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Nov 2008
I would like to lose 25 pounds in anticipation of an event next
June. I have already talked with my doctor, who ran thyroid and
other tests, which were normal. It's simply a matter of exercising
more and eating fewer calories. I am HIGHLY motivated by recording
information and seeing the resulting progress in graph form. Can
anyone recommend an online site where I can enter calorie counts,
exercise, and weight--and see my information presented visually?
--8 Months to a Healthy Weight
fatsecret.com - it helped me lose about 35 pounds in about 6 months.
good luck!
Judy
The website sparkpeople.com is free and has charts and graphs for
tracking your weight loss. It also has meal plans, exercise plans,
blogs, recipes, etc.. It is a great resource.
Also trying to lose
I LOVE this website: www.myfitnesspal.com. I used it to lose 35
lb. and it does have graphs. Have fun!
myfitnesspal fan
I really like myfooddiary.com - it has great graphs for weight,
measurements, body fat percentage. Only catch is that it costs $9
per month.
-trying to lose weight too
Try the site www.fitday.com
it's free!
Hi - try www.fitday.com, it's free. It tracks your foods,
exercises, weight loss and goals. Good luck!
Crystal
I've been using nutridiary.com, and have been pretty happy with it.
I use the free version, which has nutrient info on lots of different
foods, lets you add your own foods, and lets you construct ''meals''
of food combinations you eat regularly (saves time in entering). It
displays various kinds of progress (calorie distribution, weight
lost, etc.) with graphs under the ''reports'' tab. They also offer
a paid version with a lot more foods listed, but I generally use
calorieking.com (free) if I need more information on a food not
listed at nutridiary.
lost 10 pounds so far!
Yes yes! onlinefitnesslog.com sounds like exactly what you need.
Little lines with different colors for weight, body fat, exercise
output, etc. Have fun, good luck!
--losing that baby fat
I just wanted to suggest checking out the bodybugg. I worked with a
trainer who recommended it for those seeking weight loss, and though
I didn't use it, a good friend did. There are fees, but the graphs
and reminders that you need to do 'one 15 minute walk before bed' if
you plan to meet the calories burned goal, were very helpful for my
friend. The website is www.bodybugg.com.
Mary
I was in your same situation a few months ago--I had those last
15-20 pounds of baby weight that I was hoping to lose before an
event. I came across the 3-Hour Diet (www.3hourdiet.com) and it
worked like a charm for me. It is a relatively easy diet--there are
not really any restrictions on what you can eat, so I never felt
deprived of anything. And it taught me a lot of good eating
habits--habits that I still use in my day-to-day life even though
I'm no longer doing the diet (I lost most all of the weight I wanted
to). The site utilizes a lot of visuals--you can post before and
after pictures, and there are graphs for total body weight and then
each separate body measurement. You can join chat groups, which
really helped to keep me motivated. You can also type in your
dietary preferences, and the site will generate daily menus for you,
along with shopping lists to make all of the recipes. I highly
recommend this diet/website.
Good luck!
Kerry
Sept 2008
Hi everyone!
I'll love to hear from those who have successfully (or not so
much) lost some weight on some of those very commercial methods.
I have 2 months and 10 lbs to loose for my sister's wedding this
December. I have a dress and I'm just not willing to buy a new
expensive dress for one night.
Please not lecturing... I'm a very busy mom of two toddlers,
maybe I can walk for 30 3 or 4x a week, I'm on an overall healthy
diet, I RARELY eat out , I know myself what in the food I need to
change. I will star to do this waking running, but PLEASE tell me
about that magic green tea, other herbal methods, weight watcher,
slim fast o the like.
Thanks for your input
mommy with the big thighs
I lost a lot of weight a couple of years ago (and have kept most
of it off) using a book called ''The Diet Cure''. My problem was a
sweets addiction though it doesn't sound like an issue for you.
The book might be helpful and keep you mindful of your eating.
Good luck to you! I hope you make your goal and look stunning
for the wedding.
- anon
The mother of a friend of mine once said that the only way for
women to lose weight is to go to bed hungry. I was never fond
of that idea but it does seem true that women need to eat much
less (as well as exercise) in order to lose weight. I've
managed to lose a fair bit by taking smaller portions at lunch
and especially dinner, and never going back for seconds. I also
try to remind myself not to eat my 9 year old's leftovers even
if tossing them is abhorrent to me. I do eat enough at dinner
to not be hungry in the night because it affects my sleep. If I
am hungry before bed, I'll eat a handful of almonds or some non-
sugary yogurt. If your body is too starving then all you'll
want to do is eat and that defeats the purpose. However,
exercise is key.
hungry but not starving
If it's just 10 pounds - don't worry, buy one of those minimizer
things that go from breast to knees and call it a day.
Be glad it's only 10 pounds
Try cutting out ALL sugar in your diet - even to the level of
ketchup. It's not as hard as it sounds, once you've gotten
through a few days, you tend to lose the sweet tooth urge. You
can drop 5 pounds quickly b/c eating sugar tends to make you
bloated with extra water. No sugar means you also drop all those
desserts etc. I also have cut out cow dairy (allergies) and that
really helped as well. I still eat plenty, including high fat
food (hummus, avocados), I'm not hungry. It's hard to organize
sometimes but do-able. If you can do it, cutting out all refined
wheat (or as much as you can) really does the trick as well.
The South Beach diet is a great way to lose weight/eat healthy
without ''dieting''. It's also based o the no sugar concept, but
explains it much better than I am.
I find that my vanity took over once I did lose the weight, so
I'm more motivated to stay thin. I am finally able to leave food
on my plate. In fact, eating only half of your entree out is a
great trick as well.
anon
Hi,
You can realistically lose 10 pounds in 2 and 1/2 months and in healthy ways as it's
only a pound a week. I did Weight Watchers in the past, and have had clients who
use Weight Watchers for dieting help and hypnosis to keep them motivated and on
track in reaching their goals and feeling great about themselves. A number of years
ago I lost about 80 pounds, however, I've kept the weight off, by using hypnosis,
self-hypnosis and exercising daily, usually walking and yoga.
Another plus in your favor is that in addition to walking several times a week, you
have toddlers who keep you on the go. Have fun and take advantage of their
energy, maybe by taking walks or pushing them in their stroller, go to the park and
play with them on the apparatus, or dance, jump, gallop with them. Everyone will
have lots of fun and you'll burn lots of calories too. Since you are highly motivated
to lose weight, you would be a great candidate for hypnosis. If this seems like
something you might like to try, let me know.
Catherine
Hope this is not a ''lecture'' but look, you can do this. It's
fast but not impossible, 5 pounds per month or a little over 1
per week. I lost 30 pounds on my best efforts at a rate of 1/2
to 1 lb/week, after an initial more rapid loss.
I'd say, put a calendar of the two months ON THE WALL. PLAN
your meals, write them up there, follow them. Keep to small
portions, you know that. Use that 30 min 3-4 X a week to push
yourself at a high heart rate, put those 30-mins up on that
calendar too and do them when you're supposed to. You have to
signal to yourself that it's a new program. Keep the dress in
mind. You may drop 5 right off the bat. Keep hydrated. Use all
the tricks, vegs & water first, stop before you're full, plan
in little sweets or whatever your weakness is. The main thing
is make yourself a written plan and stick to it.
My personal favorite mind game is knowing I can do one small
(150-200 calorie) late morning meal, then ONE MAIN MEAL late
afternoon and be satisfied. I keep my coffees with cream and
sugar in because I'd feel deprived without them. I plan what I
will eat if my stomach is growling late night, OR if I'm strong
I just say to myself ''That's the sound of this body sculpting
itself down,'' and go to sleep. You can do it!
Good Luck!
Before my own wedding, for about 6-8 weeks, I didn't eat anything
white- no sugar, white bread, yogurt, etc..- or anything
processed or alcohol. Just good wholesome veggies, fruits,
grains. It just peeled off!
Good luck.
kelley
Oh my gosh...who hasn't done what you are suggesting? Or,
thought about it? This past year, I wanted to drop for my
husbands 25th high school reunion (had to look good for his
ex-girlfriends...right?) I used www.thedailyplate.com. There
wasn't any magic to it. I just put in my weight, how much I
wanted to lose, and then kept the on-line food diary. It tallied
for me my calories. Once I knew what I was eating, I was able to
easily get my intake to what my suggested calories in-line for my
weight loss goal. I lost the ten pounds in the ten weeks and
I've kept it off for the the past three months. I have another
ten I would like to lose...haven't stayed on the thdailyplate,
but plan to go back once I my urge to lose the remainder hits me...
anon
Jan 2008
I have been gaining more weight (well I never lost all the
weight I gained after my youngest child was born 10 years ago)
and I am not really eating more than I used to. I exercize
about 4 times a week, although I don't seem to sweat when I do
so. Now that I am about 27 pounds over my pre-pregnancy
weight, and the weight seems to be going up, does anyone have
any advise or knowledge about how metabolism works or how the
body responds to exercize now that I have hit 50 and am post
menopausal?
Thanks for any thoughts on this.
anon
I can verify that weight is much easier to put on and much more
difficult to take off the older we get!
Weight Watchers always works for me, even though I have a thyroid
disorder which is only partially treatable. And recently my
acupuncturist suggested that I try out not eating wheat, as that
can hold water for some people. It's a pain in the neck to avoid
wheat, as it's in more things than you'd think, but I'm feeling
much less bloated since I began a couple of months ago.
Cece
Have you had your thyroid checked? Low thyroid can cause weight
gain because it lowers the metabolism. It's a simple blood test
to have all of your thyroid hormones checked. If you ahve low
thyroid you can take various forms of thyroid hormone (forever).
It's very very common in women, esp. after childbirth.
The other thing to look at is what you are eating? Are you
eating sugar? Wheat? starchy foods'' Sugar will pack the pounds
on like nothing else! Bread? Pasta? White flour?...as good as
sugar. If you want to lose weight you have to eat less calories.
Try writing down everything you eat for a few days. Be totally
honest. You might be surprised that you're eating a lot more
then you think. Take it a step further and figure out how many
calories you're eating...You can also figure out how many
calories a day your body needs for your activity level adn to
lose weight. ...whatever you are eating, if you cut 500
calories per day out of your diet you will lose about a pound a
week (I thnk that's right...3500 cal/#). And drink lots of
water. But mostly, cut the sugar.
WHat are you doing for exercise? Weight bearing
exercises...exercises that build muscle will burn the most fat.
There are many websites that can help you. It might also be
helpful to have a consultation or two with a nutritionist or
personal trainer/weight loss coach.
Since you didn't say anything about what you eat or how you
exercise I''m only asking questions here, not making any
assumptions.
If you'd like to talk further, please e-mail me. I'm a personal
trainer/weight loss coach, massage therapist, have
hypothyroidism, am a sugar addict off of sugar, and have lost
weight successfully. Good luck. Been there...
June
If you are 27 pounds over your goal weight, you are consuming 270
more calories every day than you are burning. My gym recommends
that women keep their percent body fat below 20%.
Just by replacing 270 chocolate calories every day with a
cucumber-carrot salad, your weight will gradually drop to your
goal weight. If you eliminate a Frappuccino every day, you could
actually lose too much weight.
If you're over 50, you are probably losing muscle mass, too, so
add some push-ups, crunches, and lunges to your daily routine to
maintain joint health and to prevent your weight from migrating
to places where you don't want it.
And, don't forget the fiber for your aging digestive system. The
fiber will make you feel fuller on fewer calories, too.
Aerobic exercise is good for your health, but if you watch the
numbers on the treadmill, you'll see that it takes a long, long
time on a treadmill (with or without sweating) to burn 3600
calories (the equivalent of 1 pound of fat).
No excuses, just veggies
July 2007
Last year through exercise and good nutrition I lost about 15#
(needed to lose 20). I was doing really well.
In April I started putting back on abunch of weight (got sick,
mom passed away, other stressful events)..I'm an emotional eater
and a major sugar addict. AFter 2 months I'd gained 7# back.
Now I''m back on track...back to exercising regularly, no sugar,
white flour, dairy, etc. I know a lot about nutrition (in fact
in my work I council people on how to lose weight and eat
better). As far as food and exercise I know I'm doing the right
things. I have a physically active job (I don't sit at a
computer all day) and try to eat about 15-1700 calories per day.
I take supplements, etc. etc.
Here's what may be an important factor. I'm 54, going thru
menapause...I've felt like a period is coming for about 2 weeks
now. I didn't get one for 10 months and then got one last
month...now it feels like i'm on a regular cycle again. My belly
aches, I get crampy, irritable, my face is breaking out.
So, given that this holding on the the weight could easily be a
hormonal thing....any suggestions? Any herbs, supplements, etc.
Thanks to any of you menapausal moms or nutritionists out there
who can help.
bloated and annoyed!!
i was just reading something about this in a mothering.com thread
''Premenopause/Menopause Tribe'':
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?t=360255
one poster reported that once menopause sets in it is harder to
lose weight, because the body is holding on to stored fat as a
source of estrogen. she was paraphrasing christiane northrup MD.,
maybe from her book (she has several) called ''the wisdom of
menopause.''
here's the bookstore part of her website:
http://www.drnorthrup.com/bookstore/index.php
signed: not there yet, but ?close.
March 2007
My husband has lost 15% of his weight in two months. He was thin to begin with.
He weighs 30 pounds less than me. I am no longer attracted to his slight frame. He
appears very unhealthy in my eyes and my family agrees. He has given me no valid
reason for his weight loss, but it may be viral. I have no idea. He is not sick and
he
does not do drugs at all. He runs twice per week. He has lost some motion is his
left shoulder. He also has some bruising near his spine. My question is could he
actualy like looking so gaunt? He is wearing tight t shirts and jeans that accentuate
his skinny arms! Is this fashionable in some circles? Is this something straight,
married men do? How can I be married to someone who looks likes a 43 year old
man in the body of a 14 year old? What can I do to convince him to gain more
weight?
Size 10 married to Size XS
Please use whatever tools are at your command to insist that your
husband see a doctor. He may be suffering from an eating disorder or
some other serious, perhaps even life-threatening illness. He may be in
denial or scared to find out what is going on (this happened to a
friend--it turned out he had developed adult-onset diabetes). You can
tell him that if the doctor says nothing is wrong you won't bother him
anymore. You can tell him that if he loves you he will do this one
thing for you, even if he doesn't want to do it for himself. Tell him
you will go with him and hold his hand. This is not nagging, this is
taking care of the one you love. Good luck to you both.
forget his size or attractiveness... does he have cancer?
Seriously. Unless he's stopped eating, that much weight loss is an
enormous red flag for a life threatening situation.
Call the Dr, now!
It's always the men who lose weight without trying!!!
If your husband lost 15% of his body weight by doing nothing in
particular looks unhealthy, etc. I'd have him see a Dr.
immediately.
Does he have an eating disorder? Has he had on in the past that could be
lurking back? I'd have him get a blood test and a thorough checkup by
his MD. Good luck anon
Firstly, yes, I think you're right to be worried... that amount of
weight loss in that short a time can't be healthy. But good heavens, do
the two of you communicate? Do you even live in the same house, or
town? I'd have to believe there'd be considerable evidence of
*something* to explain the weight loss; I'm as worried that there's
something far more serious going on than the tip-of-the-iceberg question
of whether or not he could think it looks good.
Concerned Citizen
How much does your husband weigh? Is he underweight by the BMI (Body
Mass Index)?
You can find this in books. If he is not underweight, are you overweight
by the BMI?
Sounds like he keeps fit. I don't know if he is too skinny without first
knowing his weight, height and age. Maybe you yourself are overweight
and you just don't feel good next to him? I don't know.
anonymous member of BPN
He should see a doctor right away. It could be anything. Running can
also make you lose weight, but his weight loss seems more extreme and
with those other symptoms...really go to the Dr.
Better that then have ''us'' diagnose.
anon
Please insist that your husband see a doctor ASAP for a complete health
screening. Sudden and unexplained weight loss is one of the warning
signs of cancer they always tell you to look out for. If my husband had
lost that much weight so quickly I would be very concerned to rule out
organic causes. The bruising and loss of mobility make me concerned
also. Whether or not he enjoys being that thin seems beside the point
if he has a serious illness. Running twice a week is not at all an
excessive amount to exercise.
alarmed
I'd say get him to a doctor asap, and if you haven't already spoken to
him about it, ask him! It could be a medical condition (viral, or some
other disease, including cancer). And if he doesn't feel well, don't
criticize him. Maybe you'll be more empathetic. And if he's already
skinny and losing weight intentionally, there may be some
emotional/psychological issues.
If I were you, I'd express some concern first of all. Put your
''appearance'' concerns on the back burner for now.
Please take your husband to the doctor ASAP. If he has not been trying
to lose weight and if he does not have an eating disorder then something
more serious is likely going on. I do not want ot be an alarmist, but
as the parent of a leukemia survior, weight loss and bruising were some
of the tell-tale symptoms that got us in to see the doctor. A 15%
reduction in weight in such a short amount of time is more alarming than
having a 43 yr old spouse in a 14 yr olds body. Please press him to
seek medical advice. A simple blood test could provide you with many
answers.
concerned reader & mom to cancer survivor
I don't want to unneccesarily worry you but here are a few things to
think about. Please remember that there are many many possible reasons
for your husbands situation and the ones I mention are just a few, and
probably not very likely.
You don't mention if your husband intentionally lost the weight, or it
just happened. Drastic unexplained, unintentional weight loss is a
classic sign of cancer. The bruising and shoulder pain are also cause
for concern if they have no other explanation like he fell and injured
himself. Is he a smoker?
Shoulder pain can be caused by a lung tumor pressing on a nerve and the
pain then radiates to the shoulder (get a chest x-ray maybe).
Unexplained easy bruising can be due to a low platelet count which needs
an explanation (get a CBC, complete blood count). Leukemias and
lymphomas often cause a low platelet count (thrombocytopenia).
Other reasons are emotional or mental problems, food alergies, food
phobias, viral diseases and of course extramarital affairs. Or maybe he
just thinks he looks hot that way. Get some good looking women to dis
him a few times about being too skinny and that should cure him. In any
case, sounds like he needs to see a dr. to rule out serious problems if
in fact the weight loss was unintentional.
sean
Jan 2007
Last year I lost a lot of weight with healthy diet and
exercise. I've kept my goal weight for about 6 months now, and
I'd like to lose 10 more pounds. This would not make me ultra
skinny, but pretty trim. However, I am finding it very hard to
get these last pounds off. I've amped up the exercise, water
intake, healthy diet....the scale is not moving. Any advice?
wish I could get the numbers to budge
Hi! I read your post about ''losing the 10 last pounds''. Have you given
a thought to the idea that maybe you don't have 10 more pounds to lose?
It seems that you are eating properly and exercising routinely, which is
the best way to allow your body to get down (or up) to its healthy
weight. Why would you want to get skinnier than your natural balance? I
would add that eating less while exercising more would be unhealthy as
you seem to have reached your natural weight. I would encourage you to
work on the image you have of your body, rather than on your body
itself... Good luck!
anon
Although it might not help loosing the weight, you might look and feel
more svelt with weight training. I've alwasy found that lifting weights
does more for my looks and sense of self than anything else. You didn't
mention weight lifting explictly, so thought I'd throw that in.
Merrilee
Hi, you don't mention your form of exercise, but if you really want to
be trimmer, try weight training. Despite most women's fears, it will not
bulk you up. The numbers on the scale may not go down the full 10 lbs,
but a weight trained bod is definitely trimmer. Muscle burns more
calories at rest than fat, so your metabolism will increase and you
won't have to drop more calories.
Good luck.
anon
Congratulations on your weight loss. Ten pounds is my 'magic
number too!. I started Bikram yoga at the beginning of January and
found that going 3 or 4 times a week is bringing my weight right down.
The first 4 came off in 2 weeks. I think it's working because I eat a
very light breakfast of fruit and a few bites of yogurt, trot off to
class. After class, I only want liquids, coconut water, more juice,
water w/ a tiny bit of sea salt. I eat a good size dinner around 5pm.
Bedtime is around 10pm. Sleeping during the hours of 10p - 3am, studies
have revealed, crucial to hormone balance in women who want to reduce
weight. Good Luck. Funky Door Yoga Studio is a Bikram studio. There
is also a Bikram studio in Oakland.
Sweaty and Happy!
Even though you eat a healthy diet you may be eating too many calories
(easy to do).
Try writing down all your food for a few days and count the calories
(you can find out calories/portions on boxes, packages, on line, in a
calorie book).
3500 calories = one pound. So, whatever your daily calorie intake
is...if you are maintaining your weight, that's how many calories you
need to maintain your weight.
If you eat 500 less calories per day than your typical, you will lose a
pound in one week (500 kcal x 7 days per week = one pound/3500
calories).
Been in your shoes. Upped the exercise, but not till I lowered my
calorie intake did the pounds come off.
I measured my portions too cause I found that eyeballing my portions was
not accurate.
So, for example, 1/4 cup of dry oatmeal was 150 calories.
1/4 cup dry looks like not much oatmeal, so I'd add more...
But actually 1/4 cup dry was plenty of oatmeal cooked.
I could go on, but you probably get the idea.
Good luck.
maintaining...would like to lose more too.
Make water your only beverage. Beverage calories often get overlooked
but they count! And hey, maybe you look a lot better at the weight
you're at. As we age, we actually look better with a few extra lbs.!
I didn't see your original post so I don't know how long ago you gave
birth. But, if you are physically ready to return to a vigorous workout,
I know of no better way to get in shape than the
Ice Chamber in Albany.
I signed up for bootcamp in June with the goals of losing a few pounds
and jump-starting my own workout. Instead, I quit the Y, stayed at the
Ice Chamber, lost around 10 pounds so far, built loads of muscle, and
feel amazing!
The Ice Chamber is not your ordinary gym - and they don't get ordinary
results. At the risk of sounding like an infomercial - you will not
believe how effective their approach to fitness is. But don't take my
word for it - check out these BEFORE and AFTER photos of Ice Chamber
members (including me) http://www.icechamber.com/beforeandafter
They just added a 9:30 a.m. bootcamp class. Beginning March 5, you can
work out, and still have time to get other things done before you have
to high tail it back to your nanny, best bud, daycare, mother-in-law, or
whoever else watches your kiddo while you take care of yourself.
If that time doesn't work for you, there are daily morning classes and
evening classes:
http://www.icechamber.com/schedule.html
Try it. After all, what have you got to lose (besides those last 10
pounds).
http://www.icechamber.com/contact.html
510-558-0807
Truly fit for the first time
Nov 2006
Hello,
I have recently lost some weight. I started at 5'8'' and 150lbs
(on the medium end of a healthy weight) and over the course of 3
months I am down to 125 lbs (still a healthy weight). I dieted
and excercised. People keep saying to me ''WOW!! You have lost
SOOO much weight!'' and ''You look SO much better now!''. This is
kind of hurting my feelings, because I wasn't overweight in the
first place . Also, I really don't know how to respond. I feel
like saying ''Thanks'' is kind of awkward.. I wish someone would
just say ''Great job on the weight loss, that takes discipline'' or
''You look great'' or something.. Since most comments seem to be
in the surprised/slightly insulting category-- How should I
respond? Also, am I being too touchy? Thanks!
-Just wanting to feel comfortable in my own skin
Anonymous
Great Job!!! Dieting and exercise are hard to keep up. Since I don't know you I
can't say ''Wow....you lost weight, you look great'' but I bet you feel great so I
think you might do best for yourself by concentrating on that when people say
''wow....etc''.
It's just the way people react. We are all impressed when someone loses noticable
weight, and maybe jealous too.
I would try to lighten up...and keep up the great work personal trainer and weight
management coach
Congratulations on losing 25 pounds in 3 months--that's quite a significant
achievement, and something that people are definitely going to notice. It sounds
like the people around you are very impressed and are trying to give you positive
feedback, even if sometimes it comes out the wrong way. Just smile and say ''thank
you.'' Obviously you wanted to lose weight, because no-one loses that much weight
that fast by accident, so you should take pride in what you have achieved and not
be dismayed that people are commenting on it. Listen for the intended compliment
and respond to that!
wish I had your problem
I have also recently lost weight; 30 pounds over 4 months. And yes, I get those
''My God have you lost a ton of weight!'' comments as well. It's a little
different for me in that I was pretty chunky to begin with. I personally try to
take the comments for how they are meant - as compliments. Also consider the
person's intentions when they say it. Would they really say, ''Gee looks like
you've lost a little bit of weight- why did you put so much work into something
you didn't need''? It wouldn't be very nice either.
- try to blow it off and enjoy !
First, let me congratulate you! It sounds like you worked on it. That said, you
DID diet and begin exercising - wasn't this so that you could lose weight? I
think people are just complimenting you and you're taking the way they are saying
it wrong. It IS weird to say WOW YOU'VE LOST SO MUCH WEIGHT, but it happens all
the time. (Maybe you did look heavy to those people before and now you're super
thin and they can't help but exclaim?) I'd just say, Yeah I did, thanks. and call
it a day.
-Lucky you.
Since you asked, I think you are being a little touchy. You may not have been
medically overweight before but you said that you did diet, not just exercise to
lose TWENTY-FIVE pounds so you must have felt that it would be good for you to
lose that weight. Of course people are going to notice and in our society a lot of
people do think you look better. From what you said, nobody is making remarks
like, ''Gee I'm glad you got around to losing all that fat!'' I would just change
the subject from your looks to how great you feel. ''Thanks, it's kind of
embarassing because I keep getting these compliments and all I wanted to do was
start working out regularly.''
anon
Why did you decide - or how did you happen - to lose weight? Perhaps you could
respond with an affirmation of that. For example, if you lost weight because you
enjoy exercise, you could respond with, ''Thank you, I've really been enjoying
running more.''
Or if you did it to improve your health, you might say, ''Thank you, I'm feeling
healthier,'' etc. Hard as it may be, I'd try not to take those rude comments to
heart, because they really truly reflect more on the speaker than on you anon
You'd think more people would know how hard it is to lose weight, but they don't.
They assume it was easy for you. Unless they've successfully lost weight and kept
it off, they are clueless. I used to be one of those people who would blurt out,
''Gosh you lost a LOT of weight.'' Now that I've done it myself, I am more likely
to keep my mouth shut, or if I overhear a comment like that, I chime in with, ''It
takes a lot of hard work and discipline to lose weight. Good for you.''
After I lost weight, I'd cringe when people commented - the worst was when they
implied that I was now too slim (like you, I'm smack in my healthy weight range).
I wanted validation, so I started giving it to myself. When people commented that
I'd lost weight, I'd say, ''It was a lot of work to change my eating habits and
exercise every day, but I'm glad I overhauled my lifestyle.'' It's annoying, but
people have short attention spans; pretty soon they'll forget that you ever looked
any different than you do now and the comments will stop completely Heather
Saying thanks is appropriate. Then you can back it up by saying it took lots of
discipline and hard work to achieve your goal.
You wouldn't have taken on the excercise and dieting if you were happy with the
way you looked. You have had a drastic loss of weight, 25 lbs is a lot! I think it
would be shocking to me if any of my friends dropped that much weight in that
short amount of time. I would probably say the same things, especially if I hadn't
seen them in the progress. Just the other day, I saw a girl who works in my
doctor's office who lost 150 lbs! I was so in awe, I told her. She lost the
amount of a whole person. It is not meant to be insulting, it is a compliment. I
think some people are just amazed and wishing they could do it themselves. I have
recently lost some weight (not 25 lbs, which is amazing!!!!) in the last few
months by lots of exercise, discipline and dieting, I LOVE to hear how much better
I look now, because I know I do. I am more comfortable in my clothes, in social
gatherings, and everywhere I go. I was not by all means fat before, but I wasn't
what I used to be and people remember that. It is a compliment. Be happy and glow!
Way to go!
still have 15 more to go.
I am 40 lbs overweight and just hate it and I really try to control my eating but
i can't right now. i say comments like the ones you mentioned to people who have
lost weight because 1) I am soooo jealous because I want to lose weight again too,
and
2) in my family, being overweight is really considered ugly and so I am trying to
get over the ''thin is pretty'' attitude that i grew up with, but it is still
there. I think I am over it for everyone else but me. (My mother wanted me to
lose weight for my wedding so bad...she would say things like ''don't you want to
be a beautiful bride?'') Please just regard the comments as coming from the other
peoples's attitudes about themselves and what society tells them and just let it
go. The fact that you are happy with youself at different healthy weights is what
matters!
Anon
I could have written your email! I grew up a ''skinny'' kid - tall and skinny.
Kids called me lanky. I always tried to gain weight. I ate everything, but
remained 'lanky.'
When I had my baby, I gained weight for the 1st time ever. I was busy being a mom,
nursing, staying at home. I gained 50 pounds. During this time, I felt sluggish
and low-energy. After my daughter started school, I started running, which I enjoy
because it is time to myself in my thoughts outside in the fresh air. I eat, but I
don't eat much meat or bread because it makes me feel bloated. I eat a lot of
green veggies, whole grain tortillas, tofu, cheese, soups, and yogurt. After 6
months of running, I lost 30lbs, dropped to 120 from 150, felt GREAT, healthy and
energetic.
My coworkers started monitoring my lunches, commenting on my appearance, telling
me they were worried about me. I got annoyed, and sort of offended that people
were looking at my body and developing opinions, thinking I was not taking care of
myself. We have folks at my work who are very large, and they bring in McDonalds
lunches and eat at their desk, and nobody says anything. This seems ironic.
Eventually, I had to tell a few of my coworkers to back off. The monitoring of my
meals was offensive and intrusive. This was 3 years ago. Today I am still 120
pounds, the same proportions I have been my whole life, and I feel great. I have
run
4 marathons, climbed several peaks in Europe, I'm fit and healthy. This is me.
Feel secure with who you are. In this day in age, the media sends a message to
our daughters that "skinny" is beautiful. I agree that this is not OK. I
appreciate that we have been trained to look for signs of "skinny obsession," but
I also believe we should never make people feel bad for their body size. We all
come in all shapes and sizes, and this means big OR little. You might be little.
If you are naturally little but healthy, as in eating when you are hungry until
you are full, exercising because it makes you happy and it feels good, and you are
content with your body and your mind, then tell people - thanks, I'm OK, please
stop asking. You should never worry about what others think of your size Skinny
mother of a healthy daughter
Yeah, you're being too touchy. People are commenting b/c they think it's a
compliment. I've been on all sides of this, having grown up bony and wondered why
people were always commenting about my weight, and post-baby have had much excess
weight and began to understand why people comment on it-I started noticing other
people who lost weight because I wanted to. It's a compliment, say thanks, smile,
don't worry about it. 25 pounds is a lot to lose, it's noticeable. People
generally won't say anything if you put on 25 pounds, becasue that would be
hurtful.
People assume that if you've been working hard on it that you are happy that they
are noticing. Great job on the weight loss, by the way. I wish I could say I lost
25 pounds, but I'm just barely cracking about 17. And it didn't bother me at ALL
when people started noticing. I was more embarassed when I had gained all the
weight, and I know that was obviuos too. They're just being nice by only noticing
when it comes off!
I think you are, in your own words, being ''too touchy.'' 125 pounds for a 5 foot
8 person is pretty thin. And a 25 pound loss of weight on someone who wasn't fat
in the first place is dramatic. You lost weight, now people are noticing and it
bothers you?
You are not comfortable in your own skin, obviously. Why did you lose the weight
in the first place? Health reasons? Looks? You have to do some inner work to work
out your self-image issues. In the meantime, just say thank you to pople who
comment on your weight loss. Whether they are complimenting you or not, it lets
them know that you think you look good
June 2006
My husband has been trying to lose weight for years but can't
seem to do it. Like many people in the Bay Area, he lives a busy
working parent life. He's usually good about exercising
regularly, and he's tried to be more mindful about what he eats,
but as soon as he gets a little too busy, it seems his good
habits go out the window. We hired a personal trainer for him for
a few months. It taught him a lot about how he exercises, but he
still didn't lose any weight. He got on the scale today and found
out he's gained another 10 pounds, and he got really depressed
about it. I feel terrible for him.
I'm one of those people who can eat donuts every day without
gaining a pound, and I'm at a loss for how to help him. I know
lots of people struggle with this problem, and some of them
succeed in losing the weight and keeping it off. For him, I think
it's less about exercise, and more about changing his eating
habits. How do you do it? And particularly, how do you fit this
change of life style into an already overcrowded schedule?
anon
Five years ago after years of swinging back and forth between being
about thirty-five pounds overweight and getting close to my ''goal
weight'' I finally got down there and kept off the excess weight for
four years. Here were the factors that made the difference after years
of struggle:
1) something inside me made the choice I finally really decided, without
planning or forethought, that I had to change this fact of my life. I
think that my Dad's quadruple bypass surgery had a lot to do with the
shift, but also my age -- I was 45 at the time and felt very
middle-aged.
I think that no weight-loss effort will succeed unless this #1 hurdle is
cleared. You have to REALLY want it YOURSELF.
2) I exercised EVERY DAY. And I mean EVERY. My husband complained that
I was becoming obsessive, but so be it. I needed the every-day regimen
because if I, for instance, instituted a three-day-a-week plan, every
day would turn out to be the day I ''didn't have time.'' Make the time.
Otherwise it won't happen. It has to be the top priority for self-time.
If there's no self time in your husband's day, he has to make some.
3) Write down every morsel that goes into your mouth as long as you are
on the weight-losing part of the plan. It's tedious, you'll feel
foolish, but that's partially the point.
Brutal honesty.
4) Make many choices a day. ''I'd love to take one of those cookies,
but I won't do that right now.'' ''I'd like to go out for lunch instead
of eating my yogurt, but I'll do that another day.'' ''I'd like some
brie, but a carrot with dip will tide me over for right now. I can go
for the brie another day.'' You can have ice cream. Just not now,
later.
5) Weigh in frequently. I know people say not to, but I do it
consistently every day. I know that my weight can fluctuate with fluid,
etc., but ultimately the scale doesn't lie. Make a graph and mark your
weight each week to see patterns.
Your husband can do it if he really wants to. Make it easier by keeping
lots of healthy food he likes on hand and getting rid of the fattening
binge stuff. Good luck to both of you!
happier and stronger
First, you fit in little things: packing a healthy snack for work,
taking the stairs, parking far away at the store, taking walks with the
kids instead of watching tv, walking treadmill during tv time, etc.
Second, you don't try to pack health into ''an already overcrowded
schedule.'' You decide it's more important to be here for your kids and
grandkids and to enjoy health into later years, and you cut back on the
scheduling. It may mean fewer dinners out or no vacation because of less
income. It may mean disappointed people who were relying on your husband
to help with committees, volunteer work, etc. He will be happier after
losing the weight.
One of the major causes of fat storage is stress Anon
My husband and I both struggle with minor weight problems. We both
gained about 40 lbs during each of my pregnancies and then had to work
at losing the weight post-partum. What we've found has worked for us is
Weight Watchers. Neither of us have ever attended more than a few
meetings. I have a meeting at lunch at my office so I went to the first
few to get all the necessary materials. After that, we simply wrote
down what we ate every meal and tallied it all up using their points
system. After a few weeks, we even stop writing and simply use our
judgment. We started this again about a month ago now that my baby is
almost 9 months old and my husband has lost 15 lbs and I've lost 10 lbs.
I think the system really works and I've heard of many other success
stories first hand. My husband jogs a few times a week, but outside of
working, running around and not getting great sleep because the baby
still wakes up at night, I don't exercise at all.
Good luck!
Kelly
My husband and I each lost 30 pounds through Weight Watchers several
years ago. I'm now back on the program to shed my pregnancy weight and
have lost 25 of the 35 pounds I'm aiming for. The program is all about
slow weight loss and changing eating habits. Men tend to lose weight
really fast once they get going, so this might provide your husband with
the structure he needs. I am very sympathetic with his plight, since I
think my metabolism is much like his. WW has been tremendously helpful
for me. He can go to in-person meetings (a little cheesy but
surprisingly helpful) or do the program on- line if time and/or the idea
of meetings are a problem. I think meetings are more effective anon
I understand how difficult this is. My s/o and I have entirely different
metabolisms. Mine is very slow, his fast. He has high LDL,cholesterol,
BP, mine are fine. I love to exercise, he hates to. What's deceptive
about him is that he's very thin and could eat whatever he wants. But if
that was his only measure he would be eating junk food all the time.
Since I'm primarily responsible for buying and cooking food I help him
with his health and assure that we both have healthy things in the house
that suit both of our different bodies. We don't eat junk food and don't
keep it in the house -- even though he would and could eat gobs of it
and I would (if I ate it) gain gross amounts of weight -- not because
of our weight but because we both share a goal to eat healthy food.
''I'm one of those people who can eat donuts every day without gaining a
pound, and I'm at a loss for how to help him.''
You may think your lucky, but I don't necessarily see it that way. I
consider myself really lucky to have such a slow slow slow metabolism
b/c from a very young age I developed really really healthy habits.
Healthy eating habits today assure fewer health problems in the future
(not just today). It's not all about weight, that's only one part of
your health profile. I look and feel years younger than I am and am
convinced its due in part to my long standing healthy diet.
You probably used the donut anecdote as an example, but taking it at
face value, I think you could help him by not having that stuff around,
or not suggesting to go out for donuts (if you do).
You could help the most by developing your own healthy eating habits for
one, and as well you can both together build a diet of fresh foods that
are nourishing and invigorating. Finally, perhaps talk to a nutritionist
who can review your diet and help you establish what healthy looks like
for your family.
anon
Does your husband drink caffeine or alcohol? If so, ask him to give 'em
up for 2 weeks and see if that changes his metabolism. He can always go
back to them but has to give his kidneys a break. When you start to lose
weight, your body goes into panic mode and starts saving everything and
adding water. Plateaus will occur through his quest, especially at the
beginning. If he gives up the external drugs he also feels calmer and
less hungry and better within his skin. Good luck dieternomore
I can recommend a program that I am in that I have lost 54 pounds on so
far. It takes a commitment and takes you having to finally put your
self and your health first. It's called HMR and is a medically
supervised program. You have to make a 13 week commitment to weight
loss and an 18 month commitment to maintaining your loss. They do have
programs for people who can not commit to that time. When it comes to
your health you need to put yourself first as a priority so that your
family will benefit. :)
http://www.hmrprogram.com/
If you are not ready to make that commitment I can suggest a great book
that might help as well called ''Thin for Life'' by Ann M. Fletcher.
It's a great book with a lot of helpful insights to getting on track.
Good luck! Loosing weight is the easy part it's keeping it off that is
the challenge. :) Jennifer
My experience (losing 25 pounds over 5 months) is that losing weight
takes a lot of self discipline and being totally anal.
Really the only way to lose weight is to burn more calories than you
take in. Exercising increases your calories burned and watching what
you eat manages your caloric intake. I got a book that lists calories
of foods and tracked my daily calories in a notebook. I set a target
daily intake of calories and stuck to it.
By doing this you really learn a lot about where calories come from and
what to cut out or cut down. It's very educational.
Some of the ''tricks'' I learned are:
- sugar is a huge source of calories, avoid it. If you're cooking
something at home, use half or less of the sugar.
- don't use mayonaise on sandwiches. If you're worried about a dry
sandwich, use extra lettuce or tomato.
- speaking of sandwiches, use bread where it is 80-90 calories/slice.
Most breads out there are 110 calories or more per slice.
- don't use salad dressing on salads. Flavored vinegar works good.
- if you're making a stew, cut the amount of meat in half and add more
vegetables. It'll still be hearty, healtier and fewer calories.
- if you're having some juice, water it down a little (say 25- 50%).
Still tastes fine, and you fill up faster on less calories.
Okay, so many of these are tiny, but they all add up. Look at the bread
example. You could save 30 calories/slice. At two slices day for say 5
days a week, that's 300 calories a week.
Over a year, that's over 15,000 calories, or the equivalent of about 7
or 8 days worth of food. Now that's some weight loss
I had 40# to lose after the birth of my 3rd child. I knew what to do,
but I just couldn't seem to do it. I tried for 3 years on my own. I
know it sounds old school, but I finally, in desperation, joined Weight
Watchers in February and am 23# lighter with not a ton of effort on my
part. It has been so much easier than I thought it would be. Wish him
luck for me a little bit lighter
Weight Watchers is a fabulous program. I've lost 30 pounds since
September. Your husband can attend meetings or use the on-line program.
The weight loss is relatively slow (up to 2 pounds per week), but men
tend to lose faster. It is all about lifestyle change, making smart
food choices, moderating portion sizes. It is hard work, but very
doable and worth it anon
If your husband (or anyone) is trying to lose weight, he really should get in touch with
Courtney Zaleski. While she spends time teaching people the usual fitness and diet
information, where she really shines is in helping us change our bad habits. Trust me, I am
a man who knows about weight troubles, and she really helped me turn things around.
You can reach her at 510-919-9952. I believe that she charges
$75 an hour to come to the home and $15 for a 15 minute phone check-in. It really kept me
on target knowing I was going to have to report at night what I had done Anon
March 2006
I'm just wondering if anyone out there has taken the drug Meridia for weight loss,
and if so, how did it work? Were there any side effects? How long did you stay on it?
I am considering Meridia, a drug that decreases the seratonin levels that affect
appetite. The main side effect is higher blood pressure.
I work out endlessly and have a very healthy diet but just haven't been able to loose
the weight from the 3 babies. I have about40 pounds to loose, and I jsut feel if I
could get some help with appetite control, I would be able to get back to my regular
weight and maintian from there.
Any advice about Meridia?
very anon
I took Meridia for about nine months approximately six years ago. At
first, it was absolutely fantastic -- along with exercise, I lost about
35 lbs in five months. I decided to stop taking Meridia after my
blood-pressure got a bit too high. And, as I was warned, the weight
creeped back on in about six months -- despite still exercising and
being conscious of my food choices. I understand that taking weight-
loss medications is a personal choice, one that I am still tempted to
do. But, really, the only way to get that baby weight off and keep it
off is a good healthy diet and lots of cardio and weight training. I
suggest spending money (most insurances don't cover Meridia) on a
nutritionist and/or personal trainer -- it's a much slower process, but
ultimately the healthiest way to go.
anon
I have not tried drugs for weight loss, but I work with women everyday
who struggle with their weight and are winning. It is a slow process,
but one well worth attempting without drugs.
Exhaust all other avenues first.
Weigh the price of the perscription, and the cost to your health against
the price of a gym membership, a nutrition counselor, and a personal
trainer. Any one of these alternatives or all three can help more and do
not have the side effects that you mentioned.
I worked in the health field for the last twenty years; I do not claim
to be an expert, but I do own my own fitness club.
But I remember some very bad weight loss drugs, very bad side effects
and results that did not last.
Curves Lady
March 2006
After having 3 kids in 6 years, I'm 100 lbs overweight. I'm very motivated to be
healthy again, but also very addicted to food. I use it to stay awake (chocolate,
sugar, caffeine...), and to reward myself for being such a good mom, and I eat the
wrong things because I'm always in a rush and want quick satisfaction. I've used
Weight Watchers in the past, but right now am not motivated to go to the meetings
(kids in tow--ugh), when no one will miss me if I don't show up.
I'm very tempted to call my primary care doctor and ask for help...but what should I
ask for? I'd like to find a nutritionist or hospital-run program where they expect
you to go every week...for weigh-ins, consultation, etc., at least at the beginning.
Does such a program exist? If so, would insurance cover it (BX HMO)? (I'm willing to
pay for something that works, but insurance coverage would be nice...) Any advice
for this exhausted, fat mommy?
Big Mama
I too am a food addict and though I don't have more than 20# to
lose, I've gained and lost that 20# many times over the years. I
eat really healthy food, exercise regularly....but I overeat and
in addition to really healthy food I (did) eat plenty of sugar
and white flour.
I recently found an on line seminar called The Fast Track Kick
Sugar Program (www.fasttrackkicksugar.com)
It's a 10 week siminar where you hear live weekly phone lectures
given by various nutritionists. I can't go into too much detail
here cause it would be over the 2300 word max but I can tell you
due to this program, I've now been off of sugar since January
5th and I feel SOOOOO great. I've lost 11 # so far with about
another 10 to go.
The important thing is how healthy I feel. Some minor health
issues have cleared up (including achey joints, to the woman who
wrote about arthritis at 42).The amazing thing is that generally
I do not crave sugar. I find now that fresh fruit or small
amounts of dried fruit(no sugar added) fills that need for
something sweet. You can get in touch with Connie Bennett, the
woman who puts on this seminarat the website, or you can e-mail
her at connie@sugarshock.com
I also was recently told about''Food Addicts Anonymous''.
FAA is a 12 step program and is more strict and structured than
Overeaters Anonymous. In FAA you have to commit to 3 meetings a
week (I'm told),follow a food plan and check in with a sponsor
every day.
I hope this is helpful to you. Please e-mail me if you want to
talk more about the kick sugar program. Good luck. If I can do
it ANYONE can do it.
J
I was 70 pounds overweight last year and have lost 54 in a
year.I too was severely addicted to sweets especially
chocolate. I actually cut refined sugar and chocolate
conpletely out of my diet and was amazed at how nicely I lost
weight. I ate so much sugar that I think I cut my caloric
intake in half by doing this. I repaced the junky sugary items
with fruit and now I just crave fruit! Add an hours worth of
walking, it does not have to be done at once. 15 minutes here
and there throughout the day works just fine. Good luck I hope
that you can also conquer your food addiction. You would be
surprised at how well this works :)
Sherri
Dec 2005
My husband want to lose more than 30 pounds. I was about to
recommend e-diet (or another online program), but there may be on
this great network people with experience with effective programs
for men, who would like to share their experience with us. He
has tried many ''book-diets'' and has regain everything, he thinks
that a support group might help, or a dieting buddy to ''share the
pain''. Any tip will help! Thanks
wife
Atkins
worked
really well for me. I started about six months before the
big ''low carb''
craze kicked in a few years ago, and I've been low-carb for about three
years now. I
dropped 40 lbs (205 - 165) and eventually put about 10 lbs back on over
time. This
may not be the best solution for your family (depending on food
preferences) but I'm
pretty happy eating lots of protein and salads -- plus there are lots of
products out
there to help satisfy cravings (esp. low carb chocolate at Trader Joe's
and various ice
cream brands). I confess I still miss good microbrew instead of Miller
Lite, and chips,
and popcorn, and homefries, and.... aw, cripes, don't get me started.
But it's worth it
in the long run.
Jeff
That's great that your husband cares enough about himself to
want to lose weight, good for him! However, if he is truly
serious about losing weight then he really ought to consider
weight training AND modifying his diet. This summer I lost
approximately 30 pounds myself, but it was a combination of
things that helped me lose the weight and keep it off. Diet
alone will not keep the weight off. Would you both be able to
afford a personal trainer at your local gym? My husband and I
both went together. He went to gain weight and I to lose it.
We have both been very successful in our endeavor and we now go
to the gym regularly about 4 times a week. It is a big change,
but we are very committed to our routine now. I used to snack,
watch tv, have dinner and then snack some more. Now it's a
light snack, go to the gym for about 1 1/2 and then eat dinner.
Working with the personal trainer I realized that I could
endure the taste of brown rice, that it was okay to say no to
sugar and it's been months since I've been to a fast food
place. I can still eat some of my favorite things but I do so
in moderation so I don't really miss it. Weight training itself
is fun and the personal trainer will help you develop a routine
that you can still follow and modify once you're finished with
them.
I couldn't believe how much weight I lost and the jeans I could
fit into. I've had to buy all new pants. I am sooooo happy!!! I
had lost weight after my first baby and I knew I looked great,
but I just couldn't see the results. I was doing cardio 4 times
a week then, but I just wasn't tone, so I couldn't really see
the weight I lost. Then I had my second son and I never was
able to get the weight off and with school and work, there was
never time.
Weight training has been great. I can actually see tone in my
body. My arms and legs are tighter as well as my tummy. I don't
have to lift heavy either. It's great... You should definitely
check out a personal trainer.
mary
Jioning a support group for dieting is a great idea. It's one of
the reasons why weight watchers is so successful.
But since your husband regains weight after dieting, that shows
that he has not made the crucial lifestyle changes that are
necessary to achieve permanent weight loss. So in this respect,
it does not matter which diet he chooses, they will all fail in
the end if he does not change his nutritional and exercise habits.
The key to being lean-for-life is eating a nutrient rich diet in
the proper amount for one's individual needs—caloric balance—and
regular exercise.
Your husband should focus on eating generous amounts of
vitamin-rich fruits and vegetables, whole-grain breads and
cereals; and lean protein-rich foods such as meats, fish, and
legumes.
When you diet without exercise, about half the weight lost is
actually from protein that your body has ''cannibalized'' from its
muscles. Over time, lean muscle loss will lower basal
metabolism, which makes weight loss all that much harder, and
weight gain after dieting practically inevitable. To be
healthier, you want to improve your lean mass ratio, or the
percentage of lean mass to fat that you carry. Dieting without
exercise does not efficiently inprove lean mass ratio.
This is just one of the reasons why succesful weight loss
REQUIRES exercise. Studies show that the optimal amount of
exercise for fat loss to be about 200 minutes per week. To
maximize fat loss, aerobic exercise should comprise about 70% his
weekly program, and strength training about 30%.
It takes about 20 minutes of sustained cardiovascular exercise to
start burning a substantial amount of fat as fuel—before that
it's mostly carbohydrates. I'd recommend 40 minutes of sustained
aerobics 5 times per week, with 20 minutes of strength training
three times a week. This will quickly burn fat and build muscle
mass which is the FASTEST way to improve lean mass ratio.
Helene
I highly recommend Weight Watchers. It is very realistic and
the only weight loss program where you actually KEEP the weight
off! Everything has a certain number of points and you have a
maximum # of pts per day and then an extra 35 or so for the
week. The points are based on calories, fiber and fat. The more
fiber, the lower the points. So you don't deprive yourself of
anything. You can ''save'' your points and have a piece of
chocolate cake. If you ''mess up'' and eat a donut, oh well, you
count it in your points and then you eat less (or only salad)
that day or another day. I have NEVER been able to stick to a
diet, but I was able to do weight watchers very easily. If you
are going to a restaurant, you can usually look up their
dishes' nutrition facts online and determine how many points
each one is. You don't have to go to meetings, but supposedly
people do better when they do. I have lost 12 pounds in the
last 2 or so months, a steady 2 pounds a week.
--Can't diet either
I highly recommend Weight Watchers, a program he can do by attending
meetings or
by participating on-line. At meetings he'll have face-to-face support,
although more
women than men attend meetings. Through the on-line system he will
certainly find a
group of like-minded men who are facing the same weight loss challenges.
Weight
Watchers is a relatively slow process (1-2 pounds per week is success),
but men seem
to lose faster than women. And in the long run the weight is more likely
to stay off
because WW is based on lifestyle changes and not simply restricting or
limiting food
intake for a few weeks/months.
Liz O.
My husband lost about 55lbs. after our daughter turned one
(she's 5 now). He gained some back when I was pregnant with our
son, but not all and is now focused on losing that weight. What
really made the difference for him: 1) He just made the final,
absolute choice for himself (I couldn't do it for him) that he
didn't want to be that heavy and had to make some changes. 2)He
had a friend who was also losing weight - they met once a week
for a ''weigh-in'' and basically to give each other a hard time
about how much the other did or didn't lose. I have to say their
banter amazed me - I know of no women who could joke around
about how fat their bellys are etc... and not feel awful later -
''being supportive'' for my husband was totally a different
process/mind-set than I could have ever provided, so I'm glad he
found that support. And 3) he found the exercise he likes to do
(biking) and I agreed to support him - meaning watching the kids
while he took rides - sometimes it pissed me off (just because I
don't have 50lbs. to lose I'd still like to exercise) but I held
on to the big picture and I'd say about 85-90% of time I came
through - took the kids in the am,or for a chunk on weekends so
he could ride. (When he started out he was too heavy to ride
comfortably - so he'd walk through the Berkeley Hills with our
daughter in a backpack). He also accepted the advice that every
bit of exercise counts. So a 10 minute work-out is better than
no work-out. In the past he just wouldn't ride at all if he
couldn't do a full hour ride. This last time, he really
understood that once you have kids you have to take what you can
get, and that often that 10 minute ride will get you excited for
a ride the next day that is longer, or even keep up your stamina
for a better ride the next week. There were a lot of short
rides, but a lot of long ones too and the weight really started
to come off. As he got more into the exercise he felt better and
then started to pay attention to his diet. He is a terrible
dieter (who isn't?) so he focused on the exercise - which is fun
and makes you feel good - and the food kind of fell into place.
Hope his story helps - good luck!
Go hubby go!
I would highly recommend Weight Watchers, either meetings or
their on-line version. If you have Kaiser, you may get a big
discount off your joining and meeting fees. It's a
straightforward program that teaches you how to deal with food
in a healthy and long-term way. I think they, appropriately,
focus on changing habits (both diet and exercise).
lost 30+ through WW
Jan 2005
A repy to a post recently made reference to a ''nice little
dietary supplement called Stackers'', to aid weightloss. I
tried finding it on drugs.com and no luck. What is the
pharmaceutical name of this supplement?
intrigued
Regarding the inquiry about Stackers - I was curious too, so I
did an advanced googl search - dietary supplement stackers -
took me to a useful website, here's the link
http://consumerhealthdigest.com/top25.htm
I'd be interested to hear more about this product from others
who've tried it.
anonymous
There are so many realistic sounding scams out there. The weight
loss industry is a huge money maker. The FTC has info on how to
spot a diet pill scam, as well as an entertaining fake website on
a new miracle pill, made out of eggplant. Check it out.
http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/edcams/fitness/
There is not a lot of success with weight loss. Those who do
have success try, try and try again, much like it takes smokers
many times to quit. Also exercise and recording what you are
eating are the simplest yet some of the only tools that have been
proven to work for weight loss. I like the book Strong Women's
Journal by Miriam Nelson as a way to record and review diet and
exercise habits to continually work toward making small permanent
changes.
a dietitian
I can't exactly remember this discussion, but I believe someone
asked about the safety/effectiveness of stackers. I recently
came accross a consumer reports article on this drug (January
2004, pg 23, ''Ephedra-free But is it safe?'') In case anyone is
still interested, they said that stackers are based on bitter
orange (synephrine) instead of ephedra. Quote: ''There are
little if any data showing that they work, and there's no
convincing evidence that they're safe, even for healthy
individuals.''
Alisa
June 2004
I am 46, have a small frame and for the past several months
have been trying without success to lose 4-5 lbs. I realize
that this might seem trite to those who are more challenged
with weight, but I am struggling with this. I have a healthy
diet that does not include wheat, gluten, cow dairy and
generally eat organic veggies, eggs, some chicken and fish
and other low carb unprocessed foods. I do indulge in
chocolate. I exercise 3X a week including about 20 minutes
on the treadmill at a challenging speed/ grade, and about
20 minutes of weight training each time. I know that I might
have more muscle (tho I absolutely don't see these
muscles!) and that affects weight but I am measuring
myself by how I fit into things, the flab on the back of my
arms and my increasingly heavy legs , both of which are
significantly less when I am a few lbs lighter.
My thyroid is fine. I probably am not eating enough protein. I
would welcome any ideas for how I might lose these few lbs
or inches . I'm a single mom working full time, so these
ideas would hopefully fit into my life. THANKS!
Anon.
Hi - I think 20 minutes of cardio 3x a week is not enough for
weight reduction, just weight maintenance. If you can't increase
the lenght of your workout, I suggest that at least once a week
you do 40 minutes of cardio rather than 20 cardio / 20 weights.
One day do 30 cardio / 10 weights. Then the 20/20 the third day.
Also, try for two weeks to write down everything you eat
(EVERYTHING), including the time you eat it. It may be small
snacks adding up, particularly those late in the evening.
Good luck.
I need to lose 10!
I think you are doing good for your health. I love chocolate,
too! This may not work for everyone but if you haven't considered
it, I suggest trying this approach. When I was 46 I was 35 pounds
overweight, which I had been for 20 years. Today, at 48, I weigh
112 lbs, which is just right for a 5' 2 frame. The turning point
was when I started reading the food labels and realized, by the
serving size, I had been eating for two or more people. I then
cut back to one serving at each meal. I had already been eating
healthier foods, but now just eating less of it. I also started
to eat less rice, bread, and pasta. I love this stuff, but ate no
more than one serving per meal, and try to limit to only once a
week.
I didn't stop there. I started adding good fats to my diet. I
ate more nuts, especially almonds and walnuts. But, I watch how
much of those I eat, too. My breakfast usually consist of a cup
of orange juice mixed with half-cup yogurt, and 10 almonds. For
variation, I have an apple with peanut butter. For some lunches,
I throw almond pieces or pine nuts in my salads. (Yesterday I had
an open sandwich consisting of one thin rye bread slice, topped
with sardines, baby spinach and shredded cheese, and baked for 5
min till the cheese melt. It was something spontaneous, but I was
in the mood!) I use only olive oil in my dressings and cooking.
I developed a craving for avocados, so I'd pick up a bag of
avocados at Trader's Joe and have one avocado for lunch, spread
on a piece of rye toast.
I love fish and meat, too, and eat small portions whenever I feel
the urge. If I feel hungry between meals, I munch on few nuts.
For me, when I need to lose few pounds or maintain my weight, the
bottom line is to eat fewer calories and listen to your body.
Once you do it, it becomes a way of life. I think our perception
on what is the right amount to eat is out of whack. Until I
started looking at food labels, I had no idea I was eating too
much. At the time, I expected to lose about 20 pounds. I had
heard that the last 10 pounds would be difficult. But, to my
surprise, losing the last of the extra weight was much easier
than I thought. I didn't even bother to count calories. I just
stayed with the serving size information on the labels and
listened to my body when enough is enough. That goes for
chocolate, too! The weight will come off slowly, but surely.
Amy
First of all, an important thing to know about losing weight: people
with a lot
of weight to lose lose it much more quickly and easily. The last 5-10
pounds
are the MOST DIFFICULT to lose. You can lose them, but it can take a
loooong
time, and diligence. One thing is, change your routine. Your body
becomes
accustomed to doing the same thing over and over, so you reach a
plateau
because your body isn't challenged any more. If you're just doing the
treadmill,
do something else, the stair or the bike, then switch again. Also, the
amount of
exercise that you say you are getting is pretty much maintenance
exercise. It
will keep you healthy, but it will also keep you at the weight you are
at. You will
either have to restrict your diet more (which I don't really recommend)
or
exercise more (especially the aerobic), or both.
Finally, the *weight* is (especially at your size) probably not the
best thing to
focus on. What you really want to concern yourself with is ''lean body
mass.''
That is, replacing fat with muscle. Muscle weighs more than fat does,
so you
can lose fat, drop in size and actually weigh *more!*
You might want to look into Callanetics. I love it, and man, it really
does work!
(at least, for me and other people I know who have stuck with it). You
can find
her books and videos at Amazon.com. Just type ''Callanetics'' into the
search
engine.
anon
I was in your same situation and went on the South Beach diet.
I lost 7 pounds in two weeks, and through maintenance kept it
off (and took off 3 more pounds) over the past 8 monts. You can
get all the info on line at a modest price.
www.southbeach.com. Highly recommend it!
anon
I am in my early 50s. Last Thanksgiving both my sisters showed
up looking much slimmer. One had combined weightwatchers and
Curves, and had lost at least 15 pounds over several months.
The other had just decided to skip the treats offered at work
and to stop eating at meals before she was more than full. I
was inspired by them and by a friend who said losing weight let
her stop her blood pressure medication. I was 20+ pounds above
my pre-pregnancy weight. I decided to try sister #2s method. I
ate far fewer of the treats offered at work, I took smaller
portions with me for lunch (rather than trying to finish all the
family leftovers) and also took smaller helpings at other
meals. I waited before taking a second helping, and often found
I didn't really want it. I also increased my exercise from
about 4 days a week (15 min stretches, 20 min walking or other
weight-bearing/cardio) to 6-7 days and an extra 5-10 min/day. I
began losing weight gradually and in 6 months lost 20 pounds.
Now I'm trying to figure out how to maintain (I don't want to
lose more)and not regain. Just how many of those treats at work
can I indulge in?
20 pounds lighter
To lose the last four or five pounds, you will need to do longer cardio
workouts of at
least 45 minutes each. Adding an extra workout per week will help
during the losing
phase.
Also, you may need to switch your workouts around. If you always do the
same
thing at the gym, you will cease to challenge your body, and it will go
into
''maintenance mode.'' Instead of always doing the treadmill, try the
pre-cor elliptical
trainer, or the stairmaster for 20 of the 45 minutes you are
exercising, for variation.
Spin classes are also great, because they keep you going for a full
45-50 minutes.
Trying some different weight lifting exercises would not hurt. Lift
some heavier
weights--no, you won't get bulky, but you will build muscle (which
burns fat).
Good luck,
Elizabeth
You don't say how much chocolate you indulge in, but that is
an easily identifiable high calorie food that you might cut out
in order to lose weight. I would find a way to cut 200 calories
(but not more than 500) a day out of your daily intake and
add one day per week to your workout schedule. If you are
not at risk for injury, increase the intensity and duration of
the aerobic part of your exercise. Do 30-45 min. cardio and
15 min. strenght training 4X per week and reduce daily
intake by 200 calories. It really all comes down to calories
in vs. calories out. Stick to it for a month to 6 weeks, I bet
your extra weight will be gone. Then you can go back to 3x
per week exercise and a little chocolate now and then.
Good luck
I've heard that the three bites rule is a good one: leave about
three bites of food on your plate at every meal. that way you're
not feeling totally starved. also, are you drinking enough water
during the day? when you are dehydrated, the signal to your
brain telling you that you are thirsty can mis-fire and tell you
you're hungry instead. does this make sense? you might eat a
little less. maybe you can increase your cardio sessions by 10
minutes - from 20 minutes to 30.... just a few little
suggestions that might work. if you can fit one more exercise
session into your routine, that would be great. it's hard, i
know, but worth it.
Jen
I too am small-framed (or used to be, anyway), and would love to
lose those extra few pounds. My conclusion is that we're older,
and the metabolism is different, so either you're content to
keep the extra few, or you have to be super-motivated to get rid
of them. That means GIVING UP CHOCOLATE (my problem too), and
EXERCISING. When you were younger maybe you could eat whatever
you wanted and give it up for a couple of weeks and bounce back
to your tiny body, but even those of us formerly taunted
as ''twiggy'' have to watch what we do now.
anon
I may not be the one to give advice, since I'm pretty much in
the same boat, but I do have a couple of thoughts.
First of all, are those 4-5 pounds recent acquisitions, or have
you pretty much always weighed what you do now for your adult
life? At our age, it's quite common to gain a few extra
pounds. But if it's been your typical weight, you may be at
your personal ideal body weight (assuming it's not hugely
overweight. Check one of the BMI calculators online, such as
www.halls.md/body-mass-index). It's generally healthier to
stay at a consistent weight, even a couple of pounds
over ''ideal'', than to lose and (almost certainly ) regain
weight repeatedly.
That said,
Can you increase the cardio part of your work-out to at least
30 minutes each time? I think the recommendation is to
exercise at moderate intensity 5 times a week for 60 minutes
(yeah, right!), but even an extra ten minutes, three times a
week, of really burning calories will increase you cardio time
by 50%.
Are you able to adjust your routines to do more stairs rather
than elevators, walking a few blocks to work from your car or
bus stop, parking in one spot and walking between places when
you do errands? Do your kids enjoy biking or swimming or other
active pursuits you can do on weekends as a family?
Good luck - and let us know if you try something that really
helps!
Just a few more pounds!
Because you are neither gaining or losing weight with your
current eating/fitness routine, this means that you are at
caloric balance. Calories in equals calories out. To lose more
weight you need to tip the scales a bit so that your calories
expended are slightly greater than calories consumed.
Since you have been strength training regularly for 20 minutes 3x
a week, I will assume that your body is not ''under muscled''. I
would suggest that you lenghthen the aerobic portion of your
workout to 40 minutes, and try if at all possible, to fit in one
more session a week. In order to most effectively burn fat as
fuel, you need to use up your available muscle glycogen, which
usually occurs after about 15 to 20 minutes of moderate intensity
aerobic exercise. Only then will your body go into the pantry
(stored fat) for additional supplies. This is particularly true
with women. We are genetically/hormonally designed to hoard our
energy suppplies.
Adjust your diet, and skim off 250 - 300 calories a day, to
create a slight inbalance on that end too. But be careful that
you don't go under 1200 calories a day. If you take away too many
calories, your body will attempt to ward off starvation by
lowering your metabolism. You want to make sure that this does
not happen.
Be aware too that as we age, our metabolic rate lowers about 10%
per decade. So the amount that you ate in your twenties and
thirties is now too much. Many women notice a big change in their
bodies at around 40. And it is a little harder and slower to lose
weight when you are small framed because you have a smaller
metabolism and already eat a lot less than others to begin with.
FYI, I'm 5', 105lbs., and 47, and have had to cut back on total
calorie consumption just to stay even too.
Since you are small and not eating dairy, you need to take
calcium supplments daily to maintain bone mass. Calcium citrate
is more esily absorbed than calcium carbonate. I like the brand
Citricel(sp?) beacuse it also provides Vitamin D and other trace
elements like magnesium. Some studies have shown that high
calcium levels in the body helps with weight loss. If you're
eating chicken and fish regularly, you probably are not protein
deficient. Very few Americans actually are. That's a marketing myth.
And lastly, be patient. Slow weight loss is the healthiest and
most effective long term. Small women should aim for no more than
1 lb. per week. Fast weight loss is almost never permanent. And a
lot of times side effects have too many negative health consequences.
Helene
Feb 2004
I have been a member of Weight Watchers for the last few years
with some success. However, recently, although I have
diligently followed the program by journaling, exercising
(including increase) and drinking water, as well as attending
meetings and getting a tremendous amount of support, I have been
slowly gaining weight in small increments. Needless to say, it
is very frustrating.
I will say that I have met my goal to be heart healthy, which
was my main motivation for joining.
I have asked for advice at meetings, but feel that working
directly with a nutritionist would be helpful as well. I would
like to find someone who is supportive of the WW program, as I
plan to continue with the program and want to continue to learn
life long habits.
Any recommendations would be appreciated.
I, too, had some success with Weight Watchers but never fully
achieved my goal. That last 5-10 pounds is really tricky. I
recently found a book at Whole Foods called the Fat Flush Plan.
I'm very impressed! It's a very healthy way of eating, beginning
with a two week liver detox. You won't be hungry on this diet! I
lost 6 pounds the first 10 days. You can learn more about it at
www.fatflush.com. Imagine eating well, losing weight and inches,
and gaining tons of energy while you break your carb & sugar
addictions!
I still use the WW online journaling just to keep track, though
when I follow the Fat Flush Plan I am always within my point
allowance anyway.
Feel free to email me directly if you want to know more about
it. Good luck!
jvb
June 2003
I am looking for inexpensive nutritional advice to help me lose
weight and I wondered about signing up for E-diets.com and
talking to their nutritionists. (I am not interested in their
menus, shopping lists etc. but I would like advice about how
many daily calories I should aim for in order to get slow,
steady weight loss without getting hungry.) Has anyone tried
their service or can anyone recommend a good alternative? E.g.
a nutritionist I could see for one session? I checked the
website about nutritionists but the recommendations were all for
people who do herbs, acupuncture etc. and I'm looking for plain-
vanilla basic advice.
Anonymous
I've done both Weight Watchers (several times over the years) and
eDiets and had more success with eDiets plus it was a fraction of
the cost of attending WW.
I lost and kept off 13 pounds on eDiets first then switched to WW
and lost 7 more.
I think the nutrition advice available through eDiets is the meal
plan itself and would encourage you to try it for a few months to
see if you have success using it.
Using the menu planning software, I spent 1-2 hours/week creating
a meal plan for the entire week, went shopping for the groceries,
and posted it on the fridge to remind me what I had previously
''chosen'' to eat.
Perhaps you are better than I am at planning what to eat once you
have general guidelines on how many servings of this or that you
should have and how many calories, etc. but I found that I needed
something much more specific to keep me on track.
I stopped doing eDiets because I got tired of doing all that
planning and am now stuck and haven't been able to lose the
last 20 (I haven't gained any back though so that's progress).
--Progress not perfection
Other recommendations received:
Nutritionist at the Y, health plan
Michele Vivas
June 2003
Several years ago I was able to lose 25 pounds, just by sheer
will power. I have tried and tried to continue losing weight,
but now find that I am just unable to do so anymore. I can't
find the will anymore. I am looking for a counseling program or
some way I can succeed that really works. It's not Weight
Watchers or any other program like this. I've tried these kinds
of programs with no success. It's got to be some kind of
powerful counseling program. Might anyone know of such a
program?
T
Have you read ''Curves'' by Gary Heavin? I got it at the Contra
Costa Library and have been following the plan. It is Atkins-
like. There are also gyms (such as in El Cerrito plaza). I feel
I can stick with it. (He promises you can go back to normal
eating eventually) I also had an instant morale booster due to
losing 5 pounds in a week. My rate has slowed, as described in
the book, but this is better than I've done on other diets.
good luck
Having struggled my entire life with obesity, I can say that
one of the things that I dislike the most about this particular
problem is that I have no privacy. Because my weight at any
given time is obvious, people feel that it is ok to discuss it.
I really dislike discussing my weight, whether I'm gaining or
losing, whether I'm obese or ''normal''.
I have just discovered a book called The Diet Cure, by Julia Ross.
She has recently come out with a book called The Mood Cure. She
theorizes that overeating is due to certain chemical imbalances in
the brain, and that we overeat certain foods in a vain attempt to
achieve a healthier balance. She recommends a whole host of
supplements. I have been taking several different amino acids
based on her program and have been very surprised at how my
appetite feels normal, I don't feel driven to overeat now. I have
yet to lose weight, but I am still hoping for that.
anon
July 2002
Does anyone know of a weight loss doctor in the east bay, that perscribes
appetite suppressants?
Overweight and depressed!
This response may fall more into the category of advice
than recommendations, since I do not know of any doctors
who prescribe appetite supressants. But I had to write
back to you anyway, since I have been ''overweight and
depressed'' for much of my life. First on the topic of
appetite supressants -- they can mess you up more than
they help. When I was fifteen, my mother took me to a
weight-loss doctor and had him prescribe an appetite
supressant (Presate). It worked like a charm in terms
of getting weight off, but the drug made me into a
nervous wreck. My heart raced, my hands shook, and I
had dreams that could have qualified as hallucinations.
And while I did lose fifty pounds (in four months!),
most of the weight came back on immediately once I
stopped taking the drug. Of course there are many
different drugs out there, and there may be one that
doesn't make your life more complicated than it already
is. But we all know about the drugs that have been
taken off the market for their sometimes fatal side-effects.
And replacing your own mental will with drugs is something
that I believe will not work in the long run, since
losing weight and keeping it off is about changing your
life, ultimately without the help of drugs.
Just this past December, when I wasn't even consciously
thinking about weight loss, I happened to get hold of a
book called The 9 Truths about Weight Loss by Daniel S.
Kirschenbaum, a weight-loss and sports medicine doctor.
I don't think of it as a bible, and it isn't the most
eloquently written book, but it offered a plan for weight
loss that I felt I could try. You have to 1) write down
everything you eat 2) cut back on fats and sweets to
the least possible amount and 3) exercise every day.
It was the last requirement that made the difference
for me. His plan requires at least thirty minutes of
aerobic activity every day. I started following this
plan at the beginning of December and have lost twenty
pounds (and this was through the holiday season).
It's the exercise that gets you out of the depression
and helps you lose the weight even when you have trouble
adhering to a stringent diet (I usually eat between 1500
and 1800 calories a day). I joined the local Y and go
in almost every day (other days I jog, bike, or walk).
I like it because I can choose my aerobic machine, a
class, strength training, etc. You have to take an
hour or so a day for yourself, and this is hard for
parents. But I tell myself that in order to be a good
parent, I need to be a happy, healthy parent. So I
selfishly (!) take that time for my well-being.
Another method that works is Weight Watchers, but you
have to stick with the program, and it costs money.
I lost weight with them, but when I dropped out because
of cost, I found that I wasn't sufficiently self-motivated
to stay on track.
Even if you are very overweight, you can start with the
exercise plan I mentioned on a very low level -- short
walks for ten minutes or so, for instance. It will make
a difference on your scales and more importantly, in
your mood. Good luck and God Bless.
Formerly overweight and depressed
I'm afraid I don't have any doctors' names to give you,
but I know many people who have had short-term success
and long-term failure with drugs, not to mention the
side effects and problems.
The bottom line, in my experience, is that most of us
who have a problem with eating and weight aren't eating
only out of hunger, so suppressing the appetite doesn't
always eliminate the eating behavior. Weight lost on
diets, augmented with drugs or not, tends to return.
I have been struggling with food and weight for most
of my adult life. I've weighed everything between 140
and 295 pounds, I've been on the commercial diet programs,
fasting programs, etc.
I apologize if the following seems like unsolicited
advice, but I want to share the existence of an
alternative that has worked for me. For about a year
and a half now I've been going to a support group called
Overeaters Anonymous, and for the first time in my life
I've lost weight without feeling deprived all of the
time and without immediately gaining it back.
OA is a fellowship of people who have problems with food
who meet to share support. It is modeled on the 12 steps
of AA, which people use to help them handle life without
excess food. There are no fees for members, no weighing
in, no requirements to follow a particular diet. Every
person decides for themselves what way of eating they
need to follow. You can contact OA at 510-273-9292 or
the web site at oaeastbay.org
This may or may not seem like what you want right now,
but if you didn't know about it I just wanted to let you
know it exists. I used to feel very frustrated when
people gave me advice about eating right and exercising
and I felt that nobody understood me--''if I could just
do that, I wouldn't be in this situation!''
At OA I'm not alone. It's not a perfect program, but it's
given me more than any other way of addressing the problem.
I've lost 70 pounds, and more importantly, I'm living my
daily life free of the obsession with eating.
Anyway, I wish you the best of luck in feeling better,
whatever you pursue.
divalent
The real issue about weight loss is your metabolism,
how well does your body metabolise the food you eat.
All the drugs and exercise and diets in the world will
not help you if your metabolism is screwed up. There
are ways to jumpstart your metabolism so that your body
works with you instead of against you. I would first
check with your regular doctor and ask him/her to give
you a complete checkup (including all blood tests to
include thyroid) just to make sure nothing is wrong
physically. I say this only because I have a friend who
had a thyroid problem and a weight problem. Once her
medication was right, she began to lose weight and is
now comfortable with herself.
There are many reasons people are overweight and they
don't all center around diet and exercise or no
self-control. You need to find the reason before you
can really start successfully losing weight and that
requires starting with your regular doctor. Or ask for
a referral if you don't feel comfortable with the one
you have.
Make sure you don't have a physical problem before you
knock yourself for being overweight.
marianne
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