Sorry if that offends anyone, but it is the truth. Actually, who has time and presence of mind to start spraying and washing at 2 in the morning when your child is ill? Wad up the whole mess of sheets and blankets and leave it outside or someplace where the smell won't bother anyone and come back to it the next day if you can't get to it then. The only thing, don't let is get hot by baking in the sun, then you will have a problem. Yes, when you can stomach it, put your gloves on and scrape the solid parts into the trash or toilet. The important part is wetting the stains and soaking them. I wet them with water, squirt on some Spray and Wash, and come back in an hour or longer. Then, I rinse the stained area in cold water, and rub the area with a soap bar (not a natural or glycerin type, just good old white soap- Ivory or Dove will work too.) Scrub the stained parts of the cloth together and let the soap lather, rinse in cold water, if it still looks bad, repeat with the soap, let it sit longer, then more rinsing and scrubbing. When is just a faint outline or less, then throw it in the washer for a washer cleaning with detergent. I have been able to even get blueberry barf stains out of a pale white 100% cotton sheet this way. As for barf on carpet, I know how to deal with that from our dog, who was a professional barfer. There is an enzyme cleaner targeted for kids, I forget the name of it if you buy it a Babies R us store, but if you buy it in the pet stores it is called Nature's Miracle. They are the same products, probably the one for kids costs more though. It is a clear liquid that you squirt on the stain and it breaks down the smelly enzymes in barf. The directions are on the bottle.

One last thing, I used to have a cartoon posted on the fridge that made me laugh everytime I looked at it: it showed a toddler, a dog and a cat standing in front of a wheel with a spinner on it. The title of the spinning wheel was ''Who will Barf Today.'' Best wishes! barf veteran


I don't know if it was the proper way, but we dealt with a middle-of-the-night, all-over-the-bed barf by just throwing everything in the washer with lots of soap and hot water. As for barf in the car, we tried a number of things and the only one that worked was a full detailing at Touchless Car Wash (I think that's the name) on Oxford in downtown Berkeley, across from the Cal campus. They cleaned the whole car thoroughly (a much better job than the first car wash we tried), then sprayed on some orange scent to cover up anything that was left. breathing free

Removing vomit smell in car seat

April 2004

Help! My 12 month old daughter threw up in her car seat and I am having the hardest time removing the smell. Does anyone know of any product or home remedy to remove the odor of vomit? We have a Britax Roundabout, and removed and hand-washed the car seat cover (the instructions advised against machine washing), but it still smells. Also, she managed to completely soak the harness straps, which are not removeable. The foam underneath the cover smells too. Should I dry clean the car seat cover? But then what about the straps and foam? Any adivse would be appreciated! Felicia


I have successfully used baking soda to remove vomit smell and many other odors. You could try sprinkling it onto anything that isn't easily washable. You can dissolve it in water - I would use about a teaspoon full per cup of water - and wash the object. My favorite use - I have a little long haired dog that likes to eat grass and vomit. I mix some baking soda in a cup, dip a washcloth in it. put a corner in her mouth and leave it there for a moment, and use the rest of rag to wipe her face. All traces of the smell are gone immediately. I'm sure it would work on kids too. karen
Try BacOut. You can get it at WholeFoods and sometimes Safeway, etc. It is a natural enzyme eater and has a pleasant clean smell. It will remove the smell from the foam and the straps (it's goiod for pee too)! My son vomited in the carseat a few months ago and we used BacOut on the straps, ect. FYI, I did remove the carseat cover and I washed it in the washing machine on a gentle cycle and hung dry it without any problems. I know of at least two other moms who have washed their Britax car seat covers in the washer successfully as well!! Just wash it, it beats the stink and if you think it's bad for you, imagine your poor child sitting right in it!! LogicalMama
We've used ''Nature's Miracle'' (liquid form) for many years now. It's worked for us on all manner of infant and childhood bodily fluids/solids. First clean the area as well as possible, then douse/soak with Nature's Miracle. It has natural enzymes in it and is available at pet stores (we go to Pet Food Express). Good luck! Family of Vomitters
I'm sorry, but I have no good advice for this problem. I had to laugh, though, because it reminded me of my old car. I bought it from a family with two young kids. These kids must have puked on not just their car seat, but also the car's seats, too (maybe this also happend to you?). I took the car to a detailer. He ended up cleaning the interior three times. When I asked him why, he said ''I couldn't get rid of that funky smell''. Over time (i.e. years, not days) the smell diminished, except when it rained. The moisture in the air must have activated the old, dried vomit. A single guy at the time, I can't tell you how much grief my friends gave me for driving a car that smelled like baby puke. So my advice is wash it the best you can, keep it out of the rain, and live with it as the smell will fade with time. Either that, or get a new seat. Bob
I machine washed a Britex Roundabout seat cover with no problem. I didnt put it in the dryer though... You can also order a new cover for the roundabout on Britex.com, or whatever the company website is. They are about $50. Also, I forget how I did it, but I also removed the straps and washed those by hand as well.... aud
You can totally run the Roundabout seat cover through the washing machine. I had this exact problem with extreme amounts of vomit and I just removed it and ran it through the washer. It takes a long time to dry so you should plan for that. For the straps I used baking soda mixed with water and it worked for the most part. Also, a salesperson at Rockridge Kids suggested using Mother's Little Helper if it happens again. -No more smelly seat!
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