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Help for Troubled Skin

Jan 2008

Can anyone recommend an aesthetician in the Oakland/Berkeley area? I've never been, but recently a friend said a lactic acid chemical peel really helped her problem areas. My skin is congested, starting to get fine lines and little brown spots, and overall it's just dull and looking old (I'm 35). How frustrating having to think about acne and aging at the same time! My friend also mentioned glycolic acid toner as an important part of a skin care regimen. News to me. I know I'm not cleansing/moisturizing correctly. What has worked for you?

Oh- and the dark circles under my eyes are getting worse everyday. Granted I have three small children and my sleep isn't what it should be, but the puffs and bags and circles are probably aging me more than anything else. Can an aesthetician do anything to help in this area? Has anyone successfully beat the bags?

I would greatly appreciate any ideas, names and/or recommendations for products! feeling frumpy


I am a Jin Shin Jyutsu practitioner and I have worked with women who have hair and skin issues (everything from simple dry skin to eczema to radiation burns). Jin Shin is similar to acupuncture but without needles - instead of placing needles along the energy pathways in the body, a light touch is applied. Balancing the energy in the body that effects the skin can improve the health and look of the skin. Donna
I was feeling just like you, and having similar problems. I didn't see a trained professional: I've read up on stuff and watched TV to get my regime together. Women who are younger than I am tell me I have great looking skin and ask what I do (I'll be 40 in July). Here is what I do. It ain't cheap, but science is a wonderful thing:

1) I use Dr. Denese Firming Facial Pads (like Stridex, only they exfoliate) and the SPF 30 Day Cream. I saw her on PBS, and went hunting her products down. You have to exfoliate to keep making colligen and to reveal healthy skin and keep pores clean enough to keep acne at bay. The day cream is tinted, so it gives an airbrushed look to the skin. When I don't use the Day Cream, I use Neutrogena's SPF 30 moisturizer with no tint, but I get compliments whether I use tinted or not. The exfoliating facial pads can be drying, especially when you first start using them, so I got one of her Hydroshield Moisturizing Face Serums, too. Here is her website so that you can see how FABULOUS she looks and so that you can read a little about her philosophy on skin...

www.drdenese.com Here is where you can find her products... http://www.qvc.com/qic/qvcapp.aspx/app.nav/params.class.B337.level.3/walk.yah.6285-B341?venue=cgen IMPORTANT TIP: when you start using the facials pads, make sure you put moisturizer onto the lower and upper eyelids right afterward. The potion on the pads will seep onto the eyelids and dry out the skin. This happened to me, and my undereye area was wrinkly-looking for about a week.

IMPORTANT TIP #2: You MUST use suncreen EVERY SINGLE DAY. That is the best thing you can do to keep your skin from looking wrinkled. The other stuff helps lift off the superficial damage, but you will be doing it for naught if you don't protect your skin. It has to be a broad spectrum sunscreen. Neutrogena is cheaper and has a higher level SPF.

2) Hylexin Cream for dark circles: it costs (gulp) $100 a tube, but it WORKS for dark circles. You will see results immediately, and the darkness will go away in a few weeks. It also reduces puffiness. You may be able to find it cheaper someplace else, but DO NOT buy the generic version or the imitations. I haven't tried those, but I know for sure that this works and the tubes last a long time. I've had mine for about 6 months, and there is tons left. You are supposed to use it sparingly. I bought mine at Pure Beauty, but here is the site:

www.hylexin.com Getting old and dried up, too


Try Esther Torres at Au Natural in Montclair, 339-1152. She has a variety of options, does not penetrate the skin and she is very experienced. Stu

Skin care for African American skin

Sept 2005

I have a 15 year old neice and have been trying to figure out a nice gift for her - I never know what to get her anymore, she has no time for shopping outings and giving money is so boring. The other day I notices she has some acne bumps on her forehead and I thought that some skin care products would be a good idea. I love Clinique but I'm very pale and I know dark skin often requires different kinds of products. any suggestions in terms of brand names and specific products would be appreciated. thanks
mixed race family


I haven't tried it, but I know people who have used Proactive & really likes it. It works on all types of skin. Shelly
I have found that the Bobbi Brown skin-care line is much better for my African American skin than Clinique: Clinique often uses mineral oil in their products which often causes breakouts for African American women. Moreover, Clinique cosmetics often contain titanium dioxide which can make darker skin tones look ashen.

Bobbi Brown tends to stay away from mineral oil and titanium dioxide.

For a great pressed powder, try Prescriptives brand ''virtual skin'' ''Level 5'': many young girls who do not wear makeup nonetheless would like a translucent powder to take care of oiliness -- another issue with African American skin. Prescriptives is very light and the pressed powder does not contain titanium dioxide.

You can buy Prescriptives and Bobbi Brown at Nordstroms in S.F.

A final recommendation I have that so many african American women swear by -- and I love it myself -- is the ''oil mattifier'' by Mary Kay Cosmetics: if your neice puts a bit of this stuff across her forehead, breakouts and oiliness will diminish. Of course, you'll need to find a Mary Kay dealer to obtain the product since it's not sold over the counter.

Check out the Mary Kay website: they have a great skincare line in general; products designated for oil-prone skin work best for African Americans.

Good Luck Antoinette


I'm not sure I'd bring attention to pimples for an adolescent but you may want to check out Carol's Daughter products. I can't vouch for their skincare regime but I love the haircair products. They smell yummy and are really good for my daughter's hair. I've also used some of their body lotions and lip gloss - all very yummy. The website is www.carolsdaughter.com. anonymous
You really should try Shelly at alexander Pope in Oakland. Her specialty is our skin. She is very well trained and knows what she is doing. Her products rock and i could not reccomend her more. Danielle

Inexpensive Moisturizer with SPF 15

October 2005

Neutrogena recently discontinued the facial moisturizer I've used for many years (Healthy Skin daytime creme with SPF 15) and I'm having a hard time finding a good replacement. Can anyone recommend a moisturizer they like that isn't loaded with fragrance, includes at least SPF 15 sunscreen, and doesn't cost a fortune? I'm looking for a product that's thick enough to dab on (not that runny stuff) and doesn't leave your hands greasy. It would be nice, too, if I didn't have to go to a specialty store to buy it. Thanks!!


I'm very happy with ''Olay complete defense daily UV moisturizer.'' It is thick -- comes in a small pump bottle and has no fragrance (only the faintest ''sunscreen'' scent). My bottle is ''SPF30 for sensitive skin'', but they may make a SPF15 as well. Olay makes other fragrance-free, sunscreen lotions that aren't greasy, but so far this is my favorite. Longs sells it and I'm sure other chain drug stores do too.
sun lover in Walnut Creek
I love Alba's sea moss moisturizer, which has an SPF of 15. It's available at Wholefoods and runs between $10 and $13 for a 2oz tube (It's been on sale a couple of times.) I'm with you on consistency--this stuff is nice and thick but not greasy.
anon
I've been really happy with Olay ''complete all day moisture cream'' for sensitive skin. It is spf 15 and it's unscented too. It's a thick cream in a small jar. I have dry skin and I've paid 4 or 5 times more for moisturizers but finally got tired of schlepping to a department store. I like this one. I get it at Albertsons or Longs or drugstore.com.
Ginger
Oil of Olay has a moisterizer with SPF 30! Its called Complete Defence Daily Moisterizer with SPF 30, I get it at Target, and wait for it to go on sale and buy a few.
anon
I'm very happy with Olay Regenerist Enhancing Lotion with UV Protection. It has a light but substantial feel which is important for my oily skin. You can get it at any drug store (I get it at Target). I often get comments that I don't look my age or I look like I'm wearing make-up when I'm not.
anon
I like the daily moisturizers that Eucerin makes. One of them is Sensitive Facial Skin Daily Perfecting Lotion SPF 15. They are available at drug stores and groceries.
Jeanne
I also used to use the Neutrogena. I switched to The Body Shop Grapeseed hydrating moisturizer SPF 15 & think it is great. I order it in bulk off the website so I don't have to go to the store & shipping is not too bad, but there is a Body Shop in the new Emery Bay mall.
I've been using Oil of Olay ''Complete'' all day moisture cream spf 15 for *sensitive skin* (i.e. no fragrance) for years, and I love it. It's usually available at any drugstore or Target, etc, although sometimes it's not, so when I find it, I usually buy two or more jars.
Kate
I use Olay moisturizer with SPF 15 protection. It's available at Walgreen's for about $10, I think. I've had good luck with it. Not sure how ''runny'' is too runny for you, but for only $10, it's worth a try.
Anon
Olay total effects 7x, uv protection, fragrance free It's available at most any drugstore for about $18 - you can often buy it on sale.
Leslie
Oil of Olay Complete is the perfect moisturizer - SPF 15, extremely light fragrance, non-greasy and cheap. I used to use that Neutrogena moisturizer, too, but when I tried this one I actually preferred it. My dermatologist likes it because it contains an ingredient that is effective at blocking both UVA and UVB rays.
lin
There is a Eucerin product that meets all your criteria. I don't remember the exact name, but it comes in a white bottle (pump top) with a pink cap. You can get it at most Longs/Walgreens, and it costs about $7, which is less than the Neutrogena stuff. No fragrance, not greasy, wear it every day. I've been using it for several years and have never had problems (breakouts, etc.) with it.
Need my SPF every day
I like Neutrogena's Healthy Defense SPF 30 (different than Healthy Skin...confusing, eh?). Although, sometimes my skin isn't dry enough for it and the moisturizer doesn't absorb totally. In warmer months, I just use Neutrogena Dry Touch SPF 30 on my face. It isn't greasy at all and is totally inperceptible on my skin. Sometimes, if my skin is a tiny bit dry, I mix the two together and they blend really nicely.

Whatever you do, make sure you use a face creme with good sunscreens that block UVA and UVB. A good resource for products and infomation about sunscreens is http://www.cosmeticcop.com - Paula Begoun's site. Go to the Learn section on the lower left side of the screen to read up on ingredients. Also, she is big on pointing out the lower-cost products that do every bit as good of a job as the high-priced ones.
Block Those Harmful Rays!


Re: a protective face lotion - Eucerin now makes one called ''Sensitive Facial Skin Extra Protective Moisture Lotion'' that I really like. It's SPF 30, the highest I've seen for a daily facial moisturizer, and it feels going on like a regular moisturizer rather than a sunscreen. Runs $8-10 for 4 oz, at regular drugstores.
Fair-skinned too
I like Aveeno Positively Radiant Daily Moisturizer. You can find it at any drugstore.
anon
Try Cetaphil moisturizer. I buy it at Target.
Michelle
My dermatologist recommended ''Olay Complete defense'' daily UV moisturizer. It has SPF 30 and I really like it. I have sensitive skin and I didn't have any bad reactions.
Happy with Olay
We use Johnson and Johnson's Purpose. You can find it at any pharmacy, Target, and I think even Safeway. It is light, not greasy and has almost no fragrance. I can even get my husband to use it, which speaks volumes!

Another product my entire family uses is No-Ad suntan lotion with 30 SPF for the rest of our bodies. Same features as Purpose and it's waterproof. When we are swimming or going to be outside all day, we also use it on our faces and have had no problems with skin outbreaks.
Sabrina


Try Zia Daily Moisture Screen. It sounds exactly like what you're looking for -- SPF 15, creamy (it's in a jar), and light. Zia stuff has no chemicals in it, and it's great for sensitive skin. I get mine at the Berkeley Bowl, but you can find it at many health food stores and natural pharmacies.
Tara
I highly recommend Eucerin Extra Protective moisterizer, which I've been using for a few years. It's SPF 30, very light and doesn't leave residue on your hands. You can find it at most drug stores, though you might have to search the shelves a bit. It's under $9 for a bottle that lasts me about 6 months.
Moisturized and UVA/UVB Protected Mom

La Mer Skin care products

March 2005

I'm wondering if anyone out there has had any experience using the La Mer skin products? Are they as good as they claim? Thanks. just wondering


I've tried the main product ''Creme de la Mer'' and did not think that it made that much of a difference. It's a rich cream so if you want lots of moisture, it's good. However, it's not the miracle cream that it is hyped up to be. Also, a beauty insider discouraged me from buying the other products offered by La Mer because other than the original ''Creme de la Mer'', all the other products were produced by Estee Lauder Company after they bought La Mer about 5 years ago. (These products are not the originals created by the founder scientist using the 6 month fermentation process). I tried La Mer because I'm in my early 30's and wanted to get a jump start in preventing further wrinkles. Having talked to several dermatologists, they all said that the only miracle cream they know of is a good sunscreen. Anonymous
I used Creme de la Mer when I was working and didn't have a child. I can't justify the expense now, even though I still think the results are excellent. I can't really speak to how it works on aging or wrinkles, but my skin never felt more ''even'' or hydrated than when I used the stuff. It really makes your skin smooth and there is a definite glow. I also used the eye cream which worked wonders on eye bags and dark circles. Kiehl's has a product that's supposed to mimic CDLM, called Cyrste Marine. I'm personally using their Abyssine cream and am very happy with the results, and it's under $40. former user

Serious Skin Care Advice Needed!

Feb 2005

I have some major complaints about my facial skin and am looking for some advice...and tips for improvement

My primary complaints: shallow acne scars, broken capillaries, enlarged pores

I have tried a range of different over the counter beauty products, microdermabrasion and glycolic peels...with little improvement.

My facial skin is so distressing to me that cost is much less of an issue than finding something that REALLY works.

Any advice? Any prescription products that might help? Any dermatologist recs? Anybody been in the same boat and found a solution that really made a difference?

I appreciate any help you can provide! Holgie


re: skin care help needed.
A year and a half ago I sought the same advice on Berkeley Parents. I had sun damage, redness, acne scars, and continuing acne flareups. I ended up visiting Dr. Elizabeth Lee in Berkeley, and starting the Obagi Nu Derm prescription skin care regimen. I cannot believe the difference it has made. I went to her wanting a laser peel and now I don't need one. I just religiously use these products. My skin looks beautiful and friends are always asking what I've done. My husband, who is generally skeptical about ''beauty products,'' says I look ten years younger. I agree. joyful
I started having some pretty serious complexion problems two years ago, and tried a lot of things, including multiple trips to my primary care physician. She actually told me to do things that exacerbated the condition, and I finally went to Dr. Warren Dotz, a dermatologist whose office is right next to Alta Bates. I was very impressed by him. He was absolutely scrupulous in looking over my skin, inquiring about my history, and coming up with a diagnosis. He is unhurried and thorough during appointments. My skin looks quite nice now! Elizabeth
You might want to check out the laser clinic at UCSF, which is part of their Dermatology Department. I've had treatment there for facial spider veins & noticed a great improvement. I know lasers can also be used for acne scars. My dermatologist is Cam McCalmont in El Cerrito, who referred me to UCSF. Cam is great, but it can take months to get an appointment with her.
Don't bother with over the counter stuff. Go see a dermatologist. Tell them you want Retin-A and the non-generic brand. It did wonders for me for both shallow acne marks,large pores, and is great preventative for wrinkles. It improved my skin dramatically! If you have freckles or sun damage ask for Triluma which has a bleaching agent and retin-A. In just three weeks my sun damage has lessened substantially. It is fantastic! amy
Well this is a coincidence! I just had the broken capillaries around my nose zapped with a laser (at my Cosmetic Dermatologist) and they went away after one session! -- totally worth the money. Based on your multiple issues, I think at this point you are going to have to stop wasting your money on over- the-counter products and see a physician who can really help you. I've been very happy with Dr. Christine Brozowski. She does all the procedures herself and her staff is very welcoming and knowledgable about skin care. Her web is www.doctoragogo.com. good luck.
Go to www.mariobadescu.com and fill out their questionaire. They have professionals that will review your submission and send you samples of recommended products. You will see from their site that they cater to the stars-- lots of models and people with beautiful faces.... they package their stuff in cheap bottles so their prices are totally acceptable. I have been using their products for about 6 months now and am happy with pretty much everything!! I have referred quite a few people and they are happy too!!! LogicalMama
I have been seeing an esthetician monthly for about 5 years. Every time I see her, she tells me how dry my skin is acting and how I need to take better care of my skin. I recently was told about the Beauticontrol Skincare line from a friend who lives out of state. I tried the products and then fell in love with the whole line. On my last visit to my esthetician, she told me (without knowing what products I was using), that my skin has never looked so great! That sold me! Now I sell them. Chris

Natural Advantage skin care line

June 2004

Has any one tried the informercial ''Natural Advantage'' skin care line & gotten results?I recently saw the commercial & being in the midst of feeling in serious need of skin SOS! I am tempted to purchase this stuff asap!!! Post baby I am feeling very aged & my skin has changed dramatically! Otherwise, anyone have an affordable dermatologist they might recommend? Thank you!


I'm not familiar with Natural Advantage skin care, but I wanted to recommend Proactive Solution to you. You have probably seen their infomercials before. I'm skeptical of products I see advertised on infomercials, so it took years and a friend's recommendation for me to try Proactive Solution and I'm so glad I finally did. My skin looks great, I rarely break out, and the scaring from my previous acne has disappeared. I have encouraged several friends to use it and everyone loves it. It really works! Former Acne Sufferer

Which anti-wrinkle cream really works???

Oct 2004

Having recently turned 50, I find myself spending more and more time at Long's gazing at anti-wrinkle products. There's only about a million to choose from! I'm wondering which, if any, you've had positive results from? I'm looking for a product that will lessen the little wrinkles appearing on my face and something that might possibly help firm up the loose skin on my neck......Ha! But the array of products is pretty overwhelming. Or is it all just a big joke and the hands of time can't ever be turned back? Thanks! 50 and counting


There are certain ingredients that are known for anti-wrinkle properties. Retinol is one of them. I use the M.D. Forte Skin Rejuvenation line. I think it's only available at dermatologist's offices. You can do a search on Yahoo. Also, for moisturizing, La Mer, available at Nordstrom, is amazing. I have had the eye cream for 3 days and have noticed a change. These products are expensive but I believe them to be well worth it. Feel free to email me if you would like. Jackie
i suggest looking into n.v. perricone. you can purchase it at either nordstroms or sephora. it's a higher end line of products but it does work. it's been developed by a dermatologist. their website is www.nvperriconemd.com if you're interested.
I've been using an anti-wrinkle cream called Eucerin Q-10 for about a year now. (I'm 50.) It was recommended to my sister by her 50-yr+ female dermatologist. The cream comes in a small white glass container and I've found it mostly at Walgreen's. Don't confuse it with the sunscreen with Q-10 by the same company. It costs about $10 or so; it's a thick yellowish cream. Feels like you're spreading butter on your face. Made in Germany by Pond's Company. I've found that it really helps with the fine lines. I usually spread it on right after I shower or bathe when my face and neck are still really moist. puertazl
The only anti-wrinkle creams that ''really work'' are those with a chemical like Retin-A in them (the prescription versions). Some of the things at Long's make decent moisturizers (some don't), but pretty much none of them reverse the effects of aging.

For a really good review of current products, what they do and don't do, costs, and potential harmful effects, check out the book ''Don't go to the cosmetics counter without me'' by Paula Begoun. Whatever you think of her personal approach, line of products, etc., her analysis of cosmetics is pretty objective, because she bases it ONLY on their ingredients, and their known chemical effects.

See the following page of her website for further information: http://www.cosmeticscop.com/learn/article.asp?PAGETYPE=ART&REFER=SKIN&ID=12 Karen


My understanding is that the anti-wrinkle cosmetics industry is one of the biggest frauds there is. I've yet to find ANYTHING over the counter that truly reduces wrinkles. From what I've read, Retin-A is the ONLY thing that is truly effective at this, but it's expensive and you have to get a prescription (I assume through a dermatologist). Perhaps there is some UCB Parent's Network subscriber who has had a different experience and knows of an over-the- counter product that IS effective, but I have serious doubts.

The problem is, nothing much can actually penetrate your skin to affect it. Your skin, the biggest organ you have, is DESIGNED to KEEP THINGS OUT of your body. Not much gets past it (most of the things I know of that *do* are bad for you). So, all that stuff is really just bunk. I'll be interested to learn if some one knows something different. Living with lines


I am a plastic surgeon practicing in Berkeley. Although I am a surgeon, in my practice, I see many people who are not interested in surgery, but are concerned about the aging of their skin with the accumulation of wrinkles, age spots and the development of skin laxity. I work with Obagi NuDerm skin health system, This is not a superficial, feel good program. It restores health to the skin by stimulating the deeper layers to correct damage from aging and sun exposure.

The products available over the counter in department stores, or in Longs are not as effective as this line, and Obagi is only dispensed in physician offices because it requires appropriate training in its use. But don't be frightened, it is skin care, not surgery. It is the only skin care product I use in the office, because it helps my patients, unlike most of the other lines out there which are expensive and feel nice to use, but don't make any permanent improvements in skin health and appearance.

Yes, it is possible to turn back the clock, probably not back to age 18, but certainly by a decade or so, at least.

You can research the products at Obagi.com

Feel free to call my office with any questions. 510 704-2170 Elizabeth Lee, M.D. elizabeth AT artfulsurgery.com


You are right, shoopping for an array of antiwrinkle products can be overwhelming, I've been through it. I am currently using Obagi product and it does work. It is not an over-the-counter beauty product. I get mine from a plastic surgereon Elizabeth Lee, M.D. in Berkeley. You need to first have a consultation with her before you can purchase the product. You may want to give that a try. She's at 2999 Regent Street, phone # 510-704- 2170. Hope this helps. M

Anti Aging Skin Products

Feb 2003

Has anyone used any anti aging skin products which you have found to be successful? Alpha Lipolic Acid? DMAE products? Perricone's stuff? Others? Is this just the latest fad or can it reduce lines and under eye circles etc? anon


I have used Imeedeen Tablets for a couple of years with good effect on my skin. I started to use the Imedeen Tablets as my skin became easily upset, read, and irritated. As I am also aging, I decided to try Imedeen. Imedeen seems both to make my skin less irritated and also improve the texture. Anne. Anne
I use a skincare product called Obagi and it has done wonders for my skin. It has reduced my lines and dark spots. You will need to obtain this through a physician because it has stronger ingredients than normal over-the-counter products. You can contact Dr. Elizabeth Lee, MD in Berkeley for this, her number is 704-2170. I'm sure you will like her and this product as well. Maria
I recently started using skin care products by a company called Artistry. Out of all the companies out there that make claims, they are the only ones that guarantee significant results, or your money back.

Their products are a combination of nature (organically grown plant ingredients) and science (no animal testing).

They have basic skin care, and a line of products to help with various aging issues such as wrinkles, lines, dark spots, sagginess... from my own experience - my skin looks and feels much better.

One more thing - you will not find Artistry products in the store. It's kind of a word of mouth product line (so they have to make sure the products are real good or no one will tell anybody...). I'll be happy to give you more information via email or phone on the specific products you are looking at. Leigh


About the post recommending Artistry products, I just want you to be aware that you will be dealing with AMWAY. The goal is not only to sell you products but to get you to become a representative. Buyer Beware
I didn't want to go the painful route which I heard sometimes occurs with those other products, so I looked for a product that contained none of the acids, etc., and claimed to get rid of wrinkles. I found L'Oreal's RevitaLift Complete to work very well. It took a few weeks to really see the changes, but my lines have nearly disappeared and it feels very nice on my skin. Plus the sunblock is an added bonus for me. Hope this helps! anon

My skin is drier since I became a mother

Jan. 2003

I am wondering if anyone else has had this experience. Since becoming a mother my skin is a lot dryer, to the point where sometimes I feel I'm wearing a mask. I looked at a close up photo of myself recently and was astonished by all the new wrinkles. I think this has two causes, 1)less sleep, and 2) we use the heater more at night to keep the baby warm and its drying my skin out. Who knows, it may be a post-natal hormone thing too.

I have a great moisturizing cleanser and a face cream (clarins) I use during the day but I have now been told that I need to use a night cream. I am loath to walk up to a dept store make up counter and buy something expensive when I don't know how effective it will be.

So here's my question...does anyone use a night cream that they really like? Or have any other tricks to keep their skin hydrated. Also, I have read the recommendations in the archive on estheticans but if anyone has a good up to date recommendation of a skin care specialist in the East bay who could help me I would appreciate that too.


I highly recommend a Camocare cream called Facelift. They usually carry it at Whole Foods $18- $20 a jar that lasts a long time. Camocare makes creams with different strengths {amounts of AHA's) The one I prefer is Facelift with 12% alpha hydroxy stuff. It's light absorbable etc. Also, something my grandmother taught me is to spray a fine mist of water on my face before moisturizer day or night. Dana
I think Clarins is a VERY good brand. It's expensive, but once you start using it and you get your skin back, you won't have to buy another jar/bottle and the oils/creams smell really good, too. There was a significant difference in just one night... I used the lip stick, too, and I got my soft supple lips back in a few minutes (I can't remember the name of the oil, this happened seven years ago, but I'm sure the Clarins representatives can help you out). Just be careful to not make it an addictive habit! Also, drinking lots of water always helps, I'm sure you've heard of that one. I know I need to drink water when my lips start to chap.
Some valuable information in this area can be obtained by reading ''Don't go to the cosmetics counter without me''; the author (Paula Begoun) does a very intelligent analysis of most cosmetics, including face creams, based on their ingredients -- pointing out things like some of the ''plant-based'' ''natural'' extracts included in many face creams are actually irritating. It's interesting to find out that many expensive products are not worth it, and that even some of the ''dermitologist-recommended'' products aren't that great. She also sells products, including a morning and night regimen, on a web site (http://www.cosmeticscop.com/) -- I like them. They are no-fragrance, no-coloring, no animal testing, including only what is necessary and nothing more, and also decently priced. Might be worth a look. Karen
I had a problem similar to yours after having my daughter, and found that my skin had just changed-- skin and hair changes after childbirth are mainly due to increases in stress hormones circulating through the body, and developmental changes. The female body does not completely mature until after pregnancy & lactation (i.e., breast cells do not fully differentiate until lactation, indicating a new stage of adult development).

Here are my inexpensive suggestions for combating post childbirth skin and hair problems:

Drink lots of water and horsetail tea (avoid caffeine as much as possible for a while, as it is dehydrating)

Change hair & skin products (to replenish lost nutrients that might be deficient in your current line if you have been using it for a long time, or alternate days with different products---helpful to reduce possibility of developing allergy to a long-used product)

Use warm (not overly hot) water in your shower

Rub Olive oil on your body after shower, or add to your bath--I keep a bottle in my bathroom.

Exercise if you can, to work up a sweat (sweating is good for the skin)

Use an exfoliator once in a while, like a wet washcloth, or a loofah pad on the face

It is really (really) expensive, but I absolutely love the AnneMarie Borlind line of cleanser/day/night creams. They are the eighth wonder of the world--you can learn about them online at www.borlind.com . You can also buy them at Whole Foods. Moisturizing creams run about $40.00 per jar, but you need so little that they last about 4 months. I have found that using the whole line of products (cleanser, toner, and day & night creams) works best together. If you can afford to treat yourself (or know someone who wants to spoil you with something) this is the way to go. I am using the ZZ line for sensitive skin, but have also used the ''Regeneration''line for aging skin, and both are excellent. Also the Intensive Capsules are wonderful, instant relief (I swear, I don't work for this company!) Good luck. elizabeth


I love Mary Kay Advanced Moisture Renewal Cream. I put it on at night and I can immediately feel my skin drinking it up and looking 100% softer. I am a bit biased since I sell MK. You can try samples before you buy with your local MK Beauty consultant. If you don't have one, go to www.marykay.com to locate a consultant near you. Or, if you like, email me and I'd be happy to work with you on finding the right products that work with your skin. Brook
Here are a few that my friends and family swear by: 1. Z. Bigatti Re-Storation Vitamin and Antioxidant Skin Treatment $150 (my favorite whenever I need an overnight quick fix)

2. Osmotics Blue Copper 5 Elasticity Repair $55 (my husband and mother both love this one - the eye cream works wonders too)

3. Juvena Q10 Night $55 (my grandmother's favorite)

If you hate the department store like I do, you can read up on the products and purchase any of them online at http://www.sephora.com/browse/section.jhtml?categoryId=C151

Osmotics and Juvena are both good choices too if the Z. Bigatti is too expensive. I've used all three and there are all GREAT. anon.


I use a 2% salicylic acid wash once a day all over my body, including my face. (Neutrogena acne wash, for example even though I don't have acne- I've used salon versions but didn't notice any difference). The salicylic acid exfoliates your dry skin. You really need to moisturized afterward. I use a great day cream and a thick night cream. I get them at the salon where I get my legs waxed and really like them-by Paul Scerri. I used to use Murad products and liked them too- (you can get them at a beuty supply store) They use something different to exfoliate- but exfoliating is key to getting rid of dead skin and make the skin open to the moisturizing. Good luck. lsg
I don't have a recommendation for a certain name brand, but my husband is an MD, and he has always told me the best time to apply lotion or moisturizers is right after a shower or bath, while your skin is still wet. Don't even dry off with a towel (but I usually wrap my wet hair in a towel first); let the lotion mix into the water on your skin, and it will do a much better job of moisturizing. Heidi
You should start with a visit to a dermatologist, to avoid trendy and often worthless skin regimens. My dematologist is wonderful, and very thorough (she'll look you over for any pre- cancer moles too!) Dr. Pessoa has prescribed very helpful retin- A products that make my skin look better. That may not be right for you -- she'll know. Cornelia Pessoa, 2500 Milvia St. #104 Berkeley 94704, 510-486-1700. Anon.
Regarding a good night cream, I have been using a great alpha hydroxy night cream from the Body Time store for a few months. I tend to like Body Time products because they are all natural, made in small batches and made locally. My skin looks smoother and healthier than it has since I became a mom almost a year ago. Also, I recommend Lavera products, as well as Murad. Hope this helps. --skincare happy mom
There's another alternative to getting advice on skin care. Try the Beauty Center on College Ave. (Berkeley) or the one on Solano Ave. The salespeople are not on commission. They are especially knowledgeable when it comes sensitive dry skin, talk to Barbara at the College Ave. store. Products by Murad, Lange, and Dermalogica are formulated for sensitive skins. joy
You might want to try one of the heavier creams at Body Time, which is a local company with several stores in Berkeley and SF. They sell very reasonably priced skin, hair and body products. I have dryish skin, too, and have used their creamy facial wash, unscented moisturizing cream, AD&E lotion and eye cream (and shampoo, etc., too) for years. FWIW, people often tell me I have pretty skin (I know, I know, I sound like a creep, but they DO). Good luck. Wendy
Are you nursing your child? There's another reason your skin is dryer: more of the fluid you take in goes to the child. It's really important to drink enough water during the day. Though I must admit that it's hard to do with a baby or toddler. Anyway, I've had the same problem with dry skin--all over. For hands and elbows (because you're probably washing your hands more, too) I like Body Shop Vitamin E hand cream. It's a bit expensive, but worth it since it seems to keep working even after you wash your hands. For face, I found a nice rejuvinating face cream at Body Time here in Berkeley. It costs about $25.00, which is not too bad. You might also treat yourself to a facial somewhere like Elixir or Azul. No doubt you deserve the pampering. Carolyn
I know that dry skin feeling all too well. Between heaters, weather changes and stress, I got to the point where I literally ''cracked'' a smile due to dry skin. After trying dozens of high priced facial creams, I had the best luck with Cetaphil, which is around $7 at Longs. I now use it day and night. I have very sensitive skin that easily dries to the point where I feel as if I've been on a cross-universe plane trip. Cetaphil works great around my eyes, too, which is great for all the new wrinkles that like to sneak in there. It's fragrance free, goes on very lightly and provides instant relief. And for $7, what do you have to lose? You can even splurge on a massage with the savings, something we moms deserve -- regardless of our skin savings! Moist, And With Money To Show For It!
I too have had trouble with dry skin after my son's birth. 2 suggestions, 1 internal treatment and 1 external. If your dry skin is due to dehydration, either heater related or not - a strong likelihood - try to drink more water. I started drinking 2 - 16 oz bottles of water throughout the day. In addition to beverages with meals, it really helped me. Besides helping hydrate your skin, water is great for your organs and digestion. Secondly, try applying a little vasoline (petrolium jelly) to problem areas for added moisture. When my son has a cold and gets the red, raw area around his nose from my rubbing with a tissue, a little vasoline applied when he goes to sleep gives him supple skin when he wakes in the AM. I discoverd it works for me too around my nose, lips or other problem areas. Anyway, that's my 2 cents worth. anon
Instead of trying to just moisturize the surface of your skin, you may want to contact Elizabeth Lee, M.D. in Berkeley who does cosmetic surgery and sells Obagi skincare products to her patients. I personally have experienced great results. MS

Dry, cracking skin on fingers and feet

May 2003

I have lived in Northern California for 5 years now and every April my skin starts cracking from dryness, mainly at the finger tips and my heels. It cracks, then bleeds, then heals and cracks again. I do moisturize every day but with all the diaper changing I do wash my hands quite often. Has anybody have the same problem? How did you solve it? cracking mom


Sounds like eczema to me. I've had it since I was a child, but it got worse when I moved to a dryer climate, then REALLY got bad since becoming pregnant and having my son 4 years ago. When my son was young and I was washing my hands a lot, my hands were horrifically cracked. Generally, my feet and hands get worse during the winter when the air is so dry. I get huge painful cracks primarily on my thumbs and heels. Here is what I have done to keep the cracks on my feet to a minimum. If I followed this regimen consistently and always wore covered shoes, I probably would be practically eczema-free. At least every other night I soak my feet in hot water and baking soda for about 15 minutes. Then I gently try removing some calluses (not too much at once or it makes the cracks worse). Then I dry my feet off thoroughly, and before I put some clean cotton socks on I slather them with utter balm. That's right utter balm. It is the same stuff that they use on cows when they get chaffed teats! It works so well that it is sold in stores for human use. It's great because it is not only a strong emollient; it also is an antibacterial. If you adhere to this regimen as much as possible you may be able to keep your feet eczema free. I also have found that my eczema gets worse in the summer when I wear sandals, or when I go barefoot, which is most of the time. I abhor wearing closed shoes in the summer, so it is a problem for me. Sometimes I wear sandals with socks. As for my fingers, I read for a couple of hours every night and I've gotten so many books greasy even with gloves on, that I tend not to take as good a care of my fingers. I have a nasty cycle of letting them get bad and then taking drastic measures to heal them. I'll wear gloves at night and forgo the books for a few nights, and you'll find me walking around during the day with Band-Aids on most of my fingers - very attractive. Word to the wise If you are one to walk around outside barefoot with cracked feet, find out when your last tetanus shot was, and get another one if necessary. Good luck. Marianne
I've never had the cracking on my hands, but I have on my heels and what seems to work best is Lansinoh (the ointment used for newly nursing moms on the nipple) and/or A&D Diaper Rash ointment. Go figure. Good Luck. Curious to see the other tips you get! Smooth footed mama
Sounds like you have eczema! I have the same exact problem and my doctor has diagnosed eczema. You may want to see what your doctor says about this. amy
I have the same problem on my feet, and have found that a product called ''Heel Softening Cream,'' by Miracle of Aloe, available online at www.vermontcountrystore.com, has been very helpful. (I think it even comes with special little socks to keep the cream from rubbing off of your feet at night.) Gretchen
For a crack on the heel of my foot, when it gets deep and painful (i.e. in the summer after walking on beaches a lot) I put a good dab of zinc oxide on and cover with a bandaid. This has always healed up the crack in a few days to a week or so. I also find that using something to rub the extra tough callused skin off on places like my heels during or after a shower really helps keep them from cracking. Susan
I've got the same problem with cracking skin on my hands, and I don't think it's excema - it really is just from having delicate skin and washing hands too much, since it only happens when I either wash my hands a LOT during the day or during the winter when it's really dry. I usually just sort of let it go during the day, using a little lotion if I remember and it's handy, but at night (I take a night shower, so my skin gets really well hydrated before bed. You might want to see if it helps you too - if not, just soak your hands in warm water for a few minutes) I slather a good teaspoon or so of ointment into my damp hands to seal the water in - it feels really oily, but keep rubbing until it absorbs in. Farmer's Friend hand salve from Restoration Hardware is my favorite, with Aquaphor (any drugstore, I think) running a close second. Vaseline also works just fine. Sometimes when it's really bad, I'll put some on, then about 10 minutes later when it starts to feel dry again, I'll wet my hands and put more ointment on. I do this at night so that my hands have a chance to heal and rejuvenate with more time between washings. This is what works for me, so no promises, but good luck! amy
I got eczema on my hand after I gave birth (18 months ago). A couple months ago, I discovered a product made by Dr. Nicholas Perricone called Phosphatidyl-E. The eczema went away within days and so far has not returned. My father, who has had painful cracked heels for years, also found that it worked on his heels when nothing else has been helpful. Perricone's website is clinicalcreations.com . You can also find his products at Sephora.com. They're not cheap but for me, the relief was definitely worth the price. Anon
I also had cracked bleeding hands while doing frequent diaper changes and lots of handwashing. My mom sent me a product called ''acid mantle'' which ''restores and maintains protective acidity of the skin.'' It instantly absorbs into the skin, no greasiness whatsoever. I don't know where she got it, she said it is expensive, but it lasts a loooong time. the package has a website www.bradpharm.com I also would put aquaphor on my hands at nighttime when I would have a longer stretch without handwashing and found that to be very helpful. eve
I've had trouble with cracking skin, especially when I had two kids in diapers and washed my hands all the time. My advice in the daytime, Body Cream from Bath & Body Works; at night, Bag Balm. This is a lanolin product and some people are allergic and it STINKS! I made the mistake of bringing some to work to use the first time I opened it - never again! But if you slather it on at night it helps (not with your love life, maybe, but at least you'll have smooth hands.) I got mine at a tack store, but I'm sure other places carry it. Good luck! Susie
My mom suggested 12% Amlactin lotion for cracking skin, especially feet and elbows. You can find it at Costco and it does not require a prescription. I've used it and it has made a huge difference. Doesn't smell good, but it isn't that unpleasant either. Diana
I garden a lot and my hands get very dry and sore. I've used Gardener's Hand Repair by Earth Therapeutics for a long time and like it. Just recently I found sample size tubes of a product called Working Hands Creme at Walgreen's next to REI on San Pable Ave, and like it even better. I also use Weleda's Calendula Baby Creme as a hand Creme- very good and it smells great. But the best I've ever found is Beauty Without Cruelty's Maximum Moisture Cream. It's actually a face cream and quite pricey but I indulge in it when my hands get really bad. The best way to get your hands to absorb the cream is to put it on thickly at night and wear thin cotton gloves. I think Vermont Country Store sells them (I haven't found their hand creams very effective) and I have seen them around. Cecelia
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