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Nov 2010
ME and my husband have been traying to get pregnant and we
have done 3 IVF. Now we are looking into adoption and we
dont really know how to start with. Could any one recomend
an adgency? WE ARE READY AND CANT WAIT TO GROW OUR
FAMILY!!!
If you are interested in international adoption, I highly
recommend Bay Area Adoption Service, www.baas.org,
650-964-3800. Proud mom of a now-19 yr old daughter
We adopted our two sons (1 and 3 years old) through domestic
open adoption. We used the Independent Adoption Center in
Pleasant Hill and had great experiences both time. Their
website is www.adoptionhelp.org. Adoptive Mom
We used adopt international and adopted from Ethiopia. I
highly recommend you look into adopting from Ethiopia!
Good luck blessed with infertility
Hi there - we also used Adopt International - however we
adopted domestically. They are a fantastic agency. We
worked with Lisa Clark as our facilitator - she made the
process so memorable. We used their service for both our
daughters (who we adopted as newborns) and are thinking
about using them again. www.adoptinter.org and phone:
(415) 934-0300. Best of luck to you! Happy Adoptive Parent
August 2010
We used Adoption Connection
in San Francisco to do our homestudy
for our Chinese adoption. They are part of Jewish Family and
Children's services and we thought they were wonderful:
http://www.adoptionconnection.org/international_adoption_program.php
Note that they do not do international placement-- just
homestudies-- and it was great having their perspective as
objective professionals as we went through the process with our
other agency. Good luck!
China Mommy
August 2010
We are interested in adopting a baby domestically, and would be very grateful
for recommendations of (or warnings about) adoption agencies and facilitators.
Thank you!
I highly recommend the
Independent Adoption Center in
Pleasant Hill. We worked with them to adopt both of our
sons. They are a non-profit, and they do a lot with what
they have - advertising, education, etc. They specialize in
open adoption which has been wonderful for us. Feel free to
email me if you'd like to discuss them in further detail.
Their website is http://www.adoptionhelp.org/.
Christine
I knew that I wanted to adopt through the foster system and
had an excellent experience with
Family Builders, which has
an Oakland office. I also highly recommend Pact (also in
Oakland). Again, they did not do our adoption but are an
excellent resource. I wish you the best!
May 2009
I am interested to get any feedback about adopting a child
either locally (California/East Bay), domestically or
internationally. Has anyone gone through the process, and if
so, can you give me some advice. Also has anyone used Nancy
Hurwitz Kors? An adoption facilitator based in Walnut Creek?
If so, do you recommend her services?
anon
Call Family Formation in Lafayette! They are fantastic!!!
www.familyformation.com
925-945-1880
AdoptMom
We adopted twice through Adoption Network
(http://www.adoptionnetwork.com/) based in Southern Cal. Our
experience with them was generally very good; we were matched with
wonderful birth parents.. We were matched almost immediately
after signing up both times. In our first adoption, our birthmom
lived in their housing for the last 2 months of her pregnancy
which was great because it gave us a chance to get to know her,
and it meant that it would be an in state adoption which is much
simpler and more affordable.. The 2nd adoption was much more
complicated and costly because our daughter was born in WA state
and we got stuck up there for almost a month before we were
cleared to bring her back to CA, and because Adoption Network
referred us to an awful agency up there in WA (A Child's Dream, in
Poulsbo). So, i'd recommend doing what you can to make sure that
your baby is born here in CA.. We did meet with Nancy in Walnut
Creek, and liked her, but felt that the larger Adoption Network would work better for us. Best of luck!
Dan H.
We adopted internationally through Heartsent Adoptions, Inc,
www.heartsent.org. We had a great experience and recommend them
highly. Adoption is a very personal process. Please feel free to
contact me if you would like more info.
julia
Please check out a wonderful organization Open Path The Fertility
& Adoption Resource of Northern California. They have monthly
information nites on adoption with discussions on the many
different types of adoption and sharing referrals on professionals
in the area.
http://www.youropenpath.org.
This organization was formerly known as Resolve. We started with
this organization and found a lot of information for ourselves on
the process.
a mom through adoption
When doing my adoption research, I met with that adoption
facilitator in Walnut Creek. I was disturbed by a couple of
things she did and said during our interview. Afterwards I called
around to get advice, and that's when I learned of her reputation
in the professional community. I moved on.
I had fantastic results with the facilitators at The Best Gift
Adoptions (www.bestgiftadoptions.com). They were recommended to
me by friends. I brought my newborn home just nine months after
turning in the last of my paperwork.
To help understand the complications of local or domestic
adoption, I recommend two websites which show you ''what's out
there right now'': www.cakidsconnection.com and www.adoptlink.com.
anon
April 2009
My husband and I are considering adoption. We are focusing on domestic adoption
right now, but we're willing to consider international as well. If you've gone
through the process, what agency (or which lawyer) did you use, and how did you
choose that agency? Were you happy with that choice? Are there any websites or
books you would recommend?
Thanks for your advice, Hopefull
We attended an orientation by Adoption Connection in SF. They seemed
very good at domestic. We did IA using a country-specific agency,
however. Adoption Connection has a website. Also,
creatingafamily.com might be a useful site. Best of luck in adding to
your family.
anon
I wish you the very best in figuring out about adoption! My headline
is that I have a wonderful, lovely kid and the fears with which I
entered the process are falling away as the daily life of raising a
child takes over. I knew that I wanted to adopt a child through the
foster system and went through Family Builders, and I could not be
happier about the training and support they provided all the way
through the process. My social worker was outstanding and I feel
tremendously grateful to have met people at every step along the way
who are working with immense integrity in California's decidedly
imperfect child welfare system.
The San Francisco Chronicle just published an article about Family
Builders's Director, Jill Jacobs, last week--look it up online.
I wish you the best!
How exciting to be starting the journey to parenthood. There is a
GREAT organization based in San Francisco - Open Path The Fertility &
Adoption Resource that is a great starting point. They offer free
monthly workshops on information for adoption ''A Look At Adoption''
that gives a general overview of this family-building option including
how to pick a professional, etc. and they also offer a 7 week group
''Exploring Adoption'' that gives a more indepth view of becoming a
family thru adoption with topics on transracial/transcultural, myth vs
reality, etc. The website is www.youropenpath.org They also have a
directory available online with professionals for all family-building
options in the bay area. All of the professionals go through a
thorough screening process.
We have adopted twice domestically and would be happy to share our
experience.
landt
For our international adoption, we went with Heartsent Adoption, Inc.
in Orinda. (They do domestic also.) We visited only 2 agencies and
after talking with Val Free, the founder of Heartsent, it was clear
that we wanted to go with her agency. Besides making the process very
open and clear, Heartsent goes further offering many classes for pre
and post-adoptive parents covering a huge range of issues. Excellent.
Adoption is an extremely personal process, different for everyone.
Best thing we ever did! I would be happy to talk to you about it.
http://www.heartsent.org/index.html
julia
I completed my private domestic adoption a few years ago. For the home
study I used Adoption Connection, but did not use their outreach
program. For the outreach I used the Law Offices of Adams and Romer
(Susan Romer). Both have web pages you can consult for more
information. I was very pleased with both agencies, especially Susan
Romer.
Stefan
If you want to explore international adoption, I highly recommend Bay
Area Adoption Services (650-964-3800 or www.BAAS.org). Our adoption
was completed 17 years ago, and this organization is only getting
stronger. BAAS received accreditation for adoption from Hague
countries and also recently was licensed to extend their service area.
They are caring and supportive all the way through the process, and
never fail in their encouragement of waiting parents to ''keep your
eye on the goal.''
Jody
An organization that can help you get started is ''Open
Path''(formerly Resolve of Northern California). They have workshops,
support groups, and reference information available:
http://www.fertilityandadoption.com/. A great online reference source
is Adoptive Families Magazine's free adoption guide:
http://www.theadoptionguide.com/. The magazine itself is fabulous and
worth a subscription. In addition to adoption ''how-tos,'' it also has
articles about all stages of parenting and great family stories. As
for agencies, there are many options. I can personally recommend
Adoption Connection, whom we used for the homestudy for our
international adoption but they also have a domestic program. They are
wonderful: http://www.adoptionconnection.org. A friend of mine had a
great experience with AASK (Adopt a Special Kid), which was a
fost-adopt program(www.adoptaspecialkid.org). Good luck in your
journey.
AdoptiveMom
Silver Spoon Adoption
After trying advertising, and having an adoption in Arizona not work out at the
last minute, and other personal things happen that stretched the time out to 5
years, our adoption attorney (who charged us by the hour instead of an overall
fee) suggested an agency called Silver Spoon Adoptions as a place where we could
be matched with a family interested in adoption of their child fairly quickly.
In essence they advertise in phone books, and are there to accept calls from
birthfamilies, and with information from people like us, they can tell the
birthfamily that a number of people will be calling them. They then called us
(and usually others) and we called the birthfamily. The positives are that the
birthfamilies already knew things like our age that might not be acceptable to
all birthfamilies, and so you don't have to hold your breath when talking to
them. Also, they do (or did three years ago) have a lot of calls and we were
matched in a month and one-half. People have the perception that there is not
much screening through them, but our experience is that they talk to many
birthmothers, and are pretty good at screening and up front about potential
problems. The negatives are that you are to some extent on your own about
making a decision about the right situation, and also after finding a match. In
our experience, some of the birthfamilies are very needy, and in need of a lot
of financial support. Two of the families were homeless, including the family
we eventually adopted from. In retrospect, I realize the name Silver Spoon
Adoptions is likely to lead to people perceiving that adopting families have a
lot of money. I didn't even think of that aspect at the time. We did take out
insurance because of the financial burden, and we realized it would be hard to
start again if it didn't work out. We did use the insurance once. We also
found a local facilitator in the area where the birthfamily lived to help us
through all the ups and downs. I could go on and on about the experience - and
if you decide to try Silver Spoon I have some tips for you, so contact me
through my e-mail directly. Just to tell you we have the most wonderful 3 year
old daughter in the world, and are still in touch with the birthfamily.
addendum:
just did a search for Silver
Spoon Adoptions on the web, and there was a note from someone about negative
things being posted on a site called adoption.com, and a suit being brought by
Silver Spoon. I don't know what to think. Our experience was only positive. Oh
well.
Moderator Note (Sept 2011) It appears that Silver Spoon Adoptions is no longer
in the adoption business according to their
website http://www.asilverspoonadoptions.com/ which states:
"If you are looking to adopt a child, we regret that we
do not work with adoptive families." However, the website also
features a phone number for "Birth parents only", and services are offered
to birth parents that include this statement: "You can choose and meet the
adoptive parents." It is not clear what this business actually does, or
if it is actually still in business.
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