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Hemorrhoids - Cure worse than condition?

Oct 2008

Sorry to introduce this icky topic, but I'm seeking advice about how to treat hemorrhoids. Physicians I've talked to are very reluctant to prescribe actual ''removal'' -- saying that surgery and other options are extremely painful, so it's better to try and manage the condition by diet, stool softeners, warm baths, etc. That's okay as far as it goes, but I'm at the point where this is a significant cosmetic concern, if you get my drift. What advice is out there? Anonymous


Unfortunately, I know something about this topic. I had pain so severe (there were a couple of different problems all at once) that I had to have surgery. My brother had not much pain but a situation like yours and (warning: stop here for the faint of heart) continual blood he had to deal with. He too had surgery. If either of those situations get too bad and don't respond to conservative treatment, surgery can be a good option. (are genetics involved?)

The important thing is to get a ano-rectal specialist. DO NOT allow a general surgeon to attempt a hem-ectomy. If it's Kaiser, go through all the hoops to get to the specialist and be a complete b--ch about it. Mine was done by a general surgeon because I had no idea. She just cut tissue out in a ''plane'' - a large flat area, and you can't do that. It took me a year of researching, paying out of pocket for different therapies, my quality of life was altered - but a year to get myself close enough to normal. (A guy in a Castro St. sex shop had some of the most helpful info.)

My brother, on the other hand, had a specialist who knew the ''bridge'' procedure - it goes by other names too but it keeps the tissue doing what it needs to do. We all have 3 main veins or whatever they are and it's best to have all 3 taken out, which my brother's doc did.

Recovery is hell, I'll warn you, I learned what ''cold sweat'' really means. But only during the times you have to you-know- what and it improves and after a couple of weeks it's manageable and the pain and whatever else will be gone and you're free. Just get a specialist who's done a thousand of them, who can tell you all about the special procedure and draw you a diagram. Good luck! been there


Sorry I don't have much advice for you, but I have used Rhoid Balm by Motherlove in the past for a small hemorrhoid and it was very helpful for discomfort and healing. You can buy it at whole foods. anon
Do not have any kind of rectal surgery for this condition. My mother had surgery and wishes she could take it all back. She is much worse than she was just dealing with the hemorrhoids. Advice- do not ever get constipated. Ice cubes, witch hazel, 400 units of Vitamin E every day as long as it doesn't constipate you, lie on your side and stomach as much as possible, unsweetened cranberry juice and pro-biotics for itching and burning. Cut out dairy, sugar, corn, nuts, caffeine, chocolate and see how that helps. Don't sit in a tub too long or it will make it worse. Short, cool baths if you must and NO SOAP! anonymous
Mayber you're past this, but I always find that generous amounts of witch hazel are very helpful in making hemorrhoids disappear. (for cleaning, for a compress locally applied as long as is practical) It's an astringent; I also put it in a spray bottle and use it as toner for my face. Good luck. Bonnie
Surgery does not sound fun, and many people are not happy with the results. Even if you have surgery, the problem will recur if you do not take preventive steps.

The Public Citizen Health Research Group advises against the use of Preparation H, too. Instead, use petroleum jelly or zinc oxide as a protective coating to prevent further irritation and to speed healing. In addition, add lots more insoluble fiber (whole wheat, buckwheat, bran, etc.) to your diet and never, ever strain while on the toilet. No more white bread


Hello Hemoroids can be treated with Acupuncture and Chinese Herbs. If you have any questions or want a referral please contact me. Good Luck! jennifer
I'm an acupuncturist and have helped many with hemorrhoids successfully, bleeding. Acupuncture is a gentler and less painful procedure. It truly eradicates the source of the problem. There really isn't that much that western medicine can do apart from surgery but Traditional Chinese Medicine can accomplish a lot with acupuncture and herbal medicine. B.
Try using collinsonia or the herbal tincture ''Healthy Veins.'' It is a combination of Butcher's Broom and other things,and you can get it at any natural foods store. Personally, I find it a miracle cure. Relieves the swelling and discomfort 100% within 24-48 hours. Good luck
Hemorrhoids are partly due to heredity, so if they run in your family, it's extra-important to get lots of exercise, in addition to a high-fiber diet with lots of whole grains, high-fiber vegetables, legumes, and high-fiber fruits.

There are also specific exercises to prevent or reverse hemorrhoids. Kegel exercises strengthen the muscles of the pelvic floor. A similar exercise is to do the OPPOSITE of what you do to make the hemorrhoids worse, i.e., push down slightly, as if you are going to the bathroom, and then pull back as much as you can for several minutes. Repeat several times during the day, especially when you are sitting. Family History Buff


Hemorrhoids are definitely genetic! My mother, my brother and myself have all confided in each other that eating ginger or drinking gingerale, and drinking beer - maybe alcohol in general - bring on flare ups for all three of us. As long as I'm mindful of those foods, I don't have any problems. When I do, I've found homeopathic products to be of some relief. selective eater now

Surgery for hemorrhoids

Sept 2007

After putting it off for several years, I'm finally ready to deal with the external hemorrhoids that I developed during childbirth, and am looking for a competent surgeon to deal with this issue. Surprisingly there is only one, very old, recommendation on the website, so I am looking for anyone that has had fairly recent experience with this process. I have heard both that it can be excrutiatingly painful and that it is no big deal, so would love some real-life testimonials. Thanks! anon


I highly recommend the office of Dr. Lawrence Yee at CPMC in San Francisco 415 923-3020. Don't think twice about the drive, it's worth it. Dr. Yee and his staff are very pleasant, make you feel at ease, and are very competent. I was very embarassed to go in, and after saying so, was very quickly comforted (and releived...) I suggest having a ride, since coming back might be a bit painful (the anesthesia can wear off while you're in traffic). Actually, this is how much I recommend Dr. Yee: if you need a ride from Berkeley, I'll do it ...and I have a six month old! Good luck. s

Treatment for Outrageous Hemorrhoids

May 2006

Any advice or sucessful treatments for OUTRAGEOUS hemorrhoids that started from a pregnancy 3 years ago? I visited Dr. Bitar (Telegraph, Berkeley) and was told that after I had put with this problem for awhile longer I would come back to him and want to have them cut out, in office with only a local. Change in diet was also recommended, but is not practical for me. Do you have a recommendation for another Proctologist? anon


I suffered for about 8 years with hemorrhoids following the birth of my son. I tried everything to postpone surgery but last year I did undergo surgery. The surgeon was Dr. Ajay Upadhay in Oakland (510) 465-5523. He was very kind and competant. I had surgery under general anesthesia. I had a terrible side effect while in my first week of recovery. Due to the constipating effects of codine, I became impacted and had to return to the hospital for another surgery to unplug me. It was horrible and I had to stay in the hospital for 5 days until my body could pass solids. Apparently, the doctor had this happen under his care only one other time but let me tell you, it was a living hell. I do recommend using a sitz bath to soak your sore bottom and to use it to relax so that you can deficate more easily. That was a god's send really. Slowly I recovered and now a year later I'm glad it's over. I wish you much luck in your decision and make sure you have lots of child care and support if you choose surgery. Glad it's Behind Me
I speak from experience- diet is key when it comes to hemmorhoids! Can't you manage it somehow? Mine never got to what I'd call outrageous, but the pain and itching was persistent and way beyond a drag. When I gave in and followed the basic diet guidelines- not perfectly but pretty good- they shrunk down and haven't hurt or itched or bled in a long time. Once you have one you have it unless you do have it cut out, but many can be coddled into submission. If you have the genetic tendency to them you can get new ones if you don't take care of yourself. I guess you already know about warm (not hot) sitz-baths as often as possible, twice a day for sure when they're acting up. You can fold a small towel and put it under your butt cheeks in the tub if you're too sore to sit on the hard surface.

Also learning to relax your anal sphincters can help a lot. You're probably too sore right now to exercise them (simple tightening and releasing), but just regularly paying attention to the tension you're holding there and learning to let it go bit by bit will help a lot. anon


I don't know whether they were outrageous, but my hemorrhoids got to be highly un-ignorable a while back. I was succesfully treated by Dr. Jim Otis, a Chiropractic Neurologist, in Oakland near Summit Hospital, who is very knowledgeable on using nutritional supplements. I believe it was B5 that was the winner for me, after about two weeks, which at the time seemed way to long to be suffering, but in retrospect, was perhaps as good as a cure is going to get. He might or might not propose the same for you.... Here is his contact info: http://www.jimotisdc.com/ Best wishes, anon
I had pretty good luck with acupuncture for hemoroids. I had been in terrible discomfort, and was seeing an acupuncturist for another issue, mentioned the hemoroids, and in 1 treatment they shrunk incredibly. With the next treatment they were gone! I saw Elizabeth Padron-Vos on Dwight Way in Berkeley N

Dr. Arthur Stanten for Hemorrhoidectomy

April 2004

I was wondering if anyone has had hemorrhoid surgery performed by Dr. Arthur Stanten, M.D. (Sr., not Jr.) at Summit and whether or not you would recommend him. My ob/gyn highly recommended Dr. Bitar, but my health insurance will not cover him. I don't know much about Dr. Stanten and would love to hear from anyone who has been his patient.

Also, how was the recovery? When I met with Dr. Stanten he said I would be put under general anethesia for this outpatient procedure. I have an active toddler and am wondering how long I might be out of it or off my feet. Thanks. extremely nervous about surgery


I saw Dr. Bitar last December and at the time his office was working on changing their health insurance affiliation. Though my health insurance (HealthNet) did not yet cover Dr. Bitar, he was strongly recommended by my OBGyn and I saw him anyway. He's a great doctor and definitely didn't overcharge. Good luck! Shirley

Still have hemorrhoids from the pregnancy

May 2002

Several months after my second child was born, I still have hemorrhoids from the pregnancy. I do everything recommended by the doctors (including drinking lots of water, eating fiber, exercising,and the various medications) and constipation is not a problem. I'm frustrated and on the verge of considering the more extreme solutions such as surgery. Before I do so, I wonder if anyone has tried alternative medicine for this problem. I've had acupuncture, but it didn't seem to help.


You didn't mention how long it's been since you delivered your baby. I had terrible hemmoroids with my first child and I'm happy to say that I didn't have any with my second. It took ages for them to finally go away. I adapted my diet as you did. Then, ever time one popped out, I pushed it back in. I used a drop of vitamin e oil, though I think you could probably use nearly anything slippery. I also, and still continue to cleanse with wet toilet paper instead of dry. It's much more comfortable, effective, and cost conscience than adult wipes. There's also no extra chemicals. Then the other thing I did, is begin an exercise program that includes toning my perineal musculature. That has really helped then not come back. Also, less sitting and more movement breaks. I hope this helps. Good luck. Dori
Here's what helped my hemorrhoids, which I never had before I became pregnant:
1. Nelsons hemorrhoid cream sometimes found in the homeopathic section of a natural grocery or vitamin store
2. kegel exercises
3. washing the anus with soap and water after every bowel movement (unless I was in a public, cubicled bathroom!) Hope this helps, happy and hemorrhoidless
Regarding your diagnosis of hemorrhoids (sp?): Please make sure that this diagnosis was correct. I personally suffered terribly for over a year with what repeatedly was diagnosed as hemorrhoids. Because of my complaining, I was ultimately sent to a proctologist who made a correct diagnosis of ''anal fissure'' which is an actual tear in the anal tissue. Mine had gone so long that it had become infected. These fissures can mostly be cauterized and they will heal, but I had to have surgery on mine. If you are having bleeding, go and make sure that you haven't got a fissure. Best of luck to you. Also, the surgery was the best thing I could've done; no more pain or problems. Puerta

[Editor] see Anal Fissure


My sympathies to you about your hemorrhoids. I personally found an osteopathic session helped me get rid of my one hemorrhoid. It took one session. A good place to try is the office of Catherine Henderson whose replacement, Marguerite, is also an MD. They are located on Solano at Ensenada. I had this a year ago and have never seen it again. I did a small 3 month study for my nutrition education during which time a participant (57 y.o.) was totally free of his long- term hemorrhoids by using a Standard Process product called Cataplex ACP (you can find this company in Emeryville and buy retail from them, I think). It contains whole food, not synthetics, with buckwheat being the the particular ingredient that worked. Buckwheat is quite high in rutin, a bioflavonoid. Other bioflavonoids to try include rosehips. I buy cut and sifted rosehips in bulk from Whole Foods, grind some up in a grinder, and sprinkle 1 tbsp on applesauce. They work wonders for hot flashes, BTW. Good luck! Nori

Fistula

Nov 2002

I have been diagnosed with a fistula by my OB/GYN. He believes that the fistula was caused by a hematoma which developed after I delivered my 2nd baby, 5 months ago. I have an appointment soon with a surgeon, Dr. David Bitar. I am wondering if anyone has any knowledge of fistulae and/or knowledge of Dr. Bitar. I'm particularly interested in information about recovery time following surgery for a fistula. Thank you. anon.


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