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What is the BPN?

The Berkeley Parents Network is a parent-run email forum for 22,256 parents who live in the Berkeley, California area. Volunteers compile submissions from subscribers and mail out digests nearly every day. Many of these discussions are later archived to our website.

BPN gives busy parents an easy way to help and support each other by posting a message to one of the newsletters. Members can ask questions about parenting, give advice to other parents, find out about local resources and community events, look for childcare, sell household items, and more.

Most people find us via our website. However, the website is just an archive of past discussions from the newsletters. The core of the Berkeley Parents Network is email newsletters that go out to subscribers almost every day.

The BPN is not a "service" for parents. There are no BPN employees who are paid to provide a service. It is all run by volunteers. None of us are trying to make money off the network, and no one wants to spin it into a business. We have built it to be a shared resource for the community. BPN is useful because thousands of busy parents have taken the time to enlighten and inform us with their suggestions, their wisdom, and their experience. It's a gift that we all benefit from. Please use it in this spirit!

The driving force behind the Berkeley Parents Network is an intense desire to make information available. We aim to help parents be better parents and better people, by giving them an easy way to take advantage of, and contribute to, the great pool of knowledge we posses when we all put our heads together.


How does it work?

The Berkeley Parents Network is based on newsletter digests that are emailed to subscribers 8-10 times a week. Some of the newsletters are weekly, such as Childcare and Announcements. Some are bi-monthly, such as Household, Advice and Recommendations. The List of the Newsletters shows when each newsletter is mailed out.

Each of the BPN newsletters is moderated by a volunteer. Members post a message or a question to one of the newsletters by filling out the webform for the newsletter they want to post to. See Which newsletter? for a list of topics and the newsletter they appear in. The webform sends postings to the moderator for that newsletter, who saves the posting to include in an upcoming newsletter. When the newsletter is mailed out, subscribers can reply to postings by again filling out the webform for the appropriate newsletter.

Postings from some of the newsletters, such as Recommendations and Advice, are eventually archived to the website so they can be publicly available. The time-sensitive postings (childcare, for sale items, events and announcements) are not archived to the website and only appear in the email newsletters.

For more technical information, see How to Start a Resource like BPN


How many people are on the list?

As of today:

Berkeley Parents Network: 22,256
Parents of Teens: 3,919
UC Families: 1,292

Who are the subscribers?

Most BPN members have young children at home, and live in Berkeley or Oakland, though all ages are represented on the list and members live in a variety of other cities in the San Francisco Bay Area. A member survey we conducted in 2001 gives some statistics about membership - see Survey Results. Briefly, around 75% of our members are affiliated with UC Berkeley in some way (staff, students, faculty, alumni). Most members (90%) live in the East Bay, though we have a few subscribers in San Francisco, Marin County, East Contra Costa, and the South Bay.

Who creates the newsletters?

The newsletters are a digest of messages submitted by BPN subscribers. Newsletters are assembled and moderated by a group of volunteer parents. Here is a list of BPN Volunteers past and present.

How long has the list been around?

Since 1993

How did it start?

The Berkeley Parents Network was started in 1993 by Ginger Ogle, then a Computer Science graduate student at UC Berkeley with 2 school-aged children. The list was originally for student parents in Electrical Engineering and Computer Science (EECS). We were working on a proposal for parental and maternity leave for EECS grad student parents and we used the mailing list to "rally the forces". The EECS faculty accepted our proposal and we subsequently used the list to get an office for parents in Soda Hall, along with diaper changing tables in the men's and women's restrooms. Over the years, the list grew, most messages were beyond the scope of just the EECS department, so in 1995 we opened it up to all UC Berkeley campus parents. The list that started with 14 graduate students reached 250 members in March 1996 and doubled to 500 members in March 1997. It doubled again to reach 1000 members by late 1998. In that year, we opened the list to community members as the result of a collaboration with the Neighborhood Moms organization (later called Neighborhood Parents Network). In 1999, the newsletter was split into four parts to make it more manageable. Also in that year, a separate list for parents of teens was started by Sally Nasman, whose children attended King Middle School and Berkeley High School. Membership reached the 2,000 mark in 2000, and by the end of 2001 we had doubled to 4,000. The end of 2003 found our membership nearly doubled again, at 7,600. We reached 10,000 members in the Fall of 2004. As of Summer 2006 we are growing at the rate of more than 100 new members every week. Most new subscribers tell us they hear about BPN by word of mouth, although many people are finding us now from doing an internet search for a particular topic.

Is it a publication of the University of California?

No. But BPN would not exist without the University of California. We use UC Berkeley resources to compose and mail out the newsletters, and the BPN website runs on the UC Berkeley web server. But we are independently run by community volunteers. For many years the BPN website ran on a computer in the UC Berkeley Computer Science Division. In January 2006, we moved the BPN website to a computer used by UC Berkeley to run campus websites, thanks to the generosity of the Information Services and Technology group on campus.

However, BPN is entirely parent-run for the sole benefit of parents in the community. The website and newsletters are administered by a group of volunteer parents, many of whom are affiliated with UC Berkeley, but we also have community member volunteers. We post this notice on every web page and in the welcome letter to new members:

The opinions and statements expressed on the Berkeley Parents Network mailing list and web site are those of parents who belong to the mailing list and should not be taken as a position of or endorsement by the University of California, Berkeley.
We appreciate and acknowledge the use of campus resources to keep the BPN up and running, and wish to thank Information Services and Technology (IST) and CalWeb Consulting, in particular Tom Cline, for supporting the BPN website on campus computers.

Special acknowledgement goes to system administrators in Electrical Engineering and Computer Sciences at UC Berkeley for both official and unofficial support through the years. From 1993 till 2006, these guys kept our server updated and patched, advised us on security issues, and solved technical problems for us when they arose. Many thanks to Jon Forrest, Jeff Anderson-Lee, Alex Brown, Mark Kraitchman, Jon Kuroda, Phil Loarie, and Lars Rohrbach. Thanks also goes to Professor Robert Wilensky for allowing the BPN website to run on a machine used for his Computer Science research project from 1995 - 2005.


Is there a resource like this in my city?

We don't know of any other mailing lists in other parts of the state or country that operate like the Berkeley Parents Network on the same scale as ours. For resources that we do know about, see Parent Groups in the San Francisco Bay Area and Networks like BPN in Other Cities.

Here are other places to look for parenting groups:

  • Craigslist a bulletin-board-like resource for cities that includes childcare, for sale, more
  • ParentSoup a popular commercial website with advice, chat rooms, etc.
  • BabyCenter another popular commercial website that focuses on babies

    Also check at your local childcare referral organization such as Bananas in Alameda County and Parents' Place in San Francisco.

    See also: How to start a resource like BPN


    Why don't you archive like YahooGroups or Craigslist?

    These two popular resources automatically archive the entire message to the website. We can't do that, for two reasons:
    1. People often include personal information in their messages, such as their full names, phone numbers, email addresses, names and ages of their children, and details about very private matters. So we'd need to either review everything before posting it to the web, or require a password before anyone could access the website. We're reluctant to set up a members-only website because we want our reviews and advice to be available to everyone.
    2. Many questions are asked every week that do not receive responses. Automatically archiving everything would result in a clutter of topics on the website, many of which have little value because they never received responses. We don't want the lively discussions and great advice to be lost in the clutter. We want more control over how and where topics are archived.

    Some other reasons...

    • Because we are a private list, only members can post, and therefore many of the postings are meant for other parents on the list, not The World. Therefore, not all of our information can be made public on a website, and we'd need someone to review every post to decide which ones can be public, and which ones can't. Craigslist and other similar websites don't need to review each post because they are entirely public.
    • Time-sensitive postings, such as Childcare and Marketplace, would require regular and frequent updates if we put them on the website. Since we don't have staff, we can't do this. We can't automatically archive these the way YahooGroups and Craigslist do, because they nearly always include personal information so other members can contact the poster. These postings would either need to be edited before putting them on the website, or password-protected. Some day, we may create a members-only, password-protected are on our website, but for now we use email to get these postings to members.
    • The Advice and Recommendations newsletters are not time-sensitive. They are useful to the public, and people often post anonymously, so it makes sense that these can go on to the website. However, these need to be reviewed first because people often include personal information in the body of their messages. In addition, there is the desire to not archive topics that never received any responses.

    Why don't you do everything on the web instead of sending out email newsletters?

    We get this question a lot, especially from more technical parents used to sites like slashdot.org and others. Here are some of the reasons ...
    1. Email is more personal
      Receiving email has a much more personal feel than logging in to a website. This gives a feeling of community to the network that web-based discussion boards don't have. We think this makes it more likely that people will participate in discussions.
    2. Email is faster
      Most of our members are very busy with activities that don't center around a computer. They may only sit down at the computer every few days. Reading email is a much more passive activity than logging in to a website, so a member who isn't on the computer often is much more likely to participate in a discussion that comes into her email box than one that's on a website.
    3. Email is easier to use
      Most of our members are novice computer users, and email tools are more familiar and easier to use than web tools. It's easy to sift through the newsletters quickly and delete the ones of little interest, or save favorite ones for later. The more advanced users can take advantage of email tools such as sorting and filters to make it even more convenient.
    4. Email digests are easier to customize & organize
      The BPN receives several hundred postings a day. Since we have moderators putting our newsletters together, topics and sub-topics can be grouped together in a friendlier way than a more automated subject-based or date-based system. Topics can be collected and sent out periodically as digests rather than posting hundreds of individual messages as they come in. And, we can shift groupings around as needs change, for example, adding seasonal sections for summer activities and school information nights.
    5. We want to be able to moderate postings
      A big part of the appeal of BPN is that it is moderated. Since every message is reviewed by one of the volunteers, we can have policies for the newsletters that we would not be able to support on a web-based message board, where every post is immediately added to the website. For example, we don't allow people to post chain letters and urban legends, and we try to maintain a level of politeness in discussions so that controversial topics don't generate into a flamefest of angry confrontations. These are the kinds of postings that can make a web-based discussion board onerous and unpleasant to read. They also discourage many people from participating, and reduce the feeling of support and community that we aim for.

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