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Four-year-old Won't eat Breakfast
Although my husband and I both believe that food should not be an
issue for battles, apparently I'm not very good at putting this
principle into practice! While my son (4 years old) is a picky eater
in general, breakfast is a particularly difficult challenge,
especially on school days when the mornings are often a rush. (He
also loves lounging in bed and cuddling, so it's tough just getting
DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR ME ???
Though this might seem horrible to some: my problems with my son's
breakfast were solved when I started serving him breakfast in bed!
(Cringe!) Yes, in bed. I had to leave early in the morning and his
father was in charge of getting him to school. To often this meant
his father slept until the last minute and then rushed around trying
to get my son out of the house in time. It also meant my son was
essentially unsupervised until his dad started running around 15
minutes before they had to leave. I started bringing him to our bed
in the morning (totally asleep) turning the TV on to
some 'educational' program and serving breakfast on a tray. My son
would wake up and eat his breakfast at his leisure. After a short
while he'd feel the pick me up from the food and he'd be in a great
mood! He's 8 now and no longer has breakfast in bed. Sometimes
(rarely) I have to carry him to the table he usually just drags
himself there - once he's eaten his energy picks up and by the time
I'm out of the shower he's dressed, combed, teeth are brushed and
he's ready to go.
We have the same issue with our four year old. She suddenly turned
off breakfast refusing her once loved dry cereals, eggs, bagels and
the like. Its not a power struggle, she just says shes not hungry.
But we find she has to eat or she gets horribly moody by mid-
morning. We've had a lot of luck with smoothies (yogurt, frozen
bananas and strawberries and some apple juice concentrate) and some
success with leftovers of favorite dinners. On some days we've had
to resort to PowerBars and fruit. I'm fairly certain that if we went
towards more sugar, she'd follow but we don't want to go there yet.
Take breakfast along--PB&J sandwich, fruit, dry cereal and milk to
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